₦airaland Forum

Kaeboy:
ITT- International Thief Thief

He thief your money?

daylay7:
You might be right. Marriage is over rated.

Many may think that I am an anti-marriage. No, I am not.

Today I was in a place and I saw two guys talking. The other guy was worried and he said that he is feld up when it comes to marriage. He said that he has seen many people he knows get married and divorce within a very short time.

He said that apart from having children, marriage is worthless.

The over excessive immorality has really corrupt the beauty of marriage.

Marriage is a contract and a pure joke

Mustiboy:
That's why everyone is begining to embrace the Plan-B move (migration). I pray we all actualize it, because the hardship caused by the inflation will leave people with barely anything to save to make this move.

I just came back as I went to see a friend today. I told him that the greatest miracle in a person life is for them to travel and flee Nigeria.

Before the regime of buhari, anytime I go shopping, I will buy lot of stuff for a very affordable prices. Everything was cheap and there is abundance. But right now I pay times two and still won't get enough from what I paid from.

In Nigeria we have all kind of ministers; Ministers of finance, ministers of this and ministers of that but yet there is no minister that regul(aate prices of commondities to stabilize the economy.

Buhari has plundar Nigeria into extreme hardship and suffering.

Mustiboy:
Someone has to speak up na.

Even if you earn half a million a month, you can't tell anyone that you're not affected. Everyone, regardless of their class, is feeling the heat.

I wanted to buy super glue last week and the seller told me ₦70, i was like on what basis? What factors did you put into consideration that made you decide ₦50 Super glue needs a 40% increase? That is pure greed!

Nigerians ehn

I am even complaining than you but I just have to swallow my pains over increment of everything.

In the past i have complain here that Nigerians are just too greedy but someone quoted me and told me that other Africa countries are more greedy than Nigerians.

I have loss faith that Nigeria will never be good again

jayboy112233:
Sorry I posted this on here.
Please i need your sincere advice most especially from the married men and women here.

Can a guy who is earning 80k in Lagos marry with that income?

31yrs and family have started bringing issue of marriage. Citing the advantages of early marriage and disadvantages of late marriage, that it's not good to have your kids in secondary school @60yrs when you should be relaxing.

35 to 40 years is the right age for a man to fully mature to competenly handle marriage I must say.

You still have 4 years left, so I will advice you to used the four years to find a good woman. At this hash reality of life you need a career wise woman. I advice you to shine your eyes and dont give into family pressure because there are a lot of crazy women out there that can sink a man before his time.

Please Go for financially free women because most hangout women still think that a man is entitle to take care of them. Women like this spent all their youth chasing trousers and pocket of men.

Stay away from women that want to eat food that is well cooked without them helping to cook the food.

Within this four years look for a help mate

And pray for God guidiance

daylay7:

You claimed that both of you dated and loved each other. You later proposed her and she rejected your marriage proposals. If what you speak is true, then I must tell you that she understood that marriage is more than affection.

She has moved on with her life, why then are you bothering yourself?

Despite you having a wife, why then are you not satisfied with your wife?

I love truth and I will tell you the truth men like you is making marriage of today a waste of time.

Marriage of today is pure joke

Mustiboy:


I've said it many times before: this Nigeria is going nowhere because of our people's backwardness induced through religion.


Look at how the prices of basic needs are skyrocketing, yet everyone seems not to be bordered. Some even brag that they're able to scale through despite the unfavorable situation in the country.

When you realize that there are people who earn as little as 10—30k per month in this country, you'll shed tears. Even six-figure earners are complaining, how much more the low-salary earners?

My mum used to buy a bag of beans for 25—28k between November last year to early February this year. Just yesterday, she told me how the same bag is now being sold for 55k.

Is there no agency that regulates prices in Nigeria? Since dollar rose from around $360 to $460, then that's around 30% increment. Shouldn't the prices of goods that depend on importation rise at the same proportion? Why are we buying things at over 200% increase? If dollar is the excuse, anything that sold at ₦1,000 before our darling Naira fell by 30% should be sold at ₦1,300 , right?

This inflation is triggered by greed, nothing but that. Nigerians !

I thank God for my own life as I earn quite enough monthly, but let's ask ourselves how the low-earners out there are coping. Let's stop acting like we don't care.

I hope by the time Buhari finishes with y'all in this country, your loved ones will still be alive and kicking.

You are the only one that keep complaining about this on Nairaland because many people are in this forum mainly discussing wrong issues.

The real reason why everything keep skyrocketting is pure greed. I repeat black man is extremely very greedy.

Nigerians are reaping hadship and suffering because of the wrong decisions of Buhari

Buhari has finished the country.

Period

daylay7

You are just too foolish to understand that you wasting your time.

And the only help you need is that I pitty you.

The demon of pride has killed this fine man

Ruggedboy01
ChumaZ

Two of you are big fools. I nod my head in disgust.

Instead of Una to dey pray to God for Una life and destiny, Una dey fight over a woman?

Chai. If it is possible for God to show Una wathin woman do to me. Una go get sense by fire and by force.

Right now; both of you nor get sense at all.

Ruggedboy01
ChumaZ

Few years later two of you will think of this day and believe that sense una no get

Kobojunkie:
no problem.... all the glory goes ofcourse to the kingdom of men..right?

Kobojunkie the Nairaland goat
I didn't hear from you anymore?

I tell you this, one day God will surely separate you as a goat from the sheep if you dont repent from your wicked ways. I call you a goat because you are such an evil person who hated men of God.

You even hated the sunday gathering of the saint. You are a goat

Remember that I told you that you are truly a junkie

The devils that is using u, he no go ever better for them

The truth is that all the southern leaders now understood that buhari is for fulani and not for Nigeria.

The meating held by the southern leaders is not just for the sake of banning open grazing but more (coded)

Southern leaders has realize that buhari intend to root the fulanis people beyond the normal ( he won give them leg) for the south

May God help me to escape this hell without fire

Saintmary:
Hmmm, you got my attention here.

You see, I wish you the best.
I love the fact that you decided to go celibate, some sort of spiritual and physical cleansing. It's a worthy venture.

Who am I to judge you? I don't believe I have the right, forgive my hasty assumption.

Please do post about your journey here as it will help those who want to tow the same path.

I'm rooting for you.

Mary
I am glad you did take your time to read and write me.

I will write more about my journeys before I exit nairaland

I must say; May the Good Lord, bless you

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

I once dated a girl who feels guilty and irritated after sex. It was very bad experience for me.

After she cums, she feels irritated and will not allows me to touch her again.

I will never tolerate that kind of person again because this might be a deal breaker in a relationship

Phcmayor:
I greet everyone here
I need food that I can eat to gain weight am weighing 40 something at the age of 23.

Please help me I look like 18 years and can't proudly stand with my mates cus of my body size

Which food and drinks can i take

Thanks

Having too much money will make you to fatten up big time because your mind is loaded with the fact that you have lot of money.

If you want to gain weight eat lot of rice and rest a lot.

Stay away from Garri because Garri will give you fatigue.I repeat eat eba/garri only once in two days

Garri wil make you skinny

Family6644

90 days after your wife death you start a new sex relatie? Na wa O. You mess up big time.
I feel betrayed on behalf of your wife. Do you even care what people with say behind your back? At this time of your loss, you dont need any relatie.

How can you even pick a woman are husband run away from? Dont you see that she cant hide her toxic nature ?

Even if you want to date, you dont have to listen to your kids to pick a woman because your kids are too young know what is good.

No woman will love your children as you espect because women in general are selfish unlike men. Your children can only have peace when you find a lowly and selfless woman with great maternal instinct of unconditional care. A woman like this is rare to come by

I am the right person to speak to you on this because I grow up living with step mothers. My earthly father is a hottie. He spent all his life marrying various women and I suffer so much growing up. I never knew motherly love at all.

All the women my father marry, only one of them truly deeply cared for me because she is a love field person. My earthly father loved her so much because she is beautiful from the inside and outside. She has natural love for everyone.

Stay away from re- marrying and do not think of settling down for a long time. Be a father and mother to your children.

Step mother cause the death of my brother and I suffer so much in the hand of step mother. It is been almost 19 years and I still cry and mourn over the loss of my brother because of the way we suffered and the terrible way he loss his life. My eyes is currently watery because your children reminded me of my late brother

Believe me; It is only a white women can truly respect and acknowledge the well being of your children.

Give your self lot of time; You can temporily have a fc'ck buddy to quell your hornyness.

Warning: Do not have more kids with any other woman

Women are self-centered and selfishness destroys

Saintmary:
If you have hurt someone before, you will get hurt too.

How are you to know if you've hurt someone especially when you've dated before, God doesn't see things the way we do, only His mercy covers us, if not, it would have been worse.

If you believe in God, ask for mercy.

Mary.
The grace of God has been my safe haven. I know you strongly feel that my demise with women are the consequences of my previous actions. To be honest I have not offended anyone. I am the peaceful and loving type who respect the feeling of others. All my life I forgive and forget, but there is a reality that if you forget history, the history will repeat itself. I am not labelling women as bad base on my relationship experience, NO. I label women as more of bad base on my life experience in general. Although I have come to understand women a lot in many ways.

When it comes to my dating life; You have to still picture things from the spiritual too. Sometimes not every human on earth is permitted to do as they like base on God purpose for them. And many times the devils will bring the most evil man/woman into the life of a person just to destroy them, that is why celibacy is very good for me.

In this 21st century, dating/marriage is very dangerous. I just need to pray to Almighty God to guide me to find a woman with Godly charater who will not sink me before my time. I have had so much troubles in life because of wrong women, I just do not need more. I have never mistakenly or delibrately impregant any girl or done abortion in my life and will never partake in such evil act.

Mary. I did edit on the thread above, please check it to understand my point more

Saintmary:
You're not the one to determine what you deserve, it's God/Universe/Karma.
Repent of your previous wrongdoings, go celibate, then confess good things for yourself. All will be well.

Wathin I want to repent for? Who I do wrong?

Have you dated before? If yes why did you to date someone in the past or present?

Saintmary:
You attract what you deserve

Mary
The kind of bad women wey they come my way I no deserve am at all. I decided to celibate for a while because I saw that there are just about too many wrong women out there.

I am just being too over careful, and I have prayed over it because most of the things we over looked can be a life saver

I maybe bashing women so much because I have seen so much when it come to women. I am now @ the age where I need to find a good partner and help mate to channel me through the hash jouney of life but I just have to be very, very careful and prayerful.

Recently a man in my street was crying and he said out loud, God, as gentle as I am, why didnt you give me a good woman as a wife.

With so much pain, he cried that the woman is making him to suffer. After many years of marriage, he saw that the woman is missing the attention of other men. The man cried and left home for days and has not yet return.