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Religion / Destroying Ancestral Altars/agents (4) by Loveaflame(m): 9:32am On Aug 23, 2013
satan has no power on earth if Adam didn't give to him. Such power should have been totally eradicated by the death and resurrection of the Lord Jesus. But the shedding of innocent blood is still a ground for satan to stabilize his stronghold on planet earth. Who was the first ancestral agent on earth to offer a blood sacrifice unto the devil? Find out below.
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/08/destroying-ancestral-altarsagents.html
Romance / To Those Who Feel Unloved by Loveaflame(m): 2:12pm On Aug 21, 2013
It does not matter your painful experience in life and relationships.What matters is that you are still alive today.People may have hurt and abused you.You might have been devalued by your spouse,neglected or even forsaken.The truth is that,God loves you.Life is all about love.Love is the energy that sustains the universe.Even though many have abused that universal love and turned it to lustful and sensual things,the truth still remains that life is about love.1Jn.1:16 says GOD IS LOVE.John 1:4 says,IN HIM WAS LIFE.Jn10:10c says THAT THEY MIGHT HAVE LIFE AND LIFE ABUNDANTLY.God is love and life is love.The abundance of love does not come from man but from Him.You just need to accept this truth that YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED ON EARTH.My God!Did you get that!You are constituted of love.That is the universal energy controlling all things.You just need to encourage yourself in this revelation.When you become conscious of this divine love,it wouldn't be difficult again to relate with people especially those who claim to love you but despise you.You love them base on WHO YOU ARE AND NOT WHO THEY ARE OR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE.When your true love is not reciprocated,you feel anger but pity for such people who don't appreciate your awesome values..Instead of living in bitterness,you relax your mind because YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED.If you can take it a step futher by becoming more intimate with God,you will begin to overlook whatever any mortal does to you,even though that person is your spouse.As long as physical abuse is not involved,you easily tolerate their weaknesses as something they need to overcome with time.But when it gets to a critical situation when such love is threatening your spiritual/physical survival,you simply distant yourself from such.In all,never you live in regrets because somenone abused your love or maltreated you.It's a free world.Instead of wasting your energy in unforgiveness,bitterness,sorrow,heaviness,anger,regrets etc,simply chart a new course for your life and allow the Holy Ghost to guide/guard you to a totally new level of adventure and experience in His perfect plan for your life.Past mistakes shouldn't mar you forever.Life is too short to waste it in the wilderness of futility called relationship that lacks divine backing.In conclusion,God loves you.YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED.Live in the consciousness of that universal love and stop allowing anyone to give you unnecessary mirage headache.Say aloud with me I AM LOVE PERSONIFIED ON EARTH.I CHOOSE TO LOVE GOD FOR GOD AND ME FOR ME.NO ONE WILL TAKE AWAY FROM ME THE JOY OF THIS LOVE.I OPEN UP MY HEART TO THIS UNIVEVERSAL LOVE.I WILL BEGIN TO FLOW IN HIS CONSCIOUSNESS DAILY.I REFUSE TO LIVE IN PAINS,BITTERNESS,REGRETS,UNFORGIVENESS AND HURTS.I FORGIVE ALL THOSE WHO HAVE HURT ME IN THE PAST.I RELEASE THEM FROM MY HEART AND EMOTIONS.AS FROM TODAY,HOLY SPIRIT EXPRESS THIS DIVINE LOVE IN ME FORCEFULLY.Whao!Can you feel that awesome presence of that love?You are totally free in the name of Jesus.
Religion / Destroying Ancestral Altars/agents (3) by Loveaflame(m): 9:45am On Aug 21, 2013
d. WHO ARE ANCESTRAL AGENTS? We now come to a very interesting part of this issue. Ancestral agents are humans who are possessed or sold themselves to ancestral demons. These are people who are really possessed at birth by virtues of the satanic altars in their family backgrounds or who were initiated into it.

Every satanic altar has a cult. In each cult there are those who had the birthright to be a member of such cults. There are those who were initiated into the cults by desire or deceit.Read the rest from the source below.
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/08/destroying-ancestral-altarsagents-3_21.html
Religion / Re: What The Hell Is In This Thing O Youth? by Loveaflame(m): 8:53am On Aug 19, 2013
@Ola,with all due respect,are sure you read my post with an open mind or a biased one?How on earth will I call natural babies demonic babies? Am referring to spiritual babies please.

"Condoms may stop the physical Fluid but can it stop the spiritual ones.The spiritual Fluid contain the seeds of demons. Such becomes fertilized in your spiritual wombs and must be given birth to."
Religion / What The Hell Is In This Thing O Youth? by Loveaflame(m): 12:58pm On Aug 18, 2013
The way people are crazy about sex today makes me to wonder a lot.Everything today has sexual undertone.The devil is trying hard to turn humans to animals with uncontrolled sexual drives.
O youth,why must you jeopardize your future joy on the altar of immorality?
Do you know the consequence of illegal sex?
Why invite demons into your present life to torment you in the future?
Biology tells us for every single release,it takes 21 days to recover it.
What about the spiritual virtues you loose?
How many years do you think it would take you to get it from demons?
O sisters,sex is not true love.It is sacrificing your glory on the altar of regrets.
You allow guys into you without knowing what they are passing into you?
Condoms may stop the physical semen but can it stop the spiritual ones.The spiritual semen contain the seeds of demons.Such becomes fertilized in your spiritual wombs and must be given birth to.
What a mystery and complexity of life.
Many of you have given birth to many unknown demonic babies.I decree that Jesus set you youth free from the illegal slave markets of sexual addiction in the name of Jesus.
SOURCE
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/08/what-hell-is-in-this-thing-o-youth.html
Religion / Destroying Ancestral Altars/agents (2) by Loveaflame(m): 8:34pm On Aug 17, 2013
b. WHAT IS ANCESTRAL? This has to do with the family you came from. That is your family lineage. Every family has an history. We are all descendants from various families with different historical facts. From my tribe, my ancestors were chronic idol worshipers. It also has to do with spirit controlling the locality you find yourself either home or business. Thank God for Jesus. We are more than conquerors.

c. WHAT ARE ANCESTRAL ALTARS: These are altars dedicated for ancestral worship of deities (demons) or past great heroes like ogun the god of iron, oya the goddess of the sea, sango the god of thunder etc.
Ancestral altars have to do with idolatry which God really hates-Exodus 20:1-5.

“And God spake all these words, saying, I am the LORD thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me”

This is the number one problem with African countries. So many altars had been dedicated to demons. Altars can be anywhere. There are community altars, family altars, street altars, market altars, house altars and even satanic church altars. Yes you read that right SATANIC CHURCH ALTARS. In my part of the world, both physical and spiritual altars are common grounds.Read the rest from the site below
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/08/destroying-ancestral-altarsagents-2.html
Religion / My Passionate Counsel For Humans by Loveaflame(m): 3:53pm On Aug 15, 2013
The dynamic nature of life is evident when you have strong convictions about what you are doing.Your conviction solidifies your faith and focus your life on the path you have set for yourself in resonance with God's divine will.When you are not consistent with your beliefs,it weakens the universal energy that should work for your good.Your faith in your conviction is what makes your life to take a proper shape in the affairs of men.It may not be in terms of money.That is where many miss it today.The craze for wealth without a corresponding inner godly convictions will certainly derail you from the path of morality.Gandhi of Indian wasn't rich,but he moved 200m Indians to fight for their freedom.That is the power of godly conviction.You must take a sober reflection of your life today.
WHAT ARE YOU LIVING FOR?
WHAT ARE YOUR TRUE CONVICTIONS ABOUT LIFE?
DO YOUR LIFE RESONATE WITH GODLY VALUES?
ARE YOU LIVING IN ACCORDANCE TO THE TENETS OF YOUR FAITH?
These are just few questions to help you get your bearing in life.Like someone said,"O MAN BE TRUE TO THYSELF".Living in deception and against THE TRUTH OF LIFE AND MORALITY have far more consequence than what many imagine.If you are opportuned to hear words of wisdom from those who are over 70 years old,you will certainly redefine many things in your life.You have only one life to live.Live it well.
Religion / Destroying Ancestral Altars/agents (1) by Loveaflame(m): 3:41pm On Aug 13, 2013
JUDGES 6:22-32
”And when Gideon perceived that he was an angel of the LORD, Gideon said, Alas, O Lord GOD! for because I have seen an angel of the LORD face to face. And the LORD said unto him, Peace be unto thee; fear not: thou shalt not die. Then Gideon built an altar there unto the LORD, and called it Jehovah shalom: unto this day it is yet in Ophrah of the Abiezrites.
And it came to pass the same night, that the LORD said unto him, Take thy father's young bullock, even the second bullock of seven years old, and throw down the altar of Baal that thy father hath, and cut down the grove that is by it: And build an altar unto the LORD thy God upon the top of this rock, in the ordered place, and take the second bullock, and offer a burnt sacrifice with the wood of the grove which thou shalt cut down. Then Gideon took ten men of his servants, and did as the LORD had said unto him: and so it was, because he feared his father's household, and the men of the city, that he could not do it by day, that he did it by night. And when the men of the city arose early in the morning, behold, the altar of Baal was cast down, and the grove was cut down that was by it, and the second bullock was offered upon the altar that was built. (Judges 6:22-28)

From the story above we see the encounter Gideon had with God through angelic visitation. The people had gone into slavery and were under the tyranny of the enemies. God couldn’t help them because they had erected an altar for the worship of idols-baal and astarte.

The altar must need be demolished and destroyed before God could demonstrate His power according to His commandment in Exodus 22.God needed Gideon to do the job. He had to destroy the altar and replace it with another altar. There is no vacuum in life.
Take note that Gideon built his personal altar unto the Lord but God still told him to build another altar again unto Him in the place of the evil altar of baal. This means you can build a personal altar of your choice unto God but God demands His own self instructed personal altar.

Take note he had to offer a specified sacrifice on the new altar to be erected. He also had to shed blood of the sacrificial animal. There are four powerful revelations here.
1.It takes an altar to destroy an altar. A superior altar must replace an inferior altar.It takes a God’s divine altar to destroy satanic altars.
2.It takes a sacrifice to destroy the influence of an altar. This means it takes the influence of a greater holy sacrifice to destroy the influence of an unholy one.
3.It takes the shedding of sacrificial blood to destroy the evil blood covenant that had been made with the demons behind evil altars. Only a superior blood covenant can destroy and replace a satanic inferior blood covenant. Thank God for the PRECIOUS BLOOD OF JESUS. Hebrews 9
4. God was involved in the leading and given of instruction. Destroying evil altars is no child’s play. One must be strong and led by the Holy Spirit. Mind you the angel addressed Gideon initially as A MIGHTY MAN OF VALOUR-Judges 6:12. You can be spiritually strong but if you don’t have divine leading on how to go about destroying ancestral altars especially physically, you might get what you did not bargain for.

Many years ago, some zealous Christians went to cut down their village tree that was the shrine of the god of the land. They did it out of zeal without knowledge. Unfortunately they all died few days after. Only God can explain the full details of what went wrong. I shall talk more on those four points later on in these series.
Before I delve deep into this teaching we need to understand some terminology. That is;
a. What is an altar?
b. What is ancestral?
c. What is ancestral altars?
d. What is familiar spirits?
e. Who are ancestral agents?
Read the rest from the source below
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/08/destroying-ancestral-altarsagents-1.html
Religion / Destroying The Forces Of Miscarriages/barrenness And Their Agents In Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 6:13pm On Jul 28, 2013
It is a known fact many married couples are having serious challenges with miscarriages and barrenness.While some of the reasons could be medically solved,however there are many that defile medical solutions.This makes such cases to have a spiritual dimension to it.
Their is hope for those having such problems.God can deliver you if you are willing to pay the sacrifice to get yourself delivered from those evil powers making you childless.Their is a prophetic dimension of warfare I want to introduce you to.I know you have prayed,fasted and even spent heavily to get this miracle.This one is quite different from all that.You are the one to do this battle yourself and am assuring you of victory at last if only you can follow the instructions given.
God is all powerful.Many of us are suffering because of ignorance.When light comes darkness must flee away.This guerrilla prophetic warfare is something that demands your faith and total obedience.It is totally free.Check the program details at the site below to get all the prayer points and details of the program.If you are a doubting Thomas,don't waste your time there.Jesus has all the power to set His children free.IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO BE A MOTHER OR A FATHER.I SEE YOU WITH YOUR NEW BOUNCING BABY CHILD IN LESS THAN A YEAR FROM NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/07/destroying-forces-of.html

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Religion / Re: The Deep Secrets Behind Miscarriages by Loveaflame(m): 6:16pm On Jul 23, 2013
@logicboy03,do you see where it is written in the post that pregnant women should not go to doctors?Please,medical fields have the area and cases they can handle.Same with spiritual fields.Keep your beliefs to yourself.I am talking to those who who have spiritual problems not medical.Thanks for your understanding.
Religion / The Deep Secrets Behind Miscarriages by Loveaflame(m): 1:23pm On Jul 23, 2013
The Word declares “THERE SHALL NOTHING CAST THEIR YOUNG” in Exodus 23:26a.Also in Malachi 3:11c says, “NEITHER SHALL YOUR VINE CAST HER FRUIT BEFORE THE TIME”
Miscarriage is not the will of God but of the devil. Miscarriage is when a woman loses her pregnancy before nine months. In most cases it happens in the third and fourth month mostly base on the cases I have handled.
Although there are few physical factors that can cause it like a man beating the wife, too much stress, falling heavily and hitting the stomach on the floor or ground etc. As far as I am concerned I still attribute them to demonic manipulation.
What are the causes of miscarriages and what are the signs to know when one is about to occur?
In most cases miscarriages are caused majorly by witchcraft and marine forces. It can also be caused by curses, evil covenants and acts of sin. Let me start with my own personal experience before the naïve ones will begin to sin against God.
I married in the year 1999 December 4th precisely. After two months in marriage, my observed any time she takes in and dreams of seeing a red cloth or red palm oil, she will see her period the next day or less than three days. This continued for months .I also became a partaker of that dream as well. When I see red palm oil also, she will lose the pregnancy.
We did not take it serious until we understood this was an attack from the witchcraft kingdom. We had to embark on a three days warfare prayers with fasting before we broke that power off our lives. So many people are suffering silently from the hands of the oppressors who I call puppies. What are the causes then?
1. WITCHCRAFT ATTACKS: This one major dimension for this problem. How do they achieve this ungodly fits in the lives of people.
a. Through Wedding Gifts. This is real. There are some couples who received gifts during their wedding/traditional ceremonies. Such gifts have been charmed to cause the havoc of miscarriages in such family.
b. Witchcraft Dreams: Dreams like;
i. Seeing red substance in the dream like red cloth, palm oil etc.
ii. Delicate fragile falling from someone’s one and gets broken like plates, tumblers, eggs etc.
READ THE REST AT THE SITE BELOW WHICH IS THE SOURCE
https://www./399414010083253/permalink/639022319455753/
Religion / The Dangers Of Illegal Sex by Loveaflame(m): 12:26pm On Jul 20, 2013
Sex is a ritual.It is a spiritual form of worship.It invokes the supernatural into the natural either for blessing(when done legally-married couples) or curses(illegal intimacy).Paul said "HE THAT IS JOINED UNTO AN HARLOT IS ONE FLESH" i.e becomes one with person.When you sleep with someone you become one with that person.All the curses,evil covenants,bondage are transferred into you.The shocking painful truth here is this,if the person has made love to like 10 people and those ten have made love to like 8 people for example and those 5 have made love to like 3 people and that same person made love to you,can you guess how many people's problems have been transferred into you?The soul ties formed is another terrible angle to this sin.You have become one with over 100 people,you are nolonger whole again.This is one big reason forinfidelities in marriages today.Spouses can't love themselves 100% because they've shared themselves into many.satan is using this act to ruin the lives of people.May God open your eyes to see the demons behind this act.Jesus can set you free.
Religion / The Easiest Way To Loose Spiritual Victory by Loveaflame(m): 3:24pm On Jul 17, 2013
puppy satan has over 6000 years experience with mankind.He knows all the strenght and weaknesses of man.It doesn't matter how many hours you prayed,days you fasted or slept in the "church",the moment you entertain DOUBTS,you've lost the victory.DOUBT is one of the greatest weapon of that puppy against humanity.What did he use to pull down Eve-DOUBT,"HAS GOD SAID YOU SHOULD NOT EAT..."Gen.3.he made her to doubt God's command.Down the ages,this weapon has been used successfuly by him.DOUBT DIVIDES YOUR FAITH AND DOUBLES YOUR FEAR.Fear is a feeling of insecurity and probability of your desires granted.DOUBT IS MAKING GOD AND HIS WORD A LIAR.Yes.That feeling of HAS HE REALLY HEARD MY PRAYERS?AM I SURE THIS THING WILL WORK?HOW LONG WILL I KEEP WAITING?.You belittle God by your negative thoughts and weaken or limit His power in your life.DOUBT IS IDOLATORY.It's shifting your attention off God to your problems.It's magnifying your problem and diminishing God.James 1:4-7,sums it up.You loose ground when you entertain doubt in your life.This is the major reason many Christians are caught in satnic circle of enslavement and finding it difficult to break free.HOW DO YOU OVERCOME IT?Be loaded with the LOGO and it's RHEMA.2.LIVE IN TOTAL OBEDIENCE TO GOD.3.NETWORK WITH SPIRITUAL VIBRANT FRIENDS/PEOPLE.4.NETWORK WITH THOSE WITH POSITIVE MORAL MINDSET THOUGH NOT BELIEVERS.5.PRACTICE SERIOUS MEDITATION AND VISUALIZATION.6.PRAY TO ENCOUNTER GOD.Shalom
SOURCE
https://www./399414010083253/635630253128293/?notif_t=group_comment_reply
Religion / Re: Dealing With Marine Powers by Loveaflame(m): 11:09am On Jul 17, 2013
@striktlymi,the pythons were spiritual.Only those with spiritual eyes can see such.The story is true.
Religion / Dealing With Marine Powers by Loveaflame(m): 8:25pm On Jul 16, 2013
The marine kingdom is highly organized.Over 70% of the earth is covered with water inhabited by them.Their influence is felt in all areas of life.
Their major agenda is to pollute humans.All been done today through movies,adverts,magazines,bill board signs,music,internet etc is to pollute peoples mind.
Have you notice almost everything today has sexual undertone?Even in many Gospel music,you see seductive dancing,dressing and show of wealth.
Ever wondered why?Courtesy of the marine world.You see ungodly fashion trend in churches and you wonder whether you are in the right place.Even among Pastors' wives with their misleading lifestyle.
Truth be told many are marine agents or been influenced by the spirits.I visited a pastor sometime ago.As I entered their parlour,I saw two mighty pythons moving freely.I told the wife she is a marine princess.I can be blunt atimes.She said yes but she has gone for deliverance.I doubted that.That man is going through hell.
SOURCE
http://thesecretsofsuccessfulliving..com/2012/12/dealing-with-marine-powers-part-2.html
Family / Living Beyond Self In Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 1:07pm On Jul 10, 2013
Marriage is a great institution that must be
understood deeply. It is wider than what many have been made to believe. Your concept of marriage goes a long way to determine your joy in it. One great truth I have come to learn in having a successful marriage is LIVING BEYOND SELF.

Living beyond self is simply holding your marriage institution in a very high esteem beyond and above your personal ambitions. It means been prepared to a great sacrificial adjustment in order to accommodate your partner and subsequently your children.

Furthermore, it means been prepared to sacrifice any idea, goal, vision, ambition etc. that would be detrimental to the health and unity of the marriage. In short living beyond self means a personal disintegration of self in order to integrate with your spouse.

Years back, the Holy Spirit told me the number one problem in marital harmony is SELF. Self interest, self centredness, self willed, selfishness etc. Couples must understand why they quarrel often or even divorce is just the expression of self-I MUST HAVE IT MY OWN WAY NOT OUR OWN WAY.

In marriage, when a partner is so full of self, it's difficult for harmony to exist in such a home. That day you said I DO is the same day you lost freedom to total self-expression. You are no longer a FREE ENTERPRISE but a JOINT FREE ENTERPRISE with your partner. Your freedom is now a function of your partner's agreement and support,

The painful truth is this, even though couples have married, they still want to live separately exercising their personal wills and making personal decisions. If you desire such wanton freedom, you don't need to marry. Just remain single and have it your way. There is no way you can do such and enjoy your marriage. The conflicts will be more than your imagination.

Couples must understand the meaning of the marriage rings they put on their fingers. It is a symbol of spiritual, mental and emotional bond between them. It is saying, "I HAVE GIVEN YOU MY LIFE AS YOU HAVE YOURS TO ME ALSO. "If couples understand this simple truth, you won't play with your spouse's life in your hand via living a self-conceited life.

Self equals pride which is the bane of many homes today. WHY DO PEOPLE FIGHT AND QUARREL OFTEN IN THEIR MARRIAGES?One partners decides to put self-interest above the union's interest. WHY DO COUPLES DIVORCE TODAY?One partner decides to do things that are detrimental or against the partner's consent. When you make up your mind to live beyond self, you are prepared for great marital harmony. Whatever you do in the secret or open can have negative or positive impact on you family.

I was looking at my son few two years ago when he was three and I heard the voice of the Holy Spirit saying, "This son of yours is you. He is a projection of you because he came out from you. The life you live will affect him also. If you want him to have a happy future, live that life before him. Mind the life you live in the secret because if it is negative, a familiar spirit will use it to affect his life and future. "That was a strong one to jolt my being to choose to live beyond self.

Are we surprised that many couples' marriages ends up like their parents'?Is the current pattern in your marriage not similar to your parents' own?You need to break that pattern before it ruins your marriage and possibly your life.
Read the rest of the article at the site below
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/2013/07/living-beyond-self.html
Family / The Untold Truth About Marital Communication by Loveaflame(m): 2:49pm On Jun 30, 2013
Communication is the lifeline for any successful relationship be it spiritual or physical. In marriage communication is the lifeline of marital harmony. It's the fuel that ignites the passion of love and care in the marriage institution. A lot has been said about communication in marriage by great marital counselors yet the chaos witness daily in marital crises and breakdown is greatly alarming.

Communication in marriage is not limited to vocal expression alone, although that is highly important. I am looking at the untold dimension of marital communication which is really the cause of marital breakdown. Mind communication is the greatest secret to marital success.

While one may express feelings in words, actions it may not really be the true reflection of what is going on within the partner. As a result of this, tension builds up within which alters the direction and energy of thoughts. Marriage is sustained by thoughts and imaginations not really by outward actions. When couples' thoughts are harmonious, that is the mindset as per the marriage is filled with positive projections, it is difficult for such marriage to collapse.

One can therefore say the true pillar of marital success is mind-communication. Thoughts are energies that can be used positively or negatively. A certain trend of thoughts brought the marriage into existence, it will require equal or greater thoughts to sustain the marriage and enjoy marital bliss. Your marriage becomes your thoughts with time. There are lots of things couples are not vocal about but project such through the mind. Your partner becomes what you think predominantly about him. This is just the truth. Those things you say or think in your mind about your spouse can either solidify your marriage or weaken your marriage.

The unspoken word within is stronger than the spoken word without. The unspoken word within is empowered by the will and feeling aspect of the subconscious mind. When you see couples quarrel and one of them becomes really angry and making negative remarks about the other partner that is only a fraction of what has been built within. It's like a volcanic eruption. The one you see is only a fraction of what is submerged within.

When your mindset becomes corrupt with anger, hatred, jealousy, bitterness etc. , you are likely to see loopholes to assert your negative mindset. Unknown to you dangerous communication is going on between you and your partner. Your partner may not be aware initially but gradually he will begin to respond in kind, especially if you have a stronger mindset power that him. When he begins to respond to your communication unconsciously that will then reinforce your beliefs about the negative conviction you are having. This can also be from the man to the woman. Since your mind communication has become negative, it will affect the way you now view things in your marriage. You begin to get what you expect not what you truly want or desire. In reality, your partner automatically meets your expectation.

The more negative your mind becomes, the more negative your marriage becomes also. The issue is not with your partner but with you. It means you need to take a sober look of your mindset towards your marriage and change it. Chaotic marriage can work if couples will humble themselves and be sincere about their true inner feelings to one another. Express the negative feelings you are having to your partner, no matter how hurting it may be. In most cases your mindset has been controlled by assumptions not reality.

When all have been said, couples should forgive each other and ask for the grace of God for courage to keep the mind thinking and communicating the right thing. The mind should be centered on reading The Bible, good books and tapes. Above all couples should learn to practice meditation and visualization. See your partner the way you want her to be and with time you will see such manifesting in your partner's life. The untold marital mind communication when handled wisely will produce great marital tranquility.
Source
http://apostlefrancisministries..com/

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Family / Re: Women And Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 12:00pm On Jun 20, 2013
Some of you are really getting me wrong.You are not really getting the message here.All am trying to do is to awaken the giant in you women.You can break any man no matter how strong he thinks he is.As strong as Samson was in the Bible Delilah brough him down.As wise as Solomon was,women brought him down.The great notorious late Nigerian armed robber Oseni was captured via a woman.Have you watched THE BEAUTY AND THE BEAST?It might be a myth but the lessons are awesome.Women should rise to the challenge,it doesn't matter how rocky the man may be,you have all it takes to soften that heart.NO ONE IS YET TO ANSWER MY QUESTIONS PLEASE.
Family / Re: Women And Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 10:06pm On Jun 19, 2013
@Buka,can the head stand without the neck?Who ruined the first marriage?The woman or the man?Let's face reality here.Women are pillars of the home.They are the doors into the home.Just like Eve opened the door for satan to come in,many women are opening their doors for him to come into their homes.You have not answered my questions yet,HOW WAS EVE ABLE TO PERSUADE ADAM TO EAT THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT?WHY DID GOD FORM EVE FROM THE RIB OF ADAM AND WHAT IS THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE?Until you answer my questions,no amount of trying to shift the blame on men will be welcome by me.If wives can decode the answers to those questions they can bring harmony and peace into their homes.This does not mean men are faultless.
Family / Re: Women And Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 5:48pm On Jun 19, 2013
My beloved people in Christ.Starting with the man is not the issue here.Whether I start from the man or woman does not matter.What matters is to learn and grow and make changes or adjustment.Women indirectly rule the world.Whatever a man is doing their is always a woman at the back of his mind.As per the questions,do well to read my post carefully.The questions are there.
Family / Re: Women And Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 3:44pm On Jun 19, 2013
Those who are clamouring for me to talk on MEN AND MARRIAGE point noted.However am not bashing women rather encouraging them to play their roles well if you read my post well.Beside,you people did not try to answer my questions.Am strictly talking about the Christian home and I assume both couples are born again and fear God.I believe you read the part of the articles that says,"IF A WOMAN FULFILLS ALL RIGHTEOUSNESS AND THE MAN REFUSES TO CHANGE,GOD KNOWS HOW TO BREAK SUCH".As per writing on MEN AND MARRIAGE,I will do that.Let's still deal with this issue.If women can answer my questions their perceptions about marriage will change.
Family / Women And Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 11:19am On Jun 18, 2013
The many chaos in marriages today can be solved by women.Wives should learn to follow Biblical principles not self principles.I have always believed any woman that knows how to submit to a man and boost his ego will have less problem.
I heard a woman of God years back who told all wives that they should learn to appeal to their husbands as a mini-god instead of challenging their authority. When a daughter of God fulfills all righteousness and the man refuses to change,if he is a believer in Christ,God knows how to break such.
Many Christian wives will always complain about their husbands attitudes. Your complains do not solve anything.Men are not emotional by nature but women are. When you take to nagging and quarrelling with him or depriving him of that thing,a man who loves you may respond back to you less or same with the quarrels.But when you see a man who just keeps quiet and pretend as if you are not there or just walks out of the house you had better be careful.In most cases this is no sign of holiness.
I know this might sound fallacious.While some men can be impossible,women have a lot to do in creating harmony and peace at home. There are many things in marriage that prayers can't solve. I have seen so many wives attending various prayer meetings to bring back peace to their homes,while it worked for some,majority are not seeing result.Why? THEIR IS NO DELIVERANCE OR PRAYERS FOR CHARACTERS. That is something you just have to work upon. Women should use the energy they use in complaining,nagging and fighting to seek for divine wisdom.
Your marriage is not broken by any external force but by internal force-YOU AND YOUR MAN.Any woman that understands her place in the life of a man will have less problem.Many will argue that men are the problems of marriages.While I may not argue with such line of thought,I will like to ask this question which I often ask women in churches or those who come for counselling.CAN ANY WOMAN EVEN ON THIS FORUM TELL ME HOW EVE WAS ABLE TO MAKE ADAM EAT THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT EVEN THOUGH ADAM KNEW IT WAS THE FRUIT?I will love to hear answers please.If you can figure it out,you will know the power you women have to influence your husbands.But,many of you choose to use the power negatively to the detriment of the home.
The truth is many of you don't know how to make your man feel on top of the world.Am not talking about intimacy now.Intimacy is not love.If you think because your man have it with you regularly you had better think twice.I have seen men who are very intimate with their wives and at the same time with many women outside.
You just have to learn to be everything your man wants you to be as long as it does not violate the Word of God.The so-called little things he complains about and you just overlook it,or the attitudes he detest and you keep doing it.
Many women choose to rub shoulders with their men.Men are proud by nature and very egocentric,myself not excluded.Treat them like GENERAL IN THE ARMY.They want to feel and know they are in charge of their homes and not the other way round.That does not make you a slave as I have heard some women complain.
They make mistakes though which is as a result of the way women approach issues with them.Women have intuition and can have better judgement atimes.But when you try to force it on a man,it may not go down lightly.Some may know you are saying the right thing but because of your manner of approach and their own ego,they will still do what they want to do and the whole family will face the consequence.
The best way to tame a man is not by fighting him,reporting him to some or all,making him feel bad or comparing him with other men in order to abuse or challenge him.The best way to do it is to become a virtuous woman and someone who talks softly but persuasively with wisdom.
Men who tend to be promiscuous,though I don't expect such to be in a Christian home but these days we are seeing such even among ministers of the Gospel.While such act is abomination,women will do well to find out what went wrong.It's easy to claim that charm was used on your men but the truth is that in most cases charm is not involved but you are responsible. That is hard one I know.While such men will face their judgement but the pain and sorrows you go through could have been avoided if you played your roles very well.No faithful man suddenly wake up and become promiscuous.It's a process activated by the negative trend at home.
Lastly,CAN ANY WOMAN TELL ME WHY GOD CHOSE TO MAKE EVE FROM THE RIB OF ADAM AND NOT FROM ANY OTHER PART OF THE BODY OR FLESH AND ALSO THE SIGNIFICANCE OF THAT PART THAT WAS USED BY GOD?
Romance / Untold Or Forgotten Truth About A Joyful Marriage by Loveaflame(m): 10:18pm On Jun 15, 2013
So many books have been written about how to achieve and maintain happiness and joy in marriage.Unfortunately,the more books written and seminars held,the more marital breakdown we withness.The solemn truth about joyful marriage is this.WHAT YOU DID AT THE BEGINNING OF YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN IT WAS HEAVEN ON EARTH IS STILL WHAT YOU WILL KEEP ON DOING TO KEEP IT SO.Unfortunately,after some months or years in marriage,things tend to fall apart because their is an upset in the equilibrum equation that gave constant joy.Couples become to familiar thereby loosing respect and love for each other.Pride is a dominant factor in chasing away joy in the home.The woman becomes uncontrollable,while the man becomes insensitive.Couples need to humble themselves and come to terms as per where they missed it.It will take total humility to go back to basis.The simple things you did without stress at the beginning of the union should be revived.Nothing external breaks a marriage but the internal change in values or perceptions.When you choose to see what you normally ignore and build castles of quarrels,dislikes,complains,hatred etc, you are bound to loose the joy.Marriage is enjoyable if couples will make every effort possible to rewind their lives back and start the tape all over again.
Entertainment / Re: Are You Among The Generation That Used This Television? by Loveaflame(m): 9:43pm On May 04, 2013
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Religion / Truth Vs Falsehood by Loveaflame(m): 9:06pm On Mar 19, 2013
TRUTH vs FALSEHOOD:Truth has few friends even fewer loyalist.Truth pains and reveals all hidden evil,ungodly and selfish intentions.Fals­ehood on the other hand has billions of fans worldwide.So loyal and devoted to it's course.If both TRUTH and FALSEHOOD contest for WORLD PRESIDENT am more than 100% sure that falsehood will win.Dear Christians why the falsehood in our Christianity?We ­claim we love Jesus so much but deny Him in our daily living.We are angels in churches but devils at home.Ministers preach fire and brimestone all with the intention to milk people in the name of seed sowing,propheti ­cseed and whatever.We relegate the poor and celebrate the rich/wealthy who are abominations in the sight of God.We teach not for the love/ ­purpose of God but for selfish reasons.That's why we can buy fleet ofcars and jets,build empires,billions in a/c while The Master we claim to follow could only ride on a borrowed donkey.Why we labour to inherit the earth,millions of souls are inheriting hell.HAVE MERCY LORD
Religion / Re: The Power Of Virginity Part 1 by Loveaflame(m): 9:46pm On Mar 14, 2013
Their is no hype about the power of virginity.The spirit,soul and body of a virgin is pure spiritual vibration in resonance with divine essence.It does not matter if such is a Christian or not.But when such gets saved,they can become dynamic vessel unto God.Virgins are highly priced spiritually.They can be used for total good and total evil depending on the spirit in charge.If you need deeper understanding,just google it up.
Religion / Re: The Power Of Virginity Part 1 by Loveaflame(m): 10:21pm On Mar 10, 2013
You are right.But that's not my focus.It's for those who are still pure physical/spiritual virgins.
Religion / The Power Of Virginity Part 1 by Loveaflame(m): 11:43am On Mar 10, 2013
THE POWER OF VIRGINITY:"And in the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God ... To a VIRGIN espoused to a man ..and VIRGIN'S NAME was MARY".Let me share a little secret tothose who are still virgins like I was before I got married.Their is a great mystery in virginity.Why do ritualist use young virgins for advanced rituals?Why do gods prefer young virgins as sacrifices?God needed a virgin to house His son in the womb.Why?Virgin­s' are pure spiritual energy.Their blood are sacred.It has not been contaminated by the male life energy-sperm.Th­eir tripatite state is still awesome.That is why they are highly vulnerable.If possessed by demons they become catastrophe.If by God,awesome.The ­ ­major power of virgins is their purity.They have not been defiled by immorality.Thei­r soulish power is very strong.That's why it's difficult to break away from the person that deflower them or recover from rape cases.VIRGINS ARE BLESSED OF THE LORD.For those who are still virgins KEEP it for your spouse.I did it,you can also.For parents,please,­lets raise our kids as virgins till they marry.God help us

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Music/Radio / Re: Cost Of 30 Minutes Radio Program by Loveaflame(m): 4:15pm On Feb 21, 2013
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Celebrities / Re: Rich People Who Feared Giving Their Children Money by Loveaflame(m): 6:45am On Feb 21, 2013
I beg to differ a little bit.Parents are to train their kids to be morally strong and upright.Kids must prove themselves worthy to inherit their parent's wealth.The Bible says,"A GOOD FATHER LEAVETH AN INHERITANCE FOR HIS CHILDREN CHILDREN".That is what I intend to do.These rich people have problems in raising godly kids.MONEY DOES NOT CORRUPT A MAN IT ONLY REVEALS WHO HE IS.Have you not seen some seemingly humble good people suddenly become something else when they hit wealth vice versa.You think it's the money.Noop!It's been in them.Money only gave those hidden evils self expression.I must raise kids who can stand the test of time.We Africans believe in continuity.That I intend to do.God help me.

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Music/Radio / Cost Of 30 Minutes Radio Program by Loveaflame(m): 8:18pm On Feb 20, 2013
Can someone please help with the information on how to run a 30 minutes radio program on a good radio station in Lagos State.The radio station with reasonable airtime cost.Thank you great nairalanders.
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