Man I feel for you. You are entitled to your life and opinion. But I will like to ask how many years have you been married and are there issues already?

You will do well to consider that.There are no women without a negative side. With time many of them who are willing to make the marriage work will eventually grow up.
If it has to do with what you have just said I think she really needs counseling from experienced marital experts.You must seen or observe her weakness before you married her.

Finally,I will plead with you to put all before your spiritual Lord .

It is possible but in many cases it is only an infatuation

Don't give in to her.That is incest and is an abomination from the African point of view.It's better to go and look for money else where to pay your fees than to sell your soul to the devil.That woman must be an agent of Satan who wants to destroy your life.

REMEMBER THIS IF JOSEPH HAD SLEPT WITH PORTIPHAS WIFE HE WOULD NEVER HAD BECOME THE GREAT PRIME MINISTER IN EGYPT.

YOUR FUTURE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE TEMPORARY PLEASURES OF SEXUAL ADVENTURES

In the first instance why should divorce be encouraged?

Please let us be more careful before we enter into any meaning relationship with someone.Many will always get what they sow.

Divorce is so common today because we are not truthful to ourselves let alone the other party.

Some of you can be very FUNNY.Like someone asked if am really an expert in love relationship.

Many people love deception and live their lives in illusions. For the many so-called marriage and love relationship counselors how many of them have really experienced what the average person is experiencing? How can you counsel well when you have not really felt the pains of marital tumult?

Many live in the THEORETICAL ASPECT OF MARRIAGE WITHOUT HAVING EXPERIENCED THE PRACTICAL ASPECT OF IT.

When couples recite the marital vows of FOR BETTER FOR WORSE,I doubt whether they know what they are talking about.Even though many have now change the slogan to FOR BETTER FOR BEST.THAT DOESN'T CHANGE A THING.

I BELIEVE THOSE WHO WILL EVENTUALLY STAND THE TEST OF TIME ARE THOSE WHO HAVE REALLY PASSED THE TEST OF LOVE.

Like many who run away from marital troubles and begin to romance life troubles.They only sow seed of doom that will eventually be reaped by them and unfortunately members of their families.

Those of you who give up easily due to the immature characters of women a times I have a simple question to ask you.

DOES THE TONGUE RUN AWAY FROM THE MOUTH AFTER BEEN BEATEN BY THE TEETH?

If your answer is no why should you run away from your responsibilities as the head of the family and begin to dine with prostitutes. Is that the best solution?

I am totally convinced that the man has a lot of roles to play in maintaining the peace of the home no matter how devilish you might think the woman is.Why do we preach forgiveness if their will not be any offense.

Even Christ on the cross of Calvary prayed for God to forgive those who crucified him. Should we do less? This is the major problems in many homes today.PRIDE AND ARROGANCE.

Yes she did what she did which was her first time on doing such.Does that make her a mad person? Was I angry with her? No,God bearing me witness. I was only upset.

I only post it on this forum to encourage those who give up easily due to severe problems in the home.I challenge all those who have found false solace outside to go back home with great humility to mend the broken relationship at home so you can live a great legacy for your kids that all marital troubles can be solved with the grace and help of God.

For your full information,we are going to 12 years in our marriage. For those of you who have knowledge,you should know that the longer you stay in this Institution the greater tendencies for things to fall apart if you don't become more careful and apply great wisdom.

Marriage is like a farm that needs continuous weeding.If you neglect to weed it regularly you are bound to experience the weed of different marital chaos.

Thanks for all your good and bad advises.I appreciate all.I just wanted to share the story for the benefit of those who might have similar problems.

Yes, I am expert in love relationship does not exempt me from the trials of marital challenges.You must be tested for what you believe to prove that you are real otherwise you become a fake.

I have learn t a great lesson about patience and living at peace with myself not minding the external turmoil.I don't believe any woman is a devil it depends on understanding and spiritual enlightenment.

The devil is the real destroyer of homes and we should be aware of that.It takes a little bit of spiritual power,grace and God's mercy to have a relative peace in the home.

I challenge those of you who leave your wives for concubine due to conflict to have a rethink and go into deep consecration and prayers to repair the broken alters of marriage and stop acting like cowards who fear real issues and hide in darkness wishing it's only a dream.

All you men on this forum should look at life from a godly point of value and stop acting like saints.You need to change your mindset and believe the best about females.No one is without a weakness.We should all work on our weaknesses and encourage the other party to do the same.

I believe in the sanctity of the marriage institution.I hold it in High Honour. I challenge all to do the same for the sake of POSTERITY.

No God fearing man will do that who really wants peace and a great future for his kids.

Many men that go into such for whatever reasons are just not totally sane. They need to taught about the virtues of a good family.

Thanks. But, it is not my normal routine.It only happens when their a critical issue to be discussed about the progress of the biz.Which really comes once in a blue moon

I need your candid advise their nairalanders. My wife came to embarrass me publicly in my working place on the ground that I was talking to a female staff of mine.She accused me of having a love relationship with her.When I told her to swear with the Bible she couldn't.

She has become aggressive threatening to break any female's head she sees talking with me after closing hours.What should I do?

You are just too funny asking such an absurd question in this economy of ours.Are you not aware that over 90% of Nigerians live below $2?

Why are workers fighting for minimum wage of #18,500?

If many of them are surviving below such an amount then 90k must be very OK for many families today.Many will even praise God if they can be earning such an amount of money.

They get mad because in most cases they have failed in their responsibilities to maintain a respectful cordial loving relationship with their spouses.


They now tend to result to physical methods in order to disgrace the man openly thinking that will cower the man down and make him to loose face in the society.Unknown to many of them they only tent to encourage the men to further their cause of adventure.

Such should be told that such methods don't work.They only reveal the grave insecurity,babyish and ignorance of their on own part.

They have no business with the outside lovers of their husbands.The funny thing is that such women don't have the understanding that they need to talk to their husbands and found where they missed it.

Please I need help on how to remove Bios password from a Sony laptop my friend just gave to me to repair.If anyone has an idea please help me out

Many have different reasons.Some to hide their marital status.Some don't feel comfortable with it.
But for me in the first 1-2 years I was putting it on.But somehow I just forgot to put it on and unconsciously that was how I stopped.

No man can actually control a woman without the woman loosing her freedom of expression.If you try to use force on her you will only turn her into slave making her to loose her freewill.

I strongly believe the best way you can control a woman is be her best trusted friend.Live a life of openness with her and try as more as possible to honour her before people especially your family members.When she feels honoured she will become your willing slave.

To maintain a woman has nothing much to do with material things.It has to do with basic mutual understanding of the capacity of the man at present.When she is aware of the level of financial income she will have to adjust to the trend hoping for a better improvement.

But for the women who are rich,it will take wisdom to maintain and control such.

Their is nothing wrong there it. It for the benefit of the daughter. Has she anything to hide?
But if the daughter is of mature age and has been well brought up I see no reason for such especially if the lady in question is well above 23

Such a woman has no respect for her human dignity.If the husband decides to become a dog or pig must she become one to take revenge.

Any woman with the fear of God and values for her life and children and dignity should never demean herself to settle scores

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Thanks a billion

From my experience in my 11 years plus in marriage with nobody coming to settle dispute between my wife and I.The main secret is
[size=8pt]HUMILITY and the FEAR OF THE LORD[/size]

Humility will help you accept your fault when you are wrong and also help you to maintain the relationship when you are right and the other person refuses to accept the fault.

The fear of the Lord will help you to become careful the way you run your family,the way you behave especially what you do in the secrets knowing fully well that the eyes of the Lord sees CLEAR EVEN IN THE DARK

I need help to correct the problem I am having with the cursor arrow of my laptop.It runs up the screen after booting is over. Atimes it will be normal but most of the time it is not.It is delaying my work greatly.

PLEASE NAIRALANDERS SPECIALIST HELP ME SOLVE THIS PROBLEM

Polygamy is a mere waste of energy,resources,time anchored on human greed,selfishness,foolishness,lust,arrogance and pride

sweet-pain

I can if she is sincere and trustworthy.Her past is not an issue it is her present attitude that counts for me.

Base on some seminars I have attended,they are highly recommended.

Children of today are not well trained.They lack the basic African traditional culture of respect and good moral behaviors.Many have turned to truants in the society.Foreign cultures have really turned our children to what is totally strange to us as Africans.Ranging from the TV PROGRAMS,INTERNET THING,MAGAZINES etc.

WHO REALLY SHOULD BE BLAMED FOR WHAT OUR CHILDREN HAVE BECOME OR BECOMING TODAY.

Such is life.It is not the first neither will it be the last.Though painful but Life continues.

encouragement and moral support

FULL INSECURITY,

MYOPIC UNDERSTANDING,

LOW SELF ESTEEM,

BAD FRIENDS

AND A LITTLE BIT OF FOOLISHNESS

Let her practice the law of attraction.If she wants to attract her dream let her become the dream in her character and behavior

HOW I WISH I CAN HANG YOUR PICTURE IN THE SKY FOR ALL THE WORLD TO SEE BUT IT HANGING ON MY HEART.
YOUR LOVE IN ME IS LIKE A VOLCANO, THE MASSIVE ERUPTION FROM IT HAS MADE ME LOOSE CONTROL OF MY THOUGHT AS I CANNOT FOR A MINUTE FAIL TO REFLECT ON YOUR GOOD MANNERED NATURE WHICH HAS MADE ME A PRISONER OF LOVE IN YOUR OWN HEART.