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oshe11:
thing is I do like ha, bt nt ready to date ha tho I dnt av a gf bt she knows n jst want me to be wit ha kos she doesnt wanna lose me

owkk....if ur not ready to date n u lyk her...u guys can just be frnds ...it will help eventually if u get in a relationship with her cause as frnds ur more free with each other and tell each other secrets and all they. ..

PureWays:
Ooh.. Okay ma'am.. What do you think I should do?
Her fans aren't helping matters. Lol

hmmmmm,anyways be confident in urself,don't try to impress her ...if u are close to her girl frnds just treat the lyk princesses with no strings attached ....be urself ,be kul and kind.since she don't pick ur calls u could text her once in a while... romantic and self written text in fact turn to romeo while creating texts ...don't be centred on her...just be cool man....if she feels same way for u she will brake her shell.

oshe11:
well mine is.......


she is dating a soldier bt uncontrollably n emotionally in Love with me.


What should I do!

loolzz.....in she's inlove with u she shouldnt be dating some one else..... u should ask her to make up her mind and choose who she wants to be with before u get into trouble cause if army man catch u with em babe .....Oyo for u ooo. ..she should be brave enough to end a relationship she's no longer interested in.

u said she gat men around her....so its clear she's not looking for a man ...I mean just a man..she's looking for the perfect extraordinary man.....well u shouldn't be uncomposed with her.... u should be confident and really nice....do tinx u tink are stupid but nice.

PureWays:
Yes, I think she is, but the question is why would she wanna decode me if she doesn't want anything with me? Ooh! Maybe she's rehearsing/practising.. Lol.. Not sure.
Besides, that is not the only sign I've deduced to my assertion, she once told me that she knows I only want her cookie that she hopes I won't run after I've gotten what I want, and so many other signs I wouldn't wanna bore you with.
Her actions sometimes make me think she's pretty much interested but the issue I have with her is that she doesn't pick my calls most of the time and when she picks up, she'd give me this attitude like she doesn't wanna see me but whenever we see, her actions are always opposite of how she reacts to my calls or chats.

she might lyk u so she wants to be sure beyond doubts that u lyk her..she might ave experienced some hard relationships before and don't wanna make mistakes.....owwwee,she's being uncertain on what to do....so since she lyks u,wen ur together she can't help it and is nice but wen ur away... she might be asking here self am I even sure of this guy self? should I ? should I not and so on

such girls are actually very emotional,great and passionate lovers if u get to know her... she may be naturally lyk dat...just lyks to observe and experiment....but she might actually lyk u cause such girls hide their emotions behind the tough act and character.... she's damn very emotional.... they usually lyk noble men lyk military personals..to cut long stories short they lyk principaled guys ...faithful guys,and so on and so fort.

PureWays:
Okay..

Quick one:

There is this young lady in my street, she's a student, her swag and charisma is 100
I like her but she's gotten so many fans and that pretty messed up my chance with her.
I think she likes me, that's why I haven't given up though I may be wrong but whenever we talk there's this chemistry, you know when she keeps looking straight into your eyes and all.
I deleted her number because I know sometimes you can't help yourself but call (Especially when you are drunk.. Lol).
Saw her yesterday, and I couldn't help but talk to her. I've been playing mind games with her all this while hoping she'd call someday but, Nah! She didn't. I'm sure her fans have fed her ego to the brim. She wouldn't just call any guy like that.

I'm smart enough to know that I need to crack her before any other thing but it seems my plans aren't working.

Can you help me with this ma'am?

lolz.....firstly u think she lyks u cause she looks u straight in the eye? well that might not be d case ...girls that look men straight in the eye are usually readless....if u read meanings to their expression, u might just be making a mistake.... they are mind readers...she looks u in ur eyes cause she wants to decode u....she reading every inch about u

Gud morning all....how were ur nyts?

Before getting into any relationship we must set our relationship goals/aims.. this way but the lady and the guy knows their limit,and what to expect in the future....before agreeing to date any girl or guy u should ask them their aim for the relationship,y does the person choose u off all the world ...is the person willing to stay faithful? ask questions and evaluate the answers before dating....beauty sure attracts but only a good character can keep the relationship... we should base our relationships on beauty,money,sex,fun,sexy( curvey,bursty,big dick)...u should be truly attracted to the person not for beauty but for character cause wen beauty fades uil need something much more stronger to keep the relationship faithful. ....let's do a relationship evaluation....
WHY DO U DATE UR GF/ BF?
DO U HAVE A RELATIONSHIP AIM?

The main reason why we tend to want to be in a relationship with a guy/girl is love.....we all long to be love,we seek more than parently and family love....we just want more,reasons ah don't know...maybe its a result of the films we watch, peer group influence,we tink its the trending tin,we wanna have some adventures and so on and so fort ...in all this relationships should not be miss used or abuse.....if ur a girl or a guy of 11-19 and ur in a relationship.... I call it relationship abuse ...yes oo ...y would an 11 year old be in a relationship? ur clearly to young and don't know what u want and probably ur being influenced by peer groups anyways am not here to base on that but on relationship itself..

RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE BEAUTIFUL AND SOME THING THAT BRINGS U JOY AND NOT SADNESS.
yes u should be happy if ur in a relationship and not sad,coping,managing,bearing ....and while in a relationship don't forget the main reason which is to know the person better,to know if him or her is good for u and if not....u should try working tinx out and see how it improves and if it still don't work ....run away,run away for ur life....imagine ur dating a guy and he slaps and abuses u how much more wen ur married? if ur asked y are u still with him u say u love him....my next topic shell be love by Gods grace .

Gud day once again,my first lecture will be on relationships ...
WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP?

Simple Definition of RELATIONSHIP
:

the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other
:

a romantic or sexual friendship between two people
:

the way in which two or more people or things are connected...

Relationship has many meaning,its the way u relate with ur parents, family and frnds...

WHY DO WE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS?
we have relationships with family members ryt from wen we are born and yet we still long for more,we go out make same sex frnds and all of a sudden ur not satisfied with them any longer,we then fyn our selves making opposite sex relationships.....the truth about humans is their unsatisfied want in all areas of our lives........
let me go straight to the parts we all lyk and wanna hear. Dating
I the old days having a relationship with the opposite sex was a medium of knowing each other better,relating with each other, discovering each other for the purpose of marriage but not so any more...people just get into relationships for getting sake and for some other benefits too....now a days u get to see a 12 year old girl in a relationship.... is it really ryt? fill free to give ur own view on this to me I think its bad anyway....

Gud morning all,I am lovean and am here to help u in the best way I can with all ur relationship problems,in Nigeria today ,getting into a relationship has been a must for all youths even teenagers too and while doing that we do experience troubles with our partners,well cry no more,brighten up and smile ,I am now here to help u in anyway I can....feel free to ask what ever has been and is troubling u,I will also take lectures every now and then on relationships,the ideal relationships,signs that ur in a wrong relationship, roles of men in a relationship and roles of women in a relationship.... things u must have achieved before u tink of getting into a relationship and lots more.....stay tuned ...tnx..

so then its not a bad idea if another interview his held.......who might be in surport of this? just signify by saying....I totally am..

lanicky:
lols

yes or do u have any problem is the interview is rescheduled and by some one else too,not the former organizers.

instead of all the hatings,quarrels and insulting...... how about another interview section....that would be fun....and it will kill this issue of baisness

optional1 was great with the way she tackled her questions fast n wisely.....she is indeed the number 1 option.

Good afternoon all,how were ur nyts?I wish u all a lovely day

courtesy teamOPTIONAL1.

my country people, Una welle come to another presentation from pigin FM,yes oooo,as we de talk yersterday.... y I go even vote OPTIONAL1?,na dis tori we go continue today ...
1)OPTIONAL1 na humble person em be: na fyn girl she be oo but she no de use eye look other people lyk trash...she de friendly with every body,she de free and she be better person
2)OPTIONAL1 na decent person,she de God fearing and decent...... she de very responsible
3)OPTIONAL1 na brilliant person ....yes too as he take fyn na so she take know book....and no be only book she know oo,she know human value and respect for elders just as all our Nigerian ladies sopose know...respect for whom it is due na very essential woman value wah all our women need.
4)OPTIONAL1 na brightener ,I talk so because; sa she no de gree make person de veex or de sad...she lyk to make people smile n happy.... she sabi better encouragment wah go make every vex,sadness,depression and so on n so forth comot for ur Syd...
5)OPTIONAL1 na germ,person wah get all the above characters wah a talk about na gift to humanity;na special person wah God do send for us ooo...
She therefor deserve is crown wela as she go be the perfect role model


The advice wah ah get for Una today na em be say ,make Una my country people vote wela oo....shine ur eye oo,vote for better person....Una sweet sweet day ahead of Una oo ....my for here wah I be lady lovean done they comot for radio oo.....I go bring Una mor better n sweet sweet jist later on...
GOD BLESS OO,Una doh ooo



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the mater for ground dis earler momo ,na still the matter wah been done de ground before, make ah nor talk too much?,mak ah go straight to the point?....
many people for here dem still deh confused? dem never no whom deh go choose for the obonge competition weh de on now, this competition na for us all to crown our ideal miss Nairaland 2016.... as e be so? me don see one better team wah ah go want make Una try consider ,this team dem de talented? and creative,them don win ma heart wela wela ,this team na no other teeeam? but the teamOPTIONAL1 ....yes ooh ,my country people, na teamOPTIONAL1 be ma team today and far far to come.....hen hen hen,some people don de tink ,y I go even vote this teamOPTIONAL1 self,well...I go tell u y

1) teamOPTIONAL1 we be team of love,we no be wuru wuru people... na oneLove be our moto.
2)teamOPTIONAL1 no de bring other people down just to uplift us,na ur choice e be..ba ur hand e da,u they free to vote who ur mind carry,we only try make we convince Una sa na us teamOPTIONAL1 Una go vote.
3) teamOPTIONAL1 contestant na natural beauty, she get characters wah be sa decent Nigerian woman need and she go be the perfect miss and role model,ah no mean sa she norh geh fault oo,cause na human we all be.
my country people, abeg mak Una nor ves ,my time don pass but I go continue to tell Una y teamOPTIONAL1 na my ideal team by if God help us 5pm....make Una no touch that dail ...stay tuned as pigin FM go bring una small song to entertain Una shortly....after the short song na till 5pm..make Una nor forget too


proudly
teamOPTIONAL1.

Cutesexy1:
Am confused on who to vote for

Deariii,u don't ave to be confused.... just go through the picx...learn more about the contestants and make ur choice... follow ur heart,smiles








teamOPTIONAL1.

Gud morning every one.....how were ur nyts.






teamOPTIONAL1

all the princesses are beautiful... I must confess.....but optional1 is outstanding.... she is my ideal miss

join me and vote for
OPTIONAL1
tnx all...and God bless.

Bold and Beautiful
Proudly African
Natural and Descent
proudly Nigerian
hardworking and strong
proudly Black

VOTE
FOR
M I S S

O P T I O N A L 1 .
OPTIPNAL1.

this one is for all our OPTIONAL1 supporter.....just to say tank u.


voting for miss naira land 2016 is optional, but ile advice we vote a queen that's worthy and functional........all haterz be cursing and opposing team UP-SHUN-ARE/OPTIONAL,but we shall be praising and surporting our team FUN-SURE-NA/FUNCTONAL..........

hen hen hen...
long live team optional1
long live optional1 supporters
long live campaigners
long live romancelanders
long live naira land

if u don't ave a vote choice yet...vote for
OPTIONAL1...tnx all.

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VOTE FOR M I S S
O P T I O N A L 1 . OPTIPNAL1.

Bold and Beautiful Proudly African Natural and Descent proudly Nigerian hardworking and strong proudly Black



VOTE FOR M I S S
O P T I O N A L 1 . OPTIPNAL1.

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OPTIONAL1