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Timsco90:
Relax yourself bros there is nothing there just relax there is always a first time in everything but don't ever carry hooks is terrible as a virgin guy. Be yourself just relax

ABi na


Sometimes I wish I was a bit wayward during my formative years

nappy760:
look for a virgin to marry . Forget every other alternative

Time to search.

And also where can I see a virgin above 24

Duke007:
My brother, don't throw away something you have faithfully preserved for over four decades because of pressure from people. At almost 45, it would be a tragic mistake to exchange your convictions for a few moments of pleasure just to feel accepted.

The Bible says, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." — 4:4. You don't have to bow to peer pressure or worldly expectations.

Also remember, "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." — 2:15.

Your purity is not a burden; it is a testimony. Don't let ungodly counsel destroy what God has helped you keep. If marriage is your desire, pray, trust God, and pursue an honourable relationship. There is no need to "practice" with a prostitute or hookup partner. Sex is not an achievement to prove yourself; it is a gift God designed for marriage.

I got married as a virgin, and my wife was also a virgin. We learned together, and our marriage has been fulfilling. Experience is not what makes a marriage successful—love, commitment, patience, and God's grace do.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." — 3:5–6.

Stay faithful. Hold on to your convictions. God's way always brings lasting peace, and in His time, you will never regret waiting.

You are making sense sha.

Just that I don't have much time to mingle or much close female friends.

kpankpangolo:
You spent your whole life making decisions for yourself. Why are you now asking us what to do? When things go sour from our decision, you will still come here to blame us. My friend, carry your cross. It has worked for you now for… 42 years.

So I should keep waiting?

oz4real83:
Even at 42, you never still wise up. The issue is that you attach importance to less important issues, you should have either been married or be planning to get married by now. You don't need to be taught sex, you will always find your way with the right person. You should stay off those your friends that keep giving you advise to patronize prostitutes, they are not helping you at all.

Omo eh...

I've been seeing people's complain about husband not satisfying them in za oza room, he's a 2 minutes man, indomie man etc.

This is why I want to enter with experience

voortrekker966:
How do you know when you've not tried any of them, Mr. Linus?

You nor believe me ni

AcadaWriter0:
Absolutely! It’s all about the subtle cues. a little boost to keep things flowing, right? It’s all about the perfect moment, really. a little bit of playful persuasion.

This one carry AI dey reply person

kiddaz:
Lol I know say you no serious sha but if na real, she nor go know. Just enter YouTube and you still fit find loose for area take train small

YouTube Kwa

RealityKings1:
This is impossible

Impossible is nothing

bigpriik:
42 years? Men you are old ,trust me you will have challenges attracting the kind of women you desire they will term you too old.

That's the harsh reality.

oluwatruther:
The thing about women for 2026 now, even the ones wey you think say they sweet go still test you. The girl for your workplace, just make sure she no dey date colleague for same office. You no want drama.

Just talk to her like normal man, carry am go somewhere quiet one evening. No need to practice with anybody. If the connection there, e go flow naturally. But if you fit imagine say you go freeze when time come... well, nobody dey judge.

I no wan cast o.

Samantha125:
Still, it's better than nothing... Practice missionary with it, and don't ask me what is missionary...😑😑😑... For more information, Google is your friend.

The missionaries came to preach and brought Christianity to Africa. I think it is out of the scope.


I don't want to be preaching and having evil thoughts .

All the answers on Google someone wrote them, so you too can contribute to Google

J2ff:
propose and marry her then you can nack freely. Watch wholesome sexuality YouTube channel for tips on how to nack


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyZryTGew-Q?si=vshOItP2_DktMxqo

Watching how to drive is not the same as mounting the bike to learn.

What if I dissatisfied her, marriage don begin get k leg o.


Na one advantage of wayward lifestyle be this.

Person for don learn all the corner finish

Dabronze:
At 42 you should be thinking of settling down building with the right Woman not olosho and hookup

I don't want to enter marriage without za oza room confidence.

Imagine say na madam dey teach me , e make sense?


Na me suppose dey teach her.

But now I'm left with difficult option:

If I go with oloshe, I would learn well, but how about my childhood church promise that my first knack would not be with a oloshe.

At fist I said it would be on my wedding night but reality dot com don hit me.

Uche559:
How do u know is different from d real thing? Keep deceiving urself, church brothers n sisters with pretence is 5,&6.

On judgement day, we will c ur playback on a very very big screen.

On Judgment day make angel sha no play my tape o


But on a serious note real sex and self help are different.

Someone who self help can hardly approach a girl, that confidence won't be there compared to someone that has been with her physically.

kiddaz:
Whaaat
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am

You don minnit?

Aleem26:
Na pon pon pon talk be this na...e no sweet for hear at all

That's why I bring am make una add sugar

Wealthyonos:
A picture of you or I don't believe it

If you see my face you will faint

Amotolongbo:
You could try out with some holes at home.
Tiger blade has 3 holes, with just one tiger blade, that’s a 4-sum.

WAaaat!!!

You want to castraaate me?

Samantha125:
Get an intimacy doll and train with it.

It's different from the real thing.

Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

DeltaBachelor:
Same post appearing 4 times in a row on FP . Is the mod high on colos ?

Thought I was the only one who noticed it

More added daily on the page

AyarmBoye:
whats the voltage of your pv

My oga I'll just kukuma take it to experts around.

I thought ordinary kick and start will fix it

AyobamiOluwole:
Obviously, you have cells that are damaged. Get yourself a multimeter or just take it to an electrician close to you that has a multimeter (I advise you get yourself one) and check the voltage of each cells. Any cell that pulls up to 3V and above is still ok, and anyone that pulls below 2.5V is no longer ok (likely a bad cell), while anyone that doesn’t indicate any voltage is gone.

This way, you are able to find out how many cells are still running fine.

Thanks for your contribution.

I'll just kukuma give it to a technician

bassdow:
You sure say you get Idea of what you doing ?

Output from solar panel especially the voltage is not stable, often much higher than what the battery might actually need.

There's a level something would get to, without the necessary knowledge + technical knowHow, you better off outsourcing to those who know better.
If you continue blindly following guesses, and things goers wrong, na only you e go affect. Sometimes we wey dey guess, might know better BUT since we don't have direct access to said thing, wouldn't be able to know what and what not to suggest.
There's a reason Doctors of all levels don't do prescriptions online.

Hopefully I'm mistaken

Seems this is beyond kick and start.

I'll look for a technical person

ajabani4allah:
Pls get a technical person around that can help you with this, your response shows clearly that you can't handle this. Where do you stay?

I thought it's something I can easily fix

But I'll get a technician. Thanks

Yvngex:
so you are saying we should continue to overlook the bad habits she intentionally exhibit just because I want to be unpredictable? Please make me understand better.

Not that you should overlook bad habits, but more of you shouldn't react to everything she does because they're majorly wired to do things you don't like.

The main point I'm trying to make is that you focus more on core issues and leave pettiness aside.

Because if you keep on reacting to every thing she does you are fueling her because that's what she wants.


Now tell a child stop making noise.

The child stops for a while and later starts again.

You might want to ignore the child or still tell the child to keep quiet especially if the noise is becoming louder.


This is just an idea about things you might want to overlook.


Now tell the child don't go close to the swimming pool.

No matter what, if the child dares go across, heads towards or touches water in the pool you don't overlook it.

You act immediately because this is a redlines as the child's life is in danger.


There are several examples to use concerning relationship but I think you get the drift here.

Let her know your Stands yes, but remember:

The More You React And Try To Enforce Rules Or Authority, The Less Powerful You Appear.

dicksonadams:
so sorry bro, I pray it is not one of this China batteries that they do not honour warranty claims or provide support, normal a Lifepo4 battery full charged 4 month ago shouldnt die like this.

Or perhaps they used cells that were closed to end of life to packaged them in a new box with their brand, bassdow and other guru, please any suggestion to help this brother

Thanks for your concern.

Actually it's a packaged battery more like DIY and not from a brand.

Maybe they used substandard batteries for it

AyobamiOluwole:
Connect it directly to your solar panel for a few minutes.

I've joined the wire directly from the battery to the direct wire from solar panel without using charge controller but nothing came up.

fuckboys:
if you can bypass the bms and connect the cells individually directly to a 3.5v charger and maybe it should wake some.

I would appreciate if there's any YouTube video guide to this because I have no idea how to byepass or how BMS operates. Thanks

dollarnaira:
You need to confirm the form factor of the cells used--- prismatic or cylindrical. Check if it has a bms too. Do these and revert.

Thanks.
However this would be tough for me because I don't have the technicalities.


Which tools do I need to work, and I'll appreciate if there's any YouTube tutorial for it