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zoedew:
Now with their blood watering their struggle for political freedom Iranians will value the outcome and savour freedom so well no monarchy nor theocracy will ever have them by the jugular again.

There's no turning back on this.

They have shed so much blood and when they finally free themselves from the shackles of this regime they'll make it mandatory in classes to teach about their experiences to their generations to come so that their future great Grand children won't make any silly mistake.

Sonnobax15:

When we tell people that that religion is a menace to the entire world,they call us all sorts of abusive names and even tend to attack us

It's sickening!!!

If they can do this to those they swore to protect, imagine what they would do to those they swore to distroye.

Opening live fire on protesters is just terrible 😞


Your own people

Internet blocked in Iran for over 100 hours now (5 days)


What are they trying to cover up 😔

SuperOnyi:




Still relevant...Sad!

Bro, I'm following your diary thread and I must commend your efforts!

Keep it up. Just wondering, which niche are you into on tube

ccjoe:
Let Me give u an advise which I know u will likely not heed to: FORGET ABOUT THAT ACCOUNT AND LEAVE EVERYTHING LIKE THAT THE WAY IT IS, LOG OUT COMPLETELY AND KEEP RECEIVING YOUR MONEY AND CHECKING MAILS....IF YOU MUST CONTINUE PUBLISHING, GET A NEW DEVICE WITH NEW DETAILS AND INTERNET SOURCE AND CREATE A NEW ACCOUNT TO CONTINUE YOUR BUSINESS (Create new books)... I know why am telling u diz, stop pursuing that book, shutdown your emotions else you'll loose your account very soon... In fact, you are very close to loosing it presently if u dont take this advice...

Nice advice there.

But I guess kdp is f*u**d for Nigerians.

Because of this issue I got a new device, new internet and all. New books.


But guess what?

Any book I upload would be blocked.

Reason?

The vague "misleading customer experience"


Kdp wasn't like this back then, I wonder where this misleading customer experience sh**t is coming from.


Now what's the guarantee that if I get another new device and start all over it won't be the same?


Mehn, kdp is f**ucked for Nigerians.

What's the hope of a hustler that wants to earn online?

Dada4me:
Good evening nairalanders, my daughter is in basic two with a bad handwriting. I have tried helping her by showing her how to handle Biro but no improvement.

Please recommend what to do.

Op it's been 3 years, hope your little angel has improved.

How did you manage it, please share tips, it's needed now for a child.

Office romance is frowned upon and in many settings an employee risks getting fired when caught.


But the reality is that it still goes on. Yes, employees date each other, not just in office settings but other forms of work too.

So which job do you think has the highest number of employees dating each other?

For me it's any jobs that requires shifts. Mostly night shifts. Because at night they might not want to go home and from there one thing might lead to the other and then...

Shakaboomboom

paxonel:
Unnecessary online scamming!

What is hallelujah challenge?

Do one need to display their fortunes unnecessary online?

How much did he scam you?

Join the alleluia challenge with a open mind and see for yourself. Or better still sincerely sing alleluia at home for one hour and see. When last did you pray?


But you won't have problem with an influencer promoting scam online abi? Or a girl dancing seductively online?


In this life you either draw people closer to God or far away from him.

Image123:
Like Mr President would ask, "Are you an enemy of wealth?"

The way they're attacking him you'll think he's promoting indecent dressing.

Redbishop:
Na you wan dey deceive people 🙄, Person wey dey earn no dispute na you wan dey help am form holier than thou...

This man makes over $1m dollars annually from that YouTube channel ....

Forget socialblade. It's just an estimate assuming the channel is montized.


The fact here is that the channel isn't montized. Use the right tools and you'll find out.


Someone is busy transforming lives but all you are focused on is how much he's earning? Like seriously?


Someone is working hard to bring hope to the people, restore Godliness in a morally declining society but instead of encouragement you are busy attacking him based on what he's earning?


Morality is fast declining but you won't attack those artists and influencers promoting all manner of immoral acts through their songs, posts and all. Yes, they're cashing out promoting evil but it's a man of God promoting closeness to God you have the strength to attack?

So many misconceptions and words of atrtack on the alleluia challenge. Some people are just posting up and down that he's cashing out from YouTube while millions watch his live challenge.

Here's a post on frontpage claiming he's deceiving people and cashing out: https://www.nairaland.com/8546753/hallelujah-challenge-na-scam


But how much is he cashing out?

The answer: $0

Yes, zero from YouTube. His YouTube channel with over 3M subscribers isn't montized. There's more to the alleluia challenge than YouTube earnings.



This life is more spiritual than you think. Just because there are fake pastors doesn't mean every pastor is there for the money.


Let's stop discouraging those that are trying to lift up people in this country. Let's stop all these bashing of pastors and men of God.



Always quick to atttarkk the few courageous men that are trying to bring hope to people, trying to bring people close to God. Trying to bring back sanity.

But the ones promoting immorality and all sorts of evil vices we applaud them. SMH

Caaz:
Not every person we should welcomed into our homes,this one is trying to cause chaos in that family.So the first child sharing resemblance with the man's wife is now termed**omo ale++


This here is the reason why i always vet and filter all my husband friends,,i noticed any nonsense alacrity,i'd everything within my power to put an end to such association.

Ahnie I no wan argue Sha, if caging your husband gives you peaceful marriage, I wish you the best.

Starboytwo:
Urm, the 2nd son who looks %99 like the father and nothing like the mother, shoukdnt there be some kind of DNA to really determine if the mother is the authentic mother 🤷

Thinking out loud.

Listen to yourself again.

Read it slowly.

pocohantas:
This is one of those stories that never happened. He just created it for validation from his ilk. I was thinking the moniker looks familiar and I have confirmed.

Pocololo, time I'll use to create fiction on nairaland that doesn't pay, I would rather use it create more books on KDP.

If you check well winter is coming and this is when books sell well on KDP.

Even YouTube is there to cash out, so why waste my time creating fiction on site that doesn't pay me shishi.

yvesboss:
Oga

Can you please avoid the family for a long while so you don’t bring this your energy to your friend? Really it isn’t your business if you think about it

Like I stated we haven't seen for ages, and I only went to his state for some business stuff.

I understand your point and I'm strongly considering it. I would be avoiding them sha, because finding a peaceful home this days is hard and wouldn't want to be the devil.


Though I'll still look for a way to indirectly convince him for a DNA test.

Carazon:
You believed that he can easily afford the money because you are his account officer.
Many of my friends also believed that I can easily dash them 500k or there about

As for telling his wife, the chances is above 80% so as I said before mind your business

That's it o.

Once he tells his wife everything don cast o

Nonexisting1:
Brother, I know you want to help a fellow brother but sometimes, the best way way to help a thirsty person is to allow him need water by himself and he will when the thirst becomes unbearable for him. Just like your instincts gives you hints, his own is also doing the same but he doesn't know how to balance his emotions yet. Don't mind those telling you otherwise, a child borrows traits from both parents no matter how little. If that woman's ex shows up now, that's when you will know that the child does not resemble only his mother in entirety, that he also got some traits from someone else. We have normalized paternity fraud so much in this country that the abnormal has become the normal even when biology says otherwise. For now, let the sleeping dog lie until daybreak.

My brother, you know what's up!!!

The thing is I don't know the wife if not I could have checked her exes.

If I even want to be sure before hinting my friend I would take a background search for her exes to see, but who get that kind time.

The easiest way is DNA straight up.

As it is now if he says he wants to do DNA for his second child I would just laugh and even place a bet that the boy is his because of the the character and physical resemblance.

Only me know watin I observe wey dey trouble me like this.

Me wey no like dey put mouth for relationship matter at all.

Baronthecelebri:
One thing I don't like is somebody see something is wrong with his friend and keep quiet, and is excuse is he don't want to be the bad guy, you're the bad guy for not doing something.

That's it o.

What are friends for?

ruggedtimi:
E be like you no want dey eat that free food again wen ever you visit. Mind your business especially for the fact he is only a friend.
This is a delicate issue that could tear the family apart, and you might be held responsible.

If not for courtesy watin for carry me go there. If he does it secretly without involving the wife the family won't tear na.

Highest I would lose a friend while he bonds with his wife more than before.

Or....

Day169:
Well like the first responder to your story adviced, mind your business and face your front .
Like they say, what you don't know wouldn't hurt you. I can imagine the chaos if every man only knew the full story about their ancestry.

They whole world is duuuuccked up sha.

But that doesn't mean one should be accepting other men's seeds because of distortion of lineage.

I heard that when one visits babalawo or so they don't usually asks for the dads name but moms name so that the charm or whatever would work.

sisisioge:


Nairaland and local champions! OP went to school but never learned anything related to biology. Them suppose lock you for one room dey study your brain as a special deviant from normal evolution

Same thing others said until they learnt the hard way.

Just pray you don't encounter such.

I don't wish it for you or your brother sha.

lilyheaven:
To avoid embarrassment as you said, you can secretly carry out DNA test to satisfy your curiosity.
Then go ahead to prove it to the man, that his first son is not his.

Meanwhile many first sons always take after their mother, including character.

How can I secretly do it, tips please.

Yes, first issues can look like their mom, but you would notice one or two traits from the dad.

Brandiebird:
Trust me it’s not your conscience that’s troubling you but the devil’

You better respect yourself so that others can respect you back!

I never thought of this when I saw the second son, or even this newborn.l, and I'm not asking for test on all, just the first son.

Just hope you don't encounter a situation where someone would have the option to help or mind his business.

It feels like betrayal if it's your friend, you know.

Talkisneeded:
Man with brain,but there’s nothing Better than Minding your business sha…
Soon or later he will find out the truth

Minding one's business is good, but if all of us are minding our business what are friends for?


I've seen daughters that looks exactly like their mom, even sons, but there's always one or two things they take from their dad.

If he finds out the truth later, I hope it's confirmed that he's the dad. If not my conscience would forever trip me.

Minding one's business can be hard here sha

Benlight:
If you are married and have kids, go run DNA test for your own kids first then tell him you just did and talk about the advantages on your own side and to other men.
If he has ears, he will hear.

Nice suggestions here. Similar strategy to gifting someone with month oduooor toothpaste or toobrush, or someone with body odooor with perfume.

They'll get the memo in a respectful way.


Unfortunately I'm not married yet, I would have used this strategy.

dominique:
How do you expect a child that looks 99% like the mother to also look like his dad? Do the couple look like they're siblings or related in any way?

I'm only concerned for my friend.

There's high possibility I could be wrong, but if things turn out ugly then he found out on time.


Haven't you read of men training other men's seeds for 30,40 years only to find out in old age that they aren't his?

I never mentioned DNA for the others, just this first son.

Bodydiialect57:
Why are you deliberately cooking up issues where there might be none? Is it a crime for a child to have a semblance with his mum?

Yes, it's a crime

Who is the dad?

Why not a single iota of resemblance in any form?


Women in the past would be praying for their kids to look like their dad, here you are speaking sheet

Mariangeles:
This one has carried his nairaland home-wrecking spirit into someone's home.

A man let you into his home, and this is what you do? You start monitoring his home?
The man does not have eyes to see whatever it is you saw, abi?

You see, this is one reason past people should be left in the past.
And one should be careful who they open the doors of their home to.

There are some things you see that won't get off your mind. Many that got the news too late probably had a friend or two who didn't want to wreck their marriage. It might not be DNA, it could have been the wife engaging in extramarital affairs and in order not to spoil their friends marriage they kept mum.

Just pray your friend doesn't keep shut when they need to speak to save you from potential calamity.


This is more than 'pokenosing' like you think

descarado:
Are you this idle?
If you are idle, carry rake, broom and sweep your street to keep your mind and hands busy.
Thank you in advance

You think I have time for online arguments?


Just pray a situation where you would need someone to tell you the bitter truth doesn't arrive.

Life is mysterious you know, yours might not even be DNA.

pocohantas:
1) You confirmed there is no single element in 30mins of your visit from a child who was even hiding. I bet if you stay one month, you will tell us more about her n●ked body.

2) A child is considered completely different because he looks like his mother. As in, his biological mother.

3) Take some time to tell us what the child who looks like the man, shares in common with his mum.

4) Please save your breath. You will need it to explain to your friend. Hopefully it won't be your last...

You spoke well, reason I'm still contemplating my next move.

Normally I don't usually get involved in such issues but this one strikes differently.


There are some things online texts or words can't explain, but I know what I observed. It would be wrong to jump into conclusion, but what if he's not the real father? Won't it be better he finds out this early than in his late 70's and 80's?


If he secretly caries out the test and it turns out he's the real father he would smile and pretend nothing happened and go on with his family.

It's not I want to ask him to chase his wife away, just to clear all doubts.