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Goo0dHardDick:
Go and collect anything in my name, I will pay.

You passed her sh*t test bro. She'll forever respect and fear you greatly.

For those who don't understand. Let me explain.

The girl tested the op by checking if she could easily gain access to him whenever she wishes, and the OP acted like a strong masculine man! Don't ever dump whatever you're doing for a woman just because she wants to come, esp when she didn't Inform you ahead. If you do that she'll instantly lose respect for you and your value decreases before her.

Understand this, Women love men who ignores them, plays hard to get and are busy with their lives. A girl called me yesterday morning being Saturday and I didn't even answer the call because I was already in my business venue. Of course she wanted to come over to my place but my business and money is extremely important to me more than a girl.

Op, leave her alone, continue living and enjoying your life, if she's interested she'll reach out and when she finally reaches out, don't be over excited, don't rush the response. Match her energy! Take your time and respond and tell her when you'll be chanced.

My Gee


I used to joke with TRP but after I started seeing people's stories that touch, I noticed most of them got a similar pattern which TRP has been preaching against.

Na once I give myself brain o.

Sometimes when I come online I go straight to look for TRP post or they even suggests them to me on algorithm based social media (YouTube, FB, X) because I've been consuming them a lot lately.

On nairaland your post amongst many others helps me to always remind myself to reduce emotions when dealing with ladies.


Reading about TRP online and applying it in real life hasn't been easy but it has always saved me from headaches and regrets.

That particular day I almost gave in but the core message of The Redpill kept ringing and holding me back.

Nothing is new under the sun.

If you are faced with a tough situation, don't let feelings or emotions overide your sense of reasoning.


Any issues or tough relationship decision that arises, take your time to tackle it.


Take a walk. Go out. Try detach feelings.
Let logic be your trusted companion.

Don't rush and make impulsive decisions.

Search for cases similar to yours and check the pattern. That there is where your answer is.

It's better to learn from the experience of others than to learn the hard way.

The Redpill isn't about hating women or insulting them.

It's not about hitting her or running abuses on her.

It's not about trying to live a tough or rugged lifestyle while naturally you are a calm dude.


The Redpill is about understanding female psychology and be steps ahead of her in the games she's playing.

It's about studying patterns and drawing logical conclusions based on thousands of ways they've acted in the past.


It's about understanding that your sacrifices and efforts doesn't matter if she finds better options.

It's about understanding that you need to prioritize yourself and growth over her desires.

It's about understanding thier manipulation tactics and know where it is headed to.

It's about understanding that you can never satify her, you only do what you can let go easily and what you think is necessary at the moment.

It's about keeping your frame as a man with logic as your weapon against her numerous manipulative tactics.

dreamxhaser:
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.

What I can say is that it depends on the situation.


This is the difference between reading the book and living it out. Sometimes you overlook it, other times you call her out.


For instance if you tell her you don't like her placing an object on the Fridge, she'll definitely do it over and over to test you.

In such kind of situation you can overlook it at times or lightly call her out.



Then there are some things you don't overlook and always call her out. Let's say you let her know that you don't like her dancing seductively on the internet for likes and all. If she does that you shouldn't overlook it. Or something like she starts putting leg chains knowing that you don't like such.

These are just examples, the main thing is about what she's testing you on. If it's not a major deal breaker you can overlook it and sometimes act enraged over it. This way you become unpredictable.


However if it's a major deal breaker, call her out immediately you find out. If she still instist don't even argue with her, just cut off.

Just my opinion though

Learn to say no to her demands. This turns her on more than you can imagine.




I'm taking about all those her fairytale demands:
Expensive wig,
Vacation,
Outing,
Change her phone,
And similar.


The more you give her what she asks for the less attractive you are to her

Once you find yourself scared to lose here, you've lost her already.


Because you'll always want to do things to please her which dulls the attraction she has for you.

This same topic everyday


Right from small ladies has always been given preferential treatment and favors and they grow up with that mentality believing it's their right. Like, they even feel they are doing you a favor receiving the gift because there are lots of guys lined up to step in if you don't.

That's the reality we face.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
It seems you don't value yourself and your time as an individual for you to even have a thought of being wrong just shows the type of person you are.🥱🥱

Lol...

Every human has weak point. No matter how strong defense dey for match one mistake or weak point dey cause goal.

I be human being abeg, I evaluate things.

Again one has to act a fool sometimes in dealing with women if not eh...

favour32:
You did nothing wrong.
Schedule don't change suddenly except you are not confident of yourself.

True.

Just that our third leg no dey allow us think straight sometimes especially when e don full dey find escape route.

ManknowThyself:
You are a man!!!!!!!!

Never in life allow any woman except your biological mother to use her time and your time together.

Learn to open the door for anyone that want to leave your life without chasing.

Don't ever call nor text her again.

Women plenty for your dm, use another one patch the weekend.

Myself 10 years ago would have been all over her.

Thank God for the internet, the Redpill and people's experiences I read online have taught me more about female psychology more than I ever imagined.


Though it's not easy, but I try all I can to use head follow these ladies instead of feelings.


I've seen some guys abandoned a hot match just to go be with a girl.


It was a tough one for me because things had been flowing well just until that moment.

I no go lie, I'm thinking of trying again but don't want to appear desperate or get disrespected because she might want to do me back

CosmeticChemist:
Move on bro, you haven't done anything wrong. If she is giving you attitude, then she isn't meant for you.

Don't try to force yourself on her, it will back tire.

The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

Tekashi89:
Bro I've spent money chasing different girls do their beddings taking them out, there was one I took out only for me to get home to discover she has blocked me, there was also one that I did transfer for and all the nice things a guy normally does for a girl only for her to end up insulting and blocking me this happened early January this year

Try hurting them.


Try saying no and don't give a ffck


It's difficult at first but it does work.

Try hurt their feelings and say no to their wants


I'm talking from experience.

The ones I act nicely towards usually take me for a fool and cut me off.

But the ones I hurt and deny their request always try to get me.

Try teraban or so on YouTube. Psychehack or so.

His videos have value

Cum4me:
Masturbation is a life saver stop all this. It only has negative effects to an addict. Just like marijuana is amazing plant but too much of the intake will affect your health negatively. Masturbation helps you focus more on your goals if you're not financially ready to care for a woman. It saves you from a lot of nonsense. if you can minimize the number of times you masturbate. Because not all women worth your DK as a man masturbation reduced your urge for irrelevant sex. Remove religion brainwashed institution from your mind and see the beauty of nature in you bro.

The issue is the addiction.

Only 1 in 100 can curb the addiction.


And the way one has sex is different from waaking.

Sex is soft and moist, the pp doesn't instantly grab you dd as hard as masturbating.

When masturbating the hand grabs the DD so hard that there's no space for movement.

This affects the DD.

I heard about one that they use dragonfly to make love juju.

I weak once o

essentialone:
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.

It's complicated.


I wanted to say if your parents didn't have you this thread won't be here but I remembered that during their time there was high value in marriage and relationships.


These days it's all about toxicity as if you and your enemy signed a contract to Live together and fight each other.


But if we don't get married or have children how do we populate the earth.

I mean with quality children, because children raised with both parents are likely to turn out great than those outside family settings.

It's complicated, really complicated

malaria:
Sbe knows you are not dating her .so.pay for the services being rendered to.you. since you are too cheap to control your manhood

Women sees sex as service they render to you.

The only honest woman is a pstute because she tells you the price upfront

You can't take the entitlement mentality away from them.

Even if you aren't friends not to talk of lovers they feel strongly entitled.

The only thing is just to stand your ground as a man

This story over and over.

It's become the norm.

Not as if it wasn't, but it hasn't been as big as this.

Right from far back woman always demand something for sex, she might resist the urge to ask for favors immediately but there's something she feels she's entitled to because she opened leg for you and suffer the pain (as they would claim)

They have that mindset they're doing you a favor.


If you pick her up as OS,

Or just friends,

Or Bestie,

Or GF,

Or Wife,

They'll always demand for money after the deal.

That's how they are

Only os are honest.

They tell the price upfront.

That's how female are wired o

essentialone:
why do ladies expect money from men, after sex?

Only prostihdtutes are honest because they tell you the price upfront.

Many ladies won't admit, but they see it as offering a service that should be cimpensated.

Just like if someone cleans your car, they expect a reward even if they don't tell you.

That's how women see it, but religion and shame won't let them admit.

Only

Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

Onkoolos:
Go for medical check up as soon as possible, you cant get your answer from nairaland.. We can only assume

I'll do so, just want to know if anyone else has experienced such and possibly first aid stuff to try

It's moving from ball to ball.


It moved to my left ball, but now it's back to the right balls.

Please anyone experienced this before

Onkoolos:
That is the first sign of cancer of the testicle or penis. before your balls will start getting bigger. Quickly go and do test now

You are joking right?

Please take this serious

DerKlassiker:
No, I didn't

Strange things are happening.

I just hope you don't face such situations again

In the middle of the night (around 2:30AM) I felt sharp burning sensation on my testicles (my balls) as if someone put on lighter directly under my balls.


It was on one spot at a time not my entire balls. Underneath my balls. At first it seems to shift from one point to the other but when I woke up it became worse, just concentrating on one particular spot under my balls as if them put fire on my balls.


It has reduced this morning but that middle of the night it was fire, just one spot on my right balls, not my entire balls.


Has anyone experienced this?

Doctors in the house please what does it mean.

Please Help please to take fast action, I don't want anything to happen to my balls

Abdulasod:
Why were 2 peaceful protesters shot in the US by Agents few months ago?

It's undignified to speak with both sides of the mouth.

Seee what sane minds have been fighting against.


Instead of some people to comdemn it they'll come up with conspiracy theories and all sorts of things.


Shebi you have seen the video?

The same internet you support to be cut down in Iran is the same that helped you see this, same that made you reply to this message in the first place.

Had it been it wasn't recorded you would be all over the place foaming over your smiiliy mouth.


It's because such kinds of bad things haven't happened to someone close to you that's why.

Maybe it should get to you so we understand all your conspiracy better.

Spiiits!!!

Common sense is not common!!!

Mods what's happening?


I took my time to create a thread in family section, but it was moved to culture.

Why this?

Please fix and take this thread to family section, I'm responsible for what I post so don't dictate to me where I should put it.

I've seen similar threads on frontpage and they're in family section, why change mine

willi926:
Sleeping with a married woman is very very wrong. If I tell you the stress and the time and the money I used in getting married to my wife, u will know it's not easy. Then after that stress and money, one random man will just mount my wife. Only the word that will come out of my mouth alone will be enough to render the so called man useless, talk more of when the spirits involved in the Union begins to act. There are fresh young unmarried girls everywhere looking for who will mount them even for free, so why chase a married woman. What God and tradition has joined together let no man put assunder or that man will face the repercussions of his action.

That's it o.

A man would go through several stress and financial draining activities to make a woman legally his, then one randy man would just out of no where be chasing her.

It's not proper.


The the is that it seems there are some men that married women are their fetish. They just want to do the abominable act even though there are lots of single girls out there.


No matter what we say or preach they don't care, except a drastic action with instant impact is taken.

stanvesco:
My

Let them do HIV TEST PLEASE

This would be the first thing that crossed their minds especially with the kind of randy lifestyle of the man.

However, they said they've tried several hospitals and I believe the doctors there would have tried doing HIV and all related tests.

They said nothing is wrong medically and they had to resort to traditional methods.