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Well done op. Following on Instagram already. Learning is fun

Thanks op. You are the bomb

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Hi.

Afi "furious" na

Contumely:
waiting

Hey, we could hook up you know.

Redrosely:
It's been 6days now after d discovery,not a word from hubby nor any explanation. Out of frustration, I confided in my mum,she couldn't believe her ears or my story,bt insisted to hear from her inlaw her self.Bt to our amazement,hubby also refused to pick my mum's call till date. I'm so pissed and angry right now, can't concentrate on my work nor my kids anymore. My family is insisting I come back home with my kids after the take their exams in school,as in during the long vacation until he decides to speak up. I'm so depressed, completely lost my appetite. I have completely deleted his numbers from my phone so as to stop my self from calling persistently n making a fool of myself, though I know I can't erase his numbers from my head.I actually stopped calling him yesterday n by 8pm he called twice bt I didn't pick up. As early as 6am he called again n I didn't pick up too. He has refused to come home and I have decided to let him be.
Note he is sponsoring his side chic in school,rented an apartment for her n takes care of her expenses. While he comes home after a period of 6-8months and leaves after 4days of staying with us saying work demands his attention over there. I am sex starved,my last baby doesn't know his Dad too well, infact he practically runs from him. I am broken beyond words, don't know my offense. Jst lost in thoughts

Hello madam, how are you today. I know it isn't easy for you, but I pray you find peace all round.

I admonish you to be first of patient, second, PRAYERFUL. Sorry I am sounding spiritual right now. For your husband to be comfortable, outside your home for months, even though you reside in same country tells alot.
Your home is under an attack. You have to pray against every strange women( note women, because they might be more than one) holding unto your husband's heart.

Please do not fight him for any reason. If eventually you guys will have sex, please use protection. You will fight through. Protect your sanity and that of your children, and please do everything to make sure you don't lose your job.

Bless you.

donkilidon:
What are your ages?
How long have you been in the marriage?
How long have you known each other?
What changes in sex partern have you noticed from the beginning till now?
When did she start having low sex drive?
Do you suspect she's seeing someone as a result of your job type?
Do you satisfy her other needs as a woman?

Answer these questions honestly and am sure you would find answers you desire.

She might just be passing through a phase in her life, soon the drive might appear.

I encourage you to adopt new and more romantic approach to making her desire you more.
Step up your game,
By improving your general being.
It's not easy to eat same food everyday,every month, every year served in same plate prepared with same old seasoning. Try to serve the same food differently, flavored differently, served differently.
And am sure she will change.
Good luck brother

Are you a marriage counselor?
Kudos on the dissection.

[quote author=franklingud post=78525302]You said it all. Case closed..

stupidity:
Lol


The guy made a nice point. He said “senators” are raping up but we busy noticing “president and governors”


He’s so damn right, we pay no attention to senators and local government chairmen in Nigeria. Na then Dey steal the money pass. But we only focus on Buhari and governors while the likes of Dino keeps changing and expanding his garage.

I saw that too, and damn, it struck a chord. Most intelligent thing I ever heard from the guy, if I may add.

valdes00:
You are right bro... I cant remember how many times my ex provoked me.... broke my phone twice... almost broke my head with a gin bottle...... but I still can't bring myself to beat her... I just jejely made plans to breakup with her before she turns me to a monster.... the day I left her, she cried like no 2mao... now she's married to a guy that beats her even before she provokes him... we still talk occasionally and she can't stop reminding that I am one that made her marry a woman beater cos I left her..... she said instead of me trying to change her aggrssive attitude, I chickened out... who cares, na me give u the guy

Army93:
Teacher Education. Thanks.

Please, how did you go about it?

Xcelinteriors:
With his Ilorin accent

More like somewhere in Oyo state, but definitely not Ibadan.

The stripper's club episode is being well explained... It was all just an advert to fame and trend .

KingLennon:
B.sc, M.sc in oloshology

I refuse to say anything, before " they will now caught me".

Godjone:
hatred will soon kee u

You might just die before me due to lack of humour

jesvic91:
The amount of makeup on that face is enough to paint two local Government ..Meanwhile OP. It seems your brain have stretch marks.

If you award the contract to boda Tajudeen, at isale aro, with proper prudence and adding the right mixtures, you are guaranteed of painting extra ten and a half LGAs.

Let the money sharing and division of allocation begin in 1.2.3. boom

ReneeNuttall:
Yes,she's a fashion designer, a real estates agent,a cosmetologist, a business promoter, a lingerie expert and a very high profile OLOSHO.

See profiling of life..

But on a serious note, she is a badass, going places designer... The high profile "something something" you called her up there is the only downside.

Queen of nudity.. Secretary, awon omo tika body, Lagos chapter.

Xiaomi rocks, I swear down.

dunsinunchained:
Pls who is in ibadan and has links to getting the Nigerian passport quickly. I applied 3rd week in march

Ibadan, as at last month, lacked booklet.
Try osogbo.

Modified:
Just verified, osogbo lacks booklet..

rafindo:
How much will it cost me to do the passport in Abeokuta or Oshogbo

With 35k you will get your passport in osogbo, same day.

mungoparks:
Some Nigerians can be so foolish, how can the rescue team save the children now, jobless youth, just imagine crowd.

My thoughts exactly... Why crowd up the place?
Why isn't the place barricaded by authorities?

Thales01:
Your post reeks of vacuousness and narrow-minded ness.From the tone of your post,it is deducible that your only definition of her family should be Linda herself,her husband and her son.
So what are her parents and kid sister to her?
By the way,who noticed how awful the exposed part of Benny's right foot looks?

How do you guys notice all these things? How?

edicied:
I don't think anyone would call anyone arrogant if they actually aren't arrogant.

You think?

To your question op, it is not your job as a man to saddle yourself with the responsibility of a woman except you are married. Whatever you do to help your woman while dating should be out of love and not complusion.

Men are humans too.

edicied:
Do men really cherish independent women?

The real question is , can men handle independent women..
The moment they come across one who is independent, their next rant would be " she is arrogant" blah blah blah.

It takes a matured man to handle an independent woman.

Ranchhoddas:
Do you need a dictionary or something? How did you arrive at feminist from any of that?
She is paranoid at best and ret.arded at worst. I think a person is better off without those kind of people. Unless you are into bettering the country's image and that crap.

Damn, your first line, second paragraph is not smiling

AntiBrutus:
Lmao, I can totally relate. Mine wasn't really relationship, I was young. 15 when I got in, 19 at graduation. So, I had this level of paranoia. Everyone just seemed older and a bit too wild and fast-paced for me.

I preferred keeping to myself, I am not anti-social though. Just not into plenty outdoor activities... We go dey alright last last.

Yours is quite understandable. Mine was ......, Don't even know why, despite being matured and knowing what I want.. I guess when you have a kind of personality, it's your cross, and Lucifer can pull you out of your cacoon...lol

AntiBrutus:
I wouldn't say it will make my future brighter, but if I could go back to school- I would allow school pass through me i.e, socialise and do fun things. I lived a very triangular life. Didn't want to make mistakes or disappoint my dad, who means a lot to me. Now I am older, I work more than I unwind. Them no dey learn left hand for old age.

I am not advising anyone (lady) to get dickstracted, but it is advisable to build healthy relationships and create memories while in school. When it is all over, you get your First class, 2.1, 2.2, 3rd class or pass...the bond created would come through. You think of your colleagues, friends, lodge mates, fresher's night...etc and smile. The memories will last a lifetime. These memories and experiences, helps in shaping us.

Also, do not listen to those people that will tell you grades do not matter. Get good grades, then we can talk about Martha.

OP, please it is "I'm" (being I am) not "Am". Make a conscious effort to unlearn that "Am".

Same here with me. Wished I socialised more, and wasn't tied to a single relationship all in the name of been faithful. Wished I didn't allow my relationship determine what friends I could keep and what places I could go. In short, I wished I unwinded too. I have gone so far in this boring lifestyle that all I have right now is just my job.. God save me.....

vyueeng:
Ok

Don't be unfortunate na