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egopersonified:
When you think you have a story, then open this thread and find that your story is just a single sentence.

I'm telling you. Life is dealing out blows in different dimensions.

Arsenate:
A sea of tears on this thread. Just what women thrive on; victimhood. No sympathy from me though. I bet you ladies turned down a lot of good guys because they were boring, only to get burnt by sweet talking fuckerrrs. I also bet you will fall for the same kind of men if they show up in your lives again.

Goes without saying, when you start taking a little responsibility for your dumb decisions in life, sane folks might probably sympathise with you.

But for now, boo fuckkking hoo.

Bleep off dear, no one needs your opinion here.

captainking:
Anything else?

Ignore him Cap, he's not worth the trouble.

SteveOfu:
My dad refused me getting married to the love of my life then saying he is too old( 34yrs) and much exposed for my age .He was a personal assistant to Abia state Governor then. I was only 16 and felt I have arrived been fiancé to such person.He cherished me. Truthfully,he never touched me.

Few weeks after,,he traveled for business promising to convince my dad on his return. My father's refusal made me stubborn, I didn't want be around my home cos their over Christian life was making them see everything in another view,i cannot confide in my late mum without getting this look of you must be like a rev in this home. so i ran to my girlfriend's house. She was about 4yrs older than I was then but my body structure made us look like age mates. She convinced me to follow her to PH for her birthday party. Didn't know I was been arranged for her boyfriend's brother.
I was drunk ,first time anyways and he took advantage of me. By morning he was apologizing and professing love and wanting to date me... begged me to take him to my home I refused. I was confused,the love of my life is coming home the next week.how will I face him. I went home,my parents were angry with me but still didn't care to know how I feel, what I wanted but happy I came home alive.

Two weeks later I noticed I was pregnant,i opened up to my man and he said"mummy,do not ever ever tell anyone what happened,this child is mine and it's going to be reason your dad will let me marry you." We hide the pregnancy till it was 6 months,then he came again but my dad stubbornly turned him down again claiming my people don't give out a pregnant woman in marriage till I deliver.

After the delivery of my son whose birthday is today too ,my dad said he is free to marry me but without the boy. He made some underground plan to send us to his mum abroad if after talking to my dad with some relations and it didn't work out. He traveled to his village(Item) to get an uncle to help talk to my dad only for him to come back poisoned,he died two days after 6 months after,i got admission for a preliminary course in fedpoly campus. My parents took my child and I went back to school.avoided men like plague,finished my study then proceeded for my OND. After my OND finals, I went home for my aunty's burial,there I met my daughter's father. He tried everything for us to date and I refused then went ahead to tell him my story. He felt pity on me (so I thought Sha). He started visiting me in school more often, giving me listening ears and all that I lack from home.
I decided to give him a chance.

One month into the relationship, I took in, told him and he asked me to get an abortion because he is from my late aunty's compound,I ran to my cousin who is also his cousin and he called for a meeting. This guy who has been pestering me, traveling all the way from Abuja to Oko to see had the guts to tell everyone present that i am a good girl but he has a fiancé he wants to marry.
When asked the way forward, he said he will do what my people call "agbachaa afo ime"(no English na for it but a kinda way of he has nothing to do with the child and the amount for that was 20k then). I didn't know if I should start crying. I cursed him in tears.
My mum said her pain was she nursed this boy in question while babysitting her elder sister's children in that compound, his own mother pleaded with him to take me as his wife but he was adamant. My dad rejected the money,we left. He warned him never to smell our compound.

I had my daughter 29th January 2004 ,her dad had accident that day, shop burnt, container lost in the sea, the girl left him one month later for his friend then he ran back to me. Begged for marriage but no, not for me, all I did was lift the curse, out of joy he said he will never get married till I do and he kept the promise. My mum started pestering me to accept a suitor, to please her I did in 2013 and by 2016 the marriage ended.
So now,i am happily single.I don't ever want to get married.

This is how I became a single mum of 2 champions,though I will never let anyone I know go through it..

Jesus Are you for real? Like is this story real or fictional?

What's with the blue hair and Versace imprint on his head

Arthurity1:
Lagos to Onitsha is even far, try Owerri to Port Harcourt... For every five minutes you would see either an army or police checkpoint, and all the bast3rds do is to collect bribe from motorists. From one checkpoint you can see the next one but still those that transport arms still do it with ease, all you need is hundred naira in changes.

Owerri to Port Harcourt trip could be annoying and stressful at the same time. I have always wondered what relevance the security officers have on the road, cos they literally do nothing but to collect naira notes.

Some are even so entitled, that after seeing your complete papers will tell you they need something because they have been standing
under the sun, who cares.

webshopNG:
Atleast I for lie small... do the prayer nobody go delay go chop Sunday rice.
The girls were too honest for my liking.

Bros weekend Inside church again!! You still won lie.. What part of hell would you like, the kitchen or the VIP section

webshopNG:
We kuku dey there

As in you dey as per boy or as per virgin boy?
Please be specific, let your pastor judge you.

Of the GREATEST IFE!!!!

OAU I stan.

Proud Alumna

webshopNG:
The pastor said any virgin girl to give us closing prayer � since morning we are still in church

What happened to the virgin boys, dey no come church?

All these unnecessary double standard. Ew.

peoplesguru:
Which one is UBAH sir?

Ifeanyi Ubah now, don't you know

I wish I could leave this country for US, UK or Canada. My time residing here is up

zeb04:
sincerely he is like a mosquito. boozing around quoting everyone, so irritating.

The last thing I want to do on nairaland is to indulge fools. So I have successfully ignored him. I pray he finds peace in life.

genq:
Oh lord, this site is full of dum...

I would have loved to reply you accordingly, but it would mean me stooping to your level.

Let's just pretend that our paths didn't cross tonight. Thanks for your time.

Mstick:
True. Of course cheating is 100% wrong, till the men start valuing women and know that women aren't just for their pleasure it would only get worst.

How to catch a cheating wife? Don't be a cheating husband.

I quite agree with your last paragraph, it takes a crook to know a crook after all

When you are dating, and your partner already cheats, you can't expect them to change and become faithful, cos they will always get better and maybe even become pro.



Dear people, according to one of the very popular moonlight folktales in " stories my mother told me", " DO AS YOU WOULD BE DONE BY", and the word would be a beautiful place to live in.

Take care mstick.

genq:
Bingo! Discernment is one of my greatest attributes.

Uncle you missed. You initiallythought I was male

Mstick:
Don't mind them. They keep brandishing the fallacy that a man can cheat and love his wife meanwhile they're millions and millions of cases when a cheating man abandons his family totally just because of asss.

My father cheated on my mom to the point that she didn't even care anymore and the next thing he started accusing her of cheating because she stopped begging and pleading with him to stop.

My father will leave the house for months so he can stay with his girlfriend and when he comes back he expects a rousing welcome.

Most of this guy's supporting cheating in marriage saw the pain their mum when through but they're so selfish and narcissist to break that circle and they keep putting their spouse in pain.

Nigerian men claim they're polygamous in nature so why are you bothered about some thing natural?

Let's not start opening cans of worm here on nairaland, cos trust me almost every one has an abusive parent/ abused parent story to tell. We all are trying to live above the trauma.

I sometimes don't judge woman that cheat on their spouse, not because I condone such or indulge in such, but because I know most times it's a case of revenge and "pushed to the wall" kinda situation. Although, unfortunately, there are some nice men out there who have happened to fall into the laps of these broken women.

I hope that our men will soon start to respect "the woman and her hustle" , and I also hope that these women will so start to realise that two wrongs never make a right.

genq:
This account definitely belongs to a woman pretending to be a man.

Need I state, that I am a female.

Mstick:
Oga 99% of Nigerian marriages are open marriages not by the woman's choice but the fact that Nigerian men feel it's their right to cheat. So they want to cheat and come back home to a faithful wife.

You keep talking about disease and bringing another man's child home, what about the men don't they bring diseases and other children home?

I know a man that got paid off in his company with millions of naira and he left his wife and four children to go and stay with another woman in Asaba for over 5 years. The day he came back he was brought in a taxi with swollen stinky legs and this same wife he abandoned took care of him till he got better, now this fat bastard is going around telling people she doesn't let him touch her so she's cheating.

The days of our mothers is long gone, no woman has to endure the humiliation of a cheating husband anymore.

You said it all.

Most Women these days are no more loyal because they witnessed what cheating by their fathers did to their mothers, and they have refused to allow same happen to them.

The tables have turned, and it scary as hell.. God help us.

madridguy:
Nairaland ladies can be so funny. My sister stop dragging position with men.

Men can cheat and women can't :Pkiss the fact my sister.
A man can stand at the midst of his family, friends and say boldly, " that lady going i don chop her " but ladies can't. Why do you think God Almighty put seals on every woman?

My sister, cheating is not a thing to brag about but its easy for a man to gather his family to beg his wife over infidelity than a woman.
Make i stop here first.

The lady made sensible points bro.

No one has the monopoly to cheat.
A cheating husband has adverse effects on the wife and the home. But since it became an habit for most men, women learnt how to deal with it.
The reason why cheating is becoming a problem now is because some "modern" women now indulge in it, hereby serving it back to men hot hot.

If only we could all see the danger in cheating on a loyal and loved one, then would we understand the hurt.

So, trust me, find out why she isn't loyal to you, and address it, else it's gonna continue. That's all you can do.

Heloct:
I'm learning patience..

God, I used to have zero chills.

Life is funny as hell..

Some of us are trying/learning to become impatient, as life as dealt a blow on us.

habex005:
When in indomine first debuted in the country...it was known as two minutes noodles.

Nope. Two minutes Noddles was a product of Nestlé, and it tastes far better than indomie.. Still the best noodles I have had till date.

sedutrice:
Well, that Regina-Nwoko relationship looks like Child Abuse so what's she speaking against?

You sure as hell stole my heart content.. She herself is a victim of child trafficking to an ancestor.

pocohantas:
About 3wks ago, you were here to ask how it is being married to an Urhobo lady.

Today you are back again with Ikoyi registry palava?

Una never even marry, 2 threads in one month. You'll soon get what you seek.

No big deal about Ikoyi Registry. That is where slay kings marry their foreign ancestors. Maybe embassies accept it more.

Your last paragraph is making me laugh out loud.

Biglittlelois:
Kindly read, assimilate and comprehend well next time.

Even without reading, common sense can deduce sometimes. But some people will rather be "them"

budaatum:
Don’t date a man who reads. He will be interesting. Your romantic dates will be like Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland. Your late night conversation will take hours to end. He will throw ideas and expect you to bounce something back. Brain exercises are not for the lazies.

Don’t date a man who reads. He is fine spending time on his own. He can entertain himself for hours with or without you. A Brief History of Time might be your worst enemy. You might wonder if he is having an affair with Emma or Jane Eyre. You will always have to share his time with books. And, when you work late, he won’t get upset; books will keep him company.

CamMi Pham Dec 22, 2015 · 4 min read

Are you kidding?

So you think dating a dumb, unintelligent fellow is the best. Sisters, please if you are a dating a man, make sure he knows things you don't know, it's super cool. A well read man is an exposed man.

Nobody wants a dumbo

What if, just what if this is scripted to paint ihedioha in a bad light?

allanphash7:
Adekunle Gold o




Simi ooo




Mama Simi o





They are all mad

That's someone's mom you just called mad up there. How do you want your destruction, brand new or imported?

Senseless chyde

daddytime:
The pikin resemble lala

Lala when last were you at ilepo bus stop?

See the useless Murder mouth...she wan throwey the pikin to fit go begin Bleep again.

I declare that womb of yours locked...

Remind me who you are again sir, to declare somebody's womb locked

FatherBona:
"thanks for the acceptability"
Because say her friends list na book of life abi?

"Tank u 4 d acceptance"

iammo:




Valueless boys with zero self worth should take note

The type that writes " thanks for acceptation" on a girls wall

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Nice floor

I need to unlearn several pronunciation