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sexsinners:
is this girl in college?

college violation  happens very often 1 out of every 5 girls will be a victim of  a college violation.
sadly, 12% report it and the rest suffer,so she is not ALONE.

op i hope this helps

simplymary:
This is in no way okay. I feel so bad for her that she had this traumatising experience. However, I'm curious as to how long she knew this guy. I'm also curious to know how exactly she was "tricked" by this guy. Any lady should know that men that are not family members or family friends or the like should have no opportunity to be alone with her. It is imperative that ladies have this habit ingrained in them to avoid situations like this. I am aware that there are also rare cases in which family members and those legitimately worth trusting could take advantage as well. That's when it becomes the fault of the offender, not the lady in question.
But with that being said, could you tell me how long she knew this guy and if they were family or close enough to be family?

freecocoa
link=topic=798598.msg9504795#msg9504795 date=1320742697]I can see you both have only be watching movies like cinderella,prince charming,beauty and the beast,TItanic,romeo and juliet and the likes,you need to stop for a while and watch the ones with names like understanding a man,Beauty and the briefcase,pains of love,why some men are jerks,Heart break,Two can play that game,Waiting to exhale,He lied,I could go on forever,
Tell your friend to not be in a hurry to be in a relationship,she shouldn't let anyone take advantage of her cos she's naïve and don't think high of herself,I'm sure if she had said NO and stuck to it,maybe that guy would respect her more.[/quote]agreed ,my friend said she has learned her lesson and its actually a blessing in disguise.

[quote author=pendo89:
my dear listen. I feel sorry for what happened but I always say nothing new ever happens in this world. This girl grew up in an all girls school you say,well many of us did but we were not very ignorant. I was a closed up person,I completely avoided boys cz I didnt know much about them apart from what I read/heard so I can understand the being naive part.But that doesn't mean you be ignorant.Even biology lessons tell us how boys body's react.
To be safe I never accompanied any guy to his place cz I knew anything could happen. I wasnt an angel.I had read about r-a-p-i-s-t-s and seen movies so I always had that in mind while dealing with boys.Playing safe was my tactic and it helped cz I avoided risky situations as much as possible.
Now I know there's an age where every girl wants to know what lies on the other side.you want to be juliet and him romeo.
I guess that's why she accompanied the dude home. risky.
I hate to imagine what would have happened if she found other men there with him.Nobody dragged her there. A good guy would have let her go but did she even know the guy too well to go into his house? what if he was a murderer?
Upbringing aside.We take risks and they come with consequences. Its unfortunate but let her rise up and move on.The guy is probably plotting for another girl. Responsibility lies with the girl.

freecocoa:
I feel sorry for the girl and that guy is a ra pist,well she just needs to work on her self esteem and make this an experience she should learn from.
But I must say going to an all girls school doesn't mean one won't know a thing about guys(believe me na them know pass),the girl is over naïve for this age and time,doesn't she read books?what has her mum been doing?I mean she must have at one point or another heard boys being discussed. what about movies?I don't believe any girl is totally clueless as to how guys reason.
I'm in no way blaming her but let her not be so in a rush to be someone's girlfriend,she needs to know there are a million guys out there who will love and appreciate her.

yorke:
Just send the gal phone numba 2 my email. I can bust her self-confidence.
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LaShawn:
@all
Thanx all. Yeah, being single is not a crime.
I get you. Well, its not like I planned to introduce the guy as my BF or anything. That would be disrespectful to his woman.
I would only have introduced him as 'a friend' and leave the rest to people's imagination.
Maybe I seem so vain. But I know my ex, he's so vindictive that he'l probably push his g/friend into my nose if was possible.
My idea was more lyk: a cool guy to accompany, and make me look less alone?
But nobody being in support of this idea, makes it less attractive. . . .

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]Now, with the rate at which quantum superfluous threads, such as this one springs up, one cant help but wonder what the f[b]u[/b]ck is moderation all about? You allow threads of such unquantifiable stupidity to run freely, sometimes making the frontpage and when one objects to such threads by vociferously vituperating against such threads, he is sent a "Private Warning". . . R   U   B   B   I   S   H!

What the heck is Romantic about this ludicrous laughable fanciful sensational "Legend of yanshless Naija babes?" This is a sign of psychosis in its elemental stages!

This thread is a FUNNY JOKE, and should belong to the JOKES section, where the laughs rightly belong to! I wont be surprised though, if this comment is deleted and this thread moved to the front page. Yes! That's what they do! These kind of threads may look funny and may seem to drive traffic to this site, but for real, when NAIRALAND becomes a BIG FAT JOKE. . . Well. . .


This thread reeks of stupidity, and the MODS know this! It is hypocritical to ban people for bypassing the word filter, and for derailing threads, when in actual fact threads like this one, that can best be described as "Derailing the Romance section" is left, without any sanctions imposed nor any control measures effected, against this rambunctiousness!

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ObiomaA:
Yall shud 4gave me plz.

iv4real:
The so called bad girls are usually free spirited and find it easy to blend with guys ,hence easier for them to mix with guys and eventually get married. But most of these good girls are very uptight, stuck in their ways. They give themselves unnecessary standards and guidelines they have to follow anything that goes beyond that they are not interested. Attracting a man goes beyond attending church regularly, being anti social, knowing how to cook, being a virgin.

Imanuelle:
u go serious wen u turn 45, who told u virgginity will make a guy marry you

if he likes u, then he does, if he doesnt, virgginity wont make him stay.

UncleN:
Wow, so what makes you "virgins" morally better than non-virgins whom you look down on, if by the time you eventually get married at least 5 boyfriends has seen you Unclad, sucked your kitty, received blow.jobs from you, etc



Bros, una see am so, who can we trust, the world don finish

Women dammit, necessary evil

pro01:
^^
If the "markings" of a man's mouth (and perhaps teeth) can be washed away from the bosoms, I'm sure a girl can also wash away 'markings' of the pernis from her kitty. I don't know of any pernis that leaves permanent graffiti in a girl's kitty. As far as I'm concerned, a girl can't claim 'virgin goodness' if she's been with guys that saw her Unclad, sucked her unmentionables red, squeezed everything squeezable, licked everything lickable, and perhaps even received MouthAction sef. She's the same as any other girl that engages in penetrative sex. We seem to overrate penetrative/coital sex as if that is all there is to the matter.

Buahaha. Wetin person no go see for this place. Funny niggaz.

UncleN:
Because Nigerian men can see through the ladies. According to a lot of Nigerian men, Female Nigerian virgins are very very very good in handjobs, mouthaction and sucking, they are even better at this than the pro's and so-called bad girls, and there is no hole in their body that men are not allowed to penetrate.

They do everything but reserve the vagi,na for their future Husbands. WHO ARE THEY FOOLING WITH THAT KAIN FAKE HOLINESS They allow different boyfriends to tap current, suck their bosoms, finger them, give mouthaction as long as the dude promises not to go all the way so they can retain their virgin status SO WHY ARE THEY SURPRISED THEY ARE REMAINING ON THE SHELF

Konnektions146:
the supposed bad girls are smarter and fun, though i dont know how to really term a lady--BAD.

but the church/quiet ladies are just dull and most time overdo things, thus scare guys away,