₦airaland Forum

kelz88: Why didn't you just bite his dickkk?? How old are you?! You should know better!

biting would be a bad idea when you know he is very capable of beating you. 19 it was my first date my first encounter with a guy i was not related to alone.

how could i have known better if i have never been told or taught about these situation. boys were never a discussion in my household, i was quiet so i didn't make much frds to know of these things. i was just misinformed.

tv shows are also misleading it wasn't a happy ending like the tv shows.

even the bible screwed me over, god said to not judge i didn't judge. i gave him a chance , i trusted him. he forced himself on me. i said stop but he didn't listen.


i advice african parents to not be scared of talking about boys and sex with their daughters.if they had told me about these types of guys i wouldn't of been so confused or misinformed.

doe-eyed:
Doll, I abeg u o!!,
Please make u no commit murder o.
Simply not worth it.
U feel violated, yes, reporting as ra..pe may not necessarily help if u r in Naija.

Talking it through wt a counsellor or trusted friend may help.

But pls stop this ulcer getting deeper in your soul. Exhale and let go!!

thank you i will try that. i am planning to see a counselor this week.



i will exhale, i am even going to church a lot. i am asking god to help me get through.

tiniyata: you're just suffering from PSTD, Post Sucking Traumamatic Disorder or you're prolly deranged. u berra put yourself together before you chop off his shaft

i want to chop off his shaft

izeek: You can choose to let it go, or holdup that anger and do somethinf "silly" like u said.

However I must let you knw that its ur choice and u'r responsible for ur actions.......wch includes sucking him by the way!

your right it was my choice,but he yelled and yelled at me. and wouldn't leave unless i did it.i was scared, shy,and manipulated. didn't know what i should do.didn't even know about guys back then.i told him NO,but he wouldn't listen,he just kept on yelling.

he made me feel weak and now i want to show him i am not weak anymore.he was strong i was not. now i want to make him the victim.


i want to let go,but it just keeps on occurring, i just never knew someone could be so evil to do such a thing to a sweet person. i wanna show him i will not be a victim anymore.

i told him to stop but he didn't,he said to just tell him i did,but he didn't stop. i made many excuses as possible for him to stop.but he didn't stop

to the point that i just lost all feelings in my body and did not care what happened to me.


i blamed myself for awhile not until someone on nairaland. told me it wasn't my fault,and that i was just not use to being in situations like that,so i didn't know what to do at the time.

please mods don't make this topic front page. i just need a few answer.

well before i was very naive and clueless about men , i was also very shy and weak.
i bump into two different guys who tried to sleep with me.luckily i was too shy ,to see the first one. the second one trapped me and manipulate me into giving him a Mouth Action, i cried for hours after.

i just left without saying nothing, i never showed my anger to the second one, i pretended i was okay,when i was not.each day i held in this anger , i have even made plots in my mind to murder him. i try the forgive forget method,but i just cannot forget. i can't talk to him now because i blocked him.plus it will be stupid to re add him on twitter.b4 i blocked him he has asked me to come see him again but i always made excuses on why i couldn't . i never said no cause i wasn't strong enough back then to say no.


the question is how do i get over this.

i am scared that one day if i ever see him, i may end up taking the anger that i held on for so long,and kill him with the closes available object infront of everybody . i have images like tht all the time in my head and i enjoy them,but i hate that the fact i would like to do that.

unfortunately we go to the same school,but by gods luck i have not seen him since the only one time we met.

i really want to get rid of this anger,before i do something stupid.




each day i wonder should i have yelled at him, told him how i feel.

Agreed nigerian men are evil cruel monsters.

lefulefu:
op i disagree with number 4.
most virgins wey i don see wowor die

you foolish men,you call them wowo,cause they will give u no nyash.

i will like to lay down some facts ,that some of you people may not know,even thought we were all virgins before/

1. Virgins are not clueless about sex, (we know about it ,probably even more than you).

2. Virginity doesn't mean your Holy.Some people just do not want to get laid .(yet they are capable of stealing,lying and doing every other sin in the bible.)

3.Virginity doesn't mean i will not like to show off my body.(Hey i like to dress sexy,with tight ,short clothes,but that does not mean i will open my legs for you.)

4.Virginity does not mean i am ugly,( i just don't feel like sleeping with you without a commitment).

5.virgins are strong ,( the will to say no to temptation is very hard)

6.virgins are proud.

7.virgins can laugh at and tell dirty jokes( i do that all the time)

8.Virgins do flirt,and play around.( doesn't mean i will open my legs for you, i just want to have a fun conversation).

9.most virgins do not have clean thoughts,(probably even worse then yours,because some of us wonder about sex all the time.)

10.Finally,virgins are awesome .




so if your planning to date one keep these things in mind,were not in the 18th century where virgins were covered and holy, were in the 21 century where people can be who they want to be.

this is true women give nigerian guy chances ,and the nigerian guys screw it up.once they try a nigerian guy once they never try it again.

claremont:
If you are confident that you didn't paste any n-ude pictures of yourself online, then you have nothing to worry about. People use photoshop for all sorts of things nowadays, even celebrities get photoshopped. It's not very difficult to tell a picture that has been photoshopped, and a real one.

i feel so much better thank you.

Mynd_44:
Why should you let some ahole tell you how to live your life?

i dunno i am just scared.

is it even possible to paste a persons head on a naked body.

deavicky:
are you sure you did not mistakly took a picture nacked maybe in course of play with your boyfriend . pls say the truth

no i have non ,but he said he was going to take my head and paste it on a naked persons body. is tht even possible?

thanks for the help

haven't found the right guy ,get hit on by to many weirdos, and i always end up meeting stupid men.

lol i love this onila

theres nothing wrong with getting married at thirty ,life isn't all about marriage, make sure you have a job that can support your kids before u think about marriage . were not in grannys time anymore where your in the village and have zero opportunity,but marriage.

there is no excuse for cheating

Vicjustice:
Very few foreigners who have had a romance with Nigerian men would have something good to say about them, and even these ones who would say good about the Nigerian men often do so out of naivety and ignorance: the vast majority of Nigerian men are considered with these reputations; liars, boastful, untrustworthy, noisy, cheaters, unreasonable, pompus, bragging, unfaithful, intolerant.
   Aren't these true about most Nigerian men?
Now, i'm waiting for your insults

agreed, i dated one once and will never date one again. it's a big eye opener. in order for me to go for 1 again he must not be from nigeria and he must act normal.

i go for mali guys now,most are sweet and honest.

Well,my cousin is 26 years old, went after a 40 something year old married man. The married man left his wife and kids for my cousin. my cousin and him got married and had one baby girl who is now 1 years old. The cheater left to Nigeria and my cousin recently got the news that he is with another women.

karma is real. don't go after married men.

High_Chief:
Who cares if you re still a virgin, maybe you made out with him

still doesn't give him the bloody right to say we Bleep for 5 hours. because we didn't his private part never entered mine.
you can't say you bleeped someone if u didn't go all the way.

well today i rejected a guy,then he spread a rumor that me and him Bleep for 5 hours then he dumped me. Yet am still a virgin.

i hate boys.

what do you girls honestly see in guys that are 15-20 years older than you? what makes you attracted to them

Dgunnerz:
OP,you like older guys or younger once?

older guys but not ones that are 20 -15 years older. they are wayyyyy past my time

am 20 and am not looking for a 45 to date eww no you should be married already.

you old creepy men .old enough to be my father, keep on eyeing me, your wayyyy past my time. your not at my level , and no you can't pass as young.
why can't you find someone in your own age group.
when girls say they like older guys they mean 5-7 years older  not 20-15 years older yuck!!

Orikinla:
[size=28pt]The best time to marry has nothing to do with age, but when you are ready.
If you ready at 22, go ahead and marry.
If you are ready at 40, go ahead and marry.
But if you are going to marry and later harass the rest of the society with your ill-bred children, PLEASE SPARE US THE HORRORS AND TERRORS OF YOUR BAD MARRIAGE.

I know the social and family problems the church and charity centres have to address everyday.
The problems of bad marriages are the worst cases.

The majority of the unhappy couples bearing miserable children who become anti-social delinquents of the lunatic fringe populating mostly underdeveloped countries like Nigeria are those who were not ready for marriage.

Marriage is best when you are ready to start your family.
It is evil and wicked to bring innocent children into an insecure environment like Nigeria where the house has fallen. I feel sorry for all those who are marrying and bearing children in Nigeria today. The future of majority of them is very bleak.[/size].

thank you orikinla

i dunno why everyone is in a rush to marry, Gods time is the best time.
if God doesn't give me any man i now i will feel secure for me and my children,then i guess i wasn't destined to marry.

the photo of the dead girl is actually from CONGO, and she is a victim of war.

ofcourse i don't believe this is real, there is no published document for it. it's just rumors.

poor girl i hope she clears the story,her parents must be pissed

Adetayo100:
u can get married when u like but at 36 u will be an expired product by then

lol am not living in nigeria , i am in the western country. expired lol yeah right i know a lot of women who got married in their 30s am fine, thank you

2buff:
This sexkillz na proper faggit boy sha. 
Bros, Why do you feel everything she posts is for you?
You had better stop fighting your inner-betch and give babe that master's chain I talked about earlier cuz it's obvious you're obsessed with her.


As for this
Then please do nothing but take the slaps forever. No stop am O. No be your face? 
I hope she puts powder on her hand first each time

lol inner betch poor sexkillz

lol i will never marry at 20 years thts flippin insane, i am noit even ready for kids and i stilll depend on my mommmy.

only village girls are ready to marrry at 16 they don't reallly have anything else to do.

i will get married at 36 ,yes it's possible