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True talk @op......but we can't stop using now.......cos we like been hit wit passion

Heeeeuuuuu.......dis world is gradually metamorphosing into DOOM

Thanks op......but wen u have a son...remember to tell him never to disvirgin any girl in name of love and to say no to sex b4 marriage......dis way we can have more ladies getting married as virgins.

Born2eatPussy:
This woman go sabi give better blow-job

I sorry 4 u....u need jesus asap

Born2eatPussy:
This woman go sabi give better blow-job

I sorry 4 u....

Stupidity at its peak....d last time I checked he didn't ask anybody to trek for him.....una just won exersice craze.

On their way to prison...dey re very strong and active......on their way back......dey wil be old full of grey hair and a wooden walking stick.I don't envy ur transformation agenda

seunlayi:
that is what they are good at but when it comes to the real thing, they will start crying like baby

u dey there?....did u witness d crying?

R.I.p dear friends......sometimes I wonder wat dis life is about.....wats d use of coming wen one day we all wil die.......and d misery there is dat no one knows wen and how...................am sure if someone had told dem dey won't get to their destination dey wud have swear for d person........everyday we keep getting closer to d grave.........wat is dis life R.I.p dear friends......sometimes I wonder wat dis life is about.....wats d use of coming wen one day we all wil die.......and d misery there is dat no one knows wen and how...................am sure if someone had told dem dey won't get to their destination dey wud have swear for d person........everyday we keep getting closer to d grave.........wat is dis life

Why only neco....wat about other exams?

Dats gud....he rocks

Aunty uche is not smiling...congrates to her

D hunter is been hunted......lols....God don catch am....don't give him o...afteral u bought it with ur money.

Dats great o....unlike our dear country where people are been discriminated.some even think its a death sentence......great move zuma

ProfessorD:
Boobs (moderate perky,firm)
Ass (must not be too black, soft)
Lips (as red as crimson, not cracky)
Nose (pointed)
Face (oval, must be finer than nadia sa)
Hips (should be 3 cm away from waist)
Legs (40 inches)
Tummy (flatttttttt!)
Hands (no muscles)
Skin (smooth firm and light)
Skull (no long ogor)
Shape (hour glasss)
Hair (blonde, black no other)
Just to mention a few

only u?.....smh..contact baba God he will package it for u just as u've listed

MRBrownJ:
there is no guarantee to that, but if we are now focus on guarantees and desperation because of body clock, INSTEAD OF love and being with someone that you can DIE for, then really....... whats the point of getting married then?



yet, in your mind, if "Gods blessings" dont come after 7yrs, you must look elsewhere?! what if it was "Gods decision" that this union dont have money, does that means this lady should go for greener pastures?



dont you think that a lady should confirm what page her man his on before "assuming" that marriage after 7yrs is INEVITABLE, as the OP wrote?
remember, they never talked about marriage before.



so what you are now saying is that not having money is ok so long as there is marriage? but what if someone DESIRES to have some financial stability before they get married and start a family, would you say it is wrong? why should it automatically be the desperate women's way and nothing else?!

although getting married could be free in 9ja, we all know what "getting married" in 9ja means. you ladies want the big wedding so you can boast to the whole world that you are "seemingly" happy, even if you aint. it is women's insecurity and desperation that have all of you act foolishly in the name of marriage.

if you REALLY love someone (as the OP said she did) then she wouldnt really care if they were married or not, and she would certainly "understand" her man.....and wait for him to be ready for marriage (why the rush anyway, if not body clock pressure?). just because she is ready after 7yrs, does NOT mean everyone should be. since when is 7yrs the benchmarks on dating limits before marriage? it is insecurity and desperation that have all you women marry the 1st donkeys out there, and then be miserable all your lives, instead of being reasonable about the issue. they both dreamed of a good job for 7 long yrs and, out of desperation, she now want them to marry (and subsequently have children) even if their goals are not met. yet you people are blaming the guy for sticking to their lifelong goals, haba!

no wonder the saying goes:" some women out there are just good at KILLING A MAN'S DREAM AND ASPIRATIONS!

lol....who knows if u re d guy sef....dis ur defending means something

Tallesty1:
Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.


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it happened in d time of of our forefathers....and its still happening now......it has been a part of us from day 1.

MRBrownJ:
you didnt have to create a new profile just to reply to this thread (or ask me this silly question), you should have just be quiet instead, lol!
you see i dont sugarcoat shiit on NL, take my words for what they are and nothing more, whether you like it or die trying. my words are good for my sister, my mother or anyone related to me.

@thread
see as all you people are telling this confused lady to leave simply because you are all deluded with body clock and desperation to marry AT ALL COST, without for one second talking of what is important in life before you should remotely consider marrying anyone: LOVE/AFFECTION!!!!
here you lot are telling this lady to marry any of the donkeys (suitors) that are bothering her, then you will be the ones telling she is stupid when she open a thread a few yrs down the line because the man she married despises her guts and only used her in order to quench the pressures of marriage from family/church/friends etc.

then no wonder so many clueless men and women are marrying donkeys and thereafter curse the opposite gender because the person they married treated them like garbage.

if i ask all you deluded women (and men) if a man, who dont have a dime to call his own, can marry a lady, then you will all raise your arms and cry foulplay, but yet because this couple has spent 7yrs together, you now believe that they MUST marry, ahahahahahaha you bunch of hypocrites. this man hasnt even saved a mere $5000 (₦1million) to call his own, and you want this man to go and marry without a dime... of all places in 9JA.

desperate women would always try to cut corners in order to satisfy their desperate state of mind. see how the OP clearly wrote that: marriage was NEVER discussed, and that it was what she BELIEVED was inevitable.....now, body clock is ticking and you are here talking another language because of desperation (trying to force the guy to marry at all costs). the guy tells her what his stand on the issue is, and you now blame the guy for the situation.

i hate to be the bearer of bad news but you people should stop taking men for donkeys....as if we cant make any proper intelligent decision any longer just because we have spent 7yrs with a lady?! highly laughable!

and wats d guarantee dat after making d millions he will not dumb her and marry someone else?...we know ur type....millions can't be achieved with hard work alone its only gods blessing and favour dat last a life time......am not just insupport of a lady waiting for a guy dats not on dsame page with her wen it comes to marriage.millions can come anytime wether married or not...it depends on ur destiny......if u like work from now till 50years if u arnt destined to make millions u won't make it.

D way forward shud be d koko nw for Apc.......getting tired of stories already

Wat will a responsible human beign be doing in a kai-kai joint even wen dey knw its dangerous to health......fly wey no dey hear word go follow corpse enter grave.

MRBrownJ:
@believer01

A) for 7yrs you guys were seemingly happy with the r/ship you had... what status have you achieved today that makes you think that you must "upgrade" this r/ship to marriage?! do any of you guys have the GOOD JOB that you were dreaming about while dating for 7yrs?

B) sadly, many foolish Nigerians believe that having millions in their account will lead the way to a great union.....while we all know this is BS. it has all to do with 9ja men egos and how it will make them feel much better if they can (at least) AFFORD all the bs that comes with marrying someone in 9ja, aka expensive glitzy wedding to portray yourselves as a successful loving couple (even if they aint).

C) if you knew all along that he didnt believe in early marriage, why are you trying to change him now?

D) how often do you expect him to visit your family? shouldnt he do that whenever he feels like it?! he has already told you that he is going to do whats right "in due time", so you probably should stop trying to con/trick him into a corner with your family.

as for your questions:



yes you should! dont you "LOVE" him?! you guys have already discussed the issue, so chill..... if you cant then you could always move on with your life with someone as desperate as you to get married.



what you wrote above is a CLEAR indication that you have NO IDEA what love means.... so pls stop talking of what you do NOT know. if you loved your man, there is NO WAY you would have written the above stoopidity.



so you understand him so well but yet dont understand why he asks you to wait until he will be ready for marriage?! why are you contradicting yourself? you dont understand the man because if you did, you wouldnt have opened this thread.



then why dont you go and marry one of his friends?! lol! whether money is enough or NOT, is not the issue here....the issue is that it is his CHOICE, so stand by it, instead of comparing him with other people. you cant even stand by that man's choices and yet you are here talking about love and/or marriage. you have NO concept of what it takes to marry someone, especially when you are here comparing your lives with that of others.



oh lawd!!!!!! and you have the audacity to say you love the guy............. i guess its a selfish love where only your insecure self matters, right?



here is what you should do....... sit down, ask yourself what is the priority in your life TODAY, and if that man can give you what you desire TODAY. if he can then great, but if he cant then ask yourself if you can wait for it or not. if you cant wait for it then move on with your life and go marry the 1st donkey you will meet.

why is it into u as such?....is d man in question ur relative?....and am also sure if she happen to be ur sister u 'll tell her these?