aminalib: lmao, sorry, well then just be a good friend and see what happens, but strange things happen in life, this guy could end up going back to her if she takes him back,

aminalib: umhhm u want him to be happy, well maybe when him and his girl get back together he will be happy, why do u not encourage him to work things out with the ex,

Daresh: OP let me give you good advice, he wont change so pack your bags and run. If you dont want to have a broken marriage or spend your nights crying, I advice you to end it now. I made that mistake of thinking things will change in marriage but sweetie it doesnt. My husband even knelt down to beg me when I caught him but did that change him? Dont think you are too old or anything like that because believe me marriage is just the beginning of a very long journey and if he doesnt have your best interests now, what will happen in 5 yrs? 10yrs, 30 yrs? Just accept that you've wasted time on him and dont waste anymore or I assure you, you will cry more. Cut out NOW. Tell your family, especially your mum and Dad and let them knowwhat has bn going on. Dont let anyone sweet talk you into staying, I assure you he is lying.

GL: @ poster,

your pastor is married, that's wrong. you recently separated from your husband, why would you want to break up another family? just forget about him, there are many single men waiting to be loved.




what's dumb is wanting another woman's husband.

~Killz~:

All that is in the past now. They've broken up for a month now without communication. If he cared a bit about her, he'd have called her and sorted their communication issues. He doesn't want her. . . Simples! And i can bet my laptop charger that he wanted out of the relationship, but did not have the effrontery to confront her about it. So, her calling him and ending it was a welcome development. If she calls him and he agrees to her terms, he'll only be doing so out of pity, and will be preparing to dump her arse in the nearest future! For real. . .

Look! She did not like parabolic trajectory the relationship was taking, she called his attention to it, and he did NOTHING about it. Will you personally want to be in a relationship where it looks like you are talking to the wind? It's her right to get angry. He's not just any random dude, but the one she takes special. Some people can die for Valentines day. She could be one of them. How come he never knew the kind of girl she is all these while? Why did he not call or even text her? Do you really believe that a man would be too busy to call or text a lady he claims to really love, on a day important to her as Valentine, and not have compunctions over it?

He doesn't care. She shouldn't make him a priority if she is just an option to him. . .

~Killz~:

Make him your "ex" with immediate alacrity. . .

slimyem: bad breath or body odour-

chioms4me: a stingy guy n a guy wit mouth or body odour