1dorzine:


Are you a student or graduate? Do you have a skill? You can try getting a job.

The only skill I think I have is writing articles fluently in Yoruba. I’m a very good basketball player too and I’m a graduate.

OvertheTop:



At that Age (27),

You need to be More Responsible.

You need to Respect Your Father and Never Challenge his Authority. (Don't Talk when he is Talking) even if he Accuses You, politely convince him Later that You did not pick it.

Your Solution:
Guy, learn a computer digital Skill / a hand Skill and get Employed....(don't mix up with Fraud or Walk with people (in Fraud))
Then, rent a small Accommodation for yourself (mini flat). (stop all this wasteful behavior: booking Hotels, buying expensive phones etc.)
be Frugal with your Money( learn to start Small)

see...guys...of your Age...A lot of them at Massively into tech!
You can do the Same...and have the potential to Travel Abroad Legitimately and make your Mother/Father Proud!
your family will be so proud of you...they will want to identify with you always.....
You can do this!

Please can you guide me through all these sir
God bless you

akinsmyk:


It’s just so unfortunate how you guys had given other meanings to words. I don’t know to hustle now means yahoo. There are guys that left their village and towns to work as wash men at car wash before they got other things doing.

You should be the one to clean your mindset coz even yahoo doesn’t comes to my mind while typing that. I’m a graduate and I drive on Uber which pays me more than even some bank jobs. So what are you saying exactly? Isn’t what I do hustling?

When I began, I was sleeping in my car for a few months before I saved up to rent an apartment.

I will like you to guide me sir
God bless

Kaypeeboss:

Na only you make sense here,apart From the fact that Yahoo boiz have Made it look like if you have an iPhone then you are a Yahoo boy,bro if you like the camera quality,the speed and the shape and you can afford it,nur be to buy am??bro na you Bleep up pass,as long as you were able to buy an iPhone ,rent a self contain in another neighborhood ,abi you dae fear to stay alone.coz I'm a CPA marketer,an indie author with Amazon and several other online biz that keeps me at home.As e begin cause issue with my parents,I jejely move to another state

I will like u to guide me and work with you sir
God bless u

Worldlegend:
At 27 you shouldn't be at the family house, I deliberately left family house at the age of 15, I was not having common money to use to buy water and soap that time to bath... But today it's a good testimony I left home that day
...

You also need to improve your writing skill as a graduate..

Find something to start doing ASAP

Please share me ideas on what to do

osayuwamwen:
From all the writeup shows you are irresponsible at 27yrs, you even say you smuggle petroleum products to cotonu as a business show high level of irresponsibility.
You staying in your father's house is not the issue, it's abt you been jobless, you can afford an expensive iPhone and monthly subscription and can't even afford to establish a little business for yourself or learn a skill, misplaced priorities.
I was 25yrs when I took my single mom at from rented apartment build a house on her land, I live with her for 2years plus while I was building another house for my self, I will be 30yrs next month, I have a house, a car for myself and also the house i build for my mom, when I started earning small small money i didn't rushout to rent a house like what most people would have done, I was patient to plan my life out. Your daddy loves you that's why he's trying to fix you in the right part, if at 27 you nor get any plan for your life my brother things will not get soft even in your 30s or 40s, by now your dad suppose they enjoy the fruit of his labor

Please can you share me ideas on what you do or if I could come work with you ?

fineboynl:
did you still later go home? Or you stayed behind?

I stayed behind

TheRealOwner:


After what happened to you, it should be very clear to you how your mother died and the circumstances surrounding her death.

Quick question. Is your father an illiterate?

Yes sir ..

Awoleesu:


Omo ki lo nso gaan??
I found it difficult to comprehend your narration...

Try and improve your communication skills, then would you find an iPhone more useful!

That’s how far I can write.. your own is to try to get my points. You can’t tell me you couldn’t pronounce a word there na

1dorzine:


I'll advise you focus on moving out the house, you also sound like you don't have a hold of your life. Also the previous business you were doinh doesn't sound like a legal one, hence forget that and loom for something legitimate to do either online or offline.

Long story short, get a hold of your life and leave the house to start your own life independently.

I don’t know where to start from.

Goldie16:

For your own good, DON'T TRUST YOUR STEP MOTHER.
Respect her, but I forbid you from trusting her ever again. If you continue this your naivity of trusting people, you'll land your destiny in big soup.
Pikin wey nor get mama dey wise, them nor dey trust people at all. I don't know why your own case is so different.
Are you the first son? Let me know, so that I can advise you further.

Yes I’m the first son of the family.

SarkinYarki:
What are you doing in your dad's house at 27

I don’t have enough money to move

InformationTV:


ONLY YOU can make the decision to stay or go back home.

You should be able to tell yourself THE TRUTH about The Real Life Situations which you are faced with.



Money Stops Nonsense:

However, your problem here is that you are 27 Years and You are still with Your Dad. He expects you to be doing financially better by now.


It's High time You Moved Out of The House to a place of your own.

This is exactly what he wants, so get yourself Financially Independent and Location Free.


Sadly, you are not monetarily buoyant and here lies the Ultimate Problem between You and Your Dad.


So, Get Money.

PS:

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Please how can reach u sir

YeyeGbami:


Enter street go hustle don't have to be yahoo, at that age he suppose don dey inside life sinceee.

Please link me up with any hustle cuz rn I don’t know where to start from

tonididdy:
That your papa na Igbo man, I know

Yorubadman he is

TheLoneCitizen:
Sorry for asking brother, Lucasmuyiwaa, but how did your late mother pass away?

My Dad and Mom had quarrel and divorced when we were small and she died 2013 from fibroid sickness.

kekakuz:
At 27, my dad was complaining that my ewedu soup was not as good as the one a woman from my neighborhood use to make for him.
He insulted me in many ways than one.
I thought to myself. At my age , should I be learning how to make ewedu for my dad or should I be doing exploit with my life.
One months after, I informed him I was moving out. He thought i was joking .
I moved out. 4 months after I came to greet him with my car . The rest is history.
My guy settle with him and move out immediately.

Please carry me along in whatever you’re into .
God bless you

grossintel:
He is a bad boy at 27 them dey seize em phone, are you normal like this ? Boys his age are getting married and having children. At that age I was already living in a 3 bedroom flat and got my first car a year later. I think there is something wrong with the OP, because respect is reciprocal and from his post I can see they don’t respect each other to begin with.

Please carry me along.

grossintel:
He is a bad boy at 27 them dey seize em phone, are you normal like this ? Boys his age are getting married and having children. At that age I was already living in a 3 bedroom flat and got my first car a year later. I think there is something wrong with the OP, because respect is reciprocal and from his post I can see they don’t respect each other to begin with.

Yes you’re right ...
He doesn’t respect me a bit and shoots at me. So all these things gave me liver to start limiting my respect when he starts wahala .

dewiseacre:
This story sounds like a Nollywood movie where your step mother, though unassuming, will confess one day as being behind all the issues in your family.

I don’t trust her too

NwaEzefuNaMba:
I hate how people have already concluded that your father hates you, even though they just read a side of the story.
If as a father, you could watch your child live above his means simply because he's 27, then you are a part of the problem we have today.

The OP is Jobless, maybe the type that stay indoor 24/7 but keep spilling cash. The father have every right to be angry with him.

But, what do I even know.

You’re right cuz I stay indoor 24/7 but not everyday.

Vipro:
What course did you study?as in,your qualifications.

I studied local government studies sir.

If you’re planning to get me a work please I’m very ready sir.

subsidywise18:


OP....so you are one of those people who take our subsidized petrol out of the country and sell to people in Benin republic, at our expense.

That's a big reason why Nigeria cannot fund its budget adequately. We lose billions subsiding petrol for people in other countries.

Abeg talk for matter wey dey ground

Zaheertyler:

Lol ajebo
At 27 your papa never Dey give you your respect even if you Dey him house lol
You know say na lie you no fit clear am say why him go Dey lie against you ..why him go even sieze phone way you buy self
You suppose Dey clear the man with respect
Him go Dey give you your way
But you be ajebo sha

Omo...Na so but I don komot that Ajebo zone since. But my father don’t even care any thing

frozen70:


Pls don't go to that house tonight

I don't know who to trust between your dad and your step mom

Just go with a friend tomorrow listen to their talk, turn back to where you came from

Meanwhile apologies to him and that's all

Even if they ask you to stay or come back home, just tell them that you need a break

From that moment, start seeing yourself like a visitor in that house

As a matter of fact, let them whole family start missing you

As you go, start finding your bearing

Your journey to freedom and success have started

I can’t wait to see positive result if I leave that house.
Thank you very much sir

SHINJA:



Shut up abeg dey yarn trash . even Bible talk say mk parents no provoke dem pikin...

Which kind papa go dey insult him late wife and dey call her pikin bastard,want even kill am..

Na God go judge I swear.

WondaBeauty:



Like i said earlier, go back home and talk with ur stepmother if you trust her that much and still respect enough.


But you have to also let them know that you won't live there anymore after the issue is settled.


Let ur father know that you are man now and need to plan ur own life and family.



I guess that you aren't bringing anything to the table and thats why you're treated this way by ur father.
(nigerian parents at good at this).

Yes you’re right.
Thanks brother

neonly:


Do u know d kind of sacrifice yur dad endure to raise you to d point where u can afford a phone common it just a phone
U hurt him but you might no know d kind gravity
He probably showing off indirectly to yur step mum dat my children listen to me etc
Yes if you were staying in yur own place d case wound be different but wait his house his rules
My own dad was still beating with correct slap even though I was staying in my own house till I got d age of 38
Bro's it was just a phone you could have saved again to buy another one
It shows u are rude
U try dat my late papa u are done
What yur did was bad accept and try to build trust and d bridge between you and yur dad back OK

Thank you very much my bro

Vincyman:
Your Dad got hatred for you I guess , bro don't go back this night, find a good day and go back. Then u give him apology. After that, you can then move on with ur life

Thank you so much brother.

Goldbw122:
Hmm this one na small thing, thank God that you did not get injured, your father angry is something else.

Find something doing, a job, just find something doing that will make you go to work every day, going early and coming late at night, so that he will see you less, and be fond of you less, talk with your stepmother to see how the progress will go... Then if the conversation go fine, go home but if not find a friend place to stay for a moment, like a friend place, and move again to rent your apartment.. well any way for find something doing a work... So that your father will earn your respect..

But what if I haven’t find something doing physically can I still leave the house for him still?

Because I sell and buy bulk bitcoin and he doesn’t know about that that’s why he feel I’m just sleeping and not working.

eniolorunfe:
Enough drama for one day. Make everybody rest!

Go and see them tomorrow or even weekend sef and after the discussions leave. I think it’s time you get your own place… see finish don enter una mata.

God bless you sir.

chatinent:
You dey hawk “so?”

Na so so so so so I dey read.

Modified pls