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MrDevice:
My rented apartment was burgled last week and this happens to be the first ever since the house was built.

My flat not the first, but they ignored others and start with mine, and they gone away with valuables worth million before they burgled other occupants of the house and left with some valubles too.

So I'm currently planning to move to another safer place. The owner of the house said I should provide new Tennant that he will refund some part of my money.

The agent who's bringing them already knows why I want to leave but he's telling, I'm moving out because or work transfer.

My concern now is that, i don't know the security situation of where I'm going because agents lies too much. Could it be it's going be from frying pan to fire for me. Should I stay back to put our street security in order, or I should move out?

And who are you to put your street security in order when you no be landlord.

Abeg komot that street and find another street no be only one street dey.

SARSCoV2:
But you disrespected 3 women without getting married to them.


Hommie just feels like a saint when high on Marijuana

What are we saying and what are you saying

ntipro:
You want to learn sex education, why don't you go for books instead of porn sites?
Excess materials are on that subject

Wow please recommend a book for me and I’m buying right away from online library.

Ay04z:
Eba

Chai Eba with egusi or Okra soup ?

blazingblender:
Mostly data
And suya

Data is good bit is it everyday you eat suya

Since when I’ve been seen little money I’ve never stopped to invest in Sporty and 2gb data for 2 days.

Bet me I finish 2gb data in just few hours and all I do is just keep buying airtime from my bank and funding my Sportybet account steadily steadily if I loose a match.

Before you attack me , let me tell you that it’s this sportybet that gave me 900k like film trick. Money wey I never see before so I bought three used bajaj bikes for people to use and do transport and deliver my money per week.

I use most of my weekly income to play Sportybet and do data everyday like 4K to 5k and I don’t even spend much on foods and drinks but just my 1k loud sometimes and eat when I feel like cuz I don’t really get hungry.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Try bangbros..or porn hub..x x x is just the lowest you can go..peace..

Oh thanks cumrade.

Tell the sales girl to give you one Vaseline and midnight sub 3gb.

Since morning I’ve been less busy and want to learn free sex education online and thank God I learnt a lot today from the site prescribed for me.

But I still need some more sex education sites from the gurus here.

I’ve gone through all the famous sex experts profile and they really did a good job most especially Rome Major and Logan Long.

I’ve also watched some tutorials on XNXX like Latina Deep throat a Bbc, Harmony Rose first time Facial and Ebony Bbw hog tied.

To the Cumrades in the house please let me know some other good sites to have sex education and some good lecturers.

Your present boyfriend you just met said you are free to go and meet ur ex and you self don’t love the guy already ... Gbemidebe �

It’s either love never develop inside both of you for each other or that your new boyfriend don’t even love you too but just normal relationship he want to have with you wey no care to break anytime.

MrBrownJay1:
your current bf aint the "right" one, he is just the current toto warmer....but then again, what you have for the ex is genuine love/care, and as much as he is no good, you gave a few years of your life to him, thus it will take a while to get him off your skin.

TIME is all you need to forget your ex. so take your time and eventually you will find someone right for you.... but whatever you do, NEVER EVER go back to your ex.

Why she can’t go back to her ex. He go kill her ?

zexy2030:
What's your birthdate?

Person say make you advise am you’re asking of her age. Oya she’s 50 years old.

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL members.. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

You broke up with your ex because he don’t want you to control him in the relationship but you want to stand like bread winner of the relationship and you seem stubborn too.

Well In more time you will start forgetting ur ex no matter how long.

Because you are the one giving ur ex money now he should turn himself to woman and let you be controlling him abi ?

Your ex too will want to act as a man because he can’t loose financially and still loose as a man.

You wanted to break up with ur ex before now but broke boys know how to f**k and show extra caring sometimes maybe when you dash him like 3k and you self will start blushing sheepishly when he start calling you sweet names then u forget he had slapped you earlier that week lol.

So this your new relationship you feel like you can’t control it because this guy seem to be financially okay pass you. and two Kings no fit dey palace.

Your ex too will also be missing you but you don’t see his mind and himself don’t know you feel like this too.

If he’s still broke and still not working he will even miss you more and want you to come back because of all those chicken change you give am chai ! Lazy ass ex of yours lol He is someone like me but me I still dey see small small change without anybody support but my work na lazy work and I expect to hit it big soon.

Now your present boyfriend is telling you that you’re free to go and meet your ex ? He want to play maturity to you but what if he doesn’t even love you too because he is someone’s ex too and probably still have feelings for her and can’t get along with you too lol

Well if you still have the chance to talk to your ex call him and fix a place to see him but just pray make e never make am big pass you like this because he no go hear ur word again and probably might have been in another relationship with another girl giving him money.

Since you seem to really love him and he’s your heart desire and Na you know what you see in him for loving him so much even though he’s broke.

If God permits you to reconcile with him just forget your present boyfriend because you’re not destined together since you don’t love him and the fool too telling you you’re free to go and reconcile with your ex Lol ..Na scope e dey use himself no like you or he’s tired of hearing your conversations about your ex.

Meanwhile, your present boyfriend might love you and have good plans for you but you know you don’t even love him So no word again.

If it goes well back with both of you then you will stop bossy attitude to your ex and I pray himself should have level up and still have feelings for you.

If I were you , I will be dating another guy secretly after reconciling with my ex. Lol Not this present one though.

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Na only God fit help person.
Some people go advise you Wetin Dey no fit do if they were in your shoe.

Things happening online make me think some things are not real. So therefore I don’t believe this too.

watersideboys:
Ok

But prophet Muhammad can suck my dick sha

Your father mouth no carry wetin you talk

Fear of chronic catarrh �

cutieme:
Please how can one go about the business of petroleum exportation to benin?

I’m good at it and you can text me at +22952489501

I honestly didn’t read what’s gong on here. Just have a nice day

TheRealOwner:
It all makes sense now. I strongly suspect that he killed your mum.

Take this as a challenge to hustle and leave him with his new wife

He will never EVER respect you or see you as anything more than he currently sees you as.

My own advice.

Avoid that your sister too or limit your relationship with her

Thank you very much .

Bakakeyz:
Reading all these, I understand the issue but I was just wishing I even had the android phone you couldn’t use, or month to feed talk more of lodging in a hotel.

I’m using my last card to lodge

MtDave55:
Your FIRST MISTAKE was going to take the phone from his room infact it's stealing because the phone ceases to be yours since he collected it from you.
If you have forgotten about it, set plans on how to get yourself new phone and a place of your own, you wouldn't have gotten into this mess.
Time heals all wounds, your dad will calm down but ensure you get yourself busy doing something

Thank you sir.

TheSociopath:
Had it been you bought a MacBook instead of an iPhone, it'd have been better.

You should learn how to code, it's the fastest way out of low income these days. Not only coding, but UI/UX, Data Analysis, Cybersecurity, DevOps, DevSecOps, etc

I see you’re a brilliant person.....

Can you please just help me find something I can do with the iPhone that will give me fast income to get a small single room.

God bless you.

TheSociopath:
That's why he needs to go out of there. So what has he been doing since the border closure? Some of us left our states to come and hustle in Lagos and we're doing well, to the glory of God. Nothing can be achieved in your comfort zone

I will like to dwell into whatever you’re into no matter how hard it is sir.

pongwa:
ogbeni you are 27 and a graduate. Forge ahead with life. That house is toxic for you. You better run for your dear life before them finally Bury what's left of your glory


Finally, whether you took his money or not, try to return it cos he might spoil your life with curses if yiu don't

I didn’t take his money and if I say they should tell me how much it is that I will return it . They may think I’m being arrogant again and if it happens the money was truly missing they might think I was the one who took it.

fineboynl:
so what is the update? Did you finally return home or communicate with this last night and this morning.

I went to see my stepmother last night and she said she had talked to my Dad and all he wants is seeing me working and not idle.

I told her I’m gathering money to start a business soon and I told her to please let him know I don’t know about any Riyadh money.

I then told her I’m leaving and not going to sleep in that house tonight and she agreed cuz I don’t want violence again. Then she let me leave.

1dorzine:
Are you a student or graduate? Do you have a skill? You can try getting a job.

The only skill I think I have is writing articles fluently in Yoruba. I’m a very good basketball player too and I’m a graduate.

OvertheTop:
At that Age (27),

You need to be More Responsible.

You need to Respect Your Father and Never Challenge his Authority. (Don't Talk when he is Talking) even if he Accuses You, politely convince him Later that You did not pick it.

Your Solution:
Guy, learn a computer digital Skill / a hand Skill and get Employed....(don't mix up with Fraud or Walk with people (in Fraud))
Then, rent a small Accommodation for yourself (mini flat). (stop all this wasteful behavior: booking Hotels, buying expensive phones etc.)
be Frugal with your Money( learn to start Small)

see...guys...of your Age...A lot of them at Massively into tech!
You can do the Same...and have the potential to Travel Abroad Legitimately and make your Mother/Father Proud!
your family will be so proud of you...they will want to identify with you always.....
You can do this!

Please can you guide me through all these sir
God bless you

akinsmyk:
It’s just so unfortunate how you guys had given other meanings to words. I don’t know to hustle now means yahoo. There are guys that left their village and towns to work as wash men at car wash before they got other things doing.

You should be the one to clean your mindset coz even yahoo doesn’t comes to my mind while typing that. I’m a graduate and I drive on Uber which pays me more than even some bank jobs. So what are you saying exactly? Isn’t what I do hustling?

When I began, I was sleeping in my car for a few months before I saved up to rent an apartment.

I will like you to guide me sir
God bless

Kaypeeboss:
Na only you make sense here,apart From the fact that Yahoo boiz have Made it look like if you have an iPhone then you are a Yahoo boy,bro if you like the camera quality,the speed and the shape and you can afford it,nur be to buy am??bro na you Bleep up pass,as long as you were able to buy an iPhone ,rent a self contain in another neighborhood ,abi you dae fear to stay alone.coz I'm a CPA marketer,an indie author with Amazon and several other online biz that keeps me at home.As e begin cause issue with my parents,I jejely move to another state

I will like u to guide me and work with you sir
God bless u

Worldlegend:
At 27 you shouldn't be at the family house, I deliberately left family house at the age of 15, I was not having common money to use to buy water and soap that time to bath... But today it's a good testimony I left home that day
...

You also need to improve your writing skill as a graduate..

Find something to start doing ASAP

Please share me ideas on what to do

osayuwamwen:
From all the writeup shows you are irresponsible at 27yrs, you even say you smuggle petroleum products to cotonu as a business show high level of irresponsibility.
You staying in your father's house is not the issue, it's abt you been jobless, you can afford an expensive iPhone and monthly subscription and can't even afford to establish a little business for yourself or learn a skill, misplaced priorities.
I was 25yrs when I took my single mom at from rented apartment build a house on her land, I live with her for 2years plus while I was building another house for my self, I will be 30yrs next month, I have a house, a car for myself and also the house i build for my mom, when I started earning small small money i didn't rushout to rent a house like what most people would have done, I was patient to plan my life out. Your daddy loves you that's why he's trying to fix you in the right part, if at 27 you nor get any plan for your life my brother things will not get soft even in your 30s or 40s, by now your dad suppose they enjoy the fruit of his labor

Please can you share me ideas on what you do or if I could come work with you ?