wis3:
Don't stay away. Be less available. It'll help more if you stayed on your own and you'll only come to visit once in awhile.

Thank you boss

neonly:
You are a bad boy
How will feel if yur own child did d same to u
No respect
Karma is waiting
Am sure of you have channeled dat same energy to do some thing surprising for he would has still given u yur phone
But now u has allow phone to break d bridge between and yur father
The money was not d Issie u betray his trust
Goodluck

You know it’s my property..and I can’t seize a phone from my child just to suffer him why ? And a grown man for that matter.

I don’t even like it when I had thoughts why he would seize my phone. What if I was not staying with him or o get something bigger than that? So he has right to seize anything from me cuz I’m his son abi even with my hard earned money.

WondaBeauty:
Your story is enough to make any sane person get headache or go insane.

All the SO's are more than enough to build a church.(no offense)





I would advise you go back home and talk with her cos she seems like the easy medium to your father.


But in all, FOLLOW UR MIND.

Please forgive me for the so so.
Please my mind is one mind in two options. I need to know your mind too or your advice maybe it will help pls

wis3:
someone might have taken the money, it's also very likely there wasn't any missing money. He's just trying to blame you for it since you went throw his things without his permission. hes just used to seeing you around too much. He'll come around

I’m having same thoughts too about the money.
But do you mean I should stay away from him ?

sholay2011:
This one na real wa...

If there are people that can go with you to apologize to your dad (it's not good for one's parent to rain curses on them even if not justified), but I don't think it's the best idea to go sleep in that house. This should be a wake up-call for you to be independent of your dad. You will actually earn his respect that way, and he may begin to miss you sef after all the fights una don fight. But really, can your father kill you ni or is his anger that bad?

God help you.

Thank you very much brr....
If I think about his behavior I will not go that house this night. But the stepmother told me to come home and she knows I respected her. I even told her man she’s trying to set me up but she said and swear she can’t let that happen even if he want to act violence not alone of her trying to set me up. Though i believed her

What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

You never see anything ....I will follow you anywhere for life.

Omo werey gbemidebe..

Unexpected matter go just sup

Una no go use cruise kill me for here.

NB : please I’m not Wole Soyinka so just pardon my English. And make that guy wey always light his weed in peace no bring his kala.

I met this babe through my fiend girlfriend and I really liked her.

We talked and exchange numbers and the love of two years started from there.

Though I don’t really like girls too much then but my spirit really fell for the girl and the relationship really started well for good two years.

Some scenarios that happened during our relationship made me felt like this girl is my partner from heaven.

When we were in Schoo I will go out clubbing and return late in the night to her house. I will call her that I’m coming to sleep over at her place and behold I will meet this girl outside in the cold when I get there waiting for me.

Another scenario happened that shocked me.

Someone sent some money to me and i called my ex if she had eaten and she said no. So I asked her what she feels like eating and she said anything. Then I asked her if she like ice Cream and shawarma which she said yes and I’m very happy to get it for her.

But on getting to my bank ATM machine it was temporarily unable to dispense cash.

So I tried using another bank ATM and it just swallowed my card just like that even I’ve never input my pin.

I felt really worried and couldn’t believe it because I will even pay transport back home cuz my last card was used to take bike to the ATM machine and withdraw.

In short , I took bike back home to my ex and borrowed money from her to pay the bike.

I was feeling ashamed to tell her what happend cus I really had lots of thoughts on how she’s going to feel about me maybe have negative feelings to me as a woman attitude like thinking I was kidding her.

But when I told her that ATM swallowed my card she just shocked and started cursing those banks and asked if I had eaten and I said she shouldn’t bother about me that I’m more concerned about her.

She asked if we can take garri together that night but there’s no sugar and I said I don’t mind since we are drinking it together it’s okay.

We drank garri that night and went to bed and had plays.

So, all these memories flash to me sometimes and wonder if I could ever meet another woman like her or better than Abidemi.

Though, she graduated from school later and left to her town under same state.

What led to our breakup was when I traveled to Asaba Delta state to see someone I met online all the way from Oyo state.

She comes to my town sometimes too.

But when I got to Asaba I was robbed at gun point and lost everything I had including my ATM card though I had all the money in my account in my pocket that day and they took everything.

So I started suffering in an unknown land for some months Cuz I feel like starting again there and I prayed to God.

So I lost her contact for sometime because I don’t know it offhand.

For some months that we haven’t talked she had tried all means to find me from all social media and messaged me down already before I got phone.

So I told her to forward me her number and I called her.

I explained to her what happened and was sounding like there was a guy next to her, so I asked her if a guy was there and she said yes that her new boyfriend.

I was shocked and had to ask again which she confirmed and I lock up because I know she can never prank me with that.

So when I got back to my town I asked my friend who she knows very well and respected to help me talk to her maybe she will reconsider.

But my friend said everybody have been asking of me and this particular girl told him that her parents were asking of her boyfriend but she couldn’t find me or feels like I’m done with her so the guy she met during her Youth service ended up being her husband.

So I act as a man and just want to forget we ever dated.

But me and this girl do talk on WhatsApp sometimes even though she’s married to another man.

She knows I understand what happend and it’s part of life.

She still calls me all the names she call me during our relationship and I sometimes send money to her just knowing this girl suffered with me.

Now, we talk and talk and she always comment good on my posts on WhatsApp and initiates conversation in few minutes.

I always sad why this girl belong to another man and not me even though I had some relationships after her but none seems better like me and her .

So today she surprised me with early morning prayers for Eid.

I really had thoughts about her because she was the only person who wished me that on WhatsApp.

I prayed for her too and asked about her before we ended the chat.

Since when we chatted I’ve been feeling like telling her how much I missed her just to let her know I will love her forever.

And I’m thinking otherwise not to tell her in order not to let her feel I can never find a lady like her again.

Should I tell her or just leave her alone ??

kripen:
You should be happy it opens sometimes. I have not seen where you work in Dubai and receive your salary in America. What I am saying the phone has different operating system,you are even lucky it does open sometimes.

Hmmmm it’s true o.

But I did one thing now. I entered settings and on back the google map data usage....I disabled it before with some other apps i don’t really use to avoid too much data usage...Since this morning i turned it back on the google page is opening... I pray it shoudnt stop working again because it’s very important when I’m booking sportybet...Checking last match no Dey carry last.

[quote author=Chaos14 post=112427961]That is what am saying you know that padlock on top your browser disable it[/quote
I just checked and there’s nothin like padlock in the safari browser.
The google site don’t open on other browsers too but other sites are opening.

Someone should please help this kid to push it to front page.

That kid is really confused

Chaos14:
Bro it can't work in the next ten years android can't function without google its like part of the operating system it will never allow you thats how savage iphone is

I use iPhone not android..and google only open sometimes

Chaos14:
First what happened to your safari browser

Nothing happen to it , in fact I can browse other sites but it’s only google that won’t work. It only work whenever it likes

Chaos14:
What is your android os and have you signed into google

I use an iPhone 6 s plus

Blastedholligan:
which phone is that?

iPhone 6 s plus

I’ve come to realize that sometimes when I want to use google it’s always stop responding after several minutes of loading.

I tried downloading another browser to access it but I still get same error message that the site can’t be connected to server or whatever.

Please is it a general problem or it’s my phone or what ? Even I want to ask same google why I don’t connect sometimes but the thing has begin its usual error message.

I will help you

Extrastiv01:

Hello everyone, my name is not necessary, I am 28 years old and I am on the verge of losing my job but the important thing here is that sport betting is about to ruin my life and career and I need help and advise from you all. It all started when my friend Bolaji(not real name) introduced me to this popular sport betting platform last year which I strongly believe that 80% of Nigerian youths would know or even use on a regular basis.

I started playing games on this platforms with the little money I made from side hustles,it was cool because I could still remember my first game; I staked #2000 on a match between Liverpool and a smaller club and I cashed out massively that weekend. I was so happy and all of a sudden I became greedy. I began to stake higher and started looking for higher and better odds to boost my winnings, I started staking with my salary and then it got worse that I started using my life savings to play games in which most time I don't win but still I won't back out hoping I would win back all my lost money in the next game ,I would even borrow money from my neighbors and friends as a matter of fact, I got a new name on the street: (BABA 2 ODDS)

Last week, my boss gave me #150,000 to go and deposit at the bank but instead I transferred the money into my betting account wallet hoping I could double the money. I predicted realmadrid to win on last week champions league match against Chelsea,though they qualified for the next round but they still lost to Chelsea. I almost ran mad at the viewing centre. Anyways my boss has been calling me since and I couldn't pick because I don't know what to tell him.....
Nairalanders I need your advise and help!!!

Bro you never Bleep up.
Borrow 2k from someone sharply and stake some odds again...believe me e fit come

What’s your business ...are you stupid

JubrinElSudan:
Yeah, I guess they fell apart after the burial in Oba. They stopped engaging each other's post on IG, though Chief Priest still follows Obi and his wife on IG. Chief Priest has a deal with Kolaq before Odogwu Bitters came up but during the period the drink came up and Obi's friends were promoting it online, Chief Priest decided to post and promote KolaqAlagbo

Yes bro . You are on point

Skyfornia:


I'm curious...why is it bothering you like you said?

Because they were always seem together before

HarunaWest:
Have you gone to fix the relationship between you and your old friends that has dwindled over the year's? You have not fixed the one in your house, you are poking nose into other men's friendship.

And which of my friends did I tell you we are beefing. If I wipe you Oraimo chord

mymadam:
Beef? Not really... They are just too busy with individual businesses to hang out

Oh really ? But each of them still hang out and I don’t see why they can’t hang out together since they are very close. That’s how they do before even when they are busy or not.

When we say there is difference between poor men beef and rich men beef people think I’m lying.

This is a case study of Obi Cubana and his Long time friend Cubana Chiefpriest.

These two men were known to be Tom and Jerry and you will see them together most of the times.

But things have gone different even before Obi Cubana launched his new herbal drink “Odowgu Bitters” which Chiefpriest didn’t even post on his Instagram page.

They’ve stopped hanging out together and rarely you will see them together in an official occasion.

This have been bothering my mind for the past few months because I have seen these two guys together multiple times but not anymore.

These guys are really having the Rich men beefs and I don’t think it will end anytime soon.

iyapont:
The small ones we have here tastes better, the big one is horrible

You eat bats .. I can hate you forever

Mooh247:



Go on Ola of Lagos's Instagram page... He visited Obi Cubanna at his Abuja home and Obi took him around, and packed in his compound is the G Wagon you asked for


Most people don't drive their luxury cars about everyday... They have other cars like Toyota and Honda for everyday Cruising and Mercedes Benz for functions and parties

See as this one Bleep up .. so na Obi Cubana we Dey talk here abi ? If I knock you on your lips

DaInferno:
I pray you've investments and niches so you don't go about worrying about what another man gifted his wife
Damn, wtf!

I go worry una

SugarCake:
Go to his house and check , yeye op

U that have been to his house have u seen it there

MadamOk:
Shey you don go his garage you nor con see am

MYB

Have you gone to his garage and u see it ?

Dottore:

Like seriously you are curious about what doesn't concern you. Who the hell are you to demand the proof of existence of another's man's possessions.
Why don't you bother about how to upgrade your life from trekking and getting viable means of livelihood rather than trolling accomplished persons for cheap attention? Na wao

This is why they are celebrities...they are the most talked about after governments.

shortIGBOman:


That's audio money. It's comon with most Okoro's. Their wealth is audio. That's why Forbes never recognize any of them as a millionaire, not to talk of a Billionaire.

I too like you boss..you go like two cold monster ?