₦airaland Forum

frozen70:
Bad thinking and a very bad idea and a mind set

Your wishes will definitely come through

While other men wishes to have close home and happy home

Your wish is distance home and loose home

You will get it as desired then old age you will suffer alone

gloria34:
U are senseless!

frozen70:
So what's the essence of having a baby mama when you don't want a woman to be under your roof

That means you are either scared of taking up the challenges of having a home with a woman

Or you are scared of taking responsibilities as a family man

Or you don't want a situation where your woman will question your movements

Or you will have a baby mama but she is free to leave alone and date other men and you don't mind being a sperm contributor to have a child with different genes due to your innability to keep a woman under your roof

Tell me (us) more

frozen70:
You again

Those that falls into this category are the likes of your

Mother
Sisters
Aunties
Daughters

You have destined your self to be against women

You will know women better when you marry one and keep at home

Anuofia

DeepSight:
The climatic factors I refer to are historical and not necessarily present. That's a huge subject.

Anyway, jump ship if you want to. Your life, your choice.
The only thing I can assure you of is that if you apply this same sort of losers mentality to your personal life, then you are doomed to fail no matter what ship you jump to.

Good luck.
Ignorant till the last word.

DeepSight:
The absence of a developed black nation is a question highly influenced by climatic factors and thier interplay with the dynamics of trade and history. However things will pick up in the next century on account of the force of globalised infomation.

Please be specific with your question and perhaps I can answer it. If your question is however simply how we move forward, I will suggest you start by getting involved. And there are many levels at which you can be involved. Beyond just voting (since you don't believe in the available options) there is a lot you can contribute. Countries do not become developed magically. Humans do it. And you are human are you not?

Now tell me, can you not try to dream up an idea that will put your country on the map in one segment or the other?

DeepSight:
Your post sort of insinured that.

And no, I am not trying to provoke you.

The views expressed by the OP are frankly that of a little boy who probably has little experience of life. First time out of the country and he is blown away. As someone has indicated he obviously has a grear deal to learn.

He is also extremely ignorant of the development of nations and people's - and so are you.

It is true that we are in a tough place in Africa right now and especially so in Nigeria. It is however not true that this can never change. It is also not true that black people are mostly stupid as the OP said.

The truth is that the views expressed by the OP and others who think like him are shamefully lazy. The first thing that should occur to them when they admire the western world is that it took humans just like you and I blood and sweat for many centuries to achieve that. If you imagine that a mindset which craves it without sacrifice will ever be worthy of anything then you don't know anything about the school of life.

Both you and the OP may be disillusioned and that is understandable. But becoming self hating hopeless cowards is indefensible.

OldBeer:

This one is comparing online dating to actually staying in the country and dating the white girls.
LOOOL!!

DeepSight:
Ah. So you're unemployed(?)
Don't worry it's not the end of the world.
Get creative.

EgunMogaji:


Ex Wife #1: US Citizen / White

Ex Wife #2: UK Citizen / White (4 children).

Current Wife: Nigerian Citizen / Black (I have to put this because I have an Indian co worker who was born and raised in Nigeria until the age of 25).

Have been in long term relationships (not just after club romp) with Chinese, Mexican, Swiss, Argentinian citizens.

All women are beautiful in their own right. There are ugly and beautiful people from all races. I suggest that you expand your dating circle.

DeepSight:
I am sorry but this is too shallow and St.upid to be worthy of further response.

You are a disgrace to your very DNA.

DeepSight:
Really?

Can you point out the excuses I have made?

Is it wrong or false to say that we need to get involved and work hard on our country rather than call on our country men to abandon ship just because like Osuofia he just saw the western world for the first time? ? ?

Tell me, I am listening.