krissy123:
I always see threads and forums where guys rant, rave and troll women because they claim women have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from sex. I strongly disagree. I believe that every woman has a different set of skills or attributes that she brings to the table, be it companionship, affection, emotional support, personal adviser, culinary skills etc to name a few. Saying a woman has absolutely nothing to offer a man but sex is just plain wrong.

The reason you even exist is because your father saw something in your mom which wasn't just the thing between her legs(unless you were an accident :p)...if you doubt it, ask him what brought them together. So my question is, what does a man have to offer apart from money and sex? No trolling or insults please...just straight answers. We're all here to learn

krissy123:
I always see threads and forums where guys rant, rave and troll women because they claim women have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from sex. I strongly disagree. I believe that every woman has a different set of skills or attributes that she brings to the table, be it companionship, affection, emotional support, personal adviser, culinary skills etc to name a few. Saying a woman has absolutely nothing to offer a man but sex is just plain wrong. The reason you even exist is because your father saw something in your mom which wasn't just the thing between her legs(unless you were an accident :p)...if you doubt it, ask him what brought them together. So my question is, what does a man have to offer apart from money and sex? No trolling or insults please...just straight answers. We're all here to learn

krissy123:
@tonyebarcanista...i acknowledge your points. But you think only 10% of good women who want the best for their men remain in the country ...clearly there aren't many successful independent women in your life. I agree there are many gold diggers out there. One just needs to take one's time and be patient in finding the right person. But the crux of the matter is, once you have found her, what does she have to offer? What does he have to offer?...that was what i was trying to explain. There are still tons of good men and women in our generation.

Melison:
Another type of sweetbuns

krissy123:
Re: What Does A Guy Have To Offer? by donbachi(m): 9:18am
To take a woman out of her misery called father's house.
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You sound like it's a favour you're doing for her. Not all of us are that desperate to be with people with that kind of mentality.

SweetBuns:
they won't hear

krissy123:
I always see threads and forums where guys rant, rave and troll women because they claim women have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from sex. I strongly disagree. I believe that every woman has a different set of skills or attributes that she brings to the table, be it companionship, affection, emotional support, personal adviser, culinary skills etc to name a few. Saying a woman has absolutely nothing to offer a man but sex is just plain wrong. The reason you even exist is because your father saw something in your mom which wasn't just the thing between her legs(unless you were an accident :p)...if you doubt it, ask him what brought them together. So my question is, what does a man have to offer apart from money and sex? No trolling or insults please...just straight answers. We're all here to learn

krissy123:
And don't get me wrong people. Just cos you've had bad experiences with certain females, doesn't mean we are all the same and have got nothing to offer. It just saddens me to see the way guys believe that all they have to do is provide money and a woman will be at your beck and call. It's true of many ladies of course. But what about financially independent women? The statement that money answereth all things isn't always true. Wealth is a necessary condition for happiness, but wealth in itself is insufficient for happiness. The question is how do you keep the woman?

krissy123:
Okay..@naijaboiy...there's a lot more that goes into a relationship other than money and sex. But as typical Nigerians, we don't take time to reason those things.
In my first post I mentioned that every woman has a different set of attributes that they bring to the table...real women anyway....such as companionship, support, adviser, culinary skills and many more. In the same vein, men have a lot to offer apart from money and sex, they are expected to mirror the attributes of the women or bring in some of their own. Such attributes include, listening, respect, honor, faithfulness on both sides, a protector, etc.

The bottom line is that we as Nigerians have much and more to learn when it comes to appreciation of both sexes.