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Nia69:
Alright sir. Do you have someone you seeing?

Hard to tell.

Cos the last person I thought I was seeing, I kept out of touch for over a year. 😂

I just think it's hoping for too much, to assume there's no new person she's seeing already.

I don't even want to ask too.

Not saying that bothers me though. It is what it is.

Nia69:
I understand you.

It's working. I haven't received any pm since I changed it to this current signature.

We're the opposite here, I don't like the drama. I used to though when I was in secondary school and didn't know much.

Chill. I didn't say I like being at the center of the drama. Ah! 😁 But of course, I like to encourage others to get involved.

I like to read about it, that one do.

Ironically, my negative attitude towards love and its shenanigans rather attracted some aunties. Weird stuff, I still struggle to understand till date. Perhaps, they were just curious.

Nia69:
😂😂 That's the only way I can stop men from sending me pms.

@bolded, that's nice.


AM's out of my life already, I don't like relationship stress. 😂

But the relationship drama is sweet, from the spectator point of view, of course. But that's me being selfish (why not )

So a fake signature is supposed to keep people out of your DMs?! Really? 🌚

As for my darling friend, maybe she has moved on sef and it's best I shouldn't disrupt her space now. The last time, I remembered we used to discuss one faraway intending boo she had (maybe still have) and their unending dramas. Me, I sha like dramas relating to "love"/attraction.

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm in my twenties. Why do you ask though?

You ask too many questions, that it appears you're taking it.

Really, it's not of my business, however.

Cos they despised Polygamy, that would have insulated them from such situation

2rez:
Dey there dey catfish you hear. Hand go catch you one day.

Abi

fadilaMaikiriki:
How do you mean please? I don't get you.

How old are you please or are you new on Nairaland?

Nia69:
I disagree. 😌

Married woman (girl) with 4 kids. Interesting!

You and your Mr AI abi wetin you call am really fit each other. Na play two of una dey.

Coming across your comment tonight and seeing your new diary update just reminded me of my 19 year old friend (20 year old now perhaps) now sef.

It's been too long I talked to her and I think I miss hearing teenage gists. It can be refreshing, away from everyday realities.

By the way, please link back up with your boo and give us some more entertainment, you both.

Pheew! That quickly escalated to an epistle. Bye

Padipadi:
Saw his pic where he sat on the floor looking frail. What's happening to our legends?
Is it that they lavish their fortunes or they are not assisted at one point before?

What fortunes?

Developingtrade:
Nigeria-New Zealand Chamber of Commerce is about business, investment, trade and economic exchange, to strengthen bilateral relationships, promote joint trade and business and enhance stronger international bilateral relationships.

What happened to this?

Prostitute!

Angelfrost:
I haven't really seen much of Fabio to gauge his midfield quality.

If that's the case, then you guys are good to win this title.

He's had a couple of assists and have been impactful so far.

Still a long way to go though. We'll take it one at a time.

Angelfrost:
He's a Centre back... But, I hear he can further up as a defensive midfielder.

I thought a back up for Odegaard would be their top priority now. That midfield without Odegaard is like Chelsea's without Kante, or Pool's defense so far without VVD!

Is Vieira not covering for Odegaard?

I think a Saka cover is critical.

What's his position?

Ishilove:
God bless you. You have said it all. Those villifying the OP will not be able to take half of the crap the OP has been forced to swallow by her kleptomanic nephew. They are free to keep pampering their thieving relatives until they pick up a gun and start breaking into people's houses.

It's a pissing brother in-law this time around.

Seems there's a fault with all her husband's make relative, abi? Oversabi geng!

Biglittlelois:
You guys are emotional weak beings, never logical in thinking cos everything is always the fault of females, and I'll isolate this to mostly guys on this forum cos I'm sure y'all are not up to 1% out there,

The thread is about a light fingered nephew, but no, they must make it look like Op is the bad one, then they generalise it, i guess the husband seeing the clear picture although a little late must be a simp then.

Madam emotionally strong being, your client has brought up a report against a peeing husband's brother this time around.

Come and display your sauciness once more.

Biglittlelois:
How the hell is Op happy about it? Can you see her through her comment smiling and laughing?

how does this thread portray that women are wicked generally?

If your mum, sisters, female relatives are wicked evil beings, how is it anyone's fault their behavioural deficiency clouded your sense of reasoning and thought process, making you generalise baselessly? You men are destroying the world presently, yet women are your problem? Can't you guys do without showing your insecurities and low self esteem everywhere on this forum?

Men are destroying the world, how exactly?

Kids everywhere

Nia69:
I understand thank you. I'm still young and I'm enjoying my loneliness. This isn't the time to think about future partner. Plus, I'm not addicted.

I understand the first part; relatable in fact.

You really think there's a switch button when you finally feel ready? I'm not very sure though; not like I'm some professional in that field.

Not addicted? Ah well! If you say so now. Perhaps, I need to up my comprehension skills.

It's all good. You have my best wishes.

chatinent:
This mentality is common among poor men, and the educated illiterates. Even the male children you dey find, which name e wan live up to? You wey no get nothing! You wey even the land you get na still the one your great-grandfather leave. House na family house. Upon every every, na still you wey bi complete zero alpha dey cause fuss about male child.

Bringing boys to this life to suffer and become men even before they become men! The way children suffer these days...sometimes, I cannot totally blame hookers and those who take to anything to survive. Their parenthood is nothing to write home about. They've always been penury-stricken and could only do what they had to do to survive. These days, children now feed parents whilst still kids. And you'll see the fed father going to answer the morning roll-call in Nwanyi Ngwo shop, requesting for his fav kaikai and ice fish...only to return home to turn the house into WW3.

Why won't Angela do ashawo? Why Emeka no go push drugs? Why Gbenga no go defraud? Just to make the family proud? My foot!

I'm not supporting shady business but most fathers have failed!

Other times, na pressure from family members and the importance placed on the male child. Not like it's bad wanting a male child, but it's not a reason to cause pain to another by sending them off. Marriage is for better for worse...until adultery or death do apart.

Last last, e fit bi say na you no fertile.

Any man who'd throw out his wife for not bearing a male child does not deserve to be fed by the female children.


That man, in fact, deserves to be abandoned forever.

If you throw out mum, even I as a male child will abandon you!


What rubbish.

Good point

Nia69:
Where's the advice?

Anyways, here it goes:

Masturbation or addiction to it is one factor that will hinder finding any value in building a relationship with a potential future partner.

You'll always just find companionship in lonliness. I'm not sure there's a good ending to that, cos after all said and done, no one is an Island.

And this is not be being judgemental, just saying randomly.

E don get wey Nairalanders dey cruise around. Make I resurrect this post.

Nia69:
Okay. Alright, leave it.

You're welcome

Mariangeles:
If you knew the (legit) profit that amount of money could yield you in Nigeria within months, without you even having to lift a finger, you'd slap yourself for asking that question.
Knowledge is you need.

I tell you.

You can't tell how much difference knowledge makes.

I've been in business the past 11-12 years, but I just discovered a new path with lesser capital and comparatively higher knowledge.

It's now my team see my insistence on heavy investment in research. I once travelled to and fro via trucks over long distances just to engage in proper physical market research.

jossytech:
Raise goat n sheep and see the fund in 300% in 2 years

Agreed. With good fortune, of course.

ibechris:
Which business have u done that makes u lie to people.
I am a business man and also an employee and all my friends are business men and women whom i envy and that made me to join them.

I think this kind of lies should stop in this 2023.
There is nothing that is smooth but neither is it smooth abroad.

Nigeria is a haven for anything called investment,business,tax and more. Only when he travels out he will know that Nigeria is a great country.

You sabi.

People don't know you can be unlucky in business too just as some are unlucky with migration too.

bigsam75:
Which profitable business you want do with that amount and be ok?

Supplies

Use it to eat chicken suya

Nia69:
Okay. No.

That's fine too. Cheers mate!

I feel like I should leave the advice here anyways. As long as you'll read it, it doesn't matter if you take it or not.

Nia69:

I read your diary you said not to open. Yeah, you're welcome.

But is it okay to offer some unsolicited advice?