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Charley2020:
I think the man must have met Neymar at least once in his life. By the way, very silly of him to have given everything to Neymar when there are so many poor people that would benefit much more from his vast wealth.

Is it your money?

If you are not silly, why not become a billionaire too or did he have two heads and you have half?

Lazy yoot!

starpower:
so if I made a mistake, but circumstances reduces my chances of outright loss, I should also mislead others into gambling. There are situations that can put you in such conditions, you just leave it to chance after noticing your decision are irrational. Emotions are not something to count on, it changes faster than one thinks, see if your honest with thyself, you will know some bad decisions 😉, that the outcome was good, but you can't pretend that type of decisions process is not sustainable. I have a older customers, they are both friends, I swear the outcome was opposite for each. But that because his other friend actually accepted reality like me not to over support, anytime he is in my office, he will emphasize, I shouldn't over support o.

This is some nonsensical bullshit!!!

I don't even understand any of what you even said 🙄

Kobojunkie:
1. Stop deceiving these men, abeg! Clearly, nothing that these men do compares to what philanthropists do, since in their minds, these men are convinced that by sponsoring the women, they gain ownership rights to those women. That is, instead, what sociopaths do, not philatropists. There, "kindness" isn't kindness at all, an attempt at purchasing the rights to another human for themselves. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Sure, some women go all out to take advantage of such gullible yet dangerous species among men, but that does not mean the men are themselves in their right mind, or backed by sane ideas.

3. Well, if being stingy towards women is your thing, then go for it. So long as you commit no crime and violate no other person's rights, you are free to chisel out your character in the way you want, while you also accept that those women who hate stingy men are also in their right to do so.

K

starpower:
See most just start feeling over special with such sacrifices. Better to start with someone who won't derail one progress. I am currently supporting someone but really it not worth it, it prevents one from knowing there true motives in the relationship. The word is DESIST.

You are advising people to desist yet you are CURRENTLY SUPPORTING someone?

Why don't you take your own advice huh?

jojothaiv:
Gehgeh isn't doing a new thing but I'll always give the kudos, he deserves it.

And may God bless Ubunja wherever he's right now, man was blessings though many men failed to realized, it was after the ship had sailed many are now biting the fingers and counting their loses.

Side notes:
You will hardly find the logical females (I use that word intentional because have hard time confronting their true nature so rather swing) on here dropping comments if the thread or talks is all about women wrong doings

There has been no female commenter on the thread. That should tell you something

Englishisamust:
I wish I had known about ghe ghe, I woundnt have been scam of 2 million in 2022. Im still yet to recover. Sometimes waiting ghe ghe dey talk may look funny but some of them are happening in real life... Girl wey I don plan too marry chaiiii!!! . I give all my life and money to this girl she still scammed me

In 2022, we have the redpill thread on NL but you were one of those abusing us..calling us broke...

See your life...now you are shouting😁😁😊😊

SOZINN:
Lust is an internal battle one has to confront face to face and win by stripping away everything that gives it power. I feel most men just try to push it down by shoving more red pills on top of it. That doesn't do anything, under the right circumstances it will rise again and still pose as much of a threat as it did before. Realising that lust is the edge most low quality, garbage women have on men will make you realise that MEN are the problem.

You made nice points

vanbonattel:
The respected prof who sold out to evil people has lost all his respect

This man's life will be remembered by him eating with the oppressors of the masses, as against his earlier stance when he was younger.

Poverty of the mind can really affect old people.

If that is your father, would you open your ugly mouth to disrespect him like this or freedom of choice to support whoever is lost on you?

Felimax:
Yes I did! There is always a learning curve. I am proud I did. I am a proud learner.

K

eazzzy1:
At the time Reno hated Tinubu, used horrible words to describe him in the name of opposition. It’s speaks volume of Reno’s character. He’s singing Tinubu’s praises today but can always go back to his insulting ways. No sensible person will trust him with secrets just because ‘he changed’.

Same applies to this bride. People don’t just drop old habits. Her former sex partners would now become ‘friends’, always available to come in when necessary.

They say once debe, always debe. The refined version of this slogan is you will forever be relaxed and comfortable around people you have shared your body with. There are conversations I can have with married former sex partners/exes that I can’t have with random women or platonic friends.

You nailed it AGAIN. I didn't reply the dude's post because I was just tired of his numerous excuses on this forum

eazzzy1:
She looks finer than the guy. It looks like she settled for him after she got tired of having sex with people she actually likes. It’s the reality of things, hers is in the open only because she talked about it on social media.

Is having multiple sexual partners the issue or posting about it on social media? I’m sure the guy has a glimpse of her sexual history and still decided to marry her.

You nailed it.

She settled for him
He is the provider now.

Lol..

Normal things!!

FreeStuffsNG:
83% of those killed by the US-backed Isreal Defense Forces are civilians, babies and women. This was confirmed by Isreal Intel report.

You faced the weak and vulnerable to kill them and left Hamas terror group fighters was intentionai, it is war crime and act of cowardice.

Everyone behind this genocide must be held to account, prosecuted and jailed. The hostages must be freed, killing of babies and women must stop and the war end with 2-state solution.

What have you to say to the thousands displaced by biko haram and other terrorists in kaduna, Jos, Katsina, Benue, and Akure? Or their lives are not worthy of your attention? Why are you not concerned about those women and children?

Felimax:
The key is knowing how women works. I can boldly tell you that a lot of men today has their success stories tied to a woman.

Myself I met my woman when she was barely eighteen and I was not really having much then. She stocked and somehow gave me the connection to the job that later took me to Lagos.

While in Lagos I compelled her to acquire and papers and ensured that she gets through school.

Someone that gave me joy should be able to have same joy from me. A lot of people did not understand but I did.

A lot of things one cannot explain. Besides, she was not the first person to do such a thing for me. I have had several job offers from ladies who are friends and wanted it taken to the next level.

Gen Z or not there are still good ladies and no matter how good a lady if she does not find her kind of man in you she is doom to probably dump you should the time comes. Myself I had a lot of heartbreaks from some of these ladies, I will even kneel down and beg sometimes. Today, I cherished those experiences I had because they helped building me to the person I am today.

Lol ..you knelt down and begged women to accept you?

I can understand your story now

I wish you the best

Gerrard59:
Do you believe sex is free? If yes, please describe the process by which sex could be free, especially for a man who wants to have sex with more than one woman?

I'm the architect of my own choices. I never said my sole purpose in life is to be fûcking multiple women.

And yes...for me, sex is free...I never had to pay for it. I have been paid for it. And the key is always improve yourself as a man. The more high value you are, the more options you have. And if you are like me, you don't need to spend before they come. They will come, they will sniff your value and overcompensate in hopes that they will be chosen.

Now...pay me for that lesson, don't be stingy!!!

Gerrard59:
Praise God!!!

We agree on one thing today.

Praise God?

Why on earth do you think I have been shouting the redpill if not for these facts I quoted? Or we say simps are not good for the society?

Even now, someone's son is still planning on using his school fees, rent money or salary to pay a girl's bills...

Simps don't ever learn.

TONYE001:
Still does not make it a criminal offense to choose not to marry from your home country. That post I quoted, and yours supporting it, are too petty. People should marry whoever they desire to. There are women that marry their boyfriends back home, you can't say there has never been one. Generalization is one common mistake many people make in discussions like this.

So what happens if the lady decides to marry a husband at home and the marriage tumbles in a few weeks? Huh?

This is not an issue, and should not even be a matter of discussion.

Give me an example of a girl who came back from America to marry her boyfriend and I'd stop this issue. If not, we have nothing to discuss.

The root of the matter is simple... Find me proof or keep it moving

TONYE001:
Marriage is about making choices. If a lady refuses to come back home and "find some average, struggling guys to marry and help their life while the guy also help their life", how can you describe such a lady as wicked?

Just like saying Nigerian men in the cities that refuse to go to the village to marry an average village girl is wicked.

This is a wrong analog because it is actually the truth. Men come home to marry the average village girl and even sponsor them. Men take their women abroad through marriage and were you living under a rock with all the stories we hear of how these women turn on their husbands? Yet two of my friends still came home to marry their girlfriends but I have NEVER HEARD OF ANY GIRLFRIEND DOING THAT.
The dude you quote was very right

1Sharon:
You saw that too.

I saw through his manipulation 😂

Baba is frustrated and wants to use guilt tripping and gaslighting tactics to make Nigerian women with papers come back and get him out 😂

Keep shouting manipulation upandan like a broken record. Yet you are still single and you are in the UK. Men have been coming home to marry women and the word hasn't broken down. I have two of my besties travel down to marry their girlfriends but I have NEVER SEEN any woman come home to marry her boyfriend.

But you are already learning...At least you still have some time left

cococandy:
Why would they do that when you hate them?

Who in their right minds would marry someone that harbors disdain for them?

You hate that they have rights. You hate that they won’t be doormats. You celebrate when something bad happens to them because they deserve it as western women.
After reading the way you guys talk about them on here, tell me why a smart woman would risk her life and sanity like that?

Hahahahaha

Bullshiit lie as always.

Gerrard59:
The thing is: we spend on our women. It is largely cultural. I think the state of the economy has affected men's spending power, but spending on our women is something we take pride in. Obviously, this has made some of these women become entitled, but we caused it. We use money to attract women, whether in Nigeria or outside. I won't forget the Liberian lady on TikTok with big yansh who Nigerian guys beckoned to move to Lagos, where "big boys" would spend on her. In other African countries, our men are noted for trying to outspend the native men. As noted, this is not possible outside Africa where our spending power no reach. But it is ingrained in our men to spend money on women. Our men LOVE sex so much and would spend anything to have it. We have men marrying today and carrying side chics tomorrow. We have men who buy houses for side chics, men sending 500K to random girls simply because the girls are "beautiful", going to girls' hostels to carry women etc. In fact, one of the driving factors many young men want to make money, even by all means, is so they can have sex with many women, and this involves money. Womanising is a rich man's sport.

I see this GehGeh's reign as a mere passing movement. This is not the first time, as we have had Stingy Men Association, Patrichary FC, and many more. Nigerian men would keep spending on their women.

You are wrong. All Africa men love women and sex as much as Nigerian men BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO PEDESTALIZE THE ISSUE BY USING MONEY TO FORCE A GIRL'S ATTENTION.

That's the issue right there. Without money, most Nigerian men think they can't get women. Other African men do get women based on mutual attraction. And I know most of the Nigerian men you talked of are mostly from the East and some from west and south. I don't know much about the northerners.

I don't spend money to attract a girl's attention and never will. I have said it here often. No phones, rent, houses or any of that shiit. Any woman I have given gifts of clothes have already spent 10x that much on me. That's what the redpill or it's other variants online keep saying. Go for who chooses you and let them invest in you. YOU DO NOT NEED MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. IF YOU DO, YOU ONLY ATTRACT GOLDDIGGERS AND YOU LACK SELF ESTEEM.

Gerrard59:
I said most of his ideologies are unrealistic, not all. Telling men to avoid paying the school fees of a girl he is not married to is realistic and makes sense. However, the other ideologies are not realistic. Our men would continue to spend on women, both related and unrelated. When it comes to sex, our men go all the way to spend. Sex is where women have the upper hand.

So advising them not to spend on sex is unrealistic? Of course not. Will most men pass the test?? No. That's why they will keep getting ripped off till they learn.

Gerrard59:
It would be dishonest to criticise GehGeh without criticising Ndi feminazis who ruled the Internet space between 2015 - 2020. Then, person no fit drink water drop cup. Men lost jobs and got "cancelled". Uloma abi Ulxma, the cheerleader, once called for the kpai-ing of men. Whether she knows her father is a man or not, I don't know. Nkechi Bianeze has been on Facebook championing "iron condemn preek". There's Saidiboj who has mocked "broke men" endlessly. Nigerian broke men don suffer sef. They get a lot of insults, one would think Nigeria is a wealthy nation.

Allow GehGeh to be. I've watched only one of his videos as I find most of his ideologies to be unrealistic. Nigerian men love sex and would pay anything to put the head inside. So, most of what he says won't be implemented. Nevertheless, he's a necessary evil as it's Ogbono for Ogbono.

May the best wo(man) win. No has the monopoly to gender brouhaha.

So him saying men should be more frugal and avoid spending women who use them for resources is unrealistic ideology?

Gerrard...you need to wake up

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

Bla bla blaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Always complaining.

SpencerForbes:
A Nigerian TikTok influencer that preaches a bit of what we do here and now he suddenly has lots of young boys worshipping him. You can search online tho.

I have checked him out. He speaks facts. I feel many of these young niggas are chasing him for clout and will still simp. Sola on Twitter has been preaching the redpill for years and many men still abuse him for it. I think the ghe ghe dude added videos and speaks pidgin which kinda makes it more relatable to men. But the question is, when konji comes knocking, will they still remember his teachings or will lose their shiit!

That's a personal battle, you only win with time and dedication

Desazubu:
It is high time the indigenous Lagosians to take back their land from all these invaders.

Why am I not surprised?

Everything is about land grabbing to you.

Kobojunkie:
You don't seem to know the meaning or application(or both) of the word emotional, do you? 🥱🥱🥱

K