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bestman09:
So you think I supported her? What she did was like a taboo to me.

Nice!!!

That stuff happened so much to men in the western world and no one gives a shit. Imagine sponsoring your own wife to the UK, with the kids and being deceived only to be dumped because the laws favored women? Nah!!!

Infact, it's so rampant in the UK that the police specifically warned Nigerian women about coming to report their husbands indiscriminately. Just shows how much women use men since the beginning of time

bestman09:
Na wao!

My own blood sister divorced her husband who laboured to take her to London because he had issues with immigration and was deported, after 8 years of marriage!

And what did you do to her?

Nothing!!

Na men dey do men

olawaleatanda:
oga both of your stories no clear jare

But still seun will move it to frontpage for his own selfishness

If you believe that story, you will believe a unicorn exists under the night sky

Samantha125:
Comrade, you didn't make any strong points, you came with the intention of criticizing our native attires thinking that I wouldn't find anything on your tribes...

Look at how you spoilt your own thread with baseless and tiring arguments.

Just post pictures and stop arguing.

DrAda:
Sickening. Lives wasted because of a few idiots elected as leaders. Why can't we all co-exist for crying out loud and engage diplomacy when conflict arises? May God save us all

For once on NL Ada, I agree with you.

It doesn't just make sense to me. I guess humans are made for war and peace is just a lie

Kobicove:
The guy overstayed his visa and was deported, nothing special here so I don't see the need for all the brouhaha

Did you even read?
He was already going home, that's why he was at the airport....

Boss emmaodet dey drop chilling pills!!!


Nice one boss

emmaodet:
Being Abandoned When you Hit Rock Bottom

You were broke. Sick. Mentally drained.

And suddenly everyone vanished.

You sent texts. No replies.
You cried for help.

Nobody answered.
That moment teaches you the coldest truth: If you’re not useful, you’re invisible.

So you rebuild and never let yourself get that weak again.

💯

emmaodet:
When a man buries a parent, he buries a part of himself.

The last person who cared for him unconditionally is gone.
He realizes: No one’s coming to hold me anymore.

💯

emmaodet:
Pain is the greatest teacher in the universe. Run from it and it will chase you to the very end. Use it wisely and become a man of utmost character and integrity.

💯

emmaodet:
Successful men share one dark truth:

They buried their emotions early in life.

Now they walk through the world with a dead heart.

💯

emmaodet:
Invest in yourself.
You can never lose; you'll either grow richer or wiser.

💯

Ganjafama:
Cool, but, some of the dresses are too multicolored for my liking.

Are you a woman?

Mtchewww

360command:
her old visa was still valid(1month before expiring) I never said expired visa. She had no DUI, no criminal record. Her case to me is shocking..

Here on nairaland, I made a comment knowing someone who committed a big criminal offense though he had mental issues back in Nigeria. When he got caught, lawyer argued showing several proof of him having mental cases from Nigeria. They won the case.
Immigration was there to pick him up, they argued on the case, they won. Though he was sent to a psychiatric home for rehab. Fast forward, he is out,has his documents.
Why am I saying this? We all have different stars.. the guy who committed an offense, 9 out of 10 people said, "Hin own don finish, dem go send am back", I even thought he would be sent back but they never did.
Meanwhile, that girl who has a clean record, on a student visa, wanted to renew but denied and subjected for deportation.

And who did you know she has a clean record? Are you ICE? You know her DS-160 replies? Her social media posts?

Everyone who was ever cancelled had a reason for it...a legal basis for cancelling their visas. Even as students, if you had a clean record, you'd be given a lawyer who would fight your case by your school

I have seen other students go for visa renewal in Mexico and Dominican Republic and they came back successfully just a month ago. And you are talking about stars? Just tell me another thing biko.

360command:
a Nigerian girl who renewed her student visa got canceled. They failed to give her a renewed visa and they canceled her old visa. She is subjected for deportation.

Because she had an issue!!!
1. Social media post
2. DUI
3. An offence where her fingerprint was taken at the police station


Or some other offences....
Stop the fear mongering...it's sickening!!!

How can you cancel an expired visa bro? It's already expired!! Jesus!!!

guobe:
Not lies

You are not even in the US and you talk as if you are an expert.

So the chat of someone who ignored you since 2022 is what you expect me to trust?

Nawa o

1MILLIONLiGHTS:
Tall people are the STARS anywhere anytime. I'm sure even Jesus and Prophet Mohammed were all tall. Nikola Tesla was a very tall man and he lived long. May be because he didn't have a wife.

Nikolas Teslas lived long?😳

Just checked...he did indeed lived long at 86...and he was 6'2 feet tall

Veste:
Marry a nigerian, Ghana or Zimbabwe woman in the USA, UK or Canada and regret your life. I warn those planning to do it now or in the future.

I thought Ghanaian and Zimbabwean women are more feminine and humble?😳

SonOfWords:
Day you realize this as a man, is when you begin to actually "live".

I realized a long time ago ..that why I'm still aLIVE

olawaleatanda:

It's better this way...you develop yourself..become more savage and independent...so you don't ever need anyone's opinion to be happy or sad.

And since you don't trust anyone, no one will ever use you again....

olawaleatanda:
To be a man is a lonely road,No one cares to know the pain that you invest just to get Rich 💔

Just like the fans blaming the footballer

No one gives a shit about your struggles as a man.

You are all you got!

emmaodet:
STRENGTH ISN’T A CHOICE. IT’S THE ONLY OPTION LEFT.

They say, What doesn’t kill u makes u stronger.

But they forget to mention it also makes u colder.
More savage. More guarded. Less trusting.

Life doesn’t build strong men through comfort.
It breaks them first.
It humbles them.
It tests them with betrayal, heartbreak, loss, and silence.

You trusted too much? Now u read people twice.
You loved too deeply? Now your heart has armor.
You were too kind? Now you move with calculation.

Because once you’ve been used, overlooked, betrayed, and left for dead
You stop hoping for rescue.
You become the weapon.

You realize strength isn’t a vibe.
It’s not a trend.
It’s the only thing that keeps you from being stepped on.

So let them talk.
Let them say you’ve changed.
Let them call you cold, heartless, different.
They weren’t there in the trenches with you.
They didn’t see what it took to rebuild what they destroyed.

Because here’s the brutal truth:

The world doesn’t care about your pain.
It only respects the beast that pain built.

So stay cold.
Stay calculated.
Stay dangerous with purpose.

As for me bro, pain taught me silence.
Silence taught me strength.
n Strength made me wise.
Now I walk with depth.

Your peace is earned through power.
Your healing comes with scars.
Master yourself, or suffer with the rest.

The pathway to SelfMastery is the way.

As copied

Once again...

💯...

Especially the cold, hard, brutal, merciless part.

No one gives a shit about you as a man except you. You are all you got!!

emmaodet:
Isolation is the price a man pays when he starts to fix his life.

💯

emmaodet:
Nobody checks on men until they’re successful again.

Go broke for a minute.

Watch how fast the love turns into silence.

This is why men grind in private and trust very few.

💯

able20:
Mr. Don't forget that the Foreign Embassies are monitoring events in Nigeria
The president of a country determines the approval rating, not the governors

In the USA, Russia, China and Europe, they don't talk about the governors.
Nigeria has a weak, Clueless and corrupt President
They know that Nigerians are running away

Nonsense