₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
The thing is: we spend on our women. It is largely cultural. I think the state of the economy has affected men's spending power, but spending on our women is something we take pride in. Obviously, this has made some of these women become entitled, but we caused it. We use money to attract women, whether in Nigeria or outside. I won't forget the Liberian lady on TikTok with big yansh who Nigerian guys beckoned to move to Lagos, where "big boys" would spend on her. In other African countries, our men are noted for trying to outspend the native men. As noted, this is not possible outside Africa where our spending power no reach. But it is ingrained in our men to spend money on women. Our men LOVE sex so much and would spend anything to have it. We have men marrying today and carrying side chics tomorrow. We have men who buy houses for side chics, men sending 500K to random girls simply because the girls are "beautiful", going to girls' hostels to carry women etc. In fact, one of the driving factors many young men want to make money, even by all means, is so they can have sex with many women, and this involves money. Womanising is a rich man's sport.

I see this GehGeh's reign as a mere passing movement. This is not the first time, as we have had Stingy Men Association, Patrichary FC, and many more. Nigerian men would keep spending on their women.

You are wrong. All Africa men love women and sex as much as Nigerian men BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO PEDESTALIZE THE ISSUE BY USING MONEY TO FORCE A GIRL'S ATTENTION.

That's the issue right there. Without money, most Nigerian men think they can't get women. Other African men do get women based on mutual attraction. And I know most of the Nigerian men you talked of are mostly from the East and some from west and south. I don't know much about the northerners.

I don't spend money to attract a girl's attention and never will. I have said it here often. No phones, rent, houses or any of that shiit. Any woman I have given gifts of clothes have already spent 10x that much on me. That's what the redpill or it's other variants online keep saying. Go for who chooses you and let them invest in you. YOU DO NOT NEED MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. IF YOU DO, YOU ONLY ATTRACT GOLDDIGGERS AND YOU LACK SELF ESTEEM.

Gerrard59:
I said most of his ideologies are unrealistic, not all. Telling men to avoid paying the school fees of a girl he is not married to is realistic and makes sense. However, the other ideologies are not realistic. Our men would continue to spend on women, both related and unrelated. When it comes to sex, our men go all the way to spend. Sex is where women have the upper hand.

So advising them not to spend on sex is unrealistic? Of course not. Will most men pass the test?? No. That's why they will keep getting ripped off till they learn.

Gerrard59:
It would be dishonest to criticise GehGeh without criticising Ndi feminazis who ruled the Internet space between 2015 - 2020. Then, person no fit drink water drop cup. Men lost jobs and got "cancelled". Uloma abi Ulxma, the cheerleader, once called for the kpai-ing of men. Whether she knows her father is a man or not, I don't know. Nkechi Bianeze has been on Facebook championing "iron condemn preek". There's Saidiboj who has mocked "broke men" endlessly. Nigerian broke men don suffer sef. They get a lot of insults, one would think Nigeria is a wealthy nation.

Allow GehGeh to be. I've watched only one of his videos as I find most of his ideologies to be unrealistic. Nigerian men love sex and would pay anything to put the head inside. So, most of what he says won't be implemented. Nevertheless, he's a necessary evil as it's Ogbono for Ogbono.

May the best wo(man) win. No has the monopoly to gender brouhaha.

So him saying men should be more frugal and avoid spending women who use them for resources is unrealistic ideology?

Gerrard...you need to wake up

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

Bla bla blaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Always complaining.

SpencerForbes:
A Nigerian TikTok influencer that preaches a bit of what we do here and now he suddenly has lots of young boys worshipping him. You can search online tho.

I have checked him out. He speaks facts. I feel many of these young niggas are chasing him for clout and will still simp. Sola on Twitter has been preaching the redpill for years and many men still abuse him for it. I think the ghe ghe dude added videos and speaks pidgin which kinda makes it more relatable to men. But the question is, when konji comes knocking, will they still remember his teachings or will lose their shiit!

That's a personal battle, you only win with time and dedication

Desazubu:
It is high time the indigenous Lagosians to take back their land from all these invaders.

Why am I not surprised?

Everything is about land grabbing to you.

Kobojunkie:
You don't seem to know the meaning or application(or both) of the word emotional, do you? 🥱🥱🥱

K

erad:
Entire loss how?
Not like she just upped and left. Her husband slapped her. What kind of weak man is that. You wey fit slap woman 2 days after wedding, what will happen after one month? After one year nko?

You no marry punching bag nah. If what he spent on the wedding and the people that sacrificed their time and resources to grace the event meant anything to him, he wouldn't have dared lift his hand to hit her.

So it's better she leaves him so he can happily marry a willing punching bag.

Very emotional post

maasoap:
Husband has remarried sharply without wasting his time. May be he made mistake too marrying the wrong person

How do you know?

Juoflife1:
The men are removing them to take over. Some seats in public offices are cursed. Ladies carry your own chairs when taking over these offices.

You are the only one with a thinking cap on.

You have a working theory

SpencerForbes:
Let’s talk about this sudden influx of young guys worshipping this geh geh.
Now my question is are they just realizing the redpill or they were just looking for a figurehead to spearhead the movement. But I’m sure the ladies won’t relent. They are going to be coming out with a new pattern or format.

Hard times really breed strong men. That’s why the 49th law of power states never admit to the use of the redpill. Think redpill but act bluepill. I’m still watching to see how this ends.

What's geh geh?

Softmirror:
He can take his child that is his own seed and primary responsibility if he doesn't want the mother.

Did you not read my post ni? He doesn't want any baby from HER.

You think she would give him the baby? 😳😳😳

Why dafuq is she asking him for child support and not full custody if that's what she wants?

*Sighs*

I'm done with you.

Softmirror:
Why is he running away from doing a DNA test?! Take a look at that kid again and look at the alleged father. He should do a DNA test to prove the world wrong.

He doesn't want a baby...why force it on him? Isn't it obvious she wanted to use the son as a cash cow? Yet she wants to collect child support from a man she kept calling a ritualist?

DoctorStanley:
That's all part of it. At least you've done your part to have a son. That he later joined NBM cult is not your fault!

But you don't want a son from HER. That's the main point. Y'all agreed to a deal and a baby is not part of it. Her decision to get pregnant and use the baby to ask you for money when you clearly don't want a baby is manipulative. Why ask for money from the dude you kept calling a ritualist? You wanted the baby but you can't afford to take care of it and you kept wailing at the man who clearly doesn't know you were pregnant or even agreed to it?

That's my point. And if you still don't get it by now, you will never get it. Don't mention me again

DoctorStanley:
How about he turns out to be something huge?

What if he turns out to be a terrorist that will disgrace your ancestors?

DoctorStanley:
So it's none of your biz if some woman steals your baby?

Yes it's not

DoctorStanley:
Alaye why don't you pack up and fly to Kenya on top someone who says he doesn't know you. I bet you can't afford to halt you life and start flying to Kenya!

K

CaptainFM1:
Unless you're his spokesperson, I don't know why you have too much skin in this to the extent of you seeking for respect on his behalf.

Well, nobody is disrespecting anyone. Unfortunately, once your dirty linen is being washed on the Internet, you can't stop people from positing their views.

And you are her spokesperson? Defending her like he stole your gf before or you are jealous of his wealth. You don't even know the girl in question.

DoctorStanley:
I know a girl who never told the guy there was a baby and he has no idea till today. But they're in different countries

Not our business.

She wanted the baby. Women know what to do if they don't want babies.

DoctorStanley:
He has to first acknowledge fucking her. That's the first step

Go and force him naaaa

Acknowledger!!!

CaptainFM1:
If you don't want a baby, you don't drill a leaking shaft in an axle.

What are you implying the lady should have done if he came inside her?

I really should leave you to it now. Gosh!

Are you telling me an average African woman doesn't know what to do if a man cums in her?😳😳😳

Are you living under a rock?

You guys are so logically impaired when it comes to women issues and it's sad honestly.

DoctorStanley:
Simple: money could have nipped this in the bud
Also see below

Alaye stop all the talking and let her come to Nigeria. All social media will follow her progress. Will he send his DNA samples via plane or what?

I guess she is too broke to afford a plane ticket.

omooba969:
Wow! So you actually equate child support to being in a child's life as a parent....REALLY! ??

O well, you're Nigerian, why am I even surprised.

Very emotional set of beings and this one is even a man oh.

Yet when such happened to him and his brothers, he will start complaining about wicked women.

@CaptainFM1
Quite me properly or is that too hard for you?

CaptainFM1:
Stop mixing words up and down. Child support is sufficient as being in the child's life. Nobody is asking anyone to be there physically. Afterall, there are so many men that are physically present that can't also support financially.

Where you cannot reach or don't want to reach, let your money reach there.

You are still not addressing the issue. Was she forced to have a baby? If he doesn't want a baby and she does, why force him to pay for a child he clearly doesn't want. Is she disabled to work to feed a child of less than 5 years?

Then, she called him a ritualist and she still wants child support from the same ritualist? 🙄🙄🙄

How does that make sense?

omooba969:
WORD!!! 🙌 🔥 🔥 🔥

In family law, your submission can prove a case of 'entrapment' if well articulated.

Leave those guys and their emotional mindset.

The woman wants the baby abi and now she has a baby. Why can't she work to provide for that child or is she not a strong , independent woman again?

She can't care for a child that's not 5 years old on her own. Is she that broke? No work? No business? Haba nah!!! That shows you how messed up and manipulative she is.

DoctorStanley:
Plenty he did wrong. Said all sorts of things, even said he didn't know the woman. DNA test can be done anywhere. This is a matter money could have nipped in the bud - and he says money na water!

And how will she get his DNA for the test if she doesn't come to Nigeria?

She called him a blood money man yet wants child support from his blood money activities?

Have you ever asked yourself, why she can't get a job and relies on him to care for a baby that's not even 5 years old?

I don't pity Nigerians because y'all are so full of emotions. No logic at all

SmartPolician:
Oga, rest! That lady has tried all best possible means to reach Cubana CP. He keeps running away from his responsibility. He impregnated that lady and he knows that. That woman is acting like crazy because she's frustrated. She's too broke to take care of the child alone. That's why she's asking for child support and CP is angry that she exposed the product of his one-night-stand go wrong.


Think about it for a second. A lady you have never met in your life accuses you that you are the father of her child and demands a DNA test. You know you have never met her and you are very influential like Chief Priest. Of course, you will go for the test to prove your innocence. Afterwards, you make sure you jail the lady.

You are not smart sha.

Na today women dey accuse men of being the father of their babes only for DNA tests to say otherwise?

So she is broke but decides to get pregnant for him despite knowing he has a wife? What stops her from getting a job. she couldn't use birth control but is now pestering him for child support from a dude who doesn't want a baby? A woman can say no to a baby even if a man wants it and it's cool but when a man doesn't want it and she does, she goes ahead and gets that baby,THEN ASKS HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ON A KID HE NEVER WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE?

Are you hearing yourself?

samuelson06:
Life is a choice; life is a personal race. Do what you want with your life. Stop this society talk. Society is no God. Society isn't you.

Are you living under a rock?

Look around you and see if society is not shaping your very existence

Lovely post.

Watch as the nonvirgins yell and rant on here.

spiceadole:
MI is lying.
He is trying to cover up.
Or he is just a simp.

Wives are evil.
Women are wicked.

Men have nothing to benefit from getting married.


This is how they continue bragging but eventually will spend their hard earned money to marry the same evil and wicked woman...
Lolz

Are you jealous you weren't mentioned in his speech?

If you are doing well, your hubby will also publicly say it.