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RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 10:58pm On Jan 01, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
Toothless Bulldog, u have such powers yet your parents are languishing in Poverty at the village, why not use it and make them rich? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

This small boy can be funny grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Alright, thanks
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 10:45pm On Jan 01, 2023
Yusufisraelj:
@Lurdd

Yeah it takes two to make a love relationship work, it's perfectly fine for your feelings to change, however what made you start in the first place?

Your desire for a relationship wasn't clear enough, mind you is it because of the sex that you don't want her or you feel she's going to be a distraction? How are you sure of that? Is she jobless? Does she have something doing, is she committed to learning, can she fit into your future plans?

Bkos it's looking like you've had sex, so no need for commitment, most likely you were moved by what you saw rather than what you needed. Again if your mind is made up, let her go, next time know what you want, see it for what it is, decide to stay and make it work, except if the lady isn't putting commensurate efforts.
Thanks for this
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op):
Sheistoopretty:
I'm still waiting for your AMEN on my Prayer oo grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy

U will surely die a sad little man.. idiot grin grin grin grin grin
Don't be a sadist
We all will die some day
U don't have the power to pronounce judgement on anyone.but since you like the word death am gonna see u die this month
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 10:30pm On Jan 01, 2023
Yusufisraelj:
@Lurdd

Yeah it takes two to make a love relationship work, it's perfectly fine for your feelings to change, however what made you start in the first place?

Your desire for a relationship wasn't clear enough, mind you is it because of the sex that you don't want her or you feel she's going to be a distraction? How are you sure of that? Is she jobless? Does she have something doing, is she committed to learning, can she fit into your future plans?

Bkos it's looking like you've had sex, so no need for commitment, most likely you were moved by what you saw rather than what you needed. Again if your mind is made up, let her go, next time know what you want, see it for what it is, decide to stay and make it work, except if the lady isn't putting commensurate efforts.
Thanks I love this
Yes I might have wronged her.. which am sorry for..but while I thought about how my life will be this year I realised that I don't need this.
Which is better to tell her now than to play with her feelings
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 10:14pm On Jan 01, 2023
techWriter3:
moll you do to go back and beg her and allow her to ride you mercilessly like a bicycle again
grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 10:10pm On Jan 01, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
I learnt to suck the cock from ur wretched miserable mother languishing in the village!

She seduced u? Lmao, Imagine what a supposed adult is typing grin grin grin grin grin grin

That's how worthless people behave, they find a way to blame other people for their misfortune grin grin grin grin grin grin The wretched village boy is looking for who to heap his misery on. Village swine grin grin grin grin cheesy grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I have actually tried my best to make you understand what happened here. I was actually the victim here, try to understand things..not based on taking sides on gender
I Know u must be hurt, but don't make ur foolishness fool you..I didn't get anything on a platter I was the victim kk grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 9:58pm On Jan 01, 2023
Sheistoopretty:
Mr man, before u begin to kill urself, new year is just another new day, another Sunday and another Monday.

U don't want to lose concentration this year but when ur small wrinkled d**k rose, u couldn't control it.

If what u needed from her wasn't sex, then tell me what else it could be? Or u want to be her girlfriend so u two can be gossiping togther? undecided undecided undecided

Foolish thing, u have gotten what u wanted on a platter, hence the reasons for yearning this rubbish. Since you want to remain positive this year, I pray anyday you go back to any of your ‘Bad habit’ this new year, may u sleep and never wake up. Fool
Well this is uncalled for
Everyone has the right to change it's mind..and also apologize in the circumstance..
She was the one that actually seduced me in the first place.. so sometimes try to reason before you open your cock sucking mouth to speak..have some brains pls
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 9:41pm On Jan 01, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
Maybe you did not give her money after you guys parted in the morning. If you did, it would have been a sort of consolation
Everything I spent that day was about 28k
Also gave her money for trans
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 9:31pm On Jan 01, 2023
Oluwabucci:
Send me her contact let me solve this issue.
grin grin grin
Na u know wetin u wan use her number do
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 9:29pm On Jan 01, 2023
Rexymania:
The way ladies are falling for guys these days is alarming. You never collect number, Dem duh fall yakata lol
Aswear : cheesy
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 7:53pm On Jan 01, 2023
Nicepoker:
You used her in the sense that you are selfish. Just once and you back off. Something you should have drained all her values before you quit.
grin grin ;Di fear you
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 7:36pm On Jan 01, 2023
TheZeezle:
Don't forget to block her everywhere if she's trying to manipulate you bra.
Thanks man
Hope I made a good decision
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 6:51pm On Jan 01, 2023
VeryWickedSimp:
OP you have to go back and beg her and allow her to ride you mercilessly like a bicycle again.
angry angry angrybro not this year am too focused
RomanceRe: Did I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 6:44pm On Jan 01, 2023
VeryWickedSimp:
OP you have to go back and beg her
I have already done that,
Going back to beg her now equally means that I want her back. Which I dont
RomanceDid I Do Any Bad To This Girl by Lurdd(op): 6:39pm On Jan 01, 2023
I met this girl November last year
I was coming back from work when I saw her, so I decided to woo her..
So I started like hello excuse me the we chatted along..so I got her number and called her in the night, guess what she was already waiting for my call, then we got to know each other more..later on I asked her if she has a boyfriend she said no...so days later she was like feeling guilty of lieing she then told me she has..and he is in Abuja. That I should not mind there's nothing serious blw them that she's trying to cut him off...I said ok, and didn't care much about that..so on 31st we went out and on a date.it was about 8pm when we were about to leave..we heard gun shots around the hotel and the hotel management locked everywhere saying that cult boys are disturbing in the street.
So she asked me if we could lodge till morning that she's scared of leaving.
I said ok..paid with my credit card and we lodged that night...so as I was sleeping and had nothing in mind cus that was our first date ..so around after 10 I woke up to pee,I was surprised to see her completely naked and leening on me as I slept wearing only boxers..so immediately I saw that, I was moved and body changed I called her name and she answered and said she could not sleep.. I said Jesus quietly as I stood up heading to the toilet. What is this oh God as I was staring at my already hungry angry d*ck..it's been three years since I've had sex..what will I do now as I tried calming my d*ck down but all my efforts proved abortive..
Just as I was thinking, I heard her calling me that she's scared..my God what is this, I then came out and went to the bed she the kept her arm around me as I lay silently thinking..
On a second thought I kissed her first, before I could know what was going on, she rode me like a bicycle, pounced on me delt with me mercilessly...so today I was thinking to myself that I don't need this ...like this girl has come to make me loose focus, and concentration this year and in life...just when I was thinking she called me.
Kept calling till 24 missed calls she saw me online, texted me I didn't reply...she called me again I picked and told her I don't want this anymore she cried kept crying that I have used her, I tried to console her she refused.. saying all men are the same bla bla bla, I used her this and that, but deep inside me I know that I didn't use her.. it just came to me this morning that I don't want this..this year
I apologized that I was sorry..but I don't want distractions this year...
Nairaland did I do wrong to her
Nairaland GeneralPls How Can I Deal With This by Lurdd(op): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2022
Yearstarday I went to withdraw money for today Christmas..it was about 9:00 in the morning so I went to the nearest p.o.s center to withdraw some money, so I got there and wanted to withdraw but there was no network in my bank Union bank...so the attendant tried two times and it wasn't successful because of bad network so I left for work on getting to my shop I also tried a center near my shop and the attendant also tried three times but no success so it was about 12 : 00 yesterday I received an alert of all those failed transaction #7000 five times. So I was shocked cus it has never occurred to me before..so I went back to the various places I tried making the transaction..but they said there's nothing they can do about it that I should wait for for 24hrs which I have already waited..but no refund.
So I don't really know what to do right now..
Anyone who have had the same experience should help me on how to solve this..thanks
I will be reading the comments
HealthRe: Photo Of Oko Poly Student Who Committed Suicide Over Failed Relationship by Lurdd: 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2022
Aswear bro
afribookorg:
Oh God! This simp has disgraced us.

Oga,may your judgment not be a gentle one.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls After Money by Lurdd(op): 9:02pm On Oct 17, 2022
Nigerian Girls are scum huh
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls After Money by Lurdd(op): 7:51pm On Oct 17, 2022
Starz825:
Money na the only language a lot of people not just girls understand in this country...but some girls own dey annoying....like can't you love a guy without his cash..

Most have nothing to offer

True Love ....none
Romanticism...none
Honestly
Total wast of time
RomanceWhy Are Girls After Money by Lurdd(op): 7:36pm On Oct 17, 2022
You hardly see a girl that is independent
Am not saying that a guy should not spend on his girlfriend but the high rate of Girls demands are very much frustrating.
Majority of girls in this country are after money in a relationship, once they get a boyfriend, it will be as if they just opened a free donation account. and the worst part of all is that they have no single remorse or conscience while demanding for it. As if they don't know how hard the country is, or they don't feel the same stress while working to get their own money. Once you have a girlfriend boom her financial problems will come left and right...and the funny part is that after acquiring both your money and theirs, yet they
Have nothing to show for it, and the men giving out the money still prosper and make it more than them...am not trying to sound sarcastic but honestly speaking especially Nigerian girls need to change the way they think about relationship... relationship should be equal treatment..they keep pushing men away with this..after all na men go still Marry una, if una like keep up with it, we go see who go marry who, Thank you
RomanceRe: As A Young Lady, Would You Rather Build With A Man Or Marry An Already Made Man? by Lurdd: 7:19pm On Oct 13, 2022
Rozross:
I'll rather marry an already made man, i deserve a soft life because i don't know how to grind and i don't have power.May God bless me with a very soft life that i truly deserve. Though a broke or hustling man has never approached me all my life, it's an indication that i'll live a very soft life.
Common shatap angry
HealthRe: Amelia Pounds, Nigerian Lady, Dies During Plastic Surgery In India (Photos) by Lurdd: 7:04pm On Oct 08, 2022
grin grin grin
Serves her right
HealthRe: Amelia Pounds, Nigerian Lady, Dies During Plastic Surgery In India (Photos) by Lurdd: 7:02pm On Oct 08, 2022
Olayetan:
cry

What a sad way to depart earth...
Imagine
RomancePlease Guys Advise Me On What To Do, Should I Try by Lurdd(op): 5:25pm On Sep 05, 2022
Pls advise me on this
I am 23 years of age, and I live alone, I have been hustling for myself and also contributing in the family affairs with the little I have.
I wrote jamb last year but I was not admitted.
Lately I have been bothered with something, my friends that also live alone,each time I come to their place I see different girls, and when ever we hag out together as friends they tell stories of how their relationships are going and how they had sex,this and that.
And me, I have not had a girlfriend before, and no girl has ever come to my place before, and not a virgin tho,but I've only had sex once, and that was a long time ago.
So my friends when they tell this stories, they often look at me to tell how mine went, and I won't have any stories to tell, and they will see me as a dull guy.
So it has made me want to have a taste of a relationship at least to know how it feels or the joy it gives, cus I feel am been left out and it has really bothered me for a while. so I want to try a relationship.
Fact: I don't know how to talk to girls or starting a conversation. So I just feel like dropping this here for me to get your candid advise.thanks
CelebritiesRe: Lady Begs To Follow Mayorkun Home From Abia State by Lurdd: 9:07pm On Jan 02, 2022
This clito gender and stupidity be like 5&6 grin
CrimeRe: Fear Grips Umuahia Residents As Bird Turns To Old Woman (Photos) by Lurdd: 7:46pm On Nov 23, 2021
This is shocking
But who saw the bird when it transformed
Or should I say,where's the video
SportsRe: Emotional Farewell As Ole Gunnar Reveals Next Move Following Man Utd Sack (Pix) by Lurdd: 7:02pm On Nov 22, 2021
Nothing should be emotional here because
This man is something else
RomanceRe: Why Are Women In A Rush To Get Married? by Lurdd: 8:09am On Nov 22, 2021
grin angryshe is just taking her chances
Before she go turn reach 40years
FamilyRe: Is It Too Late To Start Looking For A Wife At 36 Years Old ? by Lurdd: 9:06pm On Nov 21, 2021
Oga go and marry
And stop chanting nonsense
CelebritiesRe: Baba Fryo: Davido Shunned Me In My Time Of Need But Donated N250m To Orphanages by Lurdd: 8:51pm On Nov 21, 2021
grin oga abeg go sidon

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