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This is becoming too much with our so-called men of God sheep in wolf skin with rape cases, paedophiles, impregnating little girls, there is much to this than the eyes can see.

You entrust your daughter into the hands of these men of God, they plot a way to take away their virtues with the word of God, and you do the same with your little daughter they take away her virginity not minding their age.

These men will have sex with your wives and still go after your daughters, when you hear their stories you become surprised at the extent of taboo this people can commit, an act too sacrilegious that you cannot even think of not to talk of committing.

A girl once shared her ordeal in the hands of her own father who was a pastor at Redeemed Christian Church of God, who started molesting her at the age of 13, ordered her not to tell anyone, he conducted did 3 abortions on her. The pastor passed away when she was 21 and she revealed this dirty secret during his burial. A pastor molested even her own daughter, is that not enough evidence to show you how demonic these men are becoming? Continue @ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/pastors-and-imams-should-be-banned-from-visiting-peoples-homes-and-calling-peoples-wives-and-daughters-on-phone.html

NwaAmaikpe:




Incomplete list.
Your MURIC prof didn't make the list or are Imams exempted?

Nope Check the list at number 7...

Sugarcane seller taking his time to self-service off the day’s stress in broad daylight. The same hand he uses to attend to his customers, he uses to jerk off. Jeez! Watch Video https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/man-captures-moment-a-sugar-cane-seller-was-jerking-off-in-broad-daylight-video

Look at how someone else posted the same news i did and the tread didn't get closed, i posted on 3rd oct while he posted 4th oct still he managed to hack in over 50k views while i was still at 1k. If its to block person now that one will not waste time at all.
See mine: https://www.nairaland.com/5449910/see-drama-woman-proposes-man

And their: https://www.nairaland.com/5453053/lady-goes-knees-beg-boyfriend

A male booty call has explained his encounters with servicing married women; he explained how these women expressed their frustration over their men. Read his comments: @ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/gigolos-confession-i-have-listened-to-so-many-cheating-wives-rant-about-their-husbands-are-too-low-self-esteemed.html

A drama has ensued in the south eastern part of Nigeria after a lady took a bold step to offer an engagement ring to her boyfriend whom she has been dating for the past seven years. See video @ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/see-drama-as-woman-proposes-to-man-outside-a-mall-after-7-years-of-dating-video.html

Every problem on the face of the earth has at least a solution. All that is required towards solving any problem is absolute focus and just in time, it will belong to the past.

I have heard many cheating wives lament that “the only reason why they cheat on their husbands is because they are weak in bed”. I want to say firstly that the man in question is not your boyfriend, but your husband; and as such, his problem automatically is yours, because the two of you are now one flesh.

Having established the one flesh phenomenon, if he is weak in bed, then you the wife is also weak in bed irrespective of your high libido. His weakness is not just his problem alone but yours too; and wise people do not run away from their problem, rather they face it headlong, ensuring it belongs to the past.

Divers problems have been on the earth before we made our first cry, and will continue to evolve as long as we have breath in our nostrils. Therefore, it is vital we develop problem solving skills if we must stay afloat the problem waters of this earth.

Dear cheating wives...Continue

A Nigerian known as Ray Starboy was attacked in Dublin, Ireland by their police. The young man was seen walking by in the video and two cops ordered him to stop, he tried to enquire what his offence was but he didn’t get an answer, he was rather body slammed on the ground by the two officers and handcuffed.
See video>>> [color=orange]https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/police-brutality-see-what-this-nigerian-passed-through-in-the-hands-of-police-europe-video.html[/color]

spyg1:
who was recording it?

It was me

A hotel staff named Vincent who tried to prank Tacha in her hotel room where she lodged has received a dirty slap from Tacha who doesn’t take nonsense from anybody. Vincent entered her room and accused her of raping one of their customers, and in the middle of the accusation, Tacha landed a hot slap and threw him out of her room. See Video>> https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/10/prank-gone-wrong-man-receives-dirty-slap-when-trying-to-prank-tacha-video.html

A man who has chosen to remain anonymous due to some reasons best known to him has shared his thought on what he thinks is the best way to solve tension problems in marriage, hear his thoughts below;

“Sidechicks are very important in marriages. Who do you run to when you are having quarrels with your wife probably because you over indulge her? Sidechick. Who do you run to when your wife just had a baby and needs to heal? Sidechick. How do you prove to your wife that you cannot surrender to her when she tries to manipulate you with her meow? Sidechick... View more

GOFRONT:


That is how I have one in my house presently and she has refused to go.....

And I can't continue to shine Ogbono everyday....Man pikin gats eat Egusi and Vegetable soup.

Chai! See them...

A lady Identified as Rita 33, has been arraigned to Maitama high court on September 19th for destroying her ex-boyfriend’s house hold appliances in a disagreement between them. Eze 35, told the court how Rita began to smash everything in his house in Gwarimpa when fight broke out between the two after he got tired of the relationship and called it off.

Eze said that Rita moved into his house and started living with him just about a month after they met, she live with him for up to 3 year and he discovered that Rita was a troublesome person. According to him, Rita constituted nuisance in the compound and was known for her troubles.


“I have suffered in the hands of this woman since she manipulated me to let her move into my house, since then I have taken up the responsibility to be provide for her, since she lost her job 2 years ago she has never made any effort to get another one, she will bring a family member to come live in the house for months without consulting me first. I never mentioned marrying her but she had tried to drag me to go meet her people and pay her bride price”. Eze said.


“I have tried many times to call it quit but she would never move out of my house, but rather she would fight me and later apologize, I have wanted her to leave long ago because I couldn’t stand it anymore. She had secret lovers which I knew but I didn’t bother to investigate because...Continue

Zinny25:
hahahahahahahaha funny post. Especially no 4

but guys are also desperate,not just girls... when it comes to this issue of marriage eeeh e go just be lyk say na girls own bad pass

It looks like you're so guilty of that number 4...lol

sinaj:
The first one sha

Guys are guilty too

Women are so guilty of this no 1, i can attest to that and no 6 too.

Don't Listen To Those Who Say Your Success Will Intimidate Men From Marrying You - Reno Omokri
Reno Omokri Offers Some Relationship Advice To Young And Single Intending Ladies
The former SSA on youth matter to President Goodluck Jonathan and the pastor of the Mind of Christ Christian Center in California and Abuja, Reno Omokri, has offered a resounding relationship advice on Facebook to young women who are scared of driving men away with her success. Hear his word;
“Dear single women,

SUCCEED BIG TIME. Don't listen to those who say your SUCCESS will INTIMIDATE men from marrying you. You don't need that sort of man anyway. Hold PAY, PRAY, SLAY and you will get a man that will STAY! But when that man comes, don't try to BOSS him especially if you are more SUCCESSFUL than him. You are the BOSS in the OFFICE. He is the BOSS at HOME”

Meanwhile men have a societal induced believe system which says that all successful women are rude and disrespectful, matter of fact the richer than she is the more troublesome she will become as a wife. Men have to start the unlearning process of this kind of generalized thoughts and take charge of their lives and stop going for low class ladies who put no value into their lives rather than become a drag.
Source: https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/09/dont-listen-to-those-who-say-your-success-will-intimidate-men-from-marrying-you-reno-omokri

Stephenomozzy:
Hmm... T'was getting to the part where the point would have reared its head up and you just spoilt everything with link.

Also, what was the sample size/criteria you used in your research Sire, because confidently saying 80% of all Nigerian men hmm.

You would have shared a good "opinion" - just share it here

From our research as a relationship blog, we conducted a series of poll in major cities like Abuja, Lagos, PH, Kano, Enugu, Anambra and so on and we made our discovery, not only men, women also 95% of them are not happy with their husbands, just only happy to be a married woman thats all.

In the research we discovered that men would rather go to village in search of a wife or marry a low class girl hoping to get rest of mind, i have encountered many guys who regretted their choice of wife years after marriage, but will never share it with anyone.

My heart bleeds for most men, who are in self-made bondage because of culture; they have learnt to take society’s opinion at heart therefore, they follow the crowd mentality and end up with the worst kind of women.

In my research from dealing and understanding relationships with my blog, a few things have come to play, at least 80% of Nigerian men never marry the women of their dreams, and a lot of others are just at the point of making that same mistake too.

I have gotten numerous calls and emails from men asking me the best way to understand what women really want and to analyze the complications in a break down. And some also want to be sure the girl they are dating isn’t pretending only to start displaying her true colour.

What these men are dealing with is a self-esteem issue. Most men do not want to learn, they think they can figure things out all on their own, so they keep walking around afraid within, not nearing good women but rather having sex with low class girls up and down, then after a while they settle in marriage and philandering...Continue@ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/09/why-80percent-of-nigerian-men-never-marry-the-women.html

Oleije22:
Hmmm

All these bet9ja people wettin sef?

Donalben:
Karma is a bitch

Sure

Before I say anything more, let me start by saying I’m not here to judge you—your decisions are your own to make. Love isn’t black and white, and often we end up falling for people who aren’t available. If you do find yourself in the situation where you’re in love with a married man, it’s important to know what you’re signing up for, and the truth about what lies ahead of you if this relationship continues.


All relationships are challenging at the best of times, but being the other woman can bring a whole new set of problems with it. Here’s what you need to know:

1. He will not leave his wife. Did you know that less than five percent of men actually leave their wives for the woman they’re having an affair with? Even if he tells you he’s desperately unhappy, he doesn’t love her, or he’s going to leave—chances are he won’t.
This might be because of the financial implications related to divorce, his religious beliefs, his desire to maintain his family man image, or because he still actually cares for his wife—even though he might protest against this.
So it doesn’t matter how many times he says he’s going to leave—you need to know that it’s just words. Actions speak far louder.

2. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. At the end of the day, people will go to the end of the earth for the things they truly want. If a man wanted to be with you, and share the rest of his life with you, he would do it. If he truly loved you, it wouldn’t matter what the costs or implications were.
However, if he’s content just sleeping with you on the side, while staying married to his wife, it’s because you’re not so important to him, that he’s willing to change his life for you. If you decided to leave him, he would simply go on or replace you with someone else.
You might not want to hear this, but put yourself in his shoes for a moment. Imagine you were married to a man you didn’t really love anymore, and you weren’t having sex with. Then you meet an amazing new man who you share a beautiful connection with. Would you stay with the man you’re married to, or would you leave so you could be with the man you really wanted?
It’s as simple as that. A man who really wants you will want you all to himself. If he values you, he’ll know that other men are also interested in you, and he’ll make sure he makes you his as soon as he can, before someone else swoops in...Continue@ https://www.hpluscommunity.com.ng/2019/09/things-to-consider-when-you-are-dating-a-married-man.html

Dating has made things so easy to spot out from your partner even before getting into a union, but sometimes we are not equipped enough with the knowledge to understand, translate or decipher whatever traits we discover during the courtship.

Regardless, a woman can be desperate to get married for all the wrong reasons, it could be age factor, it could be pressure from family or it could be because of the personality of the man in the picture, maybe his wealth, job, social status etc. but nothing good comes out of such marriages, you should proceed with caution and avoid such women if you find out that the woman you are dating is exhibiting any of these signs.

Signs to decipher that you are dating a woman who is desperate to get married

1. She frequently calls her family members on phone in your presence and requests you to greet them.
If your woman constantly calls different members of her family, from her mother, sisters, cousins, friends, co-workers etc. or she quickly wants to introduce you in person, you are dealing with a woman who is desperate to get married, don’t get me wrong, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with speaking with her family or friends, but if she frequently requests you to talk to them then she is trying to rush you into marriage. And if she is desperate, she will constantly talk about her family’s greatness.


2. She encourages you to have unprotected sex with her.
If your woman is desperate to settle down with you, she will be plotting an unexpected pregnancy to try to quicken her plans to get married. If you do not want to have get married to her, you must take the preliminary measures of using a condom during sex, even when she tells you ‘not to use condom and she’s not a baby but an adult who has been dating other men before’, take that statement seriously. If you do not take caution, she will trick you into an unwanted family way with her and when you go into the marriage you may have regrets for the rest of your life. Do not allow a woman to conquer you with unexpected pregnancy and use you to get out of singlehood. Getting pregnant requires a plan and not something to jump into, many men who went down that road has had nothing but regrets...Continue

A lady Identified as Rita 33, has been arraigned to Maitama high court on September 19th for destroying her ex-boyfriend’s house hold appliances in a disagreement between them. Eze 35, told the court how Rita began to smash everything in his house in Gwarimpa when fight broke out between the two after he got tired of the relationship and called it off.

Eze said that Rita moved into his house and started living with him just about a month after they met, she live with him for up to 3 year and he discovered that Rita was a troublesome person. According to him, Rita constituted nuisance in the compound and was known for her troubles.

“I have suffered in the hands of this woman since she manipulated me to let her move into my house, since then I have taken up the responsibility to be provide for her, since she lost her job 2 years ago she has never made any effort to get another one, she will bring a family member to come live in the house for months without consulting me first. I never mentioned marrying her but she had tried to drag me to go meet her people and pay her bride price”. Eze said...Read more

keryj:
Feminists needs to come advise this woman

Women are emotional beings...

People no longer have that fear of God judging what they are doing, especially when they come to holy place like the church. This young man was busy capturing women’s ass with his phone camera while the service was going on...Video

Please ignore her, let her carry on with her burden.

If you are that type that love to dig borehole during sex, please listen to this public service announcement by @UwanmaOdefa. Sofri sofri abeg make you no go damage person pikin...See Video

Olodo! So one single point none of you can come up with but if its to blow grammar and insult person now you will champion there...

Nigerian King Chukwudi Fidelis, has been arrested by India’s Anti-Narcotics Cell (ANC) in Navi Mumbai, his arrest also led to the arrest of another Nigerian identified as Hope Uzodima.

Fidelis, 30, was arrested at Sector 13 in Koparkhairane last week for the possession of 64 gm of methamphetamine powder worth 3.2 lakh, investigations revealed that he got the drug from Uzodima, and hence the police set out to nab him, The Hindu newspaper reported.

The 40 year-old Uzodima, living in Bonkhode village in Koparkhairane was arrested for possession of ivory and a sword cane. “While searching Mr. Hope’s house, we found a 12 inch-long elephant tusk worth ₹1.65 lakh and a sword cane. Upon interrogation, he confessed that he had smuggled them from Nigeria,” senior police inspector Ravindra Budhwant, ANC, said...Read More