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5 SIGNS YOU’RE FORCING YOURSELF TO LOVE SOMEONE

Love is a free gift and should come naturally. There are times we force things to happen in our favour. According to RelRules, things don't always work out in most relationships where only one person is committed. Here are signs you’re forcing yourself to love someone.

1. You make all the plans alone
Planning alone means you are alone. The other person does not care. It becomes an individual effort to make things work. Love is a two-way traffic.

2. You are the only one calling
Does your partner call you? How many times does he/she call you? If you are the only one calling, something is wrong somewhere. He or she should also call you daily for the relationship to work.
3. You keep confirming

If you keep asking him whether he loves you then things are not okay. Confirming your fears means the effort seems not to bear fruits. His actions are enough to keep the fire burning.

4. You are heartbroken
Do you feel heartbroken? Do you feel like you are walking alone? It might mean he or she is emotional unavailable. The relationship is doomed if you feel this way.

5. You don’t talk about the future
A good relationship is defined by future plans. If he or she rarely talks about the future, you are not meant to be. Find time to find out whether your partner really needs you in their life.

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/05/five-5-signs-you-are-forcing-yourself-to-love-someone.html?m=1

I have been in love for a while now and I also got married to the person who has been my rock-strong shield since the day he asked me to marry him.

I have been married for almost a year and a half and things have changed a lot. Yes, things were so much different back when we dating each other and after we got married. Well, I wouldn’t blame everything on my husband but there are a lot of things playing part in the transformation throughout.

We have started to disagree on a lot of things and have slept opposite ways because we disagreed on things and it didn’t go well. But I make sure that I kiss him in the morning to start a new day and try not to find a reason to quarrel with him. However, by the evening I get something for sure.

Well, I love him so much that letting go is not something that was not on my list and then I had to do things that made things so much better between us and brought back the charm that we were looking for. But at the end of the day, I would just say that when you are in love - true love, you don’t give up on each other.

But why shouldn’t you? That’s exactly what I am talking about in this post.

Giving up on your partner is not the solution
When you are facing all those troubles in your relationship, you might think that giving up would be the ultimate solution to your problems. However, that’s not the last resort because he is still the same person who went that extra mile to woo you by buying you gifts, taking you to the best places, being there for you when you needed him the most and most importantly became the hygienic person who changes his clothes and his men’s underwear on a regular basis. You cannot give up on him for all that he’s done for you, right?

Because there’s always hope in your relationship
When you love someone, you always have this ray of hope that would change things for better. When you are in love, I believe that you come with so many different options that would make things better for you both. All you do have to do is - sit down patiently and think about what connects you two together. Once you do, you will remember the times when you guys actually had fun going out and doing things you loved doing together

Because you have a future destined for yourself
You are together because you wanted to. You held each other's hand and made those promises to be there for each other no matter what. Why quit when you have the opportunity to mend things and start at a happy note? Giving up is for the losers and you did not sign up for this why you got married.

Don’t give up on each other too early when you have not yet tried things that would mend your relationship. Do you have suggestions about this? Do let us know in the comments below.

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/04/why-you-should-never-give-up-when-you-are-in-love.html?m=1

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In many marriages today, quarrels and fights seem to be inevitable, inasmuch as they are avoidable.

Words are like swords that can pierce through the heart and leave scars for a very long time, so one ought to be careful of their choice of words.

These are some of those words a woman should never for any reason say to her husband:

1. “YOU’RE NOT MAN ENOUGH”

A man’s ego is his biggest motivator and once that ego is gone, that man will lose every force in him to reach the heights he ought to. Telling your man he isn’t man enough will only kill his ego and masculinity, and those words will haunt him for a long time.

2. “MR X IS BETTER THAN YOU”

It’s even worse to put him in competition with another man and make him feel inferior to another. Never let the heat of the moment make you something as terrible as this; no man wants to feel less than another man, not for any reason.

3. “I REGRET MARRYING YOU”

Never let the heat of the moment make you say something as harsh and inconsiderate as this. You might not mean it, but those words will remain established in your man’s heart.

4. “YOU’RE SO WEAK”

A man’s strength and confidence lie in the fact that he’s strong in character and otherwise, and he feels strong when a woman notices this. However, when his wife tells him that he’s a weak man, those words will make him feel terrible and kill his confidence.

Don’t let a mere argument let these words come out of your mouth. You should be your husband’s strength and not his weakness.

5. “YOU’RE PATHETIC”

A lot of women resort to name calling and say so many stupid things to their husbands when they have a fight. How then do you expect that same man to love you and treat you right? You can’t plant orange seeds and expect a banana tree.

6. NEVER UNDERMINE HIS PAST DEEDS

A lot of women try to score points during an argument with their husbands by undermining the man’s efforts and criticising the things he did in the past.

This is a very wrong thing to do. Going back to undermine and underappreciate the things he had done in the past will make him do nothing in future.

7. “MY MOTHER WARNED ME AGAINST YOU”

Never bring your parents into an argument with your partner, and saying something as hurtful as this will kill almost any man to his bones. He’d never forget.

These words might seem ordinary, but they’ll leave deep scars in your man’s heart and if you are a wise woman, you’d never thread this path


Source.... http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/03/7-things-you-must-never-say-to-your.html?m=1

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Whatever he/she does to you now in Relationship is most likely what he/she would do or more in Marriage. For instance, If he slaps you at every small issues now, he will definitely slap or punch you in Marriage because he's been practising that with you right from relationship. If she raises her voice at you now calling you STUPID, Ofcourse she will call you MAD in Marriage.

Do not be deceived by the word "CHANGE", what is change? Change is constant, it's continuous, it's progressive! Yeah! Change is possible, with you and with him/her and it begins from NOW, not LATER!

"Do not allow in your relationship what you would not tolerate in Marriage". When you afford him/her the chance to behave that way, then expect to see more of it in Marriage but if it's on the positive side, then It's okay.

Imagine yourself still being around someone who forces you to sex(which has no other name but Rape) and you said it's by mistake, that he isn't someone like that, when he does it the second time, is it still by mistake or you enjoy it yourself not making known your bad intentions. May the Lord deliver You oh!

So please my people, just as I have stated from the beginning, "whatever he/she fondly do to you now in your Relationship is 98.9% what he/she will do to you Later in Marriage" and so don't allow in your relationship what you would not tolerate in MARRIAGE.

If he/she hurts you or rubbish you or does anything wrong, please discuss it and settle it wisely, if after doing all of these, if after being counselled and such refuses to change as a result of one "I don't care attitude" my dear please for your precious soul because you are not safe being there and ofcourse it's not a clear way. Relationship is not a DO or DIE affair and should not be a WAR ZONE. The Military wives and Military husbands are out again! Please be watchful so you don't land in the BARRACKS of Marriage where you would have to do a lot of drillings that paints one blue-black.

If there would be any CHANGES, Let it begin NOW!!!
I hope U hear that?
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Every relationship has its high and low moments. Even at times, not foreseen, things could suddenly change to a point of disbelief. Ugly surprises do occur in relationships but the fact remains that they do give us warning signs. Nobody wants a split in their relationship, hence, we ignore these signs especially when we either feel safe in it or we don’t want to let go. The important side to this is that, making a relationship work isn't a lone decision. It takes you-two to get at it – making efforts and showing commitment. No matter how unexpected a break-up seem to have happened, it always come along with alerts – various warning signs, and they could be silent or just too obvious even when you ignore them.

I understood that every stage of a relationship comes with uncertainties and the possibility of surviving at such moments would depend on the strength of the both parties. It would be a matter of concern if you or your partner chooses to deal with it alone. Break-up do happen, even to promising relationships, it’s mostly prompted by contrary influence, incompatibility or inability to compromise some standards.

Whichever way it comes, there are signs foretelling the possibility of a split in your relationship and from my experience I've gathered 27 signs for both genders that should get your attention.
1.When their excuse is always the same or contradictory.

2.When they stop doing what they did to get and win you.

3.When you’re often compared to their ex.

4.When he loves his privacy.

5.When she starts keeping sensitive secrets.

6.When she makes important decisions without your consent.

7.When she gets mad at minor issues, and especially starts nagging.

8.When you’re alone and nothing seems missing – You ran a whole day without his thought going through your mind?

9.When he introduces you as his friend and not his girl/woman/fiancée (as the case may be).

10.When they no longer cares about important matters that concerns you.

11.When they always find a fault about you to defend/justify their action(s).

12.When they take their friends as more priority than you.

13.When he replaces regular calling with text messages.

14.When she’s not always happy around you.

15.When it’s only sex that keeps your relationship alive.

16.When he gives you no attention because of his friends or job.

17.When they’re not in any way jealous about your friends of opposite sex or concerned about the calls you receive – This isn't insecurity, it only shows they’re keenly interested in you and the fact that they can’t afford to lose you.

18.When he no longer seek your opinion or careless about them.

19.When she communicates less with you but complains more.

20.When they hide their phones from you.

21.When she’s being controlled by her mother.

22.When he doubts every excuse/reason you give.

23.When she settles for you alone and avoids your family/friends.

24.No discussion about the future or they plan their future without you in the picture.

25.When she ask for a break regularly.

26.When both of you finds it difficult to make collective decision(s) or remain on the same page on important matters.

27.When there is nothing to propel you into mutual conversations with them.
When they become ungrateful for the good deeds and favours you did to/for them.


These warning signs are for our caution. If you don’t give them good attention, it could result in a sudden breakup of your relationship. If you ever experience any of these disturbing signs, have a good discussion with your partner and try never to ignore it. In a relationship, you’re truly happy when your partner is happy.
A one-sided affair will always find its way to hit the rock. The good side to this is that these signs can be swiftly identified; it’s either what he/she stops doing or what he/she starts doing. Whichever way, don’t let the negative signs be, don’t manage any, don’t prevent or ignore, cure them! Heal your relationship of little faults because it could form a breaking point for more trouble.


Source :http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/03/signs-that-shows-when-relationship-is-on-a-breaking-point.html?m=1

A lot of people feel relationship is all about I love you, the truth and fact remains that there is more to been in a relationship. One of the most important fact of been in a relationship is MATURITY. For you to be in a relationship you must be mature in all ramification. Today I will be sharing few tips on the mature ways of been in a relationship.


1. Be Patient with Your Partner: Avoid forcing your lover to do something against his or her wish. Let everything happen in the right time. There is no need to rush.

2. Be an Understanding Partner: Try to believe what your lover tells you, if he tells you that he failed to get airtime to call you, try to understand. He’s also a human being like you. If she tells you that by the time you called her, she was asleep–please try to understand. She also gets tired and she needs to rest like any other person.

3. Always Forgive and Forget: Avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a quarrel or any little misunderstanding.

4. Be Caring: I don’t mean you should go and borrow money from the bank and friends to buy costly things for your partner or taking him or her to expensive hotels. I mean doing the little things that suits your wallet. Trust me if your lover is understanding he/she will appreciate and love you that way.

5. Maintain the Communication with Your Partner: Try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her—At least once in a day. Don’t allow your lover to start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.

6. Be Faithful and Trustworthy To Your Partner: I know you may be far away from your partner. Sometimes, you may start doubting him or her, and you start thinking that maybe he or she is cheating on you. And because of that, you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people—which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. If you really love him or her, Trust in your partner and be faithful.

7. Avoid Listening to Rumors: These rumors are probably spread by jobless people. They keep gathering false information and then they spread it to you. Majority of them have intentions which aren’t good. Some are even interested in your lover, they admire the way he/she cares and loves you. So give them a deaf ear.

We would appreciate if you drop your contribution
Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/03/mature-ways-of-been-in-relationship.html?m=1

Trust is a matter of degree, and certain life experiences can impact a person’s ability to trust others. The issue of trust and relationships focuses on the question of whether the partners are faithful and honest enough to one another.



Trust generally is the act of placing confidence and being able to depend on someone or something. Trust is necessary for relationships, corporate bodies and the society to function and for any person to be relatively happy. Without trust, fear sets in.

Being able to trust your partner is the most important part of a being in a relationship. Trust is said to be the foundation of every relationship from which a strong connection can be built. Without trust in a relationship, relationships won’t grow and progress to a deeper level.

Here are a few tips on how to build trust between you and your partner;





1. Communicate effectively
Communication is an important factor in building trust between partners in a relationship. Partners should communicate their problems instead of sitting on them and brooding. When it comes to communication, do it face to face. A personal verbal communication strengthens the bond between partners in a relationship.

Do not decide to communicate over emails or phone calls, but instead make it more personal and direct. While communicating, make sure you keep an eye contact with your partner as researchers have found out that making frequent eye contact during a discussion strengthens the bond of partners.



2. Do not keep secrets from each other
Trust needs openness and honesty. If you are planning on building trust in a relationship, you must not plan to keep secrets and be open with your partner. To be a trustworthy partner, you must be honest in all your dealings and conversations with your partner.

Secrets break up relationships extremely fast, so it is essential to be honest and upfront about issues that arise together or individually. Having an open mind towards your partner helps him or her to share his or her deep dark secrets which are a sign that he or she trusts you.



3. Learn to say no
It is not everything that your partner wants is what you are willing and able to provide. You don’t have to say yes every time to everything your partner wants or proposes to do. If you don’t like something he or she proposes to do, simply say no. You shouldn’t be subjected to a relationship. You shouldn’t be forced to endure what you don’t like. When a relationship is based on equality, it will be easier for both of you to move forward.

Do not pander to the whims of your partner just to make him or her happy, as it will ruin the relationship.



4. Set boundaries
Having clear boundaries set together is essential to building trust amongst partners. Setting boundaries helps in explaining how much space you’re comfortable with, in a relationship, emotionally or physically.

Boundaries can be about all sorts of things: how much time you need alone, how comfortable you are telling other people about your relationship and so on. Having an understanding of one another’s boundaries is helpful when it comes to building trust in the relationship.



5. Do not make promises you cannot keep
always keep your promises!!! Keep your words and your promises. If you promised your partner that you are going to do something, make sure you do it.

It makes much sense that we want to keep promises we have made to our partner, but often the little things you promised get overlooked. Keeping your promises about little things is as important as keeping your promises about the big things.

When you are late, call your partner and explain what is holding you down, remember to pick up those items from the grocery store and remember to pay the bills on time. While these things look small and it might be overlooked, they go a very long way towards building trust in a relationship.



6. Do not cheat on your partner
It is in the natural composition of humans to be attracted to more than one person. But this does not warrant you to cheat on your partner. Even if you are bored of the relationship, spunk it up or else walks out of it. You should not cheat on your partner because he/she is not fun to be with or you do not enjoy his or her company anymore. To build trust in a relationship, make sure you tell your partner clearly that you’re not happy with the way things are between the two of you, and sort it out, or else, walk out of the relationship.



7. Take Responsibility for your actions
Own up to your behaviors, actions and inactions; don’t try to shift the blame to a circumstance or someone else. Be honest with yourself and to your partner as to why you made your decisions, actions and inactions

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/03/important-tips-to-build-trust-inarelationship.html?m=1

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One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate!
You see that statement of ' Am I your mate?' does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate.

1. MARRY YOUR SPEAKING MATE: Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don't marry someone that, when you are saying 'A' he or she will be saying ' Z' Once their is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can't enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can't engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.

2. MARRY YOUR SCHOOL MATE:
By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don't marry ' Mr Know all' or 'Miss Know all'. Don't marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your 'school' mate; someone who is ready to learn with you.

3. MARRY YOUR SPIRITUAL MATE: Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don't marry someone who's believe of God is different from yours. Two can't work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.

4. MARRY YOUR SPENDING MATE: Don't marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won't suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don't marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ' My husband's money is our money, but my money is my money'. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour , who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.

5. MARRY YOUR SEX MATE: Marry someone you have sexual feelings for. Sexual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. Sex plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don't have emotional feelings for, don't marry the person. If you don't have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a sexual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won't be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won't be reading the Bible or worshipping God 24/7. You will have sex! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with sexually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much!

6. MARRY YOUR SOCIAL MATE: Don't marry someone you won't be proud to go out with. Don't marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don't marry an anti- social person.
You might be wondering if your can find all the 'mates' in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don't need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you.
The promise of God for you is this : 'Seek and read from the book of the LORD: Not one of these shall be missing; none shall be without her mate. For the mouth of the LORD has commanded, and his Spirit has gathered them.' (Isaiah 34:16).
Say it loud and clear ' I shall not lack a mate!'
I hope this blessed someone reading?

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/03/six-reasons-why-you-must-marry-your-mate.html

Whether you are married or in a love relationship conflicts do arise. Today's lengthy but inspiring article (please accept my apologies in advance) is aimed at arming you with the right knowledge so that you could handle your issues in a mature way.

From one marriage to another, or from one love relationship to another, conflicts do arise and vary. With some, conflicts could arise in the area of sex, while with others it could be in the areas of family finance, career, extended families, child bearing, parenting, etc. Whatever the challenge, conflicts are not meant to break up the relationship or marriage. No. They are the acid test. Unknown to many people, they test the strength of our love, the strength of our character, the strength of our moral values, the strength of our spirituality, the strength of our maturity, the strength of our knowledge of what marriage truly is, the strength of our patience, the strength of our tolerance, and most importantly, our knowledge of God's word regarding relationship or marriage.

Now let's briefly see the principles of conflict resolution.
1. Be calm:

During conflicts the nerves may be up, causing anger to well up in us. And the consequences of the actions are usually raised voices, insults. But anger never solves anything. Be calm and address your issues.

2. Discuss the issues:
Any problem which isn't discussed can't be solved. Discuss the burning issues with the mind of resolving them and not to make them escalate.

3. Restrain yourselves from further provocations:
Of course, during conflicts, most times our emotions are worked up. We are not in the right frame of mind. Please it's advised that both spouses or lovers refrain themselves from further provocations. Don't insult, curse, or start a fight. Women, please mind your mouths. Exercise caution. There is no law anywhere that says you should insult your husbands while in a "fight" or trying to resolve your problems. Calling him "useless man", "idiot", "loser", "yeye man", "good for nothing husband", " were", "olori buruku", " anuofia", "ewu",etc, won't solve the issues at hand. In fact, if care is not taken, the man may end up doing what he will regret later. And to you the men, please don't lay your hands on your lover or spouse. It's true that some of them could be highly, highly provocative, still don't touch her. Refrain yourself.

4. Deal with your issues like friends, not like enemies:
Honestly, sometimes, conflicts can poison our emotions towards our lovers or spouses. And that's exactly what Satan wants to achieve at the end of the day. His objective is to paint them in the wrong light so as to break relationships and marriages. However, your lover or spouse is not an enemy, your enemy. Whatever the challenge, that fact should never be forgotten. It helps in conflict resolution.

5. Be very committed to seeking a resolution:
Both lovers or spouses should be very committed to finding solutions to their problems and not making things escalate.

6. Be humble and willing to let go:
Nothing breaks a relationship or marriage like pride. Pride, more often than none, is what is actually breaking relationship or marriage and not even the very problem. If you're a "no-nonsense" or "I no go gree man or woman" your marriage can't last or better still, won't be blissful. Be ready to shift grounds, to compromise or even make some sacrifices. In marriage humility is power, not a weakness. So use it to the benefit of your marriage or relationship.

7. Forgive yourselves:
A healthy relationship or marriage is one where both spouses or lovers understand the place and power of forgiveness and demonstrate it always. Don't let your issues linger for too long. Please forgive yourselves just as God forgives us in Christ daily. Saying "I am sorry" can heal a relationship or save a marriage from divorce. Please be wise.

8. Let the romance continue:
When a conflict in a relationship or marriage has been dealt with, please move on from there. Let your romance continue from wherever you both left it. Put behind you the incident by not keeping malice at each other, but loving yourselves like never before.

9. Should you be unable to resolve your conflicts by yourselves, please seek help:
At this juncture, for the sake of helping those lovers or spouses who can't resolve their own issues by themselves, it is wisdom for them to seek help. Please call in a pastor, counselor, coach or any trusted and respected person to intervene in the matter. Don't be shy, proud or ashamed to do that if that is the last or only option that could redeem your relationship or marriage at the verge of breaking. By the way, didn't the Bible say: "In the multitude of counselors there is safety?"

Lastly, be reminded that divorce isn't God's plan for you because marriage is meant to be enjoyed and to last forever. Therefore, no matter the conflicts, while being angry at each other (that's alright), however, don't forget that God gets let down whenever there is a divorce. If you've been divorced already, please accept my utmost sympathy and prayers. God loves you and He will redirect your life. Just trust Him now like never before.

Today I pray that our marriages and relationships will not break up. And every troubled home or relationship receive divine peace right now. If there is anyone already in a faulty relationship, I pray that the God will divinely separate you both in Jesus name! Many thanks for reading and commenting.


Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/02/how-to-deal-with-arising-conflicts-in-a-relationship.html?m=1

In all relationships that ends, it is always women that are the ones complaining of been hurt or the men were the ones that messed it.
My question is, are women always innocent in cases of break up?
No, this is a clear answer.
In some cases, women are always on the wrong side and mostly do the things that led to the man leaving them. What I know is that women always play victim. They might even push the man to go away so that it will seem like it is the man who left or the man was on the wrong.

Tactics women often use are: -
1. Rationing of s3x. This is a sure deal breaker. A man who was used to getting constant s3x is suddenly denied. Slowly, such a man eventually reaches a breaking point and “cheats” thus giving a man the perfect excuse to go.

2. Been over demanding. This literally chocks the man until he feels he is not a man enough for her and simply bails out.

3. Living beyond her means thereby making the man feel useless.

4. Nagging. No man ever wants a nagging woman and this is a sure way to push the man away.

5. Flirting with other men openly and when the man raises an issue he is told, “they are just friends, you are just insecure, you are just too protective, it is just casual friendship, etc. but she knows what she is doing.

6. On the flip side, a woman who knows she has a very high libido might become overly demanding to the man making him feel not a man enough and thus the man literally runs away from her.

7. She begins to dress unattractively so that the man gets pissed and embarrassed to be with her. With time the man begins to notice other more attractive ladies and it is a matter of time before he leaves.

8. She cheats on him, and throws the blame to him e.g. you are never there for me, you do not satisfy me, etc.

9. She begins to compare him with other men often richer men until the man gets tired of her and bails out.

10. If she got married with a child, she begins to get in touch with her baby daddy something which men really hate. Very few men can survive this.

11. She begins to slowly cut off communication and when the man asks why, her reasons are she is busy. When the man pushes further, he is labelled insecure. Within no time, the man is tired and going away.
But after all these, they often cry foul of being dumped but they engineered the entire process.
So, men, be wary of the above and much more. When a woman wants you to leave, she will craft a way out for you such that you will seem like ‘the bad one’.
Be wise.

Source: http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/02/things-women-do-that-push-men-away-from-them.html?m=1

How To Avoid Unnecessary Breakup In Your Relationship >> http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/02/how-to-avoid-unnecessary-breakup-in.html

It hurts me a lot whenever I see a good
relationship tearing apart, but then it comes
into my mind that most people don't know
how to maintain a relationship. So I have to
say this.


FOR GUYS.
Guys if you love a girl and you're sure you
love her, there are things you have to do to
prove it:

1. Never push her to do the things, she
doesn't want to do.

2. Always try to listen carefully to her, and
understand her.

3. Try to give her space to develop, herself as
a person.

4. Take very good care of her, in every
possible way.

5.Try to call or text her, it goes a long way to
remind her, that you are thinking about her.

6. Try to help her in every way you can.

7. Always worry about how she feels about
things, worry about how she sees the world,
try to get to know about her goals, and
understand why she lives her life the way she
does.

8. Try to trust her, now I know this may be
hard especially if you have trust issues, but if
you love a girl you should be able to trust her.

9. Try complimenting her, believe me it hurts
a girl when the guy that claims he loves her,
but can't tell her she is beautiful. I mean you
see her in a new dress and you just walk
away, that's really bad.

10. If you love a girl you'd accept her the way
she is, you won't try to change her. You
would love her for who she is today and not
for what will be tomorrow, and you would
feel blessed to have her by your side.


FOR LADIES.
LADIES, you also have a great part to play in a
relationship, if you love that guy then:

1. You respect him, guys love girls who
respect them a lot, you don't try to bruise his
ego by being disobedient and disrespectful.

2. Listen to him whenever he is talking, never
talk back at a guy or walk away from him.

3. If you notice your guy is angry, don't be in
a hurry to find out what his problem is, give
it time, especially if he is hot tempered, allow
his temper to cool before taking to him.

4. Try to get close to his family members. A
guy would love love you more, if he sees you
are in good terms with his family.
5. Do not nag at him, guys hate it when girls
nags at them.

6. Girls you just can't wake up one morning
and say you want to change your guy, that's
impossible. If you want him to change, then
give him reasons to change.

7. Try to show him how much you love and
care about him, by being faithful. If you love
your guy so much, I see no reason why your
eyes should be on other guys.

8. Be independent, don't just sit around there
and wait for him to do all things. Try to help
out, guys value girls who can contribute
positively to their lives.

9. Be neat, a guy would love his girl to be
neat and presentable, don't be a talkative,
guys hate that a lot. Try to give yourself some
pride and dignity, as a girl you deserve to
have that. Don't make the mistake of throwing
yourself at a guy, that's really bad.

10. You don't fight a guy, just because you're
having a misunderstanding, doesn't give you
the right to fight with him. If you are arguing
with him and can't seem to sort it out, then
do your fightings in prayers. It's not your job
to fight and argue with your guy, it is your
job to pray for him, pray for his heart and
every aspect of his life. Above all put God/
in the center of your relationship, and
there is no way you can loose. true or false

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Did any of of you get a mail after applying

Regiinald:
You would go for customer service jobs, just search for it on google and also bank jobs, what you studied doesnt matter because I know someone who studied architecture and is now working in the bank.
Start looking for customer service reprensentative, banking and public relations postions, start building your cv with the little experience and develop skills necessary to excel in a business environment.
You can apply for internship programs in compaines and also graduate trainee programs. That will give you a headstart.
luvebird

Thanks so much for the advise

I'm a 2:1 graduate of Cross River University of Technology calabar, studied Guidance and Counselling, I'm seriously in search of a job, please kindly help or support by sharing ,

funshint:
Why don't u look for a teaching job. There are lots of private schools round that'll be willing to employ you. Though the money may not be that much but at least it's better than staying at home all day getting depressed. You'll also hv enough change to buy data. With this you can keep on applying online for other jobs. And also physically when you have the time. Its not going to be forever. But you must be willing to take a bold step. Though you beginning is small, your later days shall be great. *winks

Thanks very much for the encouragement, I love it when people encourage each other not like most people that will in turn make one an object of mockery... Thanks once again