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alfablondy: Yourselves is an example of irregular plural in grammar.

alutacontinua: GBAM! straight to the point answer.
Don't bore her with the talks too much, saying it everyday till her parents come might become boring. There's one kind of irritability that comes with that age/time that things get to piss you off easily. Besides, I can bet it with you that she already knows all what you're telling her, she's just pulling your legs. At 12 years old nowadays, do you know how many people in her class are already in the business Trust me, just say your part and be a good big sister, that's all there is to it. Send my congratulations to her and tell her to be a good woman!

Mutaino7: what has mazi turn diz gals in2. Me tink nymph

greatgod2012: i doubt, if at almost 12 yrs old, she doesnt have idea of what is happening to her body, at least, she must have been in secondary school now, and they must have been taught in their basic science and home economics subjects, so, i believe she was just pulling your legs.
Meanwhile, having been taught does not mean they dont need s. ex education at and from home, because she will be freer to ask any question at home than from any other place, including the school. Now to what you will tell her.........pls, when telling her, use the real words, dont try to be diplomatic about it at all, call every part its name...........tell her......
-shes now a lady, no more a girl.
-what happened to her is a sign that shes now a lady, and the sign will be coming every month, and its called monthly period.
-she shouldnt feel ashamed about it, all ladies and women pass thru the same thing.
-guys will want to be around her now, therefore, she should be careful and very observant with them, because they can lure her into s..ex now, which can lead to her getting pregnant when shes not ready for it, which may put an obstacle to her future dreams, and unfortunately, shes the only one who will suffer for it, because it doesnt affect the boys, they will continue their education, while you will be at home nurturing pregnancy and baby, and that only a few ladies get second chance and she might not be that fortunate then, therefore, she should be extra-careful with guys.
-her body will start to develop rapidly now, including her bwests, and she will start to have hair in some part of the body like armpit and v..agina, she should always take care of those places very well and shouldnt for any reason allow anyone to touch her in those places, be it man or woman.
-during the time of her periods, she might experience pain, she shouldnt be afraid, almost all women experience it, its called PMS(premenstrual syndrome).
-a lady carries herself with dignity, therefore, she should limit all the girls and boys play,because shes now a lady, she should carry herself well like a lady.
@op, very many points here, give her total sex education.
Its our duty to let these young ones be educated sexually, having been educated, they guard their lions with it.
May God help us all.

pipeewa: Deliverance is here finally for the battered, the beaten and the oppressed and those under the illusion of female objects. I heard in a loud voice be delivered!

alutacontinua: What question is dt?

carefreewannabe: You did very well when you showed her how to use a pad.
Tell her that it happens monthly and that it happens TO EVERY GIRL / WOMAN (all around the world )
Tell her what she can do to get rid of pain when she suffers from it.
Tell her that she also might suffer from premenstrual symptoms and give her tips on how to handle them.
Offer her to answer any questions she has or will have.

It's the time a girl needs the warm support of another experienced lady very much.

aadetoyin: Tell her its part of growth and that now she can even have babies
But she shouldn't allow any uncle, brother or male friend in sch or at home to touch her chest and her privates else she will get PREG. Its often beta to tell them the truth. And if any man tries to touch her in the said areas she should SCREAM and run for her dear life.

repogirl: Hi LVMJ, I laugh tire when I read this, my own mother told me no let man 'meet' you from now on since you don dey see your time.
I'm quite surprised she doesn't know what it is yet when my 3 year old here sef has an idea.
Just be truthful to her sha, what age is she? 9? 10? 12? Depending on d age, tell her once every month it happens like dis for a few days and shows she's grown up now. Give her a little sex education too while you are at it. Ask her what she already knows abt it, answer any questions and leave the rest for her mama, hope I helped.
Wonder how I'll tell my own daughter when she comes of age.

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