Kalubolt:

For the 2nd I got you, what about the first instance? And more over it last happened 10yrs ago and I haven't done that again

Are you sure that is how it happened?

czarr:
I disagree the first lady charged towards him, he defended himself. 2nd lady he should have just sent her out of his house and broken up with her immediately, instead of beating her.

You think someone that carried pepper will slap a man? Someone that have been trekking since morning will slap a man for just touching her bumbum? Those hawkers have seen something worse than a man touching their bumbum. I don't believe him

It doesn't solve the issue. The reason you hurt is because you care. If you don't care you can never be hurt.

Hurting and dissapointment is part of life....embrace it.

Ha! You have no excuse to slap those ladies.

Please work on yourself. You just don't have an anger issue, you also have a violence issue and a control issue. Women are not your slaves. A woman have a right to take decision without your permission. Informing you is a courtesy and not a right.

Alaseju!

See story o!

Please try the friendship route. Learn to be friends with a lady. Accept that when it comes to physique you are at a disadvantage. It can also be an advantage simply because women will be more comfortable around you.

Turn your physique to a strength by working on character.

dontrulee:
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Of course, women have suffered. Menopause is a big disadvantage for them. When they waste their early years sleeping around and becoming baby Mama's their later end suffer. It's simple law of Life..

Must someone get married to have babies? There are different means of having babies na!

bigpicture001:


Babe get this! Love is in the mind. It is nutured and not born with... Haven't u seen marriages professed based on love where the partners don't help each other..? Is that one also love..?

Babe forget love stories... Genuine men hardly forget lady who was there from his humble begining.. and I won't!

I hear you o! Don't forget o and don't keep mistresses.

luminouz:



You didn't answer my question. Can you or can you not marry such a guy?

I can't marry a guy that's broke and I can't marry a guy that is rich.

The reason I can't marry a broke guy is because he will be hiding his true nature. A broke guy is a faithful guy. Until a guy has money, you will never know whether he likes you.

And I can't marry a rich guy because I don't want someone to bore with the life story of how he got his money and me from nowhere is now coming to waste it anyhow.

I want a guy that has big dreams and knows the means to achieve it. And understand that I am the most important means of achieving that purpose.

You are treating marriage as a business transaction instead of a life transaction. What do I mean?

When you don't like someone you will be looking for different kind of reason to leave that person but when you like someone you will be looking for different reasons to stay. That's why it's critical you marry someone you like. Marriage is tough and you can't afford to marry someone out of pity.

luminouz:

Why are you so triggered?

Can't you help your broke bf or marry him,if you believe in his vision? Nawa o

There is a big different! You are poor and you are still arrogant about it! You needed help, you are still acting as though you are the one helping. You see marriage as a pity tool. If you help me, I will pity your life by marrying you.

If you have sense, you don't tell a potential wife your life story. You only tell people who you you know they won't use it against you your life story. A woman who knows you are nothing will treat you as nothing.

@bigpicture001, nice story and I'm happy that it works out for you but did it really work out? What do I mean?

My sister, the rest is history as I now plan to marry her... I now make over 300kmonthly ND got four persons employed. Will get a car by Nov. ND move into 2bedroom flat. Na this girl I Sabi ... Sometimes one really need help to grow... Love is not mny peoples problem but poverty...

You are getting married to a woman because she helped you out and not because you liked her. You don't make a critical decision as marriage based on that!

bigpicture001:


How is he anyhow..? Because he isn't flaunting Benz..?

So you don't see anything wrong with OP? You don't see anything wrong with a man who wants to marry a woman who he doesn't like? Who he doesn't know? Who will make the woman's life miserable. Who will dump her after using her to climb out of poverty. Who is shameless. Who is senseless.

If he's not shameless and senseless will he write all the rubbish he wrote up there. You are birds of the same feather.

WoundedLamb:
Nairaland boys are obsessed.

They are at that stage whereby the only thing they think of is sex.

Don't they think of money and how to get money?

Women haff suffered o!

And all in the name of marriage some women will settled for anyhow men.

It is alright.

Bad Adviser!

Some of the people liking your post will later in life get married to someone who had gone through marriage or who have babies for another men.

The woman you will all later settled or have peace with is the type of woman you have sworn heaven and earth with that you will never settled for.

You are all still babies.

Nigeria and Hippocrates are 5 and 6. This is the same country where 99.9 % of there young girls are olosho or there guys who are nothing but internet fraudsters are here calling god and talking all manner of nonsense on my post.

Do you see Oloshos and 419 fraudsters bragging about it online. The society frowns at it.

You don't brag about sleeping with someone else wife. It shows you are immature.

Am I still in romance section?

Your girlfriend is something else! She knows about headjob and she is still doing holy holy!
She doesn't just know, she enjoys it too. Ha!

It's alright!

Please stop lying on evil spirit! Take responsibility and the first step to taking responsibility is blaming yourself for every lies against evil spirit.

Say I'm evil! Continue saying I'm evil! That's the solution to your problem. Admitting to how evil you are is solution to your issue.

VULCAN:
This response reeks with guilt.

Even if you lived that life or are living it. Try not to be bitter.

The economy is tough, there are few jobs and few women know how to create and sell value beyond that thing between their legs.

I blame parents who don't ensure their daughters learn valuable skills from as early as secondary school.

Pastor! Why the preaching? If there is no buyer there will never be no seller. There is a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession and I will tell you the reason. It is simply because of men like you that have no morals, principles and have no discipline. So please save your preaching.

No!

MufasaLion:


It's not about him going to gym. Don't you understand what a fetish is? There are several men that are muscular and well built but hate such fetish. Fetish is psychological.

This kind of fetishness is still okay. There is solution to it if the guy is willing. He just need to work on his stamina.

Barims:


I think from my foot Everytime she twerk her heavy bum bum for me

I know! The way you even mentioned that ass, it shows.

She should take heart! That is relationship and that's life. It is almost like gambling!

He did the right thing by breaking up with her. It will have been worse if he didn't open up. For me it shows that guy has integrity.

If your mind is no longer in a relationship with someone, abeg break up with sense. Life is too short to live it miserably with someone you don't like.

Hmmm! You want to dump your girlfriend because she sits on your stomach?

Please dump her! It is the big ass that is shooking your eyes. Please go into a relationship with someone you like.

If you really like her, you will start going to gym and start carrying weight. I can't talk more than that.

Hmmmm! I don't even know what to say!

As a man, it is not everything you see you must talk. It's high time Seun should start charging for the opening of thread. Maybe by then some of you will start thinking before you open a thread.

And?

There are also men in that brothel!

This attitude of trying to control women should stop. If you want to advise, do it generally. Stop singling out women for what men are guilty of doing.

No be men dey Bleep them?

I wish is your babe that opened this thread thread. But since it is you, let me add my little contribution.

We are living in a world where religion play a critical part of our life. It's rare for you to find a man or a woman who won't go to Pastor to seek for spiritual advice concerning their partner.

Please tell that babe to go to another Prophet to seek for advice. I promise you none of the Prophet will say the same thing. Do you all want to know why? No man born of a woman has a right to make a decision concerning someone's else life.