Smhart1:


Crying is inevitable but I’m doing just fine and stable. It hurts really deep because of the parties involved ( I wish I can tell what this girl is/was to be me as well as the so called bf ) only them will anyone truly understand my pain.

Eyahhh

Mybrotheralso:

Boreholes are getting jealous

Are you a virgin?

As a female, the only advice I have for Virgins is that you are more than your virginity. God have bless you with gifts, wisdom and knowledge to make this world better. Virginity is not a gift o. Don't let one stupid man tell you your worth is in your virginity.

I counted the 'I' in your opening post and it was close to 20. And half of it is what you want from others. You want them to be loyal, are you loyal? You want to manipulate them, can they manipulate you? They are uncomfortable with you, are you comfortable with them?

You are demanding things you are incapable of giving. You are demanding things that are beyond your pay grade.

Please focus on making money and making yourself someone worthy to be call a friend.

..... 98 people like your post. Are you all in the same situation?

It is better you continue masturbating till your story change. Don't go and rape. Rape is far worse that sleeping with a prostitute.

Not true.

There is this adage in my language that says 20 children cannot be friends for 20 years. Life moves all my best friends in different directions. There is no time to meet up. We ain't best friends neither are we enemies.

She is still growing. She is still trying to discover who she is.. The Op and his girlfriend are still babies in this relationship game. They should be more patient with each other.

A man who is uncomfortable with you having a car and him not having is hmmm.

If it were me, I will use it to test him. If he is not happy or over excited, I will quickly axe him.

FvckAllMods:
Hmm I don't see it

You can't. It takes someone with a deep critical thinking skill to see it.

FvckAllMods:
You be agama?

The points she raised really made sense.

*Hugs to you* Pele. Sorry. Please cry, cry and cry. Give your yourself time to mourn. Give yourself time to heal.

Hmmm.

Nice story.

Congratulation.

*nodding head vigorously*

Humiliation gini? Una don start!

I no fit talk for this matter. My hands no clean.

May Tiwa give am 2 weeks for the holier and the holiest to move on. If they still refuse to move on after 2 weeks, events weh pass her own go happen.

Terrier99:


You are a lady. Why can't you help your fellow woman?
Is it a taboo for you to help another lady?

Na wan force me talk and I won't talk. It is between me and the Op. E no concern una.

Terrier99:


You don't like which excuse, how is that my business? Abeg get out. You ladies cannot come together to help her but you can join her in talking rubbish.
We are not helping her. Let her go and look for work like everyone else and stop begging about.

Oga, if I remembered right, na you quote me. I didn't put a gun to head and forced you to help. If you are not willing to help why are you discouraging others. Why are you so heartless?

jaystefan:







look at this idiot we civilians are paying his salary is talking anyhow when you see unknown gun men now you go pull your uniform con claim civilian


stupid boots on the ground

Oloshi! You that cannot feed yourself is coming online to form rich man. God go punish you.

debbydams:
exactly.. My mom will say I like money, nd there's no work I can't do aside prostitution nd stealing, I made 100K in vegetables 3 years ago, I do peanut burger, do wigs just name that work just to get money..but lately my shop rent was increased nd it bleeped me up, im still trying to coverup..Im even trying to learn tailoring nd pharmacy but I don't know how I can mange my time around it..op nobody is willing to help again because of their past experience, I don't blame people who have nd not willing to help., but givers Neva lack..I once helped a friend nd people were insulting me, it the same guy that lend me 50k I added to my shop rent..dear op I believe favor will locate you

God bless you my sister. I'm also the same as you. There is no work I have not done in order not to beg. I have drop out of school all because I refuse to prostitute myself.

If you are willing to come low, work deh o.

Justbehave:
Then shut up till when you have the capacity. Stop blaming men.

So you want to silent my right to free speech. The same right you have, you want to take it away from me.

If the women in your life are slaves around you, I'm different o. You are not feeding me.

Justbehave:
The only fact here now is for you to help her.

Oga, no be you go tell me the right thing to do. When I have the capacity, I love helping. Where I'm today is due the help of strong women. So why won't I pay it forward when and if I have the capacity to do it.

Justbehave:
Start the help with her here first and stop castigating men. Is she not your fellow woman?

I didn't castigate. I'm only stating a fact.

ChiefSosa:

Madam, not all men are like that o. If the one that fúcked her didn't help her, why then do you conclude that any man that wants to help her must want to fúck her?
P.s. Your moniker 'luvmijeje' reminds me of
one old Nigerian song like that.

I'm talking from experience. For you to see a man that will help without condition is rare sir. They are the exception. And an exception cannot be a norm.

It's one of the reason we need more women in the position of power.

AutoChick4U:
digital marketing, admin jobs, I can also teach as well. I hope to improve on more skills.

I'll dm you now.

Terrier99:


I have helped ladies without any string attached, they called me a maga behind my back. Now, I don't help ladies. Let them Bleep off.

I don't like this kind of excuse. Have no woman help you in life? Did you call her a Maga? We all need each other. Enough of this excuse. If una wan help, help!

That's men for you. A man that wants to help you must Bleep you. And they are the same people that will come online to call women prostitute.

Anyway, what skill do you have? What can you do? When you are asking for help, you need to be specific. Na you cause all this whahala.

Hmmm.

What's your business in it? A bloody civilian having the gut to advise our men in uniforms.

I don't even know what to say. Sex is about compatibilty. When you enjoy sex with your partner, the length of time does not matter. But when you don't enjoy it, it matters.Find someone you enjoy sex with.

I know this is not part of the topic but I deh praise people that don't tick this aspect before getting married.