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If the marriage was peaceful, harmonious and loving, there will be no divorce.

If your are in a marriage and there is no peace of mind, abeg leave am. Life is too short to be miserable.

Was there anywhere in scripture missionary sex was mentioned?

It is men like him who wrote the scriptures, so he is right.

Your issue is lack of exposure and over religiousity. As a lot of people advice, go and look for a babe.

There is always someone that is going to be better than you and there will always be someone you are better than.

And I know it is fustrating seeing things going well for others while you are at a standstill but you have to deal the card you were given.

You just have to keep moving and continue hoping for a little door of opportunity and the wisdom to cease it when it comes.

By the way, I no longer judge those who commit sucide. Sucide is a means of escape and when there is no other means of escape, sucide seems like the best choice.

Something is off.

Osibanjo have too much integrity and not politician enough to declare for President without Tinubu being in the known.

This is a political strategy to build Tinubu up for a consensus candidate.

Kudos to the moderator who is putting his or her legs on your neck. Next step is permanent removal.

Life is all about perspective and that's why communication is important. It is wrong for you think anyone talkless of a woman don't have a life or a past. You didn't tell her every areas of your life so why did do expect her to tell you hers within 3 months of meeting her.

Show her everything you saw in her phone(By the way it is absolutely wrong to go through her phone). Hear her out. Let her explain herself. A woman like her is rare.......someone who's fucking you for the sake of fucking.

People do that? And it works?

Favfables1:
1. Then go and create the word na, is anyone stopping you? ...

2. Women will continue to be shamed for being prostitute for as long as they continue to open their legs, deal with it...

If a person sells fish, he/she is called a fish seller ... No one will pay attention to the buyer ...
If he/she sells pepper, they are called a pepper seller ... No one will pay attention to the buyer ...
If he/she sells their bodies, they are called prostitute!!!! So why should anyone pay attention to the buyer here? ...

Your analogy doesn't make sense. He buys fish is called a fish buyer. He who buys pepper is called a pepper buyer.

Now he who pays for sex is called Prostitutor. If a Prostitutor cannot be shamed, then a prostitute can never be shamed.

Favfables1:
I think you need to look up the meaning of prostitute in a dictionary ...

It is created by men. It is time we create word that defines men who sleep with prostitute. It is not only women that should be shamed, men should also be shame with word.

Who are the people sleeping with them? Are they ghosts? I still don't understand why men have the guts to call women prostitute. What should we call men that are sleeping with them?

NobIeKING:
Send a PM anyway let's continue our discussion there

Agbaya!

NobIeKING:
nobody died from any COVID-19.
Ncdc isn't telling us the truth

If NCDC is lying, is the whole world lying?

NobIeKING:
I remember this moniker on COVID-19 thread.
How far the covid na?
You still dey Lock yourself indoors and practice Social distancing?
Abi your eyes don finally clear say na scam?

Oga, so those that died from it na scam?

GooodHardDick:
So the woman is now a man? Your brain dey pain u? Abeg no quote me again!

You all made the rules in the beginning and you all now want to change the rules in the middle of the game.

The role of a man is to toil for the family and our role as a woman is to take care of the family. So you can't be calling us names for depending on you.

GooodHardDick:
At the Bolded You talk like a stack illiterate.

A woman Must be under the authority and submission of a man, just as the same way the man is under the submission of God.

Try get sense na. God gave everyone two hands and legs to work, why can't you Nigeria girls make use of it and work to make your own money? Why waiting for a man that will come and bail you out of your poverty stricken life?

So if your husband is broke and poor, you won't be submissive to him?

Why the ranting?

Who told you a woman must be under the submission of a man? Is it not men like you who lied in the name of God?

Did God come down and tell you woman must be submissive?

GooodHardDick:
So when a woman has her own money she will not be submissive? Typical Nigeria girl With a myopic thinking.

This is why they keep using you girls for rituals.

You see!

There is no human being talkless of a woman that is wired to be submissive. They will only be submissive due to what you are bringing to the table.

iLegendd:
Some of you think only broke men are great in bed.

Men, be you rich or broke have pride over their bedroom performances.

He wants to be the best as long as he is young. Only when he gets old or older with bloated stomach (more money, more laziness) he retires from being the best and let Oxlade take over.

I was only responding to the opening post. Being good and sensitive in bed doesn't have any correlation to the size of your pocket.

GooodHardDick:
At the bolded. A typical Nigeria girl

What's stopping her from making her own money and then control herself?

Will you be attracted to that kind of woman? A woman who will not submissive. Do you want a woman who will not be submissive?

Hmmmm......I disagree. You can only control a woman with a good dick for a while but you can control her longer with money.

It is reason those sugar mummy will never leave their husband for their Bleep mate.

No! I still don't understand why someone without money will be looking for a woman.

Can I say it is nature? Covetousness is nature.

I have worked with 2 women who have that nature. One was even from a wealthy background. They can't help themselves. They want what you have even if what you have is not up to their standard or is not needed by them.

As alot of people have said, it is your nature.

You please others at the expense of your well being. Don't settle for a woman like you o. If you do your family will suffer. Marry someone who doesn't care about pleasing others......someone like me. You will only get to please others when we are please.

Op, e no easy. I don't have contrary opinion.

As long as women are told not to aspire more since we'll still end up in the kitchen. And as long as we are being told to dim our light before we can get a man to marry us. As long as more men are in position of power. And as long as we are being trained by the society to see each other as enemies because of man. The reliance over men will never end.

So buckle up.

Jennyclay:
Are you minding him? Men on this forum are so biased and selfish.

Very very. The way they talk about women is so terrible.

constancefriday:
You are in no position to tell me how I choose to relate with the GP, especially if you're principally involved in resisting my progress!

What's GP?

The same advice also goes for a man.
Don't be with a woman you can't discuss with spiritually and business wise. In fact don't marry a woman you can't trust with money. If not your family will suffer.

Your wife must understand the business you are into.

I'll advise Dr Constance to stop giving advice on marriage and remove the Dr from his name.

No young man should marry a woman that is a serial cheater. The same advice also goes for young women. Don't date a serial cheater.

It will be news if no one have ever invited you to church. The invitation will even start from your family and friends.

As someone else said, hard life is part of life. It's not everything that is spiritual. Life is not straight. It is full of bumps.

uthlaw:
what about the man that pregnant her,did he love her?

Is he alive?