₦airaland Forum

To do-away with Friends who added no Values to my Life

Thanks

I'm not new to using Google Map but sometimes, I gets stuck/confused by the way it works...displaying different colors of Lines. E. T. C

Hi Guys, just registered as a Driver or Partner Driver waiting for the test or Exam. Can anyone pls give me hint on what the questions are like? Thanks

You can reach me on 090...

I am a Driver. Yes! I'm proud being a Professional (I love my job) but sometimes got discourages by my Boss's unconcerned behavior towards his Drivers forgetting the fact that his Life is indirectly wired into his Driver's Hands.

Sometimes, I begin to wonder if I'm a fool... I am not but I realized he's taking the advantage of my easy going nature (I no want wahala). What else does he wants? I'm faithful, honesty, never connived with mechanics and returns his CHANGES even if it's not more than 5 Naira but this Man is never satisfied. You can't satisfy him.

Imagine working/driving someone ACCIDENT-FREE for almost 4 yrs but all he does was complaining "telling you, you are not good at what you do to feed your family"... You don't have good judgment yet you are not sacked. Why not kukuma sack ugly ass since I'm not a good in or on my post of duty as a Driver knowing well ur Life can be lost if I make mistake

All these years, no matter how long, how far or how many Days we traveled, he never for once get a place for me to sleep but gets for himself and every other Persons in the Hotel while the Drivers (I) would be left or stylishly asked to sleep in the Bar or in the Vehicle alone.

The painful part is neither passing Nights in the Car nor not giving me " Hotel Allowances or Traveling Allowances but for the fact that he never appreciate anything. He complains a lot, never wants to hear that you are down. Jokingly shrug it off when you tells him you sick. I wonders if he's truly a Pastor.

I'm fed up and would gladly embrace another available Openings or Vacancies for the post of a Driver.

Link me up pls!

Hello Pals!
Please, I'll like an advice on what cheap and valuable gift I can buy for my GF which u think she'll appreciate. I'm actually working but right now I'm so broke and her birthday is just few days away.
I really don't even know who to borrow from right now. She understands the fact that I'm broke but I don't feel too good about not buying any gift for her birthday.
Please, girls,what would u expect from your BF if he were in my situation?
and guys, what would you do if u were in my shoes?
Thanks for your help.

Evablizin:

My lawd na de Lazzie be this?

I tire o!

 
By now most of us would have realised that we cannot be liked by every person we know. And we will end up making a few friends who (for whatever reason) will SECRETLY dislike us . So, how to tell If Someone Hates You Secretly, when not everyone’s behaviour is same. Some of them may display some obvious signs, such as smile with fangs dripping with blood (kidding!!), lesser eye contact, having a flat tone or rolling his eyes while talking to you etc.

However, those who dislike or hate us but choose to hide their real emotion are real toxic ones! Not necessarily all the signs will be present in that person, but you can connect the dots together and find out whether someone dislikes you or it’s just your brain going wacky.
So here are some of those subtle signs displayed by people (knowingly or unknowingly) who hate you secretly.

1. He/She convinces others too that you are a bad person.
The biggest problem with people who dislike you secretly is they choose to convey their feelings by their body language or other actions instead of telling you on face.

They will try to defame you and convince others too. Also, if somebody tries to bring your business out in the public and try to humiliate you for no reason. It could simply be their jealousy (after all they have to vent out the hatred stored in their heart).


2. You barely fit-in the group .
That person is never excited or happy to include you in the group plans. Sometimes you are the only one who is not invited or maybe even aware about a party at this person’s house.


3. They hate to listen to you.
It is a proven psychological fact that people who don’t like you much will not be comfortable around you. They will also tend to avoid being engaged in any sort of communication with you.
If you are telling this person about your weekend plans and he/she is just pretending to listen or maybe you are repeating things that you just said because that person missed it. Then it’s a clear sign that he just doesn’t care about you or is not interested to know anything good and exciting about your life.

4. This person hardly shares his feeling with you but is open with everybody else.
If you feel that you share your secrets with this ‘friend’ but you hardly know anything about him (and he isn’t an introvert). Then it means that this person either thinks you aren’t trustworthy or he doesn’t feel that connected to you. The red flag is when you are the only person in the group who doesn’t know things about this friend, rest everybody else is closer than you to this person. It stinks!! But it is obvious that this person doesn’t want to be friends with you.
So you need to find out the friendship credentials of this person before you divulge any more secrets to him/her.

5. Attitude, just for you.
Somebody can be having a bad day and thus throwing tantrums at you for a while is fine. But if it is a repeating thing and you are always at the receiving end, then it is a problem. There is something wrong with your friendship.

6. Will never acknowledge your achievements.
It is the most obvious way by which your secret hater projects negativity. When you achieve something small or big and people usher you with compliments and praises, this person will be as cold to you as possible. Or in case they do compliment, it will be accompanied with such an uncomfortable attitude, it could imply how they really feel about you.
They will avoid spending their time to celebrate your happiness or achievements as it reminds them of their failure or unhappiness. Also behind your back they will go ahead and link your achievements to some other underlying reasons or because of somebody else’s efforts. This is only their insecurity that the emotion of jealousy brings.
They will always prefer to focus on your shortcomings than complimenting you. I need not say that this person or his opinion should not matter in your life at all!

7.They would love to know about your miseries .

As much as they hate to see you happy, they love it when you are undergoing some kind of trouble in life. They will either act as a confidant or would try to find out about your situation from your close friends. The best thing is to let them be wicked and just ignore them. They would love to see your painful reactions so you need not give them anymore happiness.

8. Try to be like You .

If this person has started to dress like you, or walk and talk like you or may be suddenly got interested in the same kind of work that you do, then you have a confused and jealous hater with you.
Sometimes your gut feelings and sometimes some obvious signs of dislike, will tell you who is your real friend and who needs to be avoided (or if need arises, to be kicked out of your life).

Your hater has to justify all that negativity in his heart so he will find new ways to manifest this hatred.
You just have to wise enough to give
importance to your real friends and
avoid the fake ones. So, now you know how to tell If Someone Hates You Secretly.
 
Feel free to add yours

vizkiz:
If you want to give out money just give.

No be say e don enter 6 years you commot from high school. You can always get anyone on Facebook/LinkedIn or ask your high school mates. It's the 21st century dude! Ode

Well like someone said, this is a lesson to those idiots and stupìd air head Nigerians who rather use bullshìt as their monikers on social media.

Imagine someone like adedotun using "HerDayDorTun funds" as his moniker on Facebook

The new craze is even annoying.

You see names like "mimi frosh boy" or "Cici ajoke"... One bìtch on my Facebook calls herself 'Nana eye shadow"

Awon omo ofo


By the way, incase anyone is looking for old time student from Livingstone model college to give money, I am here o jare

haba! Guy, you get bad mouth � no be small

Eleyi gidi gan o

His business

Pls, help me crack /unlock my glo netpro Huawei E303 Modem to Universal modem

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

irony of life! And a girl dumped my stupid Ass cos I'm hardworking, truthful but had no enough to lavish on her
. Op, so, Girls like u still dey exist? I get hope be that na.

How do I deal with Employer who deduct or deduct Tax and Pension from salary never remitted it.?

Arthurwinner:
I swear been broke is a sin

my niiiga, u no lie. The worst thing that can happen to any man is being broke nd ugly.

dkronicle:
same thing happened to my dell vostro but its okay now.. just remove s batri and leave d lapy for 5days.. it will start working normal if u accept dat magical advice.

thanks. It's worked.

What could actually be the problem of my DELL Laptop. Used it to charge my phone some days ago until it shut {batt went off} charged it in the next morning but has since then refused to ON. When I press the START BUTTON the POWER BUTTON LIGHT and some other LIGHTS comes then it makes clicking noise then everything goes off again.

funmisticqueen:
It is also hard seeing good men nowadays

says who?

AuroraB:
You will see one the moment you know it's 'these days' not 'this days'

modified. Thanks!

Michellla:
and good guys are everywhere?

I bet you, there are more better Guys outta there than ladies

Eaugusta:
Pls I want to know the definition of good girl

I meant "girls who are well brought". You can as well use Google or ur dictionary if you want more details. Hav I answered your question pls?

Eaugusta:
Pls I want to know the definition of good girl

I meant "girls who are well brought". You can as well use Google or ur dictionary if you want more details. Hav I answered your question pls?

Honestly, it's hard seeing good girls these days

Op, you've done ojoro. These list are incomplete without LOKOJA.

Marvel1206:
Nova Launcher.
Download 'Darktops' from playstore; it has many cool wallpapers including mine

thanks

Marvel1206:
Just for fun.

which luncher are you using? I like it and can you please upload ur wallpaper?

Op u no lie

mima247:
Dude i work there n my answer is this RECOGNIZE A SCAM WHEN U SEE ONE...

gd afternoon ma! can you pls help me into Lamata as a BRT Bus Driver?