₦airaland Forum

maak400:
Sorry about your predicament sir, I can only imagine what you’re going through. That’s the nature of women who suddenly become richer than their husband, similar cases like yours abound everywhere. God did not create women to be the provider of the house, so anytime circumstances happen to make a woman the provider, they simply become proud and treat the husband like shit. Just keep praying and hoping that your business bounces back. Also, ensure that you still put your foot down as the head of your home no matter what attitude your wife is displaying.

reccy:
Well, the equation is balanced now... They both cheated and they both felt the heat....
I don't blame the man at all... What was the lady thinking of before, he will marry her Wed a hole Who does that?

If you can't be responsible during courtship , is it after wedding that you will now be responsible?? After given the certificate you both signed that you will be responsible
You dy mad

Abeg the man deserve an award....

larryking540:
My father always said if a woman becomes too possessive ,and wants to be over controlling like she is older and eldest than you as a husband,just quietly pack some few bags and leave the hux , since she feels she had a big mouth,she and ur family members are going to have a big fight of where is our brother ,, trust me ,go to churchs and see women praying up and down claiming they don't know their husband whereabouts but they receive alart to take care of the kids every month ,while some don't even bother to send money at all ,,

What kills faster in a man's life is a troublesome wife

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

Redeakaa:
I nor blame the guy.......she looks inviting

wristbangle:
It might not be up to N1m but the cost of feeding, labour and other expenses should be calculated as well. A kg of cat fish is around N700.

Mrsprissy:
Good evening my brothers and sisters in the house. First , I am not a troll . I've been a member on NL since 2008 and am very active

For the past 3 days he has been acting as if I did wronged him, he doesn't talk to me, he doesn't eat my foods and he left the room and he is now sleeping in our son's room. I just don't know what to do again

uninspired07:
Why can’t you stop at 2? Nigeria has changed radically from the time of our parents?

How do you know that I am not among the 1st two children of my parents?

Nigeria is just too failed a country to burden with overpopulation. I observe that people who give birth to many Children are always illiterate & stark poor. And they are not afraid of poverty do they hug it with gusto by having many children they can’t cater for.

NB: 10 Childern? That’s fantastic. I am sure your pops was doing fine back in the days to have been able to shoulder the responsibility.

alimaa:
Please I need a piece of advice on how to handle this situation.

I have a very close friend and his wife has asked for financial assistance severally and I obliged. The problem I have here is what will my friend think if he should be seeing a bank alert from me on his wife's phone?

The woman has been calling my line since the beginning of this month which I have continued to ignore. She would later send text asking for financial help and this kind of situation is very confusing because you might report to her husband and they will both turn the whole thing against you.

Please what should I do?

Efe42:
Have been trying for the past 2 year's now

midnighter:
Lol, unserious creature. I hope your skin is as fine as his own?

midnighter:
I'm really digging this his colour...very healthy and radiant skin

StarUp:
Nobody on that list got there because they used their NCE/OND/HND/B.Sc/B. Ed/ B. Eng./ LLB/ B. Tech/ B.A ...M. Phil/M. Sc/ M. A/MBA...PhD etc

Use your head in year 2020... All these "I graduated with 4.9/5.00" crap must stop...

Charleys:
Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,

Nigerianization:
I say a big Amen to your prayer.

Why hasn't the APC moderators on this platform moved this to front page yet

LordviccoDaGuru:
fake news

Sunofgod:
Hope he has learnt his lesson........his people are not behind him.