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Trust no one!!! that's a commandment
60% trust should do 4 both parties

I call her SUNSHYN and she refers to me as LOVE. Are U jealous??

Hi brother, it's unhealthy desist from it simple. cos it may even cost you your job, not been promoted and all that stuffs

to be candid, fellas I'll love to be beside my wifey when she delivers my baby and if the hospital authority will allow it I'' take a video coverage of such scene for reference purposes

nice advice, I really appreciate the way you fellas reacted to the questions but the problem here is that I also would want to engage my LOVER (fiancee) of over three years relationship but what I am thinking is am I in the right frame of mind to pop the question that would eitther make or mar our love life together as lovers.

Please also I need a rough estimate of how much a good ring will cost.

before I say/contribute anything to this forum, are U digging your guys girl? and if yes why??

@ NDDY, HOW CAN U JUST WALK UP TO SOMEONE U'RE NOT FAMILIAR WITH AND POP UP THE WORD " I LOVE YOU" IF I AM THE ONE I'D ASSUME THAT YOU'VE GONE INSANE / SOMETHING.

THE BEST WAY AND MOST EASIEST WAY COS IT HAS BEEN WORKING FOR ME ANYTIME, ANYDAY, FAMILIARIZE WITH THE LADY AND BEFORE U SAY JACK ROBIN SHE'S ALL URS AND URS ALONE.

RIGHT, LAYI

TUFIAKWA, MBA, ARU, CHUKWU AJU, HOW CAN MY WIFE WHICH I SPENT CLOSE TO N1 MILL TO BUY WILL COME TO MY HOUSE AND BEAR HER LINEAGE NAME. NOT POSSIBLE

A SLAVE IS ALWAYS A SLAVE (SPEAKING ABOUT THE IGBO CULTURE WHICH REQUIRES U TO PAY HUGELY IF SHE'S A UNIVERSITY GRAD, LESS IF SHE JUST FINISHED SECONDARY)

ECONOMIC FACTOR CAN BE A MAJOR PROBLEM WHY MOST NIGERIAN MEN DECIDES TO GET OLD (40 -45) BEFORE THEY EVA THINK OF SETTLING DOWN.

THE LADY'S EXPECTATION FROM THE GUY IS WAY DOWN MUCH FOR HIM TO COPE WITH AND AS SUCH HE IS AFRAID DABBLING INTO ONE THAT WILL BE FILLED WITH MISERY.

AND THE GUYS NEED A WOMAN (NOT A LADY/GIRL) THAT IS MATURED, UNDERSTANDING, EASY GOING, HUMBLE, NOT TOO XTRAVAGANT, A VIRTOUS WOMAN (NOT A LADY) TO BE HIS WIFE

@ MEKOYO

WHY WOULD U ADIVE HER TO TAKE SUCH A DECISION, IS IT EASY TO LEAVE THE LOVE OF UR LIFE?? (IF HE REALLY IS) CAN'T SAY

@ HABITAT, NICE JIVE BUT I'LL LIKE U TO SIT DOWN AND THINK TO & FRO B4 U TAKE THAT DICEY DECISION. LOVE(RELATIONSHIP) IS VERY HARD TO BUILD BUT CAN EAILY CRUMBLE LIKE A PACK OF CARD.

IF U LOVE HIM STICK WITH HIM BUT I AM TOTALLY AGAINST KNOCKING EVERY SECONDS OF THE MINUTES & HOUR TO STOP TAKING CRACK.

HABITAT, U ALSO DO KNOW THAT HE MIGHT NOT BE A SMOKER AS U THINK, BECOS ONCE U'RE IN AN ENVIRON WHERE THE SMOKE CRACK, U'LLDEFINATELY GET IT ON U.

IF HE SMOKE CRACK, THIS IS NOT A GOOD TIME TO LEAVE HIM BUT STICK WITH A & TURN HIS LIFE AROUND FOR GOOD. RELATIONHIP IS NOT ABOUT I WANT THIS OR THAT, IT'S ABOUT COMPLIMENTING EACH OTHER AND BRINGING THE BEST IN EACH OTHER.

OBASANJO'S GOVERNMENT AND IT'S REGIME HAS COME AND GONE BUT WHAT IMPACT DID IT HAVE ON THE MASSES ( ORDINARY NIGERIAN) WHO THOUGH DID NOT CONTRIBUTE TO THEIR CLINCHING POWER (MASSIVE RIGGING OF ELECTORAL POLLS).

DOWN TO THE THREAD OF THE DAY,

WHAT IS THE WAY FORWARD FOR AN ORDINARY NATIONAL DIPLOMA HOLDER IN OUR COUNTRY NIGERIA. WE ALL WELCOMED THE MERGER BETWEEN THE UNIVERSITIES & POLYTECHNIC BUT LITTLE DID WE KNOW THAT THINGS WILL TURN OUT THIS WAY. NO HND, AND IF YOU MUST BE ADMITTED IT'S EITHER LEVEL 100 OR SEEK ADMISSION ELSEWHERE.

I WANT TO GET YOUR VIEWS ON THIS AND WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO THE POLITES (POLYTECHNIC STUDENTS ) IN THIS FORUM.

THANKS AND PLEASE KEEP THOSE AD' COMING

CHEERIO

I AM AS CONFUSED AS YOU ARE KNOWING THAT THE EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM IN OUR COUNTRY IS FAST GOING DOWN THE DRAIN, MY SCHOOL THEY ARE SELLING SOME FORMS BUT I DON'T KNOW WHICH ONE IT IS. THERE HAS BEEN RUMORS OF POLYTECHNICS BEEN MERGED WITH UNI BUT I'VE NOT SEEN ANY POSITIVE OUTCOME YET.

LETS KEEP OUR FINGERS CROSSED AND HOPE THEY DON'T TOY WITH OUR FUTURE IN THE NAME OF REFORMS

this should go to all nairalanders in this forum " I am finding this forum less interesting as the day goes by" please lets try to contribute positively to enhance a beta future for al of us and not just some useless punks posting nasty threads

:-x ;d

My lover can't raise a hand but if that happens and I understand that the reason why U raised a hand was genuine, I'll just walk out and try to take some fresh breeze/air whichever, and when I'm back I expect her to apologise or be thrown out for real

i saved mine with sunshine

LEFT ME I CAN'T MOVE IN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND. FOR WHAT, MAKA WHY. I THINK IT'S A BIG SLAP ON MY FACE AND THE ENTIRE MEN FOLK IF I'M HOUSED FED (SEX & FOOD), CLOTH E.T.C

I PREFER IF MY GIRL MOVES IN WITH ME. AND UR GUY AIN'T MAN ENOUGH COS HE'S SUPPOSED TO BE THE COMMANDER IN CHIEF OF AFFAIRS IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND NOT A WEAKLING.

IT'S A BIG BLOW GUY. AND TO UR QUESTION AGAIN I CAN NEVER MOVE IN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND NOT WITHSTANDING THE SITUATION ( I DON'T PRAY FOR SUCH A SITUATION THOUGH)

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i want a woman that is humble, dedicated to her duties as a wife, don't gossip around the house, hardworking and god fearing.

HI, IT'S A NORMAL THING IF YOU GET MARRIED TO EACH OTHER REGARDLESS OF THE AGE DIFFERENCE. " U'RE AS OLD AS YOU THINK YOU ARE" WHICH BOILS DOWN TO THE FACT THAT AGE DOESN'T REALLY DETERMINE IF ONE IS MATURED TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY AS A HUSSY/WIFFY, RIGHT

I AM ALSO IN A RELATIONSHIP WHICH MY LOVER (GF) IS OLDER THAN ME WITH THREE YEARS, WE'VE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER FOR THE PAST TWO & HALF YEARS (SINCE OUR PRE-ND) DAYS AND WE'RE PLANNING WALKING DOWN THE AISLE TOGETHER IF IT'S GOD'S WILL FOR US.

ON THE ISSUE OF MAKING THE AGE THING A SECRET, IT'S A BAD IDEA COS AS REGARDS TO ME, SHE REBUKED ME OF TELLING MY MUM HER REAL AGE, BUT THE FACT IS THAT I CAN'T JUMP INTO SOMETHING WITHOUT GATHERING ENOUGH INFORMATION FROM THOSE THAT HAVE SEEN IT ALL. AND SHE APPROVES OF IT COS SHE (MUM) KNOW SHE IS MY JOY AND EVERYTHING I LIVE FOR. (THERE'S NO WAY U CAN HIDE THE AGE UNLESS U'R MUM IS BLIND SHE WILL DEFINITELY NOTICE SOMETHING ABOUT HER)

IF YOU RESPECT AND LOVE HIM, GO AHEAD WITH YOUR PLANS AND ALWAYS ASK FOR GOD'S FAVOUR & GUIDANCE.

CHEERIO

MORAL DECADENCE HAS BECOME A NORM IN OUR SOCIETY TODAY WHERE EVERY INDIVIDUAL HAS SEEN CORRUPTION AS THE SUREFIRE WAY OUT OF POVERTY, REJECTION AND ALL THAT. CORRUPTION HAS EATEN DEEP DOWN INTO OUR SYSTEM AND IT'S BY DIVINE INTERVENTION THAT NIGERIA & AFRICAN'S AT LARGE CAN REAP THE DIVIDEND OF THIS ACCLAIMED DEMOCRACY.

EVEN IN OUR CHURCH, MOSQUE TODAY, U SEE PERVERTS, GAYS, LESBIANS AT THE HELM OF AFFAIRS IN THE CHURCH/MOSQUE AND WHAT DO U EXPECT TO BE PREACHED, ?

POVERTY ALSO CONTRIBUTED TO SUCH PROMISCUITY AMONGST OUR YOUNG GIRLS SEEN IN BROTHELS, HIGHWAYS JUST TO EKE OUT A LIVING AND THE GOVERNMENT IS NOT PLAYING IT'S ROLE TO SEE SUCH PROBLEMS RESOLVED.

What a wonderful write - up. May God bless u. I was really touched and saw reason's to so many things said

AlexJ what year did u graduate?? Or is it the Alex that accompany Evil spirit, Kokobanti, e.t.c. U reside at Western Villa??

Heard about Manukaji, he' s now the Asst. Rector. Please what's the name and which year did you graduate. Know Slim, Bullet,

Name is Ifediorah Agozie
Graduated 2006
Dept: Science Lab. Tech.

Also does the name Ifediorah ring a bell (Lecturer in the dept of Quantity Surveying)

Must we comment on every issues in this forum for heaven's sake, ? Please Nairalanders it's high time we act maturedly to certain issues. Why on earth did you muster such guts to post that nasty question. We're different individuals here, your likes might put me off and all that so use ur tongue to count your teeth, I know they are 36 / 39 in number which ever way take care.

As to your post it's very possible and experimentable is your dad not older than your mum, same applies to if and ND Holder can date a HND Holder