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Bbbwings:
Oyinbo songs are censored only on airplay.
Listen to cardi b on YouTube and come and Tel me if it is censored

The bottom line is what is bad is bad. I dont listen to cardi B too cos of her crudeness. She is no different from marley, we dont havve to like n sing songs because we wanna feel current and among. Wen u sing such lyrics ask urself, is this the man i want to be.
Marley is a disease to the youth n anyone who dont see him as such is a diseasd person himself

Flier:
Dont mind them,the guy is source of my joy
Always listen to his songs anytime I am frustrated

And i dont think u can ever stop being frraustrated when No manners gives u Joy

nochillatalll:
Most nigerians are stupid i swear!

You will listen to American rappers and play their songs on repeat with all the vulgar content but yet criticize someone here doing the same

is that not madness?

The person that wrote that article should quit being a hypocrite!

Maybe because it sounds good in their mouth and sound rotten in ours.
Oyinbo rapper can say excrete in his rap, which seems somehw decent even tho excrete is not a pleasantry to behold. But nigerian rapper will just say igbé and u just puke all over.
Oyinbos songs are censored u can count d number of censors in a song. Everything marly says canot be censored. All raw

Is this going to be the last baloon' door? Cant ronaldo win d next one n the equality comes back again till they die

ornicus:
you think some people don't split the money to make the story/transfers easier?
i am sure you hear the stories of people queuing at atm - where someone tells them - abeg my account has problem - let me send you 50k so you can withdraw for me. you think a kidnapper will send the full ransom to a single account?

Have u been a kidnapper before? So a ransome of 3mill woll be transferred to 60 people. For your info, the do drop offs for cash rather than bank accounts. Except its a ficticious account that cannot be traced

ornicus:
you really have no idea of the lengths kidnappers go to, do you?

For 50k? Thats not kidnaping

livebyday:
Best comment here

@OP

Thank this lady and follow her advise to the letter ..

Is it the english that made it the best comment. Correctly, it should be, there might be an aprehension on sight.

ornicus:
Now I will go cynical. Hope you are not doing picker for your paddy. Because I am wondering why your friend has you bank account details in the first place.

Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are.

Which hustle is your friend doing that will give 300 k. Which one is my account cannot carry it
What was your commission?

I hope you can see exactly where this path will lead.

We can't even say if this story of your paddy stealing is not cock and bull. It could be full fledged kidnap money

Kidnap of 50k, dont try to be stupid just to form smart

Freemanbobble:
Na AA the guy be

Sorry what does being AA Mean? In relation to thyphiod

sagtav:
A very close family member is having the same problem. His own is even worse.

Lalasticlala, please can you take this topic to the front page so we can have broader inputs from experts in the house.

Thank you.

im having the same problem o, i was shocked to see this Topic ive taken 3 ciproflaxin o

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

Bro, the best advice illd give u is not to make a fuss about her stand.
Just sit her down and ask her to tell u in earnest if her stand has got anything to do with something shes hiding from u
Tell her if it is, its better to talk about it and resolve it now, that it would not be good to find surprises after the wedding.
If she insists nothing is wrong n assures u, go on with ur plans to get married, u will not die for the few months u have to wait. Well except the truth is, u are not ready for a white wedding yet but want to be enjoying her till u are ready.

That was an unintentional foul

YelloweWest:
There is nothing sad here! She's alive and well, that's all her and her family care about!

U guys are just too vein!!! Can't u get passed her physical look?
The girl survived plan crash.
Got over depression.
Went through about 100 surgeries.
Graduated with 1st class
Went on the world stage and got to the final round of American idol...
All before 30 years! Yet all u can see is sadness??


Na wa for ona oh!

Wow, so all these things happened after the crash?
She bagged 1st class, final of american idol?
Thats a feat tho.
But she didnt need to show boobs at all.

9jaBloke:
John Legend. Repping Good Music.

See as Kanye young.


Back when Kemi was normal

It looks like john legend or ludacris. But i think its JL sha

realestniggah:
She said she not here for clout chasing when we know she actually is clout chasing

pls what is clout chasing is assif the slang just exploded

ednut1:
the stories i have read here told is making me feel i should not marry and marriage is a scam. with all the problem in life person go add wife wahala join. our mothers and grandmas really tries

Marriage is almost a scam if u dont marry ur best friend but marry the woman that u like.

EggSauce:
Nigeria farmers are wicked and heartless and this border closure will go immediately buhari Regime is over... How can local rice be 17k for 50kg when rice all the away from Asia costs 7 to 8k for 50kg when there was no ban on rice importation...

Oga, its not just about wickedness, the fact that local production is costlier than imports does not necessarily mean local producers are wicked, actually this pricing is one of the advantages of international trade/Globalization. It can also be referred to as Comparative cost advantage

Is chukueze really as skillful as u guys claim he is.
I see no extra creativity when hes with the ball

Is chukwueze really as skillful as u guys claim.
I see no creativity when hes with the ball

Rajosh:
the last international break. scores 2:2
Brazil played 1:1 against Senegal not SA

Oh thanks. That means we should just manage a draw too

Theres no how they will not beat us, the quality is there.

Kalapizim:
He debuted against Ukraine, two games two goals.

When did we play ukraine pls, and what was the score?
And pls what did brazil play against SA

lloyds:
Most of these kind of ladies end up becoming prayer and crusade projects in the church.

She is being realistic, as a guy, is ur goal to get married under a 50k salary?

Amarabae:
If the man is earning 50k monthly, the girl should have something doing that should be earning her atleast 25k monthly.
Both of them combined will be 75k and can be OK in starting a middle class family

How old are u, a total income of 500k may not still make u a middle class in the nigeria of today.
Depends majorly on the location they end up settling

franchasng:
In as much as we will all try to attack and condemn the lady for saying such, there is lot of truth in what she wrote, and I will explain:

Back in the days of our fathers, there was no GSM, no internet, no cable TV, so it was never necessary for a man or woman to own a mobile phone, buy internet data, buy airtime, pay for cable TV like DsTV or GoTV or Star Times, etc. In fact there was no need to have a fridge/freezer before you get married because there were electricity only in few parts of Nigeria, mostly the cities, and only less than 20% of Nigerians then lived in the cities, and maybe less than 5% of those city dwellers owned a TV set, a fridge/freezer.

There was no need to own a washing machine, only the elites did....there was no need for electric or gas cooker, no need to talk about owning a car to think of maintaining and fueling the car, only few elites owned cars.

Back then, all schools were government owned, private schools were seen as useless schools for dull people, and most government schools then were free, the ones that needed to be paid for were peanuts...so you don't need to stress to send your children to school, all they needed was school uniform and books.

Back then, there were very few private hospitals, all existing reputable hospitals were all government owned and well equipped and competent, today is different....to take care of your wife's delivery and children health, you must pay through your nose if they must get adequate healthcare.

All the reputable schools now are owned by private individuals, and their tuition is on the high side that, someone earning that amount she mentioned can never be able to send his children to any good school, sadly that's the reality not what we wished was the reality


Before you can get married today and have a relatively happy home, you may need to rent a 1 bedroom flat at least, you will pay for electricity bill monthly, buy gas for cooking, pay for refuse collectors, pay estate or community security which was free in our father's time, you may need TV, GoTV which also requires monthly subscription, you must own a mobile phone, including your wife, and who will be buying the airtime, the internet data, maybe Buhari

Honestly, to live a decent life in Nigeria or run a decent, modest home in Nigeria now as a married man, you will need around 200,000naira monthly income, which is why every Nigerian lady now should make it a priority to have a job or a business or a trade or something earning her legal money of at least 50,000naira monthly before she accepts to marry any man.


Gone are the days ladies bring only their body to marriage, ladies your body is no longer enough, you must bring some money too....a monthly income!!!


That guy that replied her and saying he is earning 57,000 and he is married with 2 kids, he should also tell people about other ways he earns money to augment his 50k monthly salary; or he thinks we don't know how corrupt majority of Nigerian civil servants are, collecting kickbacks, bribes, and engaging in all forms of office corruption to makeup their low pay

He should also tell us if he doesn't get one or two financial help from one of his big brothers or uncles living somewhere else either abroad or in another city, so let him STFU that income is not enough to run a family in today Nigeria!!

If you are not earning enough income to raise a decent home, pls stay single, its not a crime to remain single, it is a crime to give birth to kids u can't train or give decent life, they will grow up to become societal problem and easy tools for crime/violence which is why Northern Nigeria and in fact Nigeria is so messed right now!


Stop giving birth to kids u can't train or hoping for your uncle or brother or sister or aunt or friend to train them for u, the world has changed, this is not 1980!!

Im a guy, and this is the truth. Atleast a guy must earn 120 while the wife brings in 30 anything outside this is poverty except they live outside places like lagos

DAVE5:
I’m guessing you’re referring to me, I assume There are certain jobs you just can’t apply for just like that and mine is one of such because it took some path before I was taken to this particular office, besides hr’s are the real employers of labor for which I’m not an hr guy


So, for others quoting a nairalander that said they intend to leave their job and saying they should give them the pass, u shld know d person quitting can’t give you the pass because there’s a referee who decides who gets the ball


It’s like saying because Ronaldo wanted to leave Madrid, then Abiodun Emeka at Enugu rangers should be given Ronaldo’s slot at Madrid


HARD TRUTH!!!

For someone who is educated to be asking such favours i wonder if all is well with them mentally, its not an apprentice position, its a full time job under a somewhat structured organization.
There is a pattern of employment u dont just bring someone to replace u, except ur services is a rare one and they feel u may know someone in the field.
This people dont even know ur job role, they are just asking to be linked up, like serzly? Nawa o

DAVE5:
Bro, u have to discover ur self by ur self ohh, my biz dint become semi auto pilot by itself, it was the grace of God that made it so, my biz workers became trust worthy to an extent so I didn’t need to be there with them always after abt 2 years of them working for me, I’m into several biznesses; data reselling, farming, restaurant, firstmonie, paga, sourcing and buying and selling of items for people, fish farming, bet shop set up and installation and I’m still looking for funds to continue adding more biznesses under my sleeves,

And trust me if I said I started from the bottom, I mean from the very bottom and built myself through saving, investing and self discipline

So the truth is I don’t know how I want to advise you but diligence and discovering you are key, I still intend to do computer consultancy cos I have a thing for computers

I’m not into quick money like forex, bitcoin and the rest online biz but if u venture into and it works for you

I totally understand what u mean, i must commend ur entrepreneural spirit, not everyone has this spirit and drive u know.
If i had half of these bro, trust me i for don resign cos uve built urself to the level that as bad as it can get, 100k is very feasible at the least every month.
Big ups sir, more grease to ur elbow

Viking007:
More than 150k. I can't continue. I wake up every morning depressed. I need my life back. 3 of my colleagues already resigned. When you start having suicidal thoughts because of a job you don't need a soothsayer before you run.

Oga, is it access bank?

Reference:
Poster you are so, so, so wrong. Carry on like this and you are unlikeky to avhive your life goals because life will give you enough hard tackling defenders to mske you quit in every scenario.

About to commence work so can't explain but simply put: The only criteria for significant decision making should be milestones attained in your planned program of either a career build or an enterprise build.

A ship sailing across the Pacific or a plane flying across the Atlantic is bound to encounter rough, tough conditions if rhis is a regular service. The craft may alter course at some point to evade the obstacle but its objective at the end should always remain specific to make the route a viable business.

You simply cannot succeed in life if your impetus and direction is continualy determined and irreperably altered by the obstacles you face along the way. Every man and woman of value will experience the threat of tectonic shifts that will question your resolve and test whether you have the will to succeed.

Life is not one way resigning may be a strategic effort to averting calamity.
In the analogy u created, its not all turbulence a plane gears to overcome, sometimes, its best to crash land and take-off at a more stable time.
Resignation can be crash landing, yes comes with the weight of uncertainty but it can give u time to think about how best to really achieve your goals.

DAVE5:
Bros my resignation letter dey draft currently... I just called my guy 2 preview make I no go create enmity before I move, nah him my guy say make I chill so him go relate wit our oga

I do agree on the negative energy part, it’s getting to me already n I’m currently taking it out on so many people like u that read my long epistle... lol

Bro, good morning can you help fed up employees like u with the auto pilot biz u run. If it fetches me 2times my salary, its a life saver

SolarMight:
You that have a job wanna quit.... To what exactly? Stop misleading people jor

Hes not misleading anyone. Work no dey, work no dey, because of this one will be working in agony.

I heard he tried to commit suicide as a teenager