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hahahahaha, you guys are funny.

Almondjoy, thanks for your great insight,


What did I find when I snooped invitations of his engagement to someone in Niger,

Will I snoop again, heck yea!!!!

Everyone is entitled to thier opinions.

Busta, I can see that you OBVIOUSLY CANNOT READ.

Read my post just above yours.

TrooE you need a psychologist, and you obviously can't read

Not complaining only sharing my experience,

If una no get anything useful to say or add, make una keep shut.

I've learned from my experiences and moving on, TIME doesn't wait for anyone

The man was a past experience. (enuff said)

Some of you in this group don't know how to read and criticize objectively, No wonder Naija is the way it is,

ABEG jare make una go sit down,

We call each other, we text message, we hang out, and we often do have meaningful conversations,

I think the age difference was more of our issue,, we were at different stages in our lives,

I AM NO LONGER with this man. Just sharing one of my past experiences,

Abeg if una get nothing GOOD or USEFUL to say make una KEEP SHUT,

Familiarity breeds contempt. (enuff said)

To Teejay, I'm not perverted, I just have needs. <enuff said.>

Another confusing thing, this foolish man did was that he had the BALLZ to introduce me to his MOTHER,

LOL, I should have been like "you have a very stupid son, he has no idea how to treat women, "

And if she finds shit, and she asks you questions, then don't stumble like akaihe

Thank you, thats why I want to hear.

If your girl snoops, every man should hope that she won't find anything.

Or hide your shit well,

Well i'm yet to meet the man.

TrooE, abeg be EASY,

You sound like you are speaking from one kind experience

lol, don't believe in sex before marriage.

I agree,

CURIOUSITY Definately killed the cat,

I just couldn't accept that I was being honest throughout the relationship and he wasn't,

kinda hurt a lot. couldn't deal with it.

Till today, he couldn't tell me what he had to hide, Anyhoo, we're kool friends.

He can lie to the next gal.

I once heard my man masturabating, while I slept naked next to him.

That was weird.

I just did it out of curiousity.

I had doubts, but also in my mind hoping to not find anything.


I snooped and I asked questions and he couldn't answer,
then he later came up with one kind story, wasn't interested.

Hey TrooE, id like to look around ur apt ? hope thats fine with you.

The poinit of snooping is to hope you don't find anything,

If a man, came into my apt, he wouldn't find ANYTHING.

I used to be one those ''NICE" women that bought stuff for men because I cared and also because I could afford the finer things in life.

Didn't stop them from CHEATING or thier USERISH behavior,

Obviously caring about a man by buying them stuff, HORRIBLE IDEA.

Will NEVER buy anything for a man (at least while in dating phase)

The men I dated were U'SERS, who always wanted to recieve but never want to give. (enuff said)

If your man can't help you in times of need, DUMP HIM. enuff said.

As long as everyone knows and is aware that they are not in a monogamous relationship, then its all goood,

Our forefathers had up to 13 wives, all the wives were aware of what they were getting into.

No big deal,

If your girl stinks, get a ANOTHER girl. Enuff said.

If the new one stinks, get ANOTHER girl,

If the new one stinks, get another one,

Then when your are tired, kindly tell her to take a shower, or even better you can take a shower together.

No BIG DEAL.

This shouldn't be a topic on nairaland,

First guy : unnamed (number in between)

Second guy: Crazy (First name)

Plus I don't care what anyone says: MONEY IS EVERYTHING.

It doesn't make you happy but it puts a smile on your face and finger.

like a diamond ring,

If he can't spend money on you, DUMP HIM. Enuff said.

I'd rather snoop, and ask questions than be hurt in the end while choosing to be naiive.

No be film oh, na real talk.

A guy once left me in his apt and I remember just looking thru his things, don't know what I was looking for but obviously, he was CHEATING!!!!

I saw this love letter that he wrote to one woman he suppose marry for naija,

When he came back home, I was soo angry, cursed him out and then left, Shooo!!!!!

Any snoopers in the house?

I get one question way I wan ask,

If you dating somone, and he left you in his house for one day? would you look around ?

Some people may call it "snooping"? invasion of privacy, what ever it may be called, in some instances, it may be justified.


If you don't trust your boyfriend, is it ok to snoop around his house ? like looking thru his cell phone and other things, so that you can ask questions or find information that may help you in the long run?

You are only attracted to her because of the power dynamic. Nothing else,

Once u have her, u'll see there was nothing in the first place, the relationship, not genuine

u r pretty strange and creeping, men, she's 14 darn it.

I no understand the thing wey u guys dey yarn,

If a man is still in contact with his ex, DUMP HIM.

Old things have passed away and all things have become NEW.

haha, funny.

I agree. Thanks for your input.

Have several dates scheduled already.