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Pweety4me:
<sub>Yur hot may be anoda woman's Not. . .lolz

Sup sis?</sub>

tkb417:
sorry, that MAN U thing wasnt there when u requested to add me on FB? what are u saying?
yarning dust? STFU?  hehehe
slow your roll with your words babes

platinumnk:
naa, im just admiring Gods hard work in him

@madlady- your name is madlady lol

platinumnk:
why is every chick named shaniqua
actually your're not bad, ok you can be 5th

you will be killed and roasted when they see this  
replied lol, so jaybee and madlady eh


No way  he thinks I am insane.

platinumnk:
sis na! why u dey encourage them
and also tkb and kokonets-
Ready for negative numbers??

tkb417:
and what number will u give me?
i shd be hawter than Jackie chan or whats his name again sef

jay bee:
what number i be abeg?
plat or ayetty abegi make una assign number to moi nau

googles:
[size=13pt]oh sweetim no, good drugs arent meant to be sweet. . . . the bitter the better
try the club thingy jor and weed is good for the body o see me naw
so you are gay am gay too hmm lets run things madlady
you can forget about the fees as long as am entitled to your lovely lady lumps [/size]

googles:
[size=13pt]if its not my favourite girl madlady how you dey this morning
back to business hmm is it man problem or woman problem?
well emm make every nite club nites , go out all you want dance all you want hook up with all the boys u want or girls
and to ginger your spirit you can take six wraps of weed everymorning twill make you feel alright for the day + twill increase your appetite
remember six wraps o not more cos i know its addictive [/size]

chaircover:
@madlady how are you keeping? I can get these from a wholesaler but I need to order a minimum number

@dominique - you are quite right I see them all the time in go slow; especially the CMS daily go slow. I however I read somewhere that cheap sunglasses do not protect the eyes from harmful UV rays from the sun . . . . . & we do have sun in Naija LOL

Over the years I have also come to understand that you get what you pay for. I've had my D&G and Ralph Lauren glasses for yonks and they have been through hell with me.I throw them around, the case is usually miles away from the glasses and I am always fishing them out from the bottom of my handbag or my car glove compartment but they dont scratch or break.

michelin89:
I prefer her to Bee, she is more natural!

follypimpi:

The in private then just for MOI only.

platinumnk:
^^ Not for it, but I will be there this summer for conference  
Maybe the dates will coincide

And isnt flying to the UK from NY cheap?

follypimpi:

A chance for us to dance to rompin shop.

ElRazur:
Jesus. That is an altered perception of beauty. Jeez. When will people realise all these false images are not a true representation of beauty? I know I am just speaking to a wall here, many ladies around here will give anything to look like her. YUK!

k0be:
Bottom line--if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about intimacy is NOT going to make me care. (I stopped doing that years ago) That kind of intimacy is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he's through. He ain't sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He's moving on with his life until that spot itches again and it don't matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch.

Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we're having a "relationship" when it's NOTHING but a booty call. Come on, ladies, y'all know I'm telling the truth.

Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we're about. Having intimacy with a man does not automatically make that a "relationship". Many women will deny they think like thi s but I'm speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now, what kind of sense does that make? Why should that woman make YOU (a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE. The "other woman" is not breaking up a "happy home".

Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down the aisle didn't change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long.

Ladies, start living with your eyes OPEN. Most shady men give themselves away one way or another, usually before the first 30 days. Women have to stop "rewarding" unfaithful men by pretending it ain't happening. All of us BM do not cheat. I do not cheat on my lady so don't buy the hype. I know other BM who do not but many men WILL che at if there are NO real penalties for it.

Stop jumping into bed with brothers YOU DON'T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat. Women have to STOP being so afraid to ask the important questions that would reveal his TRUE lifestyle. Worry LESS about what kind of job he has and what kind of car he drives and encourage him to talk about his past, particularly his past with women. OPEN those ears and listen. Does he put down his ex-women and blame them for everything? And don't be so vain. You are NOT a better woman than his last. If he dogged her out, you will probably be NEXT.

Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he secretive? Did you ask if he's married or engaged? How does he treat other people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes. If he says, "I'm not lookin' for nothing right now" -- DON'T tell yourself, "Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind, " NO YOU CAN'T. He said exactly what the hell he meant. BM don't have to lie when so many BW are already DEAF.

If you can't answer BASIC questions about a man DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS. I could kind of understand back in the days when intimacy wouldn't KILL people but now? there's no excuse and if a BW takes that huge risk of sleeping with a STRANGER then she better protect herself -- sexually AND emotionally.

Show our azz the door if we pressure you for intimacy too soon. Don't be afraid to be alone. After you give our azz some you will probably be alone anyway but now you feel like a fool. In other words, take your time and check us out. if we REALLY like you, we'll stick around. BUT if you decided to sleep with a man you hardly know, PROTECT yourself and keep your expectations to ZERO. We do not owe you a relationship or another date just because you had intimacy with us. That's not how it works, ba by.

I have TOO many female friends who give me horror stories that could have been avoided if they'd done their homework first OR moved SLOWER before giving up the undies. I try as a BM to give them the best advice I can but that won't mean a damn thing if BW continue to live in a dream world. You are TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for your own sexual behavior the same as I am. Blaming the man won't change a damn thing. BW have to look in the mirror and take SOME of the blame for what's wrong with BM/BW relationships. Let me end by saying,

intimacy DOES NOT = A RELATIONSHIP

GIVING A MAN A READY-MADE FAMILY WILL NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO

A MAN WILL NOT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT HERSELF OR HER BODY

IF YOU TRADE intimacy FOR MATERIAL THINGS YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF

IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM?

IF YOU REWARD A DOG WHY SHOULD MEN STOP BEING DOGS?

BRING MORE TO THE TABLE THAN YOUR BODY. NO YOUR P*ZZY IS NOT MADE OF GOLD. IT IS ONLY AS GOOD AS I THINK IT IS. BELIEVE THAT.

BW are going to have to raise their standards if they expect BM to do it. The question is, are my beautiful BW up to the challenge? Are you willing to be strong and stop taking the easy way out? Ladies, ladies, ladies, hit me back with some truth, not some bullshyt. I don't want to hear: "What you said don't refer to me 'cause I got my shyt together and I'm a proud black woman who intimidates men and I never made no mistakes, it's those other women who do things like that."

No, no, no! I don't want to hear you putting yourself on a pedestal because I KNOW you've made mistakes. I want you to hit me back with some TRUTH. What are BW going to do about these shady, shaky relationships that wind up in divorce court 60-70%% of the time, that's if we bother getting married at all? What are BW going to do DIFFERENT to make this shyt better? Hit me back, ladies.

googles:
[size=13pt]ozuai

you are just a cheap nippplehead,your first visit to her house and u want to bone her

mcheeeeeew . . . . . . . . . go and sleep jor [/size]