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chika98:
hey Lady. . Long time
I've got some things to show ya

Ermm a long time could be months or years. How ever long it takes

Hi hun, pls show me, I will go to your thread. 


@TOPIC, well it can take years, my ex still hmmm plays this game, it's been almost 2 years.

You do get use to it in the end, but I may have taken more drastic steps if he were abusive in any way.

chika98:
Move to a different city or just IGNORE him
No one stays interested for too long a time

Depends on what you call a long time

@xxcarolxx, you said it's been 2 months,   sadly it's still in the early days.


You have one thing in your favour, he KNOWS you have some one else.


I think he will eventually give up.


IF you really want to get heavy , get a lawyer to send him a letter but this could have an adverse effect.

xxcarolxx:
Highchief, i have spoke with him about why i cant take him back, but as i say its like talking to a brick wall, Madlady This stage its driving me around the twist, Hopefully soon he will get the message,

I know, it feels very bad but, if he's not calling your family and Friends or threatening violence maybe you can bear it.

TRY to avoid meeting him, ( I did that, it just made it worse) email him, maybe you can try to reason with him .

xxcarolxx:
I kicked my ex into touch because of his cheating ways, But he still is disturbing my life. I have moved on from him but he is trying to cause trouble in my new relationship. I have blocked his no on my phone, iv tried to cancel a bill he pays here but i cant as its in his name. He refuses to transfer it back to my name, I don't want him paying this bill i would rather pay for it myself. I just don't know what to do at this stage, its like talking to a brick wall, How do i get through to him that its over, I have ignored him but he still disturbs me,

I know how you feel, my hope is he will just get fed-up and move on.

I am not really sure what you can do, I think it's just a matter of sitting it out.

@Poster as long as he's not verbally or physically abusive you may have to play the long game, I think he will eventually give up and move on.

^^Thank you.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-G1f9hGMY8?fs=1&hl=en_GB&rel=0"

^^^

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=513579.msg6754824#msg6754824 date=1284503307]The widow

I would advise you go for the widow

But can you stand that CHILD from her,

Forget what your family are gonna say!

They aint getting married to her but you are~

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@Poster, the widow seems your best bet .

MOBO444:
Please HELP ME TO BED jay bee NOT TO MOVE MY TOPIC ANYMORE.

Movingcoil:
I was planning on going to see her 2nit in her hostel, but from the look of things I might not go again, let me just try and free her while I handle other things

googles:
wifey

i hope you are not about to say you are single too o

you and I together

My one and only.
C ur mouth ,  

y me:
concentrate on blowing them up one way or another then move on and free them like a lolly pop

Yes that's what they deserve.

hmmmm.

^^No it's a lie.

The @poster seems like a cool guy that's all.

Vic2k3:
@POSTER.
My man what u are in is called LOVE. But am sorry that u fell 4 the wrong lady. No sensible lady plays with a man's emotion. So i will advice u to start (now) to look 4 a suitable replacement cos thats the only way out. There are many nice ladys out there dying 4 u for example: MADLADY
**runs out before madlady reads this **

Who's calling my name  

Dunddy:
_{pulls him back and calls} MADLADYYYYYYYYYY!!!

Leave my name .

calipso:
Hi Fellas, pls be sincere:

What will you do when your Boyfriend or Girlfriend use and Dump you for your Best Friend?

Well to be honest I would find a way to get my own back.

collinsfbi:
@poster, All your bla bla bla bla is quite understood but you have to always remind yourself of the fact that women are meant to be loved, appreciated, valued and respected but not to be taken 100% as a course of study else you will run mad. I had a similar experince years ago in my yr 1 which almost cause my entire life and derailed me academically for four good years, at the end, i manage to graduate with 2.2 You have to understand that feelings are emotional attachment created by closeness bore out of friendship, if she said NO! who told u can never love another person, besides your academics should be your priority and engage less in any emotional thing. The girl in question may like you and really want to give u hard time to get through but patient is the key. I will not ask you to give up if u know that u really love her but make sure it doesn't affect your studies besides campus love sometimes can be dangrous and regretful because most love are infantuation, fake and conditional to money, power, academic influence, material things etc

Just be careful, cos she might be engaged to some notorious guys and wouldn't want you to cross the line. My candid advice to you is to face your studies first and make your parents proud because there are many angels out there you have never seen or heard of.

I hope the poster reads this.

Very interesting.

^^Leave the poster alone, at least he does not HATE girls.


I bet he ends up with a really cool chic.

^^OK, what did you mean when you spoke about making the girl cry in bed?

^^^^Well done with your studies.


Your post clearly shows you are not a boastful guy.

You seem like a very cool person, looks,sense of humour and humility that's a great combination.

I am sure this girl see these traits you have NOW, give it a bit more time.

Hmmmmm.

femmy2010:
What matters is now and d future.

Maybe .

Sometimes folks who have been around the track (so to speak) get bored of that type of life, they feel they are ready for a so called normal life.

I am not sure if they can really change, but then again I we all have to make changes.

@Movingcoil, I'm glad I decided to read your story (the layout seemed a bit daunting) but you have just written straight from the heart.

This girl you have such strong feelings for seems to be DEVELOPING feelings for you also.

Don't delete her number YET, but ease up on the pressure you are applying on her and YOURSELF.

PS you look and sound like a really cool guy, GOOD LUCK.

^^I was just about to nod off when your post made me roar with laughter, some guys are .

ceasyc:
hmmm wot a topic. lets c
1. we had only been dating 4 a month or 2 when he got another gal pregnant n claimed it was my fault cos i didnt want to get pregnant 4 him.
who in d world gets preg 4 a guy dey just met or started dating at d age of 22 = pretty dumb i'll say.
2. he travelled 2 turkey from uk without telling me, then called me from there that he got arrested using sum1's credit card to buy me a gift n he claimed agai dat its my fault cos he was already done shopping wen he remembered dat he shud get me sumtin then he got arrested (h was lucky he didnt go 2 jail). i just dont get it or him = is he really from dis planet or 
lemme stop there on him jo n say he was just a clown n an arse. foolish stingy yoruba [b]he goat - i cud neva get his own moni off him not even a tenner (10 quid/pounds)[/b]

That's a very funny term  He goat

You were too good for him.

^^^I like your post (makes a change from all the -----) great insight.

Ps it's not only whites who do that.

@Negro_Nnts I will go into your posts and read the 1st part.

OH I see, you did explain that part after all, the table of nations.

Thank you.