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carnal:
1k for 7 days won't fly but you can have your card.I think 2k should be fine including accommodation.

thanks boss for the reply.
I’ve got Airbnb accommodation sorted out already($200 for 7days)..
The place has a kitchen where i can cook my own food so i intend to go with some spaghetti and macaroni to reduce food cost

Hi Guys! I got my B1/B2 last year May but due to some busy schedules I wasn’t able to use it as it the date i filed on the form. I intend to use it in march for just a 7days trip. It’s also my first time to the US. Will $1k be enough as PTA for the 7 days trip?am traveling for a business trip (B1)

greggng:
Stop creating problem for married people. Children are gift from God...God will even bless u if u unknowingly trained another persons child. Everything on earth is vanity ...plan for heaven by doing good things....you won't be on earth forever

do you even have a brain?? Chai

od501:
My bro... DNA test is not blood sugar rest oo. That shit cost 100k+. I stand to be corrected though, doctors in the house, how much does DNA test cost?

not everyone is as broke as you

Edox4:
someone am close to is in this kind of mess. His wife keeps cheating from time to time infact he has caught her up to like 5times but he keeps believing she would change coz he doesn't want a broken marriage. Meanwhile they are married with kids.

damn

KingAzubuike:
Doctored chat.

Lol...See the Airtel ISP

Interesting

u11ae1013:
We should stop godifying these doctor cadets, as far as I am concern, an Engineer is more important in any society than a doctor.

Ozwor

LiftedMan:
So I just called the Nigerian Embassy in Qatar, And guess what? It's was Indian Guy that spoke to me, imagine that. Someone informed me that it's not strange to find foreigners working in Nigerian embassies.

Lool

Following

Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men brings a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

Bro you still don’t get. I agree that Women nature is universal the exact reason I said you’ve got good women and bad women everywhere! There are some Nigerian women you will take abroad and despite the feminist nature of the society, they will remain with you and endure difficult times in the marriage, others will capitalize on the feminist society and wreck the guy.
Also, not all foreign girls are bad too! You’ve got some that will also endure difficult times in the marriage even though they were brought up in a feminist society.
The baseline of my argument now is, for me i have opened my mind to love from anywhere!

Martinez39:
They always appear like angels and wife material before marriage. It's their usual chameleon act. Unfortunately, many guys fall for this believing that their girlfriends are not like other girls only to get the shock of their lives later on. There is no NAWALT or unicorn anywhere.

Bad move! You should have discarded her at that moment.

They will always deny until you show them evidence. After showing them evidence, they will confess (half truth confessions) and bring forth crocodile tears not because they are sorry but because they want your forgiveness and they want you to take them back since you are an ample provider. Funny enough, they would do it over and over again because more careful after you have caught them.

Bullsh!t, if she likes childish stuff why did she not discuss it with you or, in the proper way, break up with you and go with the guy that likes childish stuff? She is just playing.

Oga, female nature is universal. In fact, foreign girls are worse in their countries because they are empowered socially and legally to ruin you, especially if you are stupid or naive enough to get married to them in their country and stay there. Feminism doesn't even help matters.


Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG

I agree with you except in the last part. It’s the reverse Bro! Ask guys that are based abroad! They are very careful with the type of girls they bring from Nigeria if they decide to marry from Home. Most Nigerian girls become wild when they get abroad! They capitalize on the fact that the system favors them to ruin the guy. Unlike in Nigeria where a guy can put the wife away when she messes up with no fear of legal consequences, abroad is different.
I know of a guy that married from Nigeria abroad, when the girl got there, she started misbehaving ! She connived with her mom to create hell for the guy. They eventually had a divorce and as usual half of his property was given to the girl according to USA law.

PS: they had a child and till today the guy is still paying child support

uruba23:
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,most worst of his to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird.

like seriously?? She wasn’t married to me yet so she’s a free bird? Ppl like you are ppl that go ahead with wanting to sleep with a lady even after telling you she has a boyfriend. Smh

I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

Khalidase83:
That is y I don't check phones; you will always see what you are looking for.

so you prefer been kept in the dark abi? And not know what your partner is doing!! Lemme tell you a story!
I had an ex that i was in a serious relationship with. She knows it was a serious relationship because i was already started making plans with her! Guess what! I hacked her Instagram account and i discovered she was having sex with a guy in her lodge. It happened over 4 times.
I confronted her and she confessed! She begged for forgiveness but I dumped her sorry ass! What If I didn’t check Her Instagram?? That’s how I would never had know and it would have even continued in Marriage because once a cheat always a cheat

babyfaceafrica:
A lady who loves you will agree to your advances immediately. So take note to avoid stories that touch the heart.



Where did this come from?.. Stop misleading men please!!

it’s true

Jewessgratitude:
The problem with guys/men is they don't know when a woman loves them. They just force themselves until the lady ( not all though) out pity agrees to date them. That is why she can easily go back to her ex or another guy without her conscience pricking her.

My advice to guys. When chiking a lady and she keeps posting you saying I'll think about it, give me some time, shes doesn't love you and peradventure she eventually agrees to date you due to pressure, her mind will not be 100% with you as she'll still be on the look out for that man she truly loves or that can occupy that place in her heart.
A lady who loves you will agree to your advances immediately. So take note to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Una too dey rush person.�

We just reason alike! You too much! The maximum i can ask a girl out is 3 weeks! After that i move on

MrBrownJay1:
so you want this STRANGER to go and stay in the homes of TOTAL STRANGERS, in these days of KIDNAPPINGS/RITUAL KILLINGS, BODYPART SALESMEN etc (instead of simply asking help from his church)?! really?!?!?!

i will never be sympathetic to madness... what he is asking is COMPLETE MADNESSS

BTW how will he eat in Lagos, since he has no money?

how many Nigerian churches will be able to help?

migrantDentist:
While I was earning 90k as a dentist. My medical colleagues in the same hospital were earning 180k. I went to the MD to complain about the disparity. He laughed. Told me. My cert isn't worth much. I'm not a money spinner. Dr's are money spinners. As an House officer. We got same treatment. In Govt hospital. It's same pay. I was shocked a senior colleague would say that to me. In gambia. My cert is worth more than my medical colleagues.

Hi! Am a Dentist too! Sorry about your work experiences in Nigeria! Congratulations on your Gambia practice! I want to also suggest some stuffs to you but it’s better said in private as per the colleagues we are.
Kindly reply my message if you would want me to send you a pm.

Do ppl still use travel agents in this age of information technology! Sorry for your friends

jacobjamie:
Also I need to know the steps to take from this point base on what to start getting eg documents ? School certificates ...police reports ? Bank statements ? Etc

Bro chill with those Documents first okay!? Till 15years time when the Embassy will invite you

chokey419:
You’re on a long thing the average wait time is 15years

and pending when his application gets approved, (in 15Years Time)
he can’t apply for a non immigrant visa. Because there’s a section on the Non immigrant visa form that asks whether you have a pending immigrant visa petition.

seyewest:
Yes it's B1/B2 but if you apply for Business visa you must fulfilled that obligation first before using the visa for tourism.

now i get.Thanks!
And fulfilling that obligation must it be at the date stated on the form? Can you do the business trip on a later date due to busy schedules ?

seyewest:
No problem if it was a tourist visa... not Business visa.

I doubt if US still gives B1 visa solely! It’s now B1/B2 combined. I stand to be corrected please

Teshoma1111:
Hello house..

I have travelled and back.

POE experience. My destination was Maryland.
Arrived at IAD Airport. Washington Dulles
Queue was minimal as it was just our flight that landed at the time.
Questions asked- my destination, how long I would be staying, what I do as well. Asked if I had a ticket for my onward destination, I mentioned I was going to do a bit of sight seeing in Washington DC for about 2days and then purchase an onward ticket to my destination.
Wasn't up to 5mins, and I was stamped in for 6months.

Note that: destination filled on my DS160 was Indianapolis, but my family friends were not going to be around as at my time of visit, so I had to change destination and there was no issue with it.

Really? A different location from your DS 160? Is it your first time using it after issue?

With reference to this trend below , i contacted Jumia and the item was scheduled for return. After exactly 9days today, i was refunded in full.
I have used the refunded money to place order for another Iphone XR now because i neeed a phone and this phone issue has caused me alot of inconveniences.

I hope thiss new order goes well too.
Thanks Jumia

https://www.nairaland.com/5533267/iphone-xr-bought-jumia-now

Na wa o

ASKING FOR A FRIEND THAT GOT HIS US VISA ISSUED 6MONTHS AGO BUT HASN’T USED IT DUE TO CHANGE OF TRAVEL PLANS. HE PLAN TO USE IT FOR THE FIRST TIME NEXT YEAR FOR A ONE WEEK VISIT BECAUSE OF THE ENORMOUS ENGAGEMENTS HE HAS IN NIGERIA.WILL THERE BE ANY ISSUES AT POE?

gogeekish:
Flash it! But there is high chance of getting Error - 14 which is the most deadly error...

Error - 14 is NAND issue...

Meaning, your NAND (Hard disk in layman's tongue) is faulty or not contacting properly to the PCB (Panel) due to rust or loosed connection..

for a so called brand new phone? Haba I won’t do anything! I have scheduled a return request back to them.

queenfav:
You should get off nairaland and call jumia customer service number on your reciept to make a complaint and also inform them of your intention to return it.You have just 7 days after the day of purchase to exercise your right to return the phone.

I have called them yesterday and the person i spoke with said she was going to note the complaint down. I doubt if she did because I didn’t get any email notification to that effect

wolfenstein:
Connect it to a laptop that has iTunes and restore os, you will loose ur files sha

I wished it will work.. i did it and it says error 4013.
I went online and they said it’s likely gonna ne s manufacturing’s hardware error