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Bioastronomy has no "tangible form", yet billions of dollars are invested into studying annually. Countries employ scientists to create bombs and find ways to destroy and mutilate the Earth, why not study Life? Why not study Love? I totally disagree with your take on this.

I beg to differ. If it could not be studied, then the human mind would not even be able to comprehend the notion of studying it. Besides, when there is will, there is usually a way.

She is not much older than you at all,

Well anyways, I'd say be persistent. Women cannot front against a persistent guy. Buy, first you should ask yourself if she is really the woman that you want to pursue. Take a little time to think about it and decide. Don't waste the woman's time if you are not absolutley sure that you will have true interest in her. Then, just be yourself and if you feel very strongly for her, then do not give up. It's a known fact that usually when we give up on something, it is at the moment when we are the closest to the blessing that we seek,, ,.

Well Love is just as important as anything else!! There are schools where people study everything else: Automotive, Physics, Politics, Literature, Culinary arts, Accounting, all kinds of stuff, but there is not science or study of Love. Why is this?? Isn't that weird and unacceptable? Love is possibly one of the most important things on Earth, an I think that it is true wisdom to want to know all that one can know about the subject.

It is all true. I've been studying the powers of attraction for some time now, and these points are pretty consistent with my own findings. Any love "expert" will tell you the same. Any type of shyness / weakness is also not good.

Hey JibbyGirl, you should consider finding yourself a nice attractive younger guy to be with.

Well,, I guess it depends.

If I am in a serious relationship with a girl and someone threatans her or attacks her, then yes. Or if her life or her well-being is in jeapardy and I need to fight to save her, yeah. But if the girl is a runaround, two-timing me with another guy, I ain't gonna bump heads and fight over her out of jealousy. Now way, That just goes against my whole character.

I M O, one should always leave any European girls alone!

Stick to the beautiful Black ones instead (Esp. in the name of Survival).

Is watching Porn Cheating? Going to a Go-Go Bar with the boys?What of joining a singles Website? All this,while in a long distance relationship? What does this show the babe in the relationship? Please guys tell us babes what we do not seem to get. This same guy just proposed. What does one do now? Haba, It is scary

Honestly, I equate all of the above with cheating. I can't understand any guy who would do these while in a relationship, long distance or not. To me, these actions are just unacceptable. I wouldn't want a girl who I'm with to be out somewhere stripping and dancing in a guys lap, and I would not disrespect her in a similar manner by partaking in "Go-go" bar activities. (Not that I party in any type of bar anyways). It's just not cool,

Yes, I think that it is not only just possible, but it is fairly common to be in love with someone and be frustrated over the fact. Really, this is a very dangerous and destructive type of love. I hope to never have to experience anything like this again in my lifetime.

Magz is available.

Marry the girl!

You are not too young.

What selfish reason did you dump your b/f for?

B t w, You are wack!

Leave it alone. Tis' nothin but Satan I'd say,

Nevermind luv.

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(considering the fact that most heavily pregnant women look shapeless and fat).

What!?! Are you serious? Pregnant women are the most beautiful and attractive of them all! A pregnant belly is a thing of beauty!!

^^lol

@ Topic,

Yes I agree. In fact, it is my belief that as people become more technologically advanced, we actually regress in many aspects of life. Like, when you look backwards in time many things were so much better including the music, romance, ideas of unity and progression amongst African peoples, people's overall strength, moralsand virtue, Even technology itself, i.e. the cars, musical equipment, and the architecture and stuff. I can't really articulate what I am trying to say very well, but I am sure you know what I mean,

Yes I have experienced this. But, I am not secretly happy or anything. I'm a very loving and forgiving person, and I don't wish strife or hardship on anyone, ever. I care about each individual regardless of what terms we left on. Instead, I just try to be cordial and always uphold my own self.

Well what are her likes and interests?

Respect ought to come naturally, automatically. Respect is also very abstract and hard to "define", but when in a relationship, we can surely recognize it.

This story seems hella fake.

But, if it is not I will say this: The scenario is probably a set-up!

Love can be found most anywhere. The key is preparation.

Preparation + Oppurtunity = Success

If you've been together for 5 years already, what is really the holdup? You said that you really love her, and neither of you are getting any younger. I say reassure her and let her know that she is yours forevermore. Buy her a beautiful ring, and set your wedding date well into the future to give yourself time to work things out financially, and keep the communication open. Great things never come without some struggle, so you must expect that things will not just be easy and peachy. You will both have to work hard and be supportive of eachother.

Also, after being in a long-term relationship (like 5 years), when a guy is not willing to marry his woman, the woman will oftentimes become really insecure and hurt. She will wonder what is the problem that her man is not decisive enough to commit to being with only her and tie up the not. Good women are becoming increasingly hard to come by, so if you've found one and you love and trust her, hold her down to the fullest!

Whatever you decide, I wish you success in your relationship. Hope things work out for you!

Best wishes, Magz