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Politics / Re: Atiku Campaign DG Accuses Obiano Of Betraying Igbo’s Interest by mainanalyst: 4:14pm On Jan 12, 2019
Ok
NYSC / Re: Imam Rafiu Olalekan: Missing Corper In Lagos (Photo) by mainanalyst: 7:26pm On Jan 11, 2019
May he return safely

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Speaks On Ogun Politics, Slams Amosun by mainanalyst: 12:39pm On Jan 10, 2019
... and you are not being selfish for not stepping down after four years to allow younger ones to continue knowing fully well that you don't have the intellectual capacity to govern a country as complex as Nigeria.

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: A Nairalander's Photo-realistic Drawing Of Zlatan Ibrahimovic by mainanalyst: 10:56am On Jan 06, 2019
Great Job mate

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Politics / Re: How PDP Ruined Nigeria – Buhari Campaign DG, Amaechi by mainanalyst: 5:06am On Jan 05, 2019
Lol, the last time i checked... You were in PDP for that same 16 years.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 2:37pm On Jan 02, 2019
Lihyunpark:



exactly this is what im saying... People dont understand Islam... Slaves of Allah is just a metaphorical statement bro.... We are refered to as slaves of Allah because he created us and he demand our worship but even with that, he gave us freewill we can choose to worship him or not has you've decided to distance yourself from him. We are slaves to him in the sence that we worship him, and we give total submission and humble our selfs to him. For example christians called themselve sons of God they failed to understand this is a metaphorical statement. God has no wife so his above begetting sons.. But the bible reffered to certain people as sons of God simply because they are dear to God, God loves them and they do Godly things. Another example is the people of Isreal being refered to as sheeps. All this word are just metaphorical.. So muslims being reffered to as slaves doesnt means God doesnt love you. Allah is ready to accept you back if you are ready to go back to him ask for forgiveness and he's ready to forgive you. He is the most beneficient the most merciful!
Stop arguing mate, Islam sees nothing wrong in slavery.

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Crime / Re: Man Shot Dead In Kano 17 Days After His Wedding(photos) by mainanalyst: 1:24pm On Jan 02, 2019
Bad news everywhere in this country.
If you are not being killed by Gunmen, you can be killed by road accident or through bad health system.
Seriously, Nigeria as a country should be listed for sale on Craigslist. Sell the fuvking country and let's share the money among her citizens since our leaders have failed us

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 4:42pm On Jan 01, 2019
Talkingboy:


Oga , Which contradiction is in the Quran Sir ? Have you seen another version of the Quran ?


Be rightly guided Sir.

Somebody created you and you shall return to him one day .

Have you asked yourself this question : "What is the essence of Life?" You think we just exist to buy Rolls Royce and chop life and that's all ?

The life of this world is a testing ground ; There is hell and paradise .

... And the promise of Allah is true .

Once you write a university course and you fail it, there's still chance for it to be rewritten... But once death approaches , no coming back , no second chance!!!! Think about it.

May Allah guide you to the right path.



Cc Time2smile
if a religion is telling me not to make friends with an unbeliever, such religion to me can be seen as a cult .

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 4:21pm On Jan 01, 2019
Lihyunpark:


You might be a practicing muslim but still doesnt understand Islam. Nobody who truely understand what Islam truely means and teaches leaves... It's too beautiful.

So beautiful that it sees nothing wrong in owing slaves ... smh
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 12:18pm On Jan 01, 2019
olasaad:


Can I pm you
Sure
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 11:56am On Jan 01, 2019
pocohantas:


See how this creature insulted someone's wife and a whole religion because he wants to make a point.

And you ain't backward ba?


cheesy cheesy
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 11:42am On Jan 01, 2019
Time2Smile:

You are being unfair to your wife. This is not what she signed up for. She would probably not have married you if you were in the present state of thinking when you guys met. So it is well within her right to feel disgusted about the present state of affairs.

But OP, how can you lose your faith? Don't you see all the beauty in the world? The orderliness and diversity of creations and animals. Behind every creation is a creator. All of the things in this world and beyond couldn't have come from nothing.
I want you to understand that everything you have and enjoy is a blessing from your God and creator. Your sight, your limbs, your wealth, your very being and existence, the food you eat and enjoy. The thinking faculty you are using to doubt his existence. The love you have for your wife, that special indescribable feeling when you make love to your wife. All these are a blessing to you from him. And they are as real as he is.

And he has only asked one thing from you in return for all these innumerable blessings; That you worship him only and not associate any partner with him. And Allah has also told you how to worship him by sending Prophets to guide you. The last of whom is Prophet Muhammad (May the peace and blessing of Allah be upon him). And he revealed through his Prophet that whomever reject this guidance and deny all this blessing will be punished. That is the truth, and will always be the truth. And nothing can change the truth.

No amount of free thinking will be accepted as an excuse from you when you meet your Lord. He is the one that created you whether you accept it or not. That fact doesn't change whether you believe or disbelief in Allah. And he will judge you based on the criteria he has given you and clearly stated. There is no justice in this fleeting life. Verily the final recompense and Justice is with our Lord in the hereafter.

I pray that Allah makes us among the successful ones and die in the state of belief as Muslims.
Bro, many of us are just product of indoctrinations
We have been programmed from birth to believe our own religion is the best and only way to enter paradise while others are going to hellfire for not subscribing to ours. So God created humans on earth and gave them various religions to divide and will put billions of them in hell for not believing in his preferred religion ? How does that sound to you? I believed if the Indians had promoted their religion in Africa, many of you today will be defending Krishna.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 11:35am On Jan 01, 2019
ojoj:
Dear op,

We all have what we look at in the opposite sex before committing our lives in marriage. I am sure she would have been approached for marriage by other men in other religions. It's like promising one and at the end the peomise is not fulfilled. It's a betrayal...yes you have betrayed your wife! and she will never be happy with you. You have to come back to your religious self. Being atheist happens when one is not involving in religious activities. The reason why you are having a doubt about your religion is that you have ceased in engaging yourself in activites like asalau, listening to positive Islamic talks etc.
For you to come back, please start attending asalat program or look for any of these asalatu on Sundays and start attending, you will see that you will come back to the way she met you and she will be happy with you.
Stop listening to negative Islamic talks. Run away from negative friends. Please make your wife happy. You saw her like that before marrying her. Please don't let her down. All the best.

Lol, I didn't listen to any negative talks about Islam
If you know my level of Faith before, you will know that no amount of negative talks about Islam can changed me.I just stopped losing interest in religions generally due to the division it has created among humans.
Secondly, not everyone has the faith to believe that Allah created the universe but no one created Allah. It's like something came out of nothing.
Additionally,I have asked many Islamic scholars some mind boggling questions and none of them have been able to provide convincing answers. I am not the type of dude that does something just because billions of humans on earth are doing it. In addition, if you truly understand science and see the beauty of science, you will get to know that religions generally are not sufficient enough to provide answers on human creation.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 11:23am On Jan 01, 2019
ashjay001:


Pele.
Beginning of d end.

Ur mistake was marrying a fanatic. They can't unlook!

U no go serve God ke? They can't conceptualize that cry

It's not even abt her being a Muslim.
Lol, like one must serve God by fire by force. And the same God told them to use their brain and ask questions, now I have used my brain and become a freethinker.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 11:21am On Jan 01, 2019
Les:
Any kids? Just checking out stuff that could tie you down in case you wanna leave.

Yes you might consider leaving for the sake of your life and sanity.

BTW, have you tried knowing Jesus personally?
Yes, there are kids.
Try to know Jesus ? By reading the book of talking snakes ? Truth is , if most of you take your time to read the contradictions in the holy books of Abrahamic religions (Islam, Christian, Judaism) , you will get to realise that they are just fairy tales.
That's why most developed countries have removed religious subjects from their curriculum and change it with subjects on morality.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 3:20am On Jan 01, 2019
clive2u:
u dnt change someones belief,they change by themselves jst like u did so dnt blame her, jst b true to her.




meanwhile, that ur travelling plans u can make me travel out in ur place, stay with ur wife
Bro, I am not trying to change her religious views. Why will I even change her beliefs when no one change mine ? I got inspired through reading books, asking questions and being open minded. All I actually want from her is to see me as a free thinker while I see her as a Muslim. I think that should not be difficult to do ? But she is uncomfortable seeing me as irreligious. I really love her and really scared of losing her on religious grounds

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Family / My Wife Is Not Comfortable With My Religious Views by mainanalyst: 2:46am On Jan 01, 2019
How Do I Convince My Wife?


Hi everyone, I will try not to make this post a lengthy one.

I was born into a Muslim family and raised as a muslim. My wife met me as a practicing Muslim way back 2005 when we were both undergraduate in one of Nigeria's federal Universities. Recently, i started losing interest in religion, started seeing it as a source of division among humans ( like Muslims attacking Christians and vice versa). The idea of people burning in hell and some people enjoying in paradise makes no sense to me if God is really loving as claimed by theists.

But my wife is not comfortable with my religious views, infact she has started seeing me as hellbound ( don't blame her though, a true Muslim hardly marry from other religions talkless of marrying a freethinker like me ). I can see that the love she has for me is gradually reducing simply because I chose not to hold any religious views. I have no problem with her religious views, sometimes when she is far asleep, I will wake her up in the morning to observe her solat.

How do I make her understand that I can be a good husband to her without having any religious beliefs ?
The only thing she reads about are stuffs pertaining to Islam, she hardly read about science or other non religious topics. She is one of the people who believes that no human can be morally upright without having the fear of God or subscribe to religious ideas.


Just of recent, I thought of leaving Nigeria to any western country so as to be able to live my life peacefully without anyone questioning my religious views or tag me as an infidel. But I can't just leave everything behind just because my woman is not comfortable with my religious views and has been quarrelling with me on it.

How do I make her live with me peacefully without her feeling uncomfortable? Has anyone experienced this before ? How did you manage the situation ?

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Business / Re: Lagos, Kaduna, Edo Most Indebted States In Nigeria. by mainanalyst: 2:26pm On Feb 12, 2018
@op, nice graph but using ggplot in R would have given you a very fine plot.
There is limitations to what excel and other packages can give you when it comes to data visualization.
Ggplot rocks.
My 2 cent
Politics / Re: IBB Confirms Statement Asking Buhari To Step Down, Any Other Info Is Fake - FFK by mainanalyst: 12:20pm On Feb 05, 2018
The key point I could deduce from IBB initial statement was that "Buhari lacks the understanding of Nigeria's diversity"

Which I concur with IBB.

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Romance / Re: Pretty Lady Shares Sexy Photo, Nigerian Twitter Users Help Her Cover Her Body by mainanalyst: 11:27am On Feb 05, 2018
Fine body structure though... My specs
Politics / Re: Aisha Yesufu Reacts To Obasanjo’s Letter To Buhari by mainanalyst: 1:30pm On Jan 26, 2018
PMB has lost the goodwill he enjoyed two years ago from all Nigerians.

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Webmasters / Re: How Can I Prove Site Ownership To Google. by mainanalyst: 7:55am On Jan 21, 2018
Use Google webmaster tools, the instructions and everything needed is there ... Just type Google webmaster tools , you need a Gmail account though.
Best wishes
Politics / Re: Ben Bruce Commends Aisha Buhari by mainanalyst: 3:00pm On Jan 20, 2018
doyinisaac:
They are using reverse psychology on you people you people are falling for it....you think the wife of Buhari don't know what she is doing??she will first gain the trust and heart of nigerians then after use that to bring in sympathy votes throigh a platform claiming that Buhari finally listened to her and of how they have finally erased the cabals causing issues in the country and how voting them in again will bring a different regime...same thing patience Jonathan wanted to do during Jonathan era before the issue with amaechi
Read what you posted again and ask yourself if you have made any sense ?

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Politics / Re: Ben Bruce Commends Aisha Buhari by mainanalyst: 2:57pm On Jan 20, 2018
Posts that she will deny very soon, citing that her account was hacked.

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Crime / Re: Female Police Officer Brutalizes Lady, Bites Her Ear, Smashes Her Phone by mainanalyst: 11:53am On Jan 16, 2018
Nigeria police force is the worst police force in human history. I hate them with passion and always avoiding them.Many of them are touts in uniforms. All they do is to intimidate and harass law abiding citizens. Rated as the worst police force by WIPSI.
Useless people

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Romance / Re: Couple Rock Matching Shorts In Pre-Wedding Photos by mainanalyst: 1:11pm On Dec 30, 2017
With that first pic,that babe will be a pro in sexology
Celebrities / Re: Mike Ezuruonye Meets Dino Melaye (Photo) by mainanalyst: 2:06pm On Dec 26, 2017
Fearless in what way ?

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Computers / Mifi/Router Needed by mainanalyst: 1:54pm On Dec 20, 2017
If you have an unlocked mifi for sale, Please send me a PM

Preferred location is Lagos

Regards
Celebrities / Re: Skibii Poses In His Boxers (Photo) by mainanalyst: 2:47pm On Dec 10, 2017
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Business / Re: If You Are A Writer With Experience, Join This Whatsapp Group by mainanalyst: 2:09pm On Dec 10, 2017
Academicwizman:
If you an experienced writer, join this new group to have access to current information on writing and access to jobs. Writers with lots of jobs can share it with those with less among other benefits.

Quoting you because of the reviews
Business / Web developer needed by mainanalyst: 11:30pm On Dec 09, 2017
If you are a web developer, send me a PM
Thanks

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