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Family › Re: What Are The Disadvantages In Marrying A Baby Mama? by majorbravo: 9:11pm On May 16, 2016

obongitiad:
Hmm!

I love the daughter already. She was the one that even made me get to know her mom. I feel like giving that little girl the best life has to offer.

Its just the baby daddy issue and my family's initial resistance dats my problem.

Like you said, I will try and find out some tins abt the baby daddy.

Thanks a lot for your opinion.

Rilly appreciate.

If I were you, I would concentrate on the lady's character first before I make any further move. The daughter might be charming now cos she's still a kid. The lady is what should matter most to you.

You welcome and best of luck.

Family › Re: What Are The Disadvantages In Marrying A Baby Mama? by majorbravo: 8:58pm On May 16, 2016

obongitiad:
Bros, my major concern now is how to deal with the baby daddy.

I have seen some grown up ladies say "Am going to my daddy's house for holidays". And she lives with her mom and her step dad. I neva rily gave it a tot abt till lately.

What dat means is dat when you marry a baby mama, her daughter technically now has two fathers. How do you reconcile that?:/

If that is the case, you need to find out from the lady about the girls father, his whereabouts and how interested he is in the girl, he can have the girl if he wants to take care of his daughter himself (permanently or from time to time) and that is if he is capable (and not a danger to her welfare). If you live in a welfare society you would find out how to go about it. On the other hand, If he wants nothing to do with the girl, then you could decide to adopt her as yours as long as you've discussed this with her mother. That shouldn't be an issue. I haven't been in the situation myself to know what happens with identity, names and stuff but I'm sure if you are determined you lot can work something out. You would also have your own kids that wont go anywhere later on. If you cant love that girl like your own daughter forget it, her mother wont give her up because of you.

Family › Re: What Are The Disadvantages In Marrying A Baby Mama? by majorbravo: 8:27pm On May 16, 2016

obongitiad:
On the contrary, I have two other baby mama friends dat are very rude and saucy.

Am only contemplating marriage, dat doesnt mean she will be the one, and not becos she massages my ego. Actually the ego massaging tin was the initial attraction.

I am contemplating starting a relationship with her...you know get to know her. I brought up the marriage issue becos right now, if am dating any lady, its becos I do have marriage in view. So the lady has to look marryable to me before we even start dating sef.

Am just interested in knowing the challenges involved before I even take a step. Like how do you handle the baby daddy issue and shiits like dat.

I already told you

majorbravo:
Find better reasons to marry her, like her intelligence, resourcefulness, and her behaviour with others. Don't worry about the baby, luckily for you she's a girl, she would get married someday.

And just to add, a friend once told me, people would only respect what you respect and mock what you don't respect. If you stand by your woman you shouldn't have a problem taking her to the altar. You say you are mature and have marriage in view before dating, why should what people think bother you and your happiness?

Family › Re: Military Wedding Pictures In Nigeria by majorbravo: 8:08pm On May 16, 2016

You just gotta love the man in uniform

Family › Re: What Are The Disadvantages In Marrying A Baby Mama? by majorbravo: 8:00pm On May 16, 2016*

In my opinion, baby mamas are very respectful to men, but I do not know if this is because they know they need to put in more effort in holding a single man down than most single ladies. I don't fall for the nice thingy though. I always ask myself would she be this nice if she didn't already have a child? But I dunno, maybe they are just being real. Not dated any (at least to the best of my knowledge) so I wouldn't know for sure. But you cant really blame them, most of them have been to hell and back, Afterall most of the other single girls you meet might be single mothers to a long string of dead babies. I respect single mamas especially those that damned the consequences and decided to keep the babies from a failed relationship, that in itself is something to commend her for, while some other ladies are on 10th abortion.

So if you want to marry her, go ahead, but keep in mind that her respect (massaging your ego like you put it) might diminish after a while. If that's your reason for marrying her, you are on a long thing. Find better reasons to marry her, like her intelligence, resourcefulness, and her behaviour with others. Don't worry about the baby, luckily for you she's a girl, she would get married someday.

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Romance › Re: How Not To End Up A Woman/Girlfriend Beater!!!!! by majorbravo: 7:43pm On May 16, 2016

I really never understand why a man would batter a woman if not in self defense from an attacking psychotic killer. There are a million and one ways to kill a rat without even a scratch on its body. a woman batterer is not an intelligent man simple.

Politics › Re: Soldier Edobor Celebrates His Birthday At The Battlefield by majorbravo: 5:57pm On May 16, 2016

The battle rages on. We shall not back down.

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 9:30am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
°•

I see you don't wanna dance.

See ya!

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 9:24am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#E3319D]°•Then what's that above in the red
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majorbravo:
Or don't you notice African guys don't [size=15pt]seem[/size] to be romantically challenged to white ladies?

majorbravo:
and someone else [size=15pt]focuses[/size] more on the thoughtfulness of the man and not entirely his ability to perform them? No one is better than the other, you just have different priorities.
Now go wear fig leaves and dance for me if you wanna be romantic. Cos I'm done talking about this topic.

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 9:11am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#F70D1A]°•An I'm tellin' you making it racial the way you did was wrong.
Instead of correcting her perception you suggested white women where less of a problem.
You made it racial.

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If you choose to make my post racial, have a go. You either didn't understand my post or just trolling, since we were discussing an already proposed stereotype, I pointed out that the African women find loads of cash and all it can buy, romantic.

I never suggested that white women were less of a problem, if you see a man who has loads of cash to spend on you as romantic, and someone else focuses more on the thoughtfulness of the man and not entirely his ability to perform them? No one is better than the other, you just have different priorities. We dealing with stereotypes here, I didn't make the stereotypes, so don't have to spell it out.

Now go wear fig leaves and dance for me if you wanna be romantic. Cos I'm done talking about this topic.

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 8:47am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#F70D1A]Told you why.[/color]

And I told you what I responded to.

Have fun.

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 8:43am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#F70D1A]°•An you think that justifies it? [/color]

Why start with me then?

Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 8:05am On May 15, 2016

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#F70D1A]°•You just made it racial.
....It's not the color of a woman's skin but her attitude/perception. [/color]

Did you see what I was responding to?

Romance › Re: Ways To Be Cute And Melt A Guy’s Heart by majorbravo: 3:27am On May 15, 2016*

Romance › Re: Emmanuel Erim Is Very Handsome by majorbravo: 1:10am On May 15, 2016

LoL! dead

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Romance › Re: For Couples And Those About To Get Married by majorbravo: 1:37pm On May 14, 2016*

rokiatu:
Even African men abroad are just romantically challenged.

Its rather financial challenge. Even the African girls abroad be gold digging like they life depend on it. They don't respect romantic dudes, they ignore him till he shows the money. If African b*tch-type ladies showed interest in romance instead of money, African guys would change. Or don't you notice African guys don't seem to be romantically challenged to white ladies? You just gotta see one Rick Ross video to understand how African ladies view Romantic.

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Romance › Re: How Will You Know If You And Ur Partner Are Gonna Have Good-looking Kids? by majorbravo: 9:46am On May 14, 2016

Stupedinluv:
Thank you

And no we dont feel pained when some mixed race are called attractive but we only find it false and worthy of protest when they are labelled as better

You' welcome

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Ask Miserable When Broke? by majorbravo: 9:44am On May 14, 2016

Simple, work hard so you can support your husband whenever he gets broke

Romance › Re: How Will You Know If You And Ur Partner Are Gonna Have Good-looking Kids? by majorbravo: 7:55am On May 14, 2016

Stupedinluv:
No it doesnt mean black + white. I was only trying to query your assumption.

Science says... i'm not a science student but that is faulty science because there is no one standard of measuring "better or best beauty"

Moreso, what makes this breed "better" than another, cannot be mere combination of distinct breeds but having the best feautures whether from similar or distinct parents.

I understand you find mixed race more attractive. Good for you.

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Mixed race people are human too, I don't understand why many Nigerians feel pained when ever they are mentioned as attractive. Like they don't deserve a good life or oh it's cos he/she is mixed and stuff.

I didn't create science, this is what we learnt in school. It may or may not be right.

Btw, I find the lady on your profile attractive and I don't think she is mixed wink

Romance › Re: How Will You Know If You And Ur Partner Are Gonna Have Good-looking Kids? by majorbravo: 7:32am On May 14, 2016

Stupedinluv:
So foreign means white to you? wow

Pure science? when i have my eyes!

The craze for fairness by some black people is making them to see most mixed as cute. Same for whites who crave for medium dark skin.

So mixed means white + black to you?
Science says two distinct genes produce better than two similar. Not as a result of being fair or darker. Afterall white + Asian is also mixed.

Romance › Re: A Lady I Met In D Bus Did This! by majorbravo: 6:36am On May 14, 2016

pinceprinz:
lols. Guy, are u sure you're that hot n handsam? A 21st century girl(stranger) will only fall on first sight if yo some demigod...

Or has a pocket the size of M.Zuckerberg

Romance › Re: Another Undisputed Fact To Proof Chicks Are All Bitches...see4 Urself by majorbravo: 6:16am On May 14, 2016

OP you the type giving us good guys a bad name. The girl wasn't with her boyfriend but one of her clients. You get no glory on this one, you did nothing out of the ordinary, bleeping a b*tch-type girl wont give you credits in the hall of fame. The only person I pity here is you, because the more of these kinda girls you hang out with, the less promising the chances of finding a real woman would seem to be. And even when you do, you wont even know or appreciate her because you would just bleep and send her on her way.

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Romance › Re: Neighbors Who Hate Me Are Jealous Of My New Car? by majorbravo: 5:52am On May 14, 2016

donholy28:
Bros u no sabi dix useless op? everyday na useless posts she dey make,,ranging from "a guy looked at me;what does it mean" to "a co worker said am ugly"

Lol, I like her dreadlocks sha cheesy

Romance › Re: Introverts,how Did You Deal Or Scale Through Your Introductions And Engagements? by majorbravo: 5:16am On May 14, 2016

Simple, stay single

or you could marry in a far away location with only 10 guests.

Romance › Re: Neighbors Who Hate Me Are Jealous Of My New Car? by majorbravo: 4:43am On May 14, 2016

I am surprised this is in the Romance section and not Auto section. What do you want us to do, advice you to cheat on your new car with your neighbours? Lol.

Ok I understand this sort of behaviour is common in the US. It happened to my aunt's husband at work when he bought an Escalade SUV back in the early 00s. This is common especially if you live in a black neighbourhood, it still happens in mostly white neighbourhoods but most times that would be because you are black and they don't expect you to be successful.

I'll give you this advice, F**k em. Give em the middle finger when you get the chance to. Q.E.D.

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Romance › Re: Help Romancelanders I Need Ur Help Urgently by majorbravo: 4:38am On May 14, 2016

calliope:
Relationships r big deal, persons like that op need to be emotionally stable and mature to handle issues...
I think he walked into it for the wrong reasons.....
Indeed he is a baby boy

Certainly not for the faint hearted. That, I can tell you cool

Romance › Re: Help Romancelanders I Need Ur Help Urgently by majorbravo: 4:26am On May 14, 2016

calliope:
She was healing? She's human, a lady for that matter, we r fragile.... So not wanting to talk about her past, is equivalent as her being a baby?

No I meant she would tell her next bf, how this guy was a baby.

Romance › Re: Help Romancelanders I Need Ur Help Urgently by majorbravo: 4:19am On May 14, 2016

calliope:
She is going through a post traumatic emotional stress. Which obviously you just worsen... Due to wrong emotions..
You failed to understand her and know your limits.
Tbh move on, cos to her you're no different from her Ex...

But now he also becomes an Ex she wont even cry about or hesitate to tell her next bf about being a baby. Life definitely sucks.

OP my advice, Don't be a rebound for any girl. If you cant handle their emotional baggage, let them be until they get over their past.

Romance › Re: Photo Collection Of Sexy Female Police Officers On And Off Duty by majorbravo: 4:01am On May 14, 2016

Off duty cop 3 is off the chain. Totally like.

Romance › Re: Help Romancelanders I Need Ur Help Urgently by majorbravo: 3:54am On May 14, 2016

Lilprincey:
True...maybe the niqqa ain't telling us everything

Dude don't appear real init? I think so too. What kind of gf breaks a relationship over mention of an ex. I say the relationship aint even started at all.

Romance › Re: How Will You Know If You And Ur Partner Are Gonna Have Good-looking Kids? by majorbravo: 3:53am On May 14, 2016

Stupedinluv:
You must be joking.

Beautiful black girls are cuter than beautiful mixed raced girls.

But i dont know for white.

With your thread on foreign guys I thought you would like the idea. Well, this is pure science, higher probability.

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