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This picture is fake, you can literarily see the real thing is covered in Mariah's black bikini bra. This extra nipple was photoshopped. Even a new born baby knows the fake nipple is in the wrong location.

I don't know which is more hilarious, the grammar or the handwriting(Jumbled upper and lower case letters)?

I'll be completely honest with you on this one, Bill's meat is Kenny's poison. Ask that friend of yours, if he is as close as you claim, he would tell you how fed up he is with pretty girls who always seem to have an entitlement obsessive disorder (EOD) persona (that's what I choose to call it, books refer to it as Narcissistic personality disorder -NPD). We cute guys have been through this and we always look at our not so handsome friends who have an opinion about our supposedly (in quote) "not so good-looking" girlfriends and say (so tenderly in our hearts) "These dudes just don't get it".

Being a good-looking male could be some kind of a pseudo-demerit because the pretty girls barely take us seriously and feel we rely on our good looks to get everything we own. We have a harder time even in other aspects of our life cos everyone thinks we want to charm our way through when all we seek is a fair chance to do what we love. The not so good-looking girls usually ignore the fact that we look good and not try to compete with/against us for advantage like most pretty girls do, and that's why it seems we get along a lot better.

But with time I have come to realise one thing: It's something I think your friend doesn't realise yet. And that is the fact that ladies would do anything to get what they desire, all it takes is for them to desire it well enough and they'll go for it, they rarely ever compromise till they get what they want. And when its theirs, they don't give two hoots about appealing to it anymore. I came to realise its better to date someone you are compatible with emotionally, psychologically and physically(very important). Never compromise on any of these cos of how she is acting now cos I'll tell you what's gonna happen, you're gonna regret it later. I would rather marry an attractive girl who turns out to be a nag or an ex-call girl than marry a not-so-pretty girl who worships the very ground I walk on now, and after marriage realise she was also an ex-hooker who also can nag for Africa + gossip queen.

The choice is difficult, it requires divine intervention, I have observed that women understand this concept a lot better than men do. That's why church seats get filled on 'Singles Night'.

OP these youtube responses reflect the mindsets of westernised culture, most of them don't apply to Africans. Number six is a no brainer. Sounds like something an European girl would say.

I'm not surprised this guy Aaron is always overanimated and hyperactive on set all the time. I feel sorry for him though. Just pray he gets a hold of himself so it doesn't affect his job.

Lol this guy's room was the in thing back then, A total big boy.
I had:
Panasonic 21inches colour tv,
NEC Video Cassette Player + my Steven Seagal, Chuck Norris and Jackie Chan movie collections
National Refrigerator,
SONY MD Deck (I didn't like AIWA),
Ending man Terminator with 10001-in-1 game cartridges that were just repetitions of like 8 games,
Window Unit AC.
Binatone Rechargeable

My swag was unbeatable.

Man dem days were lit.

Like the poster above me mentioned, what really is up with this car?

Is it still for sale or nah?

You don't need to be bad. Check out my thread on Hypergamy, thank me later.

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Where the Ladies at? They should rate you.

pinkyliceous:
Then why refer to Nigeria as "that country"?

Cos it is.

pinkyliceous:
"That country"


I hope you are not from Ghana or Kenya.

Neither

zikter:
What are you saying? if govt does her job or not its the responsibility of the press to broadcast it. Or are you blaming the press for doing their job? I guess obama killing osama should not have made any head line cos government was doing her responsibility of providing security for her people.

The header for the latest topic on the Front Page is more like it. https://www.nairaland.com/3123824/states-spend-billions-legislators-cars

How do you differentiate personal donation from one performed by the state?

anthoniosp:
hmmm..for the 22nd time..Nigerian police force is not departmentalized ..thus Lagos state buying equpimwnts for the force is a donation..and so is if they should fix a federal government road..and being the head of Lagos..it is right to say he gave it..but it should have ben better if the caption read Lagos state donates equipments..shey you grab now..now celebrate the man for his good deeds..am not Yoruba or a Lagosian but someone that appreciates good deeds

You see my point right there in bold, it wasn't his personal money.

Danniscott:
I know Innosson motors has security vans like this too, how do we preach to invest in Nigeria made , when we don't even encourage them. Almost all our politicians including our President have their children overseas , I pity those expecting miracle from politicians cuz they don't even care about you. If the story about world class hospitals and equipment we here in Nigeria are true, why do they run outside at the slightest headache, Rubbish.


Meanwhile I commend Governor Ambode for his administration's commitment to security in Lagos. Well done

You just posted the painful truth, the president ought to be ashamed of himself for owning up to the fact that he has failed to revive the educational system in Nigeria by flying his kids abroad to study. It just shows what gross incompetence most our leaders have been exhibiting. How do you fix something for others when your own family doesn't even use/need it?

pinkyliceous:
He donated them with his papa's money or with Government money?

Beats me, I wonder what that country has turned into, people now see Government doing its job as a miracle. Wasn't it part of the state budget?

This thread is perfect definition of the kind of things that happen when men do not understand Briffault's Law. OP read my thread on Hypergamy. It explains what's happened to your guys.

On forward we march. Our country shall be safe again

Unlimited22:
Wrong assumption. because I rarely help her with such stuff. And we NEVER sit 2geda during exams

I didn't say you sit together during exams. Anyway, good luck landing any prospects with her.

[Single Couples Only: doesn't apply to married or pre-relationship stage]

This is not about those guys that hit women, there is never a good reason for a man to lay his hands on his woman, if not in self defence. We all hear about those boyfriends who always seem bothered about that your hot male bestie or the random guys that text at 2am, or even bad female friends and what not, we call these men various names like Jealous-Lover, Possessive boyfriend, and are often judged as insecure big babies.

In reality, these sorts of guys may not be insecure, they may have great plans for their future and see a picture of you in it and don't want to see that dream shattered especially if the girl is the carefree type, some relationships have gotten to marriage stage only to find out their partner just got an unwanted pregnancy from a one night stand with one of her flings, or an incurable disease. Notwithstanding, these men should realise they do not own the lady and she is free to do whatever she wants with her life. But in most cases, these men are so trapped in their own futuristic thinking that they may not even realise how overbearing they have become.

Some other guys might trust and not poke nose in your affairs with people, however, its clear when a guy simply isn't bothered about your flings and/or even encourages them, if you are intimate with such a person, the following may be the reasons why.

The easiest way a guy would never care what you do is if:

1. He is a cheat himself (player) or you are the side chick:

This one is easy, the guy has his own madam or one too many sex partners to bother about your flings.

2. He doesn't plan to marry you in the future:

If the guy never even imagined a ring on your finger, he would care less how many Ds have been there now and in the future before he has to wife you, cos he never will.

3. He doesn't love you:

You are just his booty call when ever he needs to get laid and he doesn't mind if you play around as long as you are available when he needs to get down.

4. You are the flirty gf:

He might have loved you initially but later realised you are the die hard flirt who would sleep with an ape-man if it would get you ahead in life. And he has stopped bothering about stalking you around because he knows you would never change. Instead of leaving the relationship with dignity, he stays put, especially if she is good in bed, but usually only because of that.

5. He is not investing in you:

From Bride price to School fees to recharge card, the capacity of guys pockets differ, when a guy spends more money on his girlfriend than he can on himself, to him it is an investment, depending on how much he feels he has invested in you, he would become jealous when other guys want to do more than just admire you. Take this example: You go to the market and there is this piece of cloth material that has been hanging outside a store for a long time, no one even takes note of it. You pick it up and spend hours designing, tailoring and embroidering it until it becomes a very wonderful dress, now you keep it outside and people sneak around trying to steal it. If the guy isn't trying to guard the dress, he might not have put in a lot of work into the design or doesn't fancy it that much.

Note to Genuine Ladies dating Jerks:
Not every guy that exhibits the above is truly not interested, and I know not every lady is a flirt, but the truth is most genuine guys would be jealous if you behave like a flirt with people around, if he doesn't seem jealous, he may be suppressing it or trusts you not to take it too far, but the truth is if you spot no atom of jealousy whatsoever, he might be one of the guys above. And if he is, its best you leave because there might not be a future for both of you.


Note to the Genuine Guys dating flirts:
The truth is, not every lady that acts like a flirt is actually one, they might just be bored. Its easy to spot most ladies who fit the category of b*tch type, cos they mostly don't hide the fact that they are with you just to climb the social ladder and attract the guy on the next floor up. When you meet most of them, they look plain like that cloth material. When you date her, you brush her up, and she naturally becomes happy from all the love you show her and consequently, irresistible to other guys that were not admiring her before (like a finished product). All of a sudden, she starts to think she has outgrown/outclassed you because she is now getting more attention from those same guys that she could not previously even say 'hi' to and get a response. B*tch-type girls go for the highest bidder anytime anyday, so if you are the jealous type, do not p*mp a girl up if you cant afford to match her new class, when you cant keep up anymore, they move on. If you complain, they say you are insecure or possessive. Take a cue from Tee-bill's situation. No lady naturally wants a man she is better than. The minute she gets ahead, she starts looking for a potential bigger boy.

https://askbravo..co.uk/2016/05/five-reasons-why-your-boyfriend-may.html

Op don't do it, She is probably only friends with you because you are always prepared for exams and help her with assignments. Check my thread on Hypergamy and Briffault's Law. Thank me later.

Thanks for this post, summed up my life really. Though I have long moved on. Didn't need the daughter part.

I don't see anything so extraordinary about this dude that some doubt he is the one in his pics. If you guys say this is cute, what would ladies do if some of us with cute face, ripped bodies and chiselled jawlines put our pics up, faint? Y'all gotta let dis dude be.

SirWere:
Oh, you're mistaken. In highly social animals; from the insect to our primate neighbours, there have been cases where "willpower" as you so put it actually influcened the "decision" of the "individuals" in the colony/group/caste to stay rather than leave.......


Same with human females....


Unfortunately, that scenario is very very rare indeed.....

You may be right about it being rare. From a male perspective, I don't think any male is comfortable with not being able to offer some benefit to his mate whether in smaller animals or primates, however, Briffault seems to propound his law based on the fact that all females will move on immediately that benefit is cut short of expectation. This goes to say that most women in such situation who do not procure a divorce might be staying against their will, not staying because the man has the willpower to continue providing the benefit and from all indications, physically cant. In other words, she would move if she CAN, even if he has done a million things for her in the past. I hate to bring Teebillz into this, but I'm starting to think that's a classic example.

SirWere:
This depends on a number of factors.

- Intial reason for the relationship
- Personal disposition of the man towards his new situation
- Strength of Emotional loyalty/commitment.

I could go on and on......


But the most important is..................

Is she a hoe

Yer but in a battle of the fittest, willpower is not enough to confirm ability. But I catch your drift.

SirWere:
It all hinges on the term "Survival of the fittest".
You see, what we humans see as "Golddigging" or "this hoes ain't loyal"; Nature sees as a competition; a survival to the fittest kind of thing..

It plays all through animal kingdom. During Mating, the female goes to meet the strongest; the JAGABAN of the group....




That's why every Nigga should get money because : Hoes will never be loyal.

Bro, what happens when something happens to the money that was not his fault? (like an economic meltdown or he gets robbed/defrauded?) she moves on to the next big thing?

Hannysmilez:
Exactly! Briffault didn't state that the benefit had to be money. Every wise person would get married because there is something he/she stands to gain. That's what marriage is supposed to do;make you a better person.
The benefit could be fame,money,it could be the title or your surname. It could as well be companionship,kids or sexual benefit.
Only a dummy would get married and gain nothing from it.

But most men enter marriage with no long term gain from the woman in mind, cos they know beauty fades. Briffault seems to be saying its if and only if there is a gain the connection would even exist, this could also mean what the dude said in the third picture is true (The corollaries), that she would seize to remain in the relationship if he can no longer provide the benefits? This is what I want to know.

Tafari1:
Are you just knowing this op? I knew this since secondary school days and I have been preaching it to guys. Ask my man Paulkillerman, killerman57, Paulkillermanag

I once attacked the moniker you mentioned but my attack was purely on the fact that he takes advantage of this to use women as play things and I would not support that.

Either way, Lalasticlala please help brothers out by moving this to FP, we need to know the truth.

Hannysmilez:
True. Women are attracted to men of higher status. That's not the same with 'gold-digging'. Gold-digging is being with a man SOLELY for his money/status. The same way men are more attracted to more beautiful/curvy women.
I think its just nature.

So what about Briffault's Law?

Today I bumped into a youtube video from Discovery Tv titled Science of Sex Appeal: What women find attractive.
The video describes how scientifically, women find men with larger accounts more attractive than men with smaller sized earnings irrespective of their natural looks.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoKA-a5vEEc

A quick glance down the comments section revealed a particularly interesting comment where someone suggested some other guy to look up Hypergamy and Briffault's Law. (Picture 1 below)

So I did look them up.

For Hypergamy, I already had an idea what it meant but I always prefer Urban dictionary for English words because people get to vote for definitions that closely match reality. And this popped up (picture 2 attached below). A-Mazing right?

Ok, so for Briffault's law I did a google search and I found a remarkable post on what it says (Bolded).

BRIFFAULT’S LAW:

The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

Now Briffault is a renowned social anthropologist and doctor, most people who are into his field would know about him (I dont know).

The first post I bumped into when I did a google search carried out an expansion of the theory/law. (See picture 3 below).

Now what do we make of these laws? Are women really like this? If so, are there any Laws for men if any? and what do men do?

Footnote: The above are not my ideas so no bashing please, and I don't see the need to post any links to their origins, If you want to know more use google like I did.

vizkiz:
so every guy that talks smoothly and has a reputation is a womanizer abi?

Invalid points

Mods please lock this thread before op starts falling hands

Nairaland is getting too free-for-all, any tom dick and harry can just post anything without proper research and appear to be an expert on matters they clearly don't even have basics on. Where are the mods when you need them?

These aint entirely true (1-5), especially Number 1: a man might just be too busy and you just wrote it off as a loss of interest, or she might be playing too hard to get and he doesn't see the need to keep being interested in a lady that isn't giving back the same interest. If any indication, a player will stop at nothing to get what he wants. It's a game, no player plays to lose.

Number 5 is also faulty (reputation), especially if he is good looking, he would always have friends that are jealous of the attention he gets and trust me, these sort of friends can backstab you every chance they get to have what you own, some girls even try to soil your reputation if they cant have you. I'll rather advice watch the kind of friends he keeps not what they say, if they are players, he most likely is one himself, and they are his wing men, player friends would never backstab a player. They are all in it together for fun.

Never the less, I agree with some of 6 to 10.