₦airaland Forum

Susanne the situation in Germany today is not the same as when your child has grown.
Sometimes you do not think you just do it.
You know how erziehungs urlaub goes so your job will be waiting for you when your child is a bit older.
You work and work but ask your self what are you working for
children grow very fast with 3 it will come in Kindergarten then one person can work part time.
Also do not  forget we also have wohngeld and tax refund.
And if die hard as a" single mother" you want to keep your job.
someone out there will even pay for the  daycare.



when i see you online again i will give you a link to a forum full of german speaking women married to Nigerians.

So as a woman i am not allowed to be "just not in the mood",.
In that case let him go and have his sex outside. That will not bother me.

Come do you know how the USA take over?
They first drop bombs on civilans.
I sometimes believe they believe in Phoenix arising from the ashes.
That is total destruction and then building up new.

iice:
I don't believe that people don't have choices. People are either too weak to fight the system, or have no strength in their self. Well good for them, it's their lives.

If you were living in Nigeria and your money was not enough to feed you,
What will you do.

If already your parents have killed your spirit and you were brought up to OBEY what will you do.

Then you better get rid of the person be4 the children come and marry another person.
As they say shit happens.
Forget the money spent on the wedding it cant buy happyness.

give us a link please

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You people have blinded me.
my eyes l.

wendywendy without offense are you one of these as long he did not do it to me.?
Murder is killing someone on poppose sometimes you even plan it.
There is a big difference between murder and man saluter.
A man FORGOT his child in the sun : Forgot _{.And that is not so bad??}.
I know one can say cheating is almost equal to manslaughter. But you have a Chance of making your peace with god.

windywendy as a nigerian living in Nigeria not even your boss will support you.
Nigeria is not yet ready for that.
Only very strong women do that And they are not many.
I am not talking of bringing second wife were you may say am a christian.
Am talking about cheating

Here in Germany i have a friend the husband beat her up they were fighting the police came.
And because the man was drunk and misbehaving the police took him along.
The woman landed in the hospital.
The out come they ask the man he said the wife was a lazy dirty money spender.
They ask the wife, she says the husband had no right to beat her.
All the blame fell on the wife, she was the disgrace for letting it come so far.
I was supporting her the others were pounding me .
With lots of she shouldf have behaved or told the police bla bla bla.
Alu and Tabu she had to beg the husband for giveness.
Thats the true face of Nigeria.

Well those of us not in Nigeria can afford to say i will not forgive.
In Nigeria not even your Family will support you if you pack out of your husbands house because he cheated. They will ask you to go back if that is your only problem that is not _{a problem}.
Even here in Europe if your marrage is an all Nigerian Marrage no Nigerian will support you.
One needs a real I don't care attitude to pull it through

helloo :Pis the party over
Hell no did i miss out on something??
Were is everybody. I want to join

Well if she is not white then ,
I too hate fakes like the wannabes rich people and dobble DR titles.