maybe you shouldgive in all the names at the embassy or get a lawyer to see if they can find any police records or from the immigration office. that way you may find out if he was ever deported.
am sure were you live they have a big igbo community and  igbo meeting people or maybe the child welfare maybe able to help you.
if he was married to your mum or if he acknowledged you as his son then  he would have used a "right name" and a "correct identity".
because people that use fake id come out with their real names when they find a way of staying by marrage or having children.
If you travelled to Nigeria with him you must have use a visa or Nigerian passort find out who applied for the visa for you. if it was him then you would have found his real id.
most Nigerians regester with their embassy.

respect to those respect is due.
nomatter your age if you waht that respect then earn it.

it is very possible that the father is using 2 names,
his real name and the name he used to come. most people use a fake name and a fake country of origin.
fake or not for me the story rhymes

not to an elder sister(i have none) not to a younger sister and not even to a friend.
there are just some no goes in life.
in fact it will not even get that far that he will get round to asking

this happened not too long ago.
i cooked groundnut peppersoup with sugar . dont ask me how it got there.
i think the cup i used to add water had sugar in it and i did not notice

shaqeeqah
shanaik
shareekah
shariqah
all these names are arab names.
shaniqua has no real origen but i gess its one of those wannabe african names but its not

i love that idea you know,
back in 1987 thats just what i wanted to do.
i had an aunt to use as reference and i wanted to have a nurse as a partner
The plan was ho rent a whole block of flats in an industral but not urban area.
But i came to germany

AA are not the only people in the world that help. some people even endanger their own lives to help others

at the end of the day is it not all about the best education and medical for my kids?

when i watched the news the first thing, the first thing that passed my mind was that i never in my life saw so many fat people on one sport
i will not call it laughing. but if am starving all my life and you come and tell me you are staving now. i will laugh at you.
not because i think its funny but because i have been with that problem all my life.And because i will think you have no story.

It is easy to say go back but there are children involved.
you do not take your children in a night and fog action and go with them into the unknown.
arrangements have to be made like school and job.
the man has no money to feed his kids .
should they go and soak garri with him.

how about the husband tying to get a visa for another country.
If a country has rejected you once it will be hard to get one again for the same country

as of two years ago it would have been my sister but now that my daughter is of age it would be her

never in my life in nigeria did i come across an unshaved woman.
well market women not counted.

maybe he was hungry.
everyone has pigged in b4

sorry to say but your friend will be a nightmare of a daughter in law.
equal rights for both men and women.
Why the hell should a man accept a slap. She was very very wrong and she has made her bed.
Am very sure she has given him the licence to beat.
let her pray he dose not tell his sisters about that slap.

thank god the housewife is dying out. Mothers do not have time to bring up their daughters in the good old "So you will find husband" way.
I forone raise my daughters to be young independent women and take no shit from no man.
A man /boy that dose not know how to talk will never make it to the door step of this house. Even a you "bitch" will not be forgiven.
Women are not at fault for the high rate of the big D. they have only come to know ,it most not be husband at all costs. even a husband has a prise limit.

why not go to my space or youtube and refere people to you site. the more people that click your link the better for you

not every free gift is really free . i want to know what the gift is.
Then if its pony or old car i do not want.
I also do not want the following
cell phone
tv
plate
cup
soap
useless cd
book
pen
what ever then inport tax is very high