am American married a Nigerian in registry ceremony in Nigeria. Never had a ceremony in U. S. Do I need to go thru the trouble of divorcing him in Nigeria or can I just go on with my life

yes its legal . it may be that his other wife as you called her only had a traditional wedding with him.

forgive what
you wanted the baby he not.
he is paying for the baby what more do you want . be taking the money say thankyou and go.

or a real hobby, let her form her own NGO , repaint the house , cross red roses with yellow roses., get a job or give lessons to kids for free.
go shopping what ever.

find herself a hobby

no woman is that stupid.
i assume you are her ticket to the states .
and her baby is another mans ticks to the States
she lost yours? and kept the other?
either very stupid or very calculated
or the story is a joke.

you cant please them all.
we are not talking about an arranged marrage but about man she loves.
if i were to have a guess, i would say MIL is bluffing. she can afford to do so as long as they are not married.
but this is a battle that the son /husband to be has to fight for her. after all its his mother

oriental01:

MIL is in d eastern part of 9ja,
son is in diaspora,
i am in the western part of 9ja

MIL is far away enough for you to put your foot down, she cant come over everyday to bother you

how far away from you is you mama in law if she is not too close all the better for you

somethings in life you have to put your foot down,
this church is not one of these churches were you pretend you went,
they do not let every one in from what i know

i have 3 kids and i am size 38. a little bit of luck and a little bit of discipline should do the trick

Fhemmmy:

tell her oh.
It is just food
I sure people like this will not mind, if it was their own broda

tomorrow when all the in laws start hating and fighting the wife everyone would have forgotten it statred with a spoonfull of stew
am not saying the wife is in the wrong. she is right.BUT its not worth the fight and hate that can come out of it.
in laws can be terrible and the husband ends up the poor guy in the middle

its not wort the trouble that can come out of it if you make it an issue .

poor child , oomed to a life as an outcast

you people are die hards.
i would have started walking home

incey:

Don't lose hope in finding your friend's father. I too am looking for my dad, but I think he doesn't want to be found. well anyway, there are a lot of members here are who r nice and maybe willing to help you out. Good luck!

so is emaka not your father again
or is emaka also looking for his grandfather

my dad did not do it but tried to do it.
send me to market without money for taxi. i refused to go.

saw me walking home and just passed me in the car.his excuse was this "i did not know you were on your way home"

what you have there is a man a real man.
if you like dump him that will be your loss.
why should he spend money on you are you the girlfriend or the LovePeddler.

what has a ring got to du with how serious one is or not.

http://jesus-messiah.com/html/wedding_rings.html



http://www.weddingbandsinc.com/wedding-band-guide.html

many times and am keeping up the tradition

i never wore my own because generally i do not wear rings. not any kind of rings

a Nigerian woman with let me say a whit man is considered as a prostitute.
she is more or less stigmatized.

Nigerians are also more protective over their daughters.

if you do not like your fathers name why not take your mothers name or grandmothers name, why a made up name .

coolier:

The day you are married - legally that is, you sign off your maiden name for the last time and you automatically become Mrs Whatever! You also get a marriage certificate. That is your change of name. And with that if you want to, the law permits you to change all your former documents to your married name - e.g your German passport, drivers licence, bank etc. So what has Nigerian Embassy in Germany got to do with that? You haven't told us the real story. Are you trying to apply for a Nigerian passport based on the fact that you're married to a Nigerian? Or you want a visa to be able to visit the country? Are you saying you've been married four whole years and only want to change your name now? Where was the marriage conducted? You live in Germany, where is your husband now?

what do you know about German laws of marrage
there are many cases like that.she wanted to keep her name , her problem she wants to change her name her problem.
each country has its own laws. and she has to fullfill the requirements of both countries not just one
i know very many women that do not take their husbands name at marrage. we are in the year 2000

http://www.binational-in.de/


versuche es da sie können dich weiter leiten an an forum die es ganz genau wissen.

http://www.info4alien.de/

und hier ein portal zu auslands recht

Why is it that most naija woman (and even the AA women) in the Western countries tend to push this independent thingy to the extreme. More than their white counterparts?

Most of the time You find out that they think that independence is synonymous to being rash, rude and uncultured

because their white counterparts are way ahead of them.
you should really read something about the womens liberation. in the USA.they were even giving up their lives.


http://www.jofreeman.com/feminism/liberationmov.htm