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Sorry
Germans are less than the rest of the world.
Even in their class there are less Germans than other nationalities

I do not teach my kids anything about the black man.
They take blackman for granted they way they take white man for granted.
I do not have to use stories of black or white people to push their Ego,.
Funny not so.
They do not underestmate black man and they do not overrate white man.
We as good as never talk of colour.
But we talk of germans and non Germans.
And non Germans are much less than the rest of the world

Thats why i used the word some.
If i wanted to learn , there are other places i can go to.
Example i will not even have to go online but to my words and learn how to make better use of it.
like format graphic etc.
There are some people here that do not get their heads out of the politics section.
Others stay in the sex section.Everyone his cup of tea.
I can say that i may overread what i do not want to see.
But sometimes[b] Some[/b] people have a way of painting the town red.
You do not belong to the people that follow people on their tail were ever they go.
But there are some people that follow you.
As well as maybe some people that are trying to run away from you.
Well not only you also Dru.
But like i said to make it clear we are all here for different reasons.
To learn ,to teach, to have fun, to annoy people,to unwind., to make jokes what ever.

Welli did say its not funny.
Thats why i want to pretend its a joke.

The problem is that some of us are not here to learn.
Its more like an "Auntie i think it is because" thing.
Not everthing has to rotate around the "good old white man.
When we takl about boots then lets talk about boots and not the fact that itwas invented by a ? man.
lets be cool

Two of my daughters had a fight today.
The younger one( 11) came to ask me for a pocket money increase.
The older one (13) says "you will never get one be4 me"
The younger one answers "dosenot matter but i will get a date be4 you"

@ Sista
sometimes ,one can be so polite that it is rude

I just love winning a game
Mr President,I now take my hat crown

only once i was even on my way to the gas station.
My luck the boynext door was passing on a bike so i begged him to get me a can of fuel.
i had my small emergence can in the car.
Normally i always check the tank.
If i travel Tank, oil and tieres

ha my title is bigger than yours.
After 4 years they vote you out.
my tilte is for life.

me Emperor dictator General

You people haba
please i do not want to share bossy title with you.
Nobody called my name,
Me now i will take man
Yes am Sir mr oga man

Now am Mrs you keep your madam

They suffer under colonial mentality

Mind yourself oh
Ok take lady me i am Madam and am putting patent on that name.
If you tiv that one then na our lawyer go battle themselves.

Please then i am a lady. Not woman
let nobody come and throw me in same pot.

They can be very polite and very social.
As long as everyone sticks to their own side.

It was also the same in my school days.
But then the split was never about a boyfriend.
It was about "she said i said he said" matters.
And all of a sudden the whole class or school house is fighting.
Or maybe matters about the "locker" and food

Never saw him again.
And never found out who gave him my adress or phone nr.

What more it split up a lot of friendships.
You know that girls move in groups. But this story made the girls now take sides.
And a class the (a and b class) and other schoolmate friends were split into two groups that were not talking to each other.

She asked for it dose not mean i do not pity her.
She is a nice girl.
My daughter also told me it was a heartless comment.
Well i asked her how Ella took it that time 3 years ago.
It pained her bad.
She and the boy had been together over a year. They had their issues.
Who do you go to with your boyfriend problems?
First of all to your best friend.
You tell your best friend every thing your joy your pain she advises you and then stabs you in the back.
Good they had broken up but the pain was still fresh.
The best part of it was that as of that time all of them were class mates.
So no hiding or running away.
The whole school knows whats going on and you have to sit in the middle of it till you live the school some 2 years late.
And you know you did nothing wrong apart from sticking to your tradition.

Do not forget both girls are her friends only that Ella is now in another school.

Am not asking her not to be loyal to her friend.
Friends come with faults.
Even at the age of 10 my kids have friends that drink or smoke.
I never make them dump their friends But they should know that what they are doing is wrong.
I will not like it if my kids are stamped as boyfriend snatchers.
At the moment my daughter is writing a lot of tests her exams are round the corner.
I admit am _selfish why should my daughter drop her books to run to the Linda's house.
They are classmates they go to school together , sit together come home together, visit themselves. So when my daughter brings out her books to read at night after spending maybe an average of 6 hours with her friend.
Tell me one good reason to drop her books and run to the girls house or consoul her for hours on the phone.
The results she makes now are going to determine her feature.

Well am glad theWord girl was used.
Am not among them. me i am a woman not a girl

Alles klar.
When your daughter tells you a story on her own free will and you try to "talk sense" into her, she will stop telling you things,
It was not about her so for me its a matter of "in my opinion". and in hers.
We are not one .
I see her point and she sees my point.
I know the boy and i do not find him cute.
he and my daughter were class mates from the first school day in primary school.
I always found him an arrogant Pratt.
we have advised Linda to break up with him he is no good for her.
Better more hard working boys want to go out with her but she still loves the loser.That has stopped school and hangs around with the gang.
Linda thinks he will take over his fathers shop .Then after all the father could provide for the family with the shop.
Well i have told her, His father is not yet old enough to give up the shop to his son. So she can forget that plan.

They do it with such an arrogance,
am sure its the jjcs that have heard too many stories.
But once we were some >Nigerians talking together,one jjc said that he heard that German women are so cheap that you can sleep with them. Even their husbands allow you to sleep with them.
I had a good laugh and begged him to follow me on the street and approach a couple. I wanted him to ask the husband " may i sleep with your Wife" .And See what happens.
All the others also had a good laugh.
The fool answered that he sees it on talkshows everyday.
Well thats why we have talkshows not so? for things we do not see everyday.
Well the others now also wanted him to go outside and ask a husband if he can sleep with the wife. but he did not do it.

Till today i asked my self what possessed that fool to come to my house without knowing what kind of trouble he may have put me into.
I had not been married for long my daughter was just 2 years old.
Just suppose my husband was the jealous kind that had come home to meet that man in my house.
Even when i asked him to live he refused till i gave him a drink.
Well i did not want to make a show in front of my daughter and i knew that my husband was not that jealous type that will go mad and start to suspect me.
Even when he lifted me on the road. I told him we live in a small town what if my husband or a friend just passed by. he still refused to drop me.
Thats when i slapped him fool.

This story has been going on for a few years my daughter has been feeding me in.
About 3 years ago two of her friends were bestfriends forever(as they called themselves)
Ella had a boyfriend but her Tradition dose not allow her to sleep with anybody till marrage and she was sticking to it.The boyfriend that was also from her place knew this tradition very well but was very egar to have sex.
Well end of the tale he and the best friend Linda got together.Then Linda has no such tradition.
Ella was very upset and depressed of cause bestfriends forever were no more. Till this day they are not talking.And Ella has gotten over the relationship.
But Linda is having serious problems now.
Then the boyfriend has ended a school dropout and they are always fighting.
He keeps insulting her up to the "I fu**ed you insults.
Well she is very depressed now and my daughter is always having to run over to console her.She keeps phoning at ode hours crying on the phone with the "I still love him bla bla bla"
Well one day i was fed up i told my daughter the Linda deserved what she got.
What goes round comes round.

My daughter says its a heartless comment.

well here are the facts
Linda and Ella were best friends
Ella and her boyfriend broke up because the boyfriend wanted a girl that will have sex.
Linda and the boyfriend started dating.
It broke up the friendship between Linda and Ella.

I say well done she asked for it
my daughter says its a free market the moment you break up with your boyfriend he is free.
But at the same time , she can never date a boy that has dated one of her friends.
In her own words" kissing a mouth were here friends mouth has been is disgusting.
At the same time she says she will not care if her friend gose out with her ex as long as they stay away then what is over is overd

So is it a free market or am i old fashoned

We have a lot of Turkish people here.
They play with girls and when its time to get married they marry one of their own.

There was this Indian man that claimed he loved me.
Well i told him i was married and not intrested.
I do not know who gave him my NR but he kept phoning.
I asked him if he wanted to spoil my marrage by phoning my house.
And one day i was packing the bags my husband and i were supposed to travel but he was not yet home.
The bell rang i opened the door ,and guess who was standing at the door?
Well again i had to ask him what made him think he could just come to my house, and what would he have done if my husband opened the door.?
Well i was fed up by now.
No one admitted giving the guy my address.
The final straw was the day he just lifted me off my feet on the road.
I gave him a dirty slap. It worked.
The bastard was so offended he never spoke to me again.
When he asked me why. I in turn asked him if i had been Indian or my husband, would he have dared to be so bold?
And this is what annoyed me the most about him.
Of cause i had told my husband about him i always called him _{my pest}
It just showed he had no regard for me or my husband i mean the boldness with which he even came as far as comming to the house.