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No she should sit in her jail.And from her mothers jail pack into her husbands jail.
and never taste freedom.
I do not know anybody that did not have a room on the campus at that age. Not even if they spent more time at home than in their room. All had one.
What of all the people that enter boarding house at the age of about 10/ 11 are they mature?

many of us went to boarding house or had their room on the campous.
Moving with sugar daddy is greed.
Any girl that is hungery can go home cook and eat.
Its not new and its not strange. Distance never harms any one.

Even the Muslim girls here with their headtie have friends and go out.
We are not even talking of a boyfriend but of girl friends. maybe not even about party but just going out.
Too much of everything is not good.
A room in the campus will not be bad. she dose not have to sleep there every night but has some were to go to have her peace.

Its a good place for a child . The sky is the limit.
Then kids have more freedom to move.
Even if the neighbors garden is more fun.
We used to go fishing with only a hook a rope and a can of worms .
Or go to steal mango, ogo-ogo , tangerines.
play with mud . Kill snake. etc.
For a grown up night life is fun you go were the happening is happening.
BUt its the armed robbers spoiling the fun. And the police

If your friend stays , she will get too used to a life pleasing other people apart from herself.
Moving out dose not mean moving out of her mothers life. It may even improve everything betwen them.
If she is in school let her move to the campus.
A girl has to learn to stand on her feet and you do not learn that at an old age.
Am sure she has talked to the mother often enough.
Bringing only the good freinds home is telling lies and we do not want that.
Please that is not a good advise.
Sooner or later we all have to master our life.
There needs to be peace at home.
Home is a very strong word if it is not peaceful , its not home its the house you live in.
Even with her brother , it is her good right to tell her brother what she wants.
Because if not she will get to used to doing what her brother wants . and will even end up doing it at 30. When she has her own family.
Its her life not her brothers or mothers life

You are telling me that me at 42 will not sleep in my boyfriends house??

The only info i give here are things i take for granted.
well go on paying your bills and working and emmm ya doing the baby shower thing.
We only live once.
No my kids do not go out every weekend. School comes first.
But now they have no other obligations so let them enjoy.
I did not know about hanging out in Kitchens must try that maybe its fun.

I do not need respect from a name on the internet.
When am fed up i just go.
This is not the only site i visit.

I never said i encourage them to have sex .
But if and when they do then with respect.
At the same time i will also not want them to buy the cat in the bag.
My daughter knows i cannot make anything impossible for her.
But i can make it difficult.
Yes she sleeps in her boyfriends house she ask and i allowed it.
His mother gives her food and they take her along on family outings.
Better than hiding.
Well i was asking because all my kids are out of the house now.
by the way i will gladly bring myself down to any level when talking to people am not a snob.
I have friends from all works of life and all class.
And yes my house is always full of kids thats why i wanted to know if you do not have friends.

By the way do you not have friends?
What are you doing at home on a weekend?
Welcome on the internet wagon.
Middleaged woman like me is were she should be AT home.
But a young girl should have some were to go.

By the way am not new age nothing , I am a rebel.
I rebel against every form of hypocrisy.
A Woman that bleeps with the whole world and says she is a virgin.
The same as the people that run around with their bible shouting on gods name.
But you will not even get a glass of water from them.
Almost everyone on this Forum has sex.
Question is by how many of them are their parents aware of it,
Who is the first person they run to .
That is why girls till today get raped in Nigeria.
By the way i stand to what i say it will not be in a husbands house that my kids will have their first sex.
They will not buy the cat in the bag,. And end up with some bastard of a man.
go on fooling yourself that your kids will not have sex if they want too . You may not even know they have a boyfriend.

No let them lie to you and sleep with him in the BQ or take a 10 min hotel.

Feed him the truth little by little.
best keep your mother out of it.

Ditto

I thought you had leftb the forum long ago

I know what its like.
The sooner she lets you do what you want the better.
This way you are spending half your time thinking up lies to tell.
The best thing is to move out.
Are you in school ? pack to the campaus.
Are you working ? look for a room mate and move out.

Are the people in the film Married or not?
May be they should make a movie with themselves and watch.?