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FamilyRe: Next Of Kin Issues: A stranger Has Taken Over His Dad's properties Please Advise by Mamayam: 8:24am On Oct 14, 2021
Oracleforce:
Before you responded callously....put yourself in their shoe


Dumbass
And who is the dumbass here? The Father clearly didn't want any of his children to inherit his property. It is not their right. Op said he wrote a will. Let them read out the content of the will. If it says all the property goes to the next of kin, then so be it.
FamilyRe: Next Of Kin Issues: A stranger Has Taken Over His Dad's properties Please Advise by Mamayam: 5:11pm On Oct 13, 2021
Oracleforce:
Anything can be challenged in a court of law...
Why would a stranger inherit someone else property ...there is no free lunch anywhere...

Let the children challenge the documents and long as the case is in court, he would be able to process the letter of administration

I'm not a lawyer but going to court on any small matter is what interests me...

Sue the bastard and let him pay heavily for what he has eaten from their fathers properties
And is the children inheriting not free lunch?
Op has stated the man had a will which should be respected.
EducationRe: I Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op): 1:49am On Oct 13, 2021
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FamilyRe: Airtime Giveaway For Students by Mamayam: 11:32pm On Oct 12, 2021
cochtrane:
Hello everyone,

I'm giving away 20k in airtime to students. That's 1k airtime for the first 20 students. I would have made this cash, but for some reasons I can't at the moment. If you need this in cash, you may just want to sell the airtime to those who need it in exchange for cash. If you are interested, just follow this procedure:

- You may indicate interest here. Please do not drop your phone number here.
- Send a PM
- I'll ask for a snapshot of your student ID and your phone number in response to your PM.
- Once your details are confirmed okay, you should get the airtime in a few mins.
- I will check your account before replying your message. If your account is created after August 1, 2021, I'm sorry I won't be replying your email
- Please understand that I will be sharing the handles of those who receive airtime here for record purposes
- First come, first serve
I am interested, sir.
FamilyRe: What's Your Childish Trait? by Mamayam: 9:32pm On Oct 12, 2021
I squeeze eba like fufu before eating.Funny I only started doing it as an adult.
FamilyRe: I'm Losing My Only Sister by Mamayam: 6:50pm On Oct 12, 2021
VTJN:
What are you saying please? You referred to pride price as crap

Even if you don't believe in it, does that mean others don't? I'm still a young guy and single, I'd definitely pay my future wife pride price and other marital rite

Btw, they can't forget their only sister. The parents can't forget their only daughter

Besides, the Man needs to be taught some lesson of his life. Who does that nonsense and go Scot free? Never!

Their sister and daughter isn't an orphan. She has family. She didn't just fall from the sky

Someone birthed and raised her before he came to brainwashed and decieve the innocent girl. Taking advantage of her because she's from a poor home. They can never forget their sister, never! Wether they're rich or poor.

FYI, that man isn't married to the lady. The family has 101 percent right to withdraw their daughter and the grandchildren away from him. The family will gladly flaw him in law court

If not for anything, to prove to him how stupid he was. The family silence for over 13 years doesn't mean they're stupid. The man is a wicked man for not buying the poor girl a phone to communicate and also isolating her away from her family and friends

If people mean that man eh and chose to help Op, he'd be jailed. Trust me, he'd serve the jail he escaped from serving in Germany
Dude, you will lose in court if you drag the matter. so long as your sis is an adult I don't see how your parents have any say. Does she want to come back? Quit this marriage and only daughter bullshìt, it doesn't hold any water. MARRIAGE IS JUST A CONSTRUCT. No two consenting adults need any legal approval to stay together and have children.
FamilyRe: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Mamayam: 6:38pm On Oct 12, 2021
Try to meet a psychologist. There is something wrong with your subconscious.
EducationRe: I Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op): 4:17pm On Oct 12, 2021
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Christianity EtcRe: 10 GREAT Reasons Why You Should Be An Atheist Now In 2019 by Mamayam: 12:09pm On Oct 12, 2021
What about the social aspects?
I know how many opportunities I have missed because I do not belong to any religious orgnanisation.
FamilyRe: Help, My Child Is Already A GENIUS @ 3! by Mamayam: 12:02pm On Oct 12, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Yes, a token.
OS
So why still asking for help?
FamilyRe: Help, My Child Is Already A GENIUS @ 3! by Mamayam: 11:55am On Oct 12, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Please assist I and my baby pls
I thought GoKoyer0 asked you to send a dm, that he will give you some cash?
FamilyRe: Help, My Child Is Already A GENIUS @ 3! by Mamayam: 3:49am On Oct 12, 2021
op, no worry, na initial gragra. She go mellow.
FamilyRe: I'm Losing My Only Sister by Mamayam: 3:44am On Oct 12, 2021
NPTJ:
Good morning house

The only sister i and my other siblings had met a Man around 2008. He's from Imo state, a deportee from Germany who was in his late 40s when they met. My sister was just out of high school then and struggling to secure admission into any of the tertiary institutions. Luckily, she got admission to study law at Unilag after her second attempt. Sadly, there was no money to process the admission, she lost it. She was the first and only daughter of our parents. My parents were incapacitated financially to support her dream

My father never wanted her to work then, for guys not to take advantage of her or something. Having lost the admission, she insisted to work inorder to raise money for her studies. My dad got no option than to obliged

She met this man barely a year she started working. She was in her early 20s and full of dreams. Lest I forget, she was staying with our grand mother due to distance. This man got my sister pregnant and we got to hear about it. My dad got the man arrested and beat the hell out of my sister. He wept bitterly claiming this isn't the life he envisioned for his only daughter

He beseeched her and talk sense into her but she insisted, claiming she loved the man. This man was deported after spending almost half of his productive years outside the shores of Nigeria. He came back home with nothing and the next thing he could do was to got my sister pregnant claiming he loves her beyond words

My sister moved in with him and they started living together. We lost our grand parents (paternal and maternal) Yet, this man and my sister never stepped their foot in our house to commesorate. I lost my eldest brother, same thing happened. They never showed up. I was the 4th child of five children. Though, only four left now. She hardly call our parents nor we her siblings. To cap it all, my sister had stopped using phone ever since she moved to pourtharcourt with this man

This same man always attend his family function and very much into his family but isolated my sister away from her family. My sister never called throughout my days in the university just to know how I'm fairing, despite knowing our family condition. A very close friend of mine noticed this while in school and i did explained everything to him. He felt so bittered. He asserted the man might be diabolic, he's from the same town with the man in imo state

My parents are in their early/late 60s respectively and aging gradually. They couldn't felt the presence of their only daughter. Interestingly, family members got suspicious and they kept asking after her but my parents are bent on covering up, claiming she's fine. Yet, they goes to their closets to cry bitterly for the life of their daughter. I asked my dad why covering up, he claimed to have known his family pretty well, that they would do nothing

I'm just a young graduate, still job haunting. While my elder brother is gainfully employed with 50k as his monthly take home. He's being supportive with day to day running of the house and that of our last born studies. A friend suggested myself and elder brother with any of our uncle should go and treat the man's fvckup for eloping with someone's daughter without paying her bride price nor any other marital rite. I told him that isn't feasible for now due to our poor finances.

Nonetheless, we can't continue folding our hands and watch this man get away with this. She is the only daughter of our parents. Her presence is highly needed in their life, especially my mother

Please what can we do to make things work for my family back? I can't imagine having a sister who's more like a living dead

Any help, input or suggestions from anyone!
Is your sister above 18? Forget her, she has chosen her path. Dem no force am.
Forget all that crap of brideprice and face your hustle.
EducationRe: I Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op): 3:27am On Oct 12, 2021
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EducationRe: I Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op): 5:37pm On Oct 11, 2021
CrimeRe: My Bitter Experience Trying To Recover A Defrauded 200k by Mamayam: 1:26pm On Oct 11, 2021
how did you not know it was a scam? Did I see an ID balance of around 80 million dollars? who spells control as CONTROLL?
EducationRe: I Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op): 11:02am On Oct 11, 2021
Dagger79:
Omoh this your matter to be hear ohh. Village people are involved
I just dey ask myself, who I offend?
EducationI Am Friggin' Tired Of It All by Mamayam(op):
I am tired of this school.
It has been 7 years since I got admission. Although is good, I have always had problem or the other.
In my 3rd year, I became ill and I had to withdraw for a session. Even after applying for temporary withdrawal it was somehow not approved, thus, I used up one of the two possible extra years.
This past session, in my final year, I had a carryover in a faculty course. It was one of the easiest courses I have ever taken. The score was too low even for an F. I opted to apply to remarking, but was told that it might take up to a year or more before the re-marked results could be returned.

I was told my only feasible option was to resit the next session or to waive.
Just recently I was informed that the course would not waived and I have to resit this new semester.

The problem is that the new session has already commenced and the deadline for school fees and course registration ends this month and exams come up December. I do not have any cash or anybody that could help, and I was really banking on that course waiver. The new semester started when we were rounding up our final year projects and defense.

As it stands now, the next reasonable option would be to apply for withdrawal again to come back next year. That would make it eight years in the system!

I just feel like I should end it all!!!
EducationRe: Should I Waive Or Do Extra Year by Mamayam(op): 10:57pm On Sep 20, 2021
Please push to front page.

Cc seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, mukina2.
EducationRe: Should I Waive Or Do Extra Year by Mamayam(op): 2:59pm On Sep 20, 2021
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EducationRe: Should I Waive Or Do Extra Year by Mamayam(op): 8:39am On Sep 20, 2021
Cc lalasticlala, frontpage pls.
EducationShould I Waive Or Do Extra Year by Mamayam(op):
Morning house.

I recently checked my final year 1st semester results, and I was surprised to see an F. The easiest course I have ever taken!

I have been unable to apply for remarking. A new session has long begun, and I am thinking of registering the course this semester(extra year) or wait to try to apply for remarking before the window closes.

Although I haven't seen the 2nd semester results, I was thinking of a 3rd option: Opting for a waiver.

Would there be any consequence in the future, career- or academic-wise in not completing the full load in one's undergraduate degree?

Also, is there any negative effect in graduating after an extra year despite good grades?

Will really appreciate your comments.

It is an engineering course.
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 7:42pm On Aug 15, 2021
ThothHermes:
Depression is a spirit.
I want to you to download and listen to any three Joshua Selman messages. You will not want to kill yourself again.
Unfortunately I am Atheist.
Such messages don't move me.
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 10:57am On Aug 15, 2021
Nothing come out for this life.
Tech JobsRe: It Support Officer/manager Needed Urgently. by Mamayam: 4:05pm On Aug 12, 2021
@ Kobojunkie and Kobojunkiee.
It seems the antispambot banned you for something in your comments.
Maybe drúg related term? Try space it out or change some characters.
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Desipramine, If I am not mistaken, is an SSRI. undecided
Tricyclic
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 3:43pm On Aug 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
How long where you on venlafaxin and how how did you go as far as dosage? undecided
Wasn't given that.
Isn't it an SNRI?
desipramine should work the same.
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 3:38pm On Aug 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You already tried treatment? What did you get? undecided
Every commercially available ssri and some tricyclics.
Made no progress with them
FamilyRe: by Mamayam(op): 3:29pm On Aug 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Have you attempted mental illness treatment? undecided

Have you tried distracting yourself ? undecided

Have you considered adjusting your life goals so you can better live with the now as is currently presents itself so you are not so stressed? undecided
Yeah, done that.
Total waste of my time.
The other option is to wait and hope my brain restores itself in the next few years.
But I don't think I can wait that long.
Family by Mamayam(op):
EducationRe: Recently Appointed Deputy Vice Chancellor Uniport, Dr Andrew Efemini Is Dead by Mamayam: 9:23pm On Aug 09, 2021
Old news
EducationRe: Any Alternatives To Nairaland by Mamayam: 5:07pm On Mar 14, 2021
Simple.
Use opera browser.
Turn on opera VPN and you are good to go.

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