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Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
RightToReject: You just wrote op |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
richboy7: And so? |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kobojunkie: 6:15pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
bet9ja:The problem is your mindset, not even what you think. 1. Fear is not respect. If is simply fear and can be easily overcome with time. Once it has been overcome, it is rendered and meaningless - of no worth. Our ancestors feared and worshipped what they called spirits and feared them at most every turn. But look what happened after people realized there was no need to fear such things? 2. You think respect is a birthright which it is not. It is earned, and the sooner you realize that, you sooner to quit with the whining and get instead to earning the respect you desire to have where your wife and kids are involved. 3. What you see as disrespect is actually your wife reacting to what she has determined is a stressor, usually the state of communication between you couples puts a strain on partners and each reacts in a way to push off the stress. If you can die to your ego and work on bridging the communication gap between yourself and your spouse, and maybe pay more attention to what she is saying - even if you cannot fix whatever you know , at least let her know what she is saying is acknowledged - you can begin to enjoy a better marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
77up: Exactly. Some people are not articulate and so when they force themselves to speak, it comes out as yelling, especially when they've kept quiet so long. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kobojunkie: 6:17pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Ligxy:Does your partner share the same personality traits as the OP’s partner? |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by AbdulAkpan: 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Davash222:you nailed it bro. This is exactly what I am passing through. My wife is a Feminist, always willing and ready to shout at me. Sometimes, she goes physical. The day her cup will full, she will look up the meaning of Regrets in an Encyclopedia. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by bet9ja(m): 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Ligxy: This is exactly what my wife does to me. I don't find it pleasing but I must confess. It works in most situations. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by buzorcharles(m): 6:24pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Whenever u wanna talk to him, first count 1-10. It will give u that time u need to be conscious of ur voice volume |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Mamayam: 6:38pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Try to meet a psychologist. There is something wrong with your subconscious. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by SeriouslySense(m): 6:39pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Practice distracting yourself, when he is talking to you, try observing yourself, like you are watching a movie, but you in that movie, observe how you feel, and why you do it, and then with time, you will have the ability to control yourself, because you are more aware and observant of yourself and what's happening inside you. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by jeff1607(m): 6:47pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Local woman swallowed speaker 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Pataricatering(f): 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Davash222:its because you men don't get yelled at you have become so incurably foolish . Imagine someone talking this rubbish - too big to be yelled at - who are you ,? You carry two head ? Becos you have Penis ? Nonsense . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by fredoooooo: 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22:A factory resets slap can do the job perfectly..... |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by 77up(m): 6:57pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Anyhow, my message is passed already |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: When the conversation starts getting heated, count 1-10 before every response to him. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by OBTOREPA(m): 7:06pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: You have bad character and need's to be humble. Whenever you are angry,please take a cup of chilled water and you will be OK. It works like magic though 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by FLYFIRE(m): 7:10pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Have you prayed about it? God hears when we sincerely ask for help |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by kunle75(m): 7:15pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Don't prove a point, its called internal anger,sometimes you don't even know you have it. Just don't talk when the discussion is getting heated 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by SeriouslySense(m): 7:16pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
there are some things that need self-effort to correct, i don't think prayers change attitudinal patterns, it takes effort, maybe with some prayers, but the individual effort really counts. . It will take time, but with faith that she can change it, and acceptance that she needs to work on it, gradually she would win it. FLYFIRE: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
I won't wish a nagging woman on even my brother. May the Lord help men out there. I have lived with someone that nagged a lot, it was God that helped my mental health. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by SeriouslySense(m): 7:20pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
mental health is very important, it leads to other beneficial outcomes. Nuttella: |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by kobosmart(m): 7:32pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22:you wey no fine u manage find bf u wan come pursue am with shout 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by emmyluizzz: 7:36pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: you are possessed by a marine spirit.... go for spiritual cleansing |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by skywalker240(m): 7:37pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
If not for the fact that he is a bloody simp , na better slap for don reset that your goat brain. dem born any woman well say she try that rubbish with me? omo if he can manage that stupid yelling, then dat guy na correct simp i swear. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by bukatyne(f): 7:38pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
AbdulAkpan: Instead of waiting for her cup to be full, why don't you address issues as they come especially if you want a good marriage? And didn't you know she was a feminist before you married her?? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by ihedioramma: 7:39pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22:First see him as your father two bewere of friends you follow . Three prayer is the key, always pray . 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by SenatePresdo(m): 7:48pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: You must be a Yoruba girl, rudeness is inherent in their gene. Keep it up, you can never stop, even if you wish to.. e dey for blood 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by promiseland245(m): 7:53pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
some traits are learnt. How did your Mother relate with your Father, if it's similar then that's how you got it. Consciously make efforts to stop it. Lamanii22: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kobojunkie: 7:54pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Nuttella:So any woman who gets angry is a nagging woman? |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kobojunkie: 7:57pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
skywalker240:Dem never lock you up for this nonsense be reason why you dey spew this foolishness for here. I hope you lift your hand against a woman that will make sure you are put in your rightful place for it. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kay25(m): 8:07pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
You need to stop the feeling of you better than him..that's it u have seen his weakness and so u think he is no matching your standard. |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by kapelvej: 8:12pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22:You are still making mouth, upon all these your bad character |
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