Mama Put
You and your children are beautiful, you are beautiful if God created you, so what if I dont fulfil your expectations of what you consider beauty to be? Thats your problem!, in America and Europe, thin is seen as beauty so white girls are puking over the toilet in an effort to stay thin while in Nigeria if youve got a big bum and big boobs you are God's gift to (some)Nigerian men! As someone said, " I love my women built for comfort not for speed!" so keep your head up Girl! and remember its whats inside that matters and not the package it comes in.

Depends on the individual, I have met some 40 year olds that act like five year olds and younger people that act really cool and mature, it really depends, and its a bit hard to tell whether he is younger than you at times, esp. if he's tall and mature looking AND acts years ahead of his age! What if you met someone you assumed you were younger than and he treated you nice, was great with your family and friends and was really your kind of person , sweet, caring, generous etc , only for you to discover later that you were 5yrs or more older than him! would you dump him?

Mixed race people are sometimes very mixed up, which is understandable. Im not mixed but my personal experience with some of them is that some think they are better than you if you are a full dudu, they like to act white and feel stuck up.others have adapted and speak native languages like yoruba, igbo, wafi etc and are really down to earth. Some have vowed like Micheal Jackson to never have anything to do with black people becoz of the way their white mothers were treated by their Nigerian fathers. It really depends on their experience. i think they are better of in Nigeria where they are treated with a bit of respect and awe (see Oracle's reaction to Mamaputs pic!) but abroad esp. in Europe they are in for a rude awakening coz they are considered BLACK! In America, if one out of your four grandparents is black you are considered black even if you look white! Crazy isnt it? If you dont believe me check out Mariah Carey, Halle Berry and Vanessa Williams. What, pray tell, is black looking about them?

Being cheated on (don't you watch "Cheaters" on DSTV?)Being taken for granted, lied to,