₦airaland Forum

emmaachile2:
I cabstar is about 3 tonnes

emmaachile2:
3 tonne of 1 cabstar

Nart1:
Good afternoon everyone, I pray you can offer some good advice on an issue bothering me. I've been in a relationship with a lady I care deeply about for months now, and we intend doing our introduction this month. However, I've noticed some behaviors that are causing me concern.
She stays in touch frequently with her exes, including one named Attah, who frequently sends her love messages. In fact, they call each other on a daily basis, yet she claims nothing is between them. Although she deletes these messages and uses disappearing chats on all of her chats, I'm uneasy about her communication with them. Whenever I complained she would tell me I am insecure. I've addressed this issue with her multiple times ( more than ten times), but she keeps calling and chatting with them citing the fact that her exes are not enemies.
Another issue that bothers me is a text conversation I saw between her and her cousin. The cousin advised her to collect money from four different guys (total strangers) before allowing anything to happen between them. She apologized and attributed this to her past, and I chose to forgive her due to my love for her.
Furthermore, there's a guy who's currently asking her out, and she allows him to visit her. She even calls him and demands favors from him. I have asked her to seize communication with him yet she persists and this morning, I mistakenly saw a new month text from the guy referring to her as my love. I've reported my concerns to her mother and she advised her but unfortunately, there's been no change.
I love her so much, but the red flags are giving me concern. I'm torn between my feelings and the uncertainty surrounding our relationship. Should I end the relationship or I am only being insecure as she asserted.

holuwabusayo:
I know it's stressful but in as much as possible I can decide days I want to work and decide to rest any day. And since I am not to pay anyone for installment, I think am good to go and plus I have a iced drinks and pure water shop that I invested roughly 2.7m last year but not well manage since am not on site, all my sales girls are just chopping my money.
I want to use the money got from the okada to restock my shop and sit there so probably I can hustle around 5 till 7pm once I have restock my shop

Tommymoses:
Firstly let my introduce me go you all, "note am not doing this seek for your financial assistance but rather to open someone eyes to get something doing."

I left Lagos to Osun State, after spending 10yrs in lag I just woke up one morning and decided to relocate.

Am a fashion designer and I love farming (poultry).

helinues:
NBA are talking nonsense

Are police above court orders?

Auntymaureen:
Opportunity to be your own landlord in a fast developing area very close to Oilmill market, the land is genuine and affordable. Call for inspection 08064610560

esti98:
where is Igbalode Estate

womaniser:
Thanks. Other European countries are literally the same. They either require high tuition or student jobs that can barely keep you afloat. I'm still without my family, living in shared tight hostels and slamming my body everyday for no savings.

Friends and former colleagues in Nigeria today earning #300k self still have a better living, they see their wives and kids everyday, live in standard apartments, drive their own cars and still save at least #100k every month. (They do contributions so I know)

The only upside is if I secure a job. That's where the story changes from here.

Franzinni:
that annoyance is only possible because he is eroding and digging at a deep rooted thought process that you and many other people have come to embrace and. Love ... It is possible you work in a government office.

Bizibi:
yes but successive governments Dont like to continue from it's predecessors,they are fond of bringing up unnecessary tax policies. The hurdle for companies is surviving in every government whether na PDP lead government or Apc government or a new party lead government. I know what I went through when buhari look over,they came in with a different style and it took some biz men/women some years to adapt.

Like oando is a short term stock because the incoming government in 2031 will definitely pounce on them because of the family name and one thing about Nigeria government officials/politicians,they don't care about the company,they can just do whatever they like and move on.

Great2017:
The same way you thought you were undoing Peter Obi in the last presidential election. Whose complaint is loudest now?

Well, Edo people know better. The illiterate and his gang of touts and selfish politicians will meet the resolute resistance of my Edo people.

lereinter:
How?

So ihama is the one controlling all the voters in oredo

He will just tie dem by the neck, drag dem to polling unit to vote apc - lolzzzzz 🤣

senatordave1:
With Ihama in APC, Obaseki will find it tough in Oredo

Earthstorms:
I have replied your email

Earthstorms:
I have replied your email

betabread:
Off all things i fear in farming, its stolen harvest i fear the most......
Farmers are among the most monitored people in rural communities, if you dont have presence on the farm, you just fed the nation for free.....

femi4:
English na your mate..."Nigeria born" means born by a Nigerian or Either of the parents is a Nigerian

femi4:
English na your mate..."Nigeria born" means born by a Nigerian or Either of the parents is a Nigerian

Dougad:
Title says Nigerian-born. First person on the list says "born in Germany".

I'm not reading any further

iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/paris-2024-5-nigerian-born-olympians-who-won-medals-representing-other-countries/

stagger:
No loan.

I got the place fenced and we are doing well.

gaby:
Yeah, I do.

I did some project with her in collaboration with NPF.

femi4:
Unfortunately, she won't be an employer in the Uk

Prettychild:
I know her, she is very hardworking

papyjaypaul:
People are funny and I sense a bit of jealousy here. If your business is destroyed, it can cause a lot of depression. There are market owners whose shops caught fire and they died from high blood pressure or the shock of the news. May you never experience heartache that will cause your death. Most business owners have this problem. Something will happen to them that will almost make them take their lives. That she was able to go back to school for an advanced degree after the demolition is worth congratulations. Anyone reading this should help me congratulate her, she is my motivational monday. Ignore those whose advanced degree is Bad Belle PhD.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqrwX2o-h7M?feature=shared

blowjohn:
So in the past, people who's shops have been burnt never made it into university?

The heading should be changed abeg

gaby:
See my friend oh


Congratulations...

papyjaypaul:
The autoshop, worth millions of naira in assets, where she goes about her daily business and trained females in auto works 'free of charge' was subject to a land use tussle. A court granted her ownership of the land and a restraining order on FCDA from harassing the occupants.
However, she picked herself up, set herself up again to keep her dream alive and later relocated to the UK. She went back to school, and graduated last month with an M. Sc in Mechatronic Systems Engineering.