all4naija:
What about if the opposite sex is not in the mood and you are? You are an introvert and a notorious feminist!

all4naija:

Do you really wanna go? I have a Latina supermodel girlfriend who is better than you. Please... I am only trying to bring you to the good life I am used to. Now that you refuse to associate with a civilized person like me there is nothing I can do than to say it is your choice not mine.

You aren't dating any cool guy like me yet. I know that and I can vouch I am correct about that and I can bet all my savings for that too. You know I like to flaunt my affluence before you because you hate to see it. Go all4naijja!

all4naija:
Back to the discussion. Yes, I am! It would be hard for any descent guy to date or marry you. Let's go there! Ride on, lady! Ha!!!

all4naija:

Most of your friends are taking it from a 'gender equality' perspective and tend to see it as a harmless idea. I don't expect somebody who looks down on a male person to take me serious here. From the time I offered you a front seat in my super car to the time you hated to hear about finding interest in me provide a light into the kind of person you are and the direction you are head. A very aberrant and noxious life.

I technically think you don't have a boyfriend! Bwahaha...

all4naija:
Sorry for the poor writing. I mean you get infuriated whenever I asked if you like me because of your skewed understanding of equality.

all4naija:

That is because you want me to see it your way. Your little way to exhibit superiority over men. In fact, gender equality is more robust in explanations and understanding than feminism for usually involving the opposite sex. It brings about an avenue to create a better environment that helps to find solutions to those problems both sexes complain about. You are running after something that is not going to help you else you are going to remain a sad lady by holding on to a discriminating ideology.

all4naija:
Can you even date and get married in the first place? I can now see the reason why you some get angered by saying you LIKE me. Not that it really matters but for somebody who wants to be seen as superior must exhibit those qualities of advance human being.

all4naija:
What are the feminists views on this topic? Where are Mandu94 and MrsChima to elaborate on this issue?

all4naija:
What an excuse! Can you site examples of your claim?

all4naija:
That makes you an advocate of gender equality not feminist! Gender equality involves men in the process thereby creating an atmosphere of understanding. Take your time and read more about the ideology behind feminism. I am not going to support you in your every plan of unhealthy competition that has to do with the core ideas.

all4naija:

You have often time exhibit this self-aggrandizement -an attitude of looking down on others and tend to frown at their views, most especially,guys.

From most of my arguments I did not belittle you or your views and I only disagree with you when necessary. Sometimes, I get infuriated in a funny way. Suffice to say I never said in any of my posts feminism is some sort of college either. The idea that you claim to be 'feminist by heart' is revealing something on how you hold yourself in superiority over men in this heated debate.

The fundamental idea of feminism is not basic in a nutshell. It is easier to say it is basic in thinking but to implement it without causing harm is a whole different ball game. Some of you let the idea get over your heads and miss out in a lot of things. It is better you embrace equality(a human right) and resist some parts of feminism (an ideology).

all4naija:

You have often time exhibit this self-aggrandizement -an attitude of looking down on others and tend to frown at their views, most especially,guys.

From most of my arguments I did not belittle you or your views and I only disagree with you when necessary. Sometimes, I get infuriated in a funny way. Suffice to say I never said in any of my posts feminism is some sort of college either. The idea that you claim to be 'feminist by heart' is revealing something on how you hold yourself in superiority over men in this heated debate.

The fundamental idea of feminism is not basic in a nutshell. It is easier to say it is basic in thinking but to implement it without causing harm is a whole different ball game. Some of you let the idea get over your heads and miss out in a lot of things. It is better you embrace equality(a human right) and resist some parts of feminism (an ideology).

tpiadotcom:
Kissing is western culture.

all4naija:
Oh,you're amateur feminist yet want to act as superior to men. Be careful about what you teach yourself, lady.

I am curious to know. What do you really feel?

all4naija:
You can read what I wrote there clearly. Don't you like me? I believe what gave you the wrong impression on equality is that you are probably reading books written by famous feminist authors.

all4naija:
Don't you like me? Can you explain better? I don't understand what you are talking about. After calling me a potential comedian here you are talking about ignoring me. Please... As if you are the air I breathe.

You possibly have a wrong view on feminism. You have been reading Octavia E.Butler's books wrongly.

Mandu94:


She's a prestigious Nigerian writer. You should read her books, watch her videos on TEDTALKs. She is a feminist. Also the author of the film adaption of her book- Half a Yellow sun..

MrsChima:


No. Tell me more.

all4naija:

I receive 'likes' all the time. That depends on Nairaland users understanding. Indeed, most of them are primitive to come to term with what I write here on many issues. Their ignorance is often patronizing to say the least. I probably have more of those who disagree with me than those who agree with my civilized and matured opinions here. I would say at this point in time that includes you in your pretenses. I don't mean to be rude in any, while looking at your biased views on feminism you would agree with me you have an issue to settle with me.

There is nothing that describe me in the least obvious term as a potential comedian. It's not because I am telling you the true about your feeling toward me but because I am not somebody who entertains people with jokes. You are in a better position to know that as a girl living in a society that is as advanced as the UK than many Nigerians.

I know my sh*t, ma'am! Your definition all rather understanding of feminism is way beyond equal respect for both genders(equality is a state I completely support in all ramifications) but to show how superior you can be to a male person is something I abhor. It is getting into your head in the wrong way. You can not advocate for equality and at the same time display annoying superiority. That is contrary to reality in any society - from biological standpoint and otherwise. However, I have always seen all the girls I've dated on equal grand with me.

Mandu94:


Hahahaaaa, funnily u never have likes. But you are hilarioussssssss. There is a little potential for you to be a comedian.

Back to the matter, I don't know what wave of feminism you have or haven't been researching. But feminism is about equality. And recognising women power within the patriarchal society we live in.

all4naija:
It is very correct to say men can not be feminists. There has never be a time that word has been used to describe the male person. You are trying hard to bring people to accept your skewed idea - the very notion that is not helping to advance the female sex. Meanwhile, I have always advocated for equal right for both genders and you can ask people who know me on any of related issues on this forum. To be equal is to take responsibility clearly on the same quality or rank and you fail to understand what that means. Seriously, you are going about it from the wrong way. Nobody is going to side with you on your blatant yet notorious display of feminism, as in superiority in this regard, which is completely different from demanding for equality.

I don't want you to be scared of me or to see me as a male chauvinist 'cause I am a civilized person. I am not going to stand and watch while you exhibit your primitiveness here. Give some time and I will make you see where are wrong all along in your views.

Nevertheless, I know you have a crush on me and there is nothing wrong with that. At least, you like my super car.

MrsChima:


Hello, my fellow feminist. Don't expect quality understanding from women haters.

I too am a feminist.

all4naija:
You are notorious feminist by all counts!

stingbreed:

Women are not equal to men,,, if d man is ur lord it means u are his subject that's y women are told to submit.......

May i remind u that u didn't marry him, he married u so u are subject to him,,, just pray God gives u a wonderful man as a husband & when he does do not mess up

Best wishes

Mandu94:


And CHEAT and think they can get away with it. #SAY NO TO IGNORANCE.

SAY YES TO EQUALITY

(Backward village mentality). And if men cheat, and u proclaim men are better than women. Women are so strong, beautiful, hardworking,
And you think we will tolerate shit. NO MORE. Power to women.!, Choose decent men.